Hello,

I'm having some issues with my kids Mom, getting divorced. Currently on the CSM UK service on which i am paying £521 a month. Some will say that I can live on my wage comfortable but in reality i live month to month on it without doing any overtime. Recently, ive taken on overtime and a small pay increase to help get myself finalicial stable and creating some savings to get myself a place where I can have my kids more often.

I live in a shared accommodation which my ex won't allow my kids to come over after school or on the weekend because she believe there is safety concerns.

Over the last month, my ex has repeatly says i am bare minimum dad who doesn't want to support my kids extra activities. These activities are not cheap, they both have ponies on which one pony was brought after are seperation by her and her mum. Over the winter period ive helped at the yard sorting these ponies out on my own and also helped trailing them to the kids riding lessons. These have come up to extra petrol costs which have affected me. She wants to pay for half of livery costs. I gave her an extra £100 on top of her CSM because she said she was struggle with food etc. She agreed to take it of next month, on which I did. Now she demanding it back anf threaten me with CSM.

When I say no or cant help out, she uses the kids as emotional blackmailing.

Im finding this so depressing, I have no social life, Im constantly working to keep afloat.

Just looking for advice and supprt