I met my wife abroad where i grew up during my childhood. Today she is now a citizen and it seems the marriage is failing. Her parents where in a tough spot and i out of kindness said ‘sure leta have them here’ well now they are here for one and its a nightmare its like everyone against me here and they constantly weigh on decisions that they are irrelevant in, but my wife always chooses their side now and i have no respect. Well now im here wanting to divorce, its like her parents here brought out a person i don’t know anymore, she has even managed to manipulate me to alienate my parents from coming to see the kids. Im done today my heart aches and really have no idea what divorce will look like. I envision a happier life without her now.. and my heart hurts for my kids.. but how could i be a good father when i cant feel happy amd always have to walk on eggshells to avoid arguments (that always end up in her loosing her mind) I try to find excuses not to but most days are arguments and belittling me, as i try to stay calm.

Idk why im even posting this.. but im hurting man i got no one..