Two odd questions or at least I think they might be odd:

  1. How many other people keep track of the time till their kid(s) turn 18 and the order is over so that you can live your life without it being looked at all the time?
  2. What do things look like with the kids and ex after they turn 18? For context right now a drop of a hat is landing a letter from her lawyer, and anything and everything just sets her off.