Tonight my wife of almost 17 years told me she's done.

The past year or so has been countless threats of this and I'm so tired of it. But I believe this is the real deal.

We have 3 kids, two live with us and the oldest is on college. I don't want to lose them. The thought of that hurts me more than anything.

She blames me for everything wrong in our marriage. I do confess that I have my share of fault but it is not just on me.

I just needed to get this off my chest and don't have much of a support group here.