Hi, my ex hasn't agreed to the proposed legal agreement, and I'm currently considering my next steps. In the meantime, I need to create my work schedule for August and September. Right now, I've been working from Thursday to Saturday, and I'm okay with continuing that for the time being. Eventually, I would prefer to have a full weekend with my children once we figure out a plan. I might take one Saturday off and discuss it with my ex while working on the upcoming schedule.

I'm also unsure if I should mix things up and ask my ex if I can have the kids from Monday to Thursday instead. What are your thoughts? Should I change the schedule? I’m willing to give up my weekends because I’d rather be there for my oldest during school hours. However, the downside is how my ex raises the children. The weekends could serve as recovery time for my children, as my ex typically keeps them indoors, except for quick errands.

I appreciate any positive feedback and good vibes!

Thanks!