Something that's always bothered me is that it seems far more acceptable for women to express their attraction (to men or other women) than it is for men (mainly to women but they don't exactly get treated well for liking men either). Women are allowed to sexualize and objectify celebrities they find attractive (male or female) and compliment women without it being seen as flirting (even if they're attracted to women). On the other hand, men who sexualize female celebrities they find attractive get called predatory or get shamed for objectifying women. They're also conditioned to avoid complimenting women and other men for fear of it being interpreted as flirting. Unfortunately women don't really compliment men either for the same reason so men don't get many compliments at all :( However, if a man says he doesn't find a female celebrity attractive he gets shamed for it too, I've lately seen a trend of shaming "mid" men for not finding "beautiful" female celebrities attractive but I've never seen the reverse of shaming "mid" women for not finding popular male celebrities attractive. It seems like men and boys really can't win :(