You always hear: "if you want a woman to like you, then do XYZ" "I bet no woman likes you" Why aren't these considered misandry, the same way the following are considered misogyny: "If you want a man to marry you, then do XYZ"

When men realize something is unattractive for women, we start changing it and hiding it to not give women the "ick".

But when women realize something is unattractive to men, they start to demonize the male preference.

Why do we not have respect for ourselves. Why is male approval demonized, and female approval celebrated?