Feminists will call men toxic and fragile for being afraid to step outside of traditional gender roles and then call every man who does so gay. For example they’ll insist that a male character who isn’t 100% stereotypically masculine is “queer-coded” or that a portrayal of a healthy male friendship must actually be a gay couple. When a male celebrity isn’t 100% stereotypically masculine it’s mostly people who call themselves progressive who insist that the celebrity is gay even if he’s said multiple times that he isn’t (see Harry Styles and Shawn Mendes). Khalid recently came out as gay and women (presumably feminists) were saying that no one could have thought he was straight. The men from the band Måneskin were accused of queerbaiting for simply not being 100% stereotypically masculine. An example I encountered personally was when I showed my old roommates (both bisexual women) a birthday video my friends and I had put together for one of the women from ABBA and when I pointed out the one guy in the video one of them said he was probably gay (he was bisexual and seemed to prefer women). It’s not that hard to just let men express themselves without immediately putting a label on their sexuality and then calling them toxic or fragile for not being happy with it.