Dating is a rigged game.

roughback · 2022-03-06T14:07:03+00:00

"keep at it slugger, you'll find a single mother one day." - society

5MinuteMentalFitness · 2022-03-06T14:40:45+00:00

IMO

Before you start dating you must ask yourself these pivotal questions to set you up for success.

1: Do you know what you want in a partner?

List your top ten traits,

Preferably things one can work on and control.

2: Do you know what that partner who has those traits wants in a partner?

Usually it is similar (Want fitness and looks be fit and look as best as you can not fat and feel the gym is hell on earth)

Modern dating has become this two sided selfish thing we’re people want want want but rarely put in the effort to be what their partner wants. When in fact dating is easy when two partners who understand equality come together. Equality is what you do for one you have for the other.

3: Understand that what you want short term must match your partners short term mating preference and if you are a man it be wise to match or switch to your long term one when your partner does.

Thus if you want no strings attached hookups then women want that as well tend to value novelty and luxury. Both come from looks money and status. The whole lifestyle of the rich and famous comes to mind here.

Also understand that if a women who values these things switches into her long term mating strategy than she is going to want completely different things as she is getting ready to establish a home which requires her partner to also want to do so or she will try to change him into that style. Meaning she’ll want commitment; vulnerability, loyalty, bonding with any children you may have in all areas, and the other what I call effective long term partner traits.

4: Either type of the market you choose, just be good in bed.

Understand the female anatomy. Understand how the female anatomy operates in terms of arousal pleasure and the different types of orgasms. Forget what you know in the moment and be present and you’ll be better than 80% of men in that area.

The main pint here is if you want to be the most successful in a market you have to know what it wants and how it operates on an general (to start) and individual (to finish) level or as we say in the marketing world. Niche down.

Hope this helps.

Title	Dating is a rigged game.
Author	EveryStrategy4918
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	March 6, 2022 1:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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