Should I just see an escort?

Thekidbkj · 2022-01-10T19:59:13+00:00

When I’m feeling seriously lonely and touch starved I usually hit the strip club. I find the dancers to be really nurturing and really good especially at interacting with shy men. Let them talk to you for a while and then get a few dances and tip well.

asshole67throw · 2022-01-10T18:20:36+00:00

You might as well say, should I go for a massage.

Sex with an escort is just a transaction with no emotional connection outside of the time you pay for.

You’ve already said that you feel lonely. I would advise you not to go to a prostitute for an emotional connection.

If however you just want someone attractive to give you an orgasm, then sure go ahead, but escorts are somewhat addictive if you have the money.

UnitedIntroduction48 · 2022-01-10T17:30:15+00:00

Online dating usually works for a lot of people who only show the best pics of themselves and use the apps correctly. r/hingeapp helped me, and I'm in a similar situation.

An escort only has one job and thats to sexually please you.

pertante · 2022-01-10T19:09:07+00:00

One thing you could look into in regards to meeting women is seeing if there are volunteer opportunities in your area. Granted, these opportunities might be limited or require to wear a mask/prove you have been vaccinated, depending on where you live.

The reason I suggest this is that I am sure a few places could still use the help and depending on your trade, would love to have help from someone with hands on skills. Volunteering could allow you to meet women in terms of other volunteers. At the very least, you are helping others.

thom92Pf3105 · 2022-01-10T19:37:13+00:00

Sex with a loving partner is so much better, there is a point in your performens to please your lover. A prostitute dos not enjoy sex. It’s doll and overall a sad experience. Imo

petaura · 2022-01-10T19:49:47+00:00

Yes, go for it. Be careful because it can turn into an adiction.

Certain_Mind4101 · 2022-01-10T20:11:53+00:00

If I were in your position, I'd just go for it if you can find a safe, and preferably legal route. Dating nowadays just doesn't seem worth the effort, especially if you have anything that really holds you back (ND, overweight, unattractive, etc), red pill or not.

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alexbrove · 2022-01-10T18:22:20+00:00

Are you looking for a friend, a new group of friends or a romantic relationship? You won't get any of that via an escort unless you're just looking for sex.

Can you try taking up some new hobbies? Try new apps? Also when you meet the right girl, you'll still need to have friends outside of your relationship. So you need to take time to meet people. Don't rely on this one be to be your only friend.

w1gw4m · 2022-01-10T19:39:34+00:00

A sex worker does not care for you and doesnt really want to have sex with you, shes just doing it because she needs the money. It will feel very empty and transactional. If you're expecting it to fill the void of being lonely, it will not work.

Booda069 · 2022-01-10T20:52:48+00:00

If you're doing the escort thing do it overseas more bang for your buck. I wouldn't do it at all.

You might have to step out your comfort zone to put yourself out there. Trust me meaningless sex is damaging

SilverAndAlgorand · 2022-01-10T20:59:21+00:00

No, and you should quit porn and focus on other things.

PontusOfMars · 2022-01-11T00:02:05+00:00

I would say use it as a slump-buster, and then rebuild yourself. Just don't become addicted to them and/orbuse them for emotional validation. That's how you become the lonely old guy in the strip club who comes in on a daily basis

It you had a girlfriend in the past, then you have hope. You need yo start building up a social circle, as it sounds like you don't have peers around your age who can help you get girls. What are your hobbies? What's your life like outside of work?

TRPYoungBloke · 2022-01-11T00:06:13+00:00

Honestly, I’ve bought time from a few escorts and I really liked it. The experience helped me release some tension and focus on everything else important. I started dating a couple nice women shortly after my experience with an escort. Having that need for sex satisfied really helps.

Total_Commercial_133 · 2022-01-11T01:10:15+00:00

You should do whatever you want! At the end of ur life ur gonna be there by yourself, no-one from reddit is going to be there for you. If u make a wrong/right decision at least ur gonna learn from it. There's a higher chance of u getting sti from going to one relationship to other relationship, or going on Tinder(other online dating sites) and believe u meet ur true love.. If u are having sex with an escort at least u know u have to protect urself because u might get a STI, but if ur having sex with someone from Tinder after u been in a relationship for like 1,2 months u might think they ok but who knows who they had unprotected sex with. Most of people in the world they need therapy, specially the ones on dating websites. U might think u found someone who is good/ trustworthy but no-one is online dating unless they ruined their name in the close community or they trying to get away from their close community, or they don't even have a close community (close community takes effort to maintain) or they just trying to use someone. Hey man, good luck. Whatever you do, make sure ur doing what u want and take responsibility for ur decision!

throwaway3h34 · 2022-01-10T21:23:29+00:00

I would say no. Why? 1) it's money. 2) it's not likely to give you the connection you're seeking. 3) there's a higher risk of STIs I would would. It would really suck to get that when you're seeking something to make you feel good.

I would genuinely start looking into getting yourself out there a bit more (so hard with the pandemic) but also to learn some dating advise from (dare I say it)...yes ...PUAs. Not all give good advise but some do. Mainly how to approach women, be direct, be a masculine guy etc.

The above will be controversial, but it will be controversial for all the reasons. You see there are feminists in this world (increasingly powerful) who are very content with men not getting laid and how hard it has been made for some men (online dating.. shaming of guys trying to date in the daytime etc). Don't let those people win.

Work on yourself but work on the above too and good luck.

obviously be careful and calibrated (polite, decent etc) with how you approach etc...but do it.

Title	Should I just see an escort?
Author	EveryStrategy4918
Upvotes	7
Comments	69
Date	January 10, 2022 4:54 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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