How can I leave the red pill when it's all around me?

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-10-02T04:31:22+00:00

my tall good looking friend uses tinder and invites women over to his house for sex over a few texts,I barely get matches

Yes good looking people, both men and women have an advantage. People prefer partners they find physically attractive. But don't be one of these people who thinks looks is everything.

My friend married a women who had a history of partying and being promiscuous, now he is miserable and she cheats on him regularly

Many people, both men and women, who party and have many sex partners have trouble with long-term relationships. Is that actually a surprise?

Women only seemed to be attracted to me once i became better looking and had more money

I've already addressed looks. Life is so much better when you can actually pay the bills. Its very understandable why women want a relationship where they don't have to worry about losing their home.

Women seemed more attracted to me when i was more masculine than emotional

Imagine that, many women prefer men who are masculine not feminine. And many men prefer women who are feminine not masculine. Not a surprise here. But there are lots of exceptions to this too.

Women seemed more attracted to me when other women were interested in me

Thats called social proof and is a basic and verified part of psychology that also applies to male dating preferences, sales, and persuasion in general.

Women seemed to not care about my criminal history or drug use when i became good loking and wealthy, but when i was poor they did care.

Obviously being good looking and wealthy are attractive which helped outweigh your cons. Also these traits may have convinced women you changed and made a better life for yourself.

Nothing you said here is really that surprising or specifically redpill. What is redpill is not realizing most of this applies to men too, overgeneralizing and stereotyping women, cherry picking negative stuff about women to feel bitter about them, and then mistreating women based on misogyny and hate.

Naus1987 · 2022-10-02T05:25:33+00:00

You have to discover yourself first. What is it you want? You claim to envy your friend. But do all you care about is hook up culture?

Title	How can I leave the red pill when it's all around me?
Author	CaptainSaveBPD
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	October 2, 2022 3:31 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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