I can’t get over it

eruptingmoltenlava · 2026-06-03T04:24:35+00:00

Brother, hating yourself is a terrible waste. You can definitely do something productive with your experience. Look at Christian Picciolini’s activism (he’s cooled it in recent years).

https://www.christianpicciolini.com/

No-Dream1324 · 2026-06-03T10:29:58+00:00

We all make dumb mistakes especially when we're young. I've also said and done things I regret. What's important is that you've changed. Forgive yourself and move on. There are people in this world who've done far worse than you. All you ever did was say mean things online.

Instigated- · 2026-06-03T17:42:07+00:00

I suspect you feel bad because you hurt someone? Have you considered apologising or trying to make amends? This is what they do in Alcoholics Anonymous - before people can truly move forward they have to reflect and acknowledge what they did, apologise, etc.

The show runner of the tv series community sexually harassed a female writer, and she accepted his apology and told people his apology was a masterclass in how to apologise the right way. https://allapologies.substack.com/p/dan-harmons-co-written-apology-withto Dan Harmon's Co-Written Apology with/to Community Writer Megan Ganz

Though that doesn’t guarantee people will be able to accept your apology, and you have to respect their process.

Ultimately you can’t change the past but you can change yourself and the future by learning from it.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2026-06-04T19:29:29+00:00

My best guess is that the root of your problem wasn't actually red pill. This is often caused by deeper issues. Its caused by an issue with anger. Maybe you got into the red pill because you were angry. And then when you realized that was wrong you turned the anger toward yourself. So when you start hating yourself for your past realize that its the hating itself that is the root of the problem and you are just continuing the cycle. You have to put the hate and the anger away if you truly want to leave the red pill. Otherwise you may not have red pill beliefs but you have a red pill mindset.

Comfortable_Intern57 · 2026-06-08T03:22:29+00:00

You were brainwashed, take it easy on yourself, help educate other men on the dangers of falling into this pit

Title	I can’t get over it
Author	Sure_Start_3608
Upvotes	8
Comments	10
Date	June 3, 2026 3:39 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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