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Wow sorry to hear about that but he's not going to find that LMAO. I'd be like, well good luck because you're going to need it dumb ass Good on you for not taking him back, do not change your mind on that
/r/ExRedPill10/07/26 06:33 AM
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I'm 43 and never married, it's not that bad. If you decenter men and deprogram yourself from thinking you need a relationship to be successful in life, you can be totally happy living on your own
/r/ExRedPill23/06/26 05:11 PM
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You were brainwashed, take it easy on yourself, help educate other men on the dangers of falling into this pit
/r/ExRedPill08/06/26 03:22 AM
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Honestly you wouldn't have needed to help as much as you think either. I think the problem with that men is projection because if they had sole or half custody, they usually immediately find a woman to take care of their children for them. I see it all the time. Don't listen to men spouting red pill nonsense, it's ALL PROJECTION. I've been a single mom since I was 20 and met with this constant fear from men and rejection because of this. The pregnancy was not my intention and decided to keep my …
/r/ExRedPill31/05/26 12:57 AM
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He sounds really dumb to believe that crap anyways. You can do better. I've also learned that when a man says something, you better believe him no matter how absurd or ridiculous or if you think maybe he's joking, because he's not. I learned that the hard way not taking guys serious over their completely brain dead beliefs or desires
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 12:44 AM
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You're clearly struggling with how you perceive yourself and I hope therapy can help you get through that. Trust that women are not this hung up on how guys look. We really don't care about size that much either. It is possible the physical intimacy issues could have pushed her away emotionally. I'm sorry to hear that. But I hope you can learn to love yourself
/r/ExRedPill16/05/26 09:01 PM
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It's not as big of a deal than people make it out to be
/r/ExRedPill08/05/26 05:22 PM
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Stop hating yourself for something so assinine. Who cares you lost your virginity at 22, absolutely nothing wrong with that! I've known dudes in their 30s who are still virgins and do not beat themselves up like this.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 08:32 PM
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Many of them are this way but not all of them and frankly I don't know a single man without some amount of misogyny towards women. So anyway, I stopped dating 5 years ago
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 09:49 PM
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I think making friends with women without any intent for sex or relationships could help. That way you get to really know and understand them and see them as humans. Misogyny is rooted in the narcissistic perspective that women are inferior and subhuman in a way compared to men.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/26 07:09 AM
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Oh hon, don't let these mentally ill men make you feel bad about yourself. These men are the minority and not how most men think
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 07:27 AM
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Yeah and they want everyone to be miserable with them
/r/ExRedPill03/04/26 01:07 PM
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Don't be afraid to ask women out. Also you can find a dating coach to help you out or join a local dating service (don't do apps). Therapy can also help you work through your internal issues and with socializing with women
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 07:50 AM
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She just sounds like a terrible person, move on then
/r/ExRedPill27/02/26 12:37 AM
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Yeah, if you don't care about love at all and are incapable of actually loving someone, and all you care about is your ego and getting it stroked with female attention, but at the same time you see women as appliances, then maybe it's good for you.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 07:03 PM
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If men these days just want to sleep around, what's the point of us women even sleeping with them to begin with? I think more women need to be made aware of this phenomenon of redpill and MGTOW that so many young guys are getting into and start holding out from sex again until we know for sure that the man wants a serious relationship and is not just a fuck boy. Our brains release oxytocin and other bonding chemicals after sex, I believe this happens moreso with women so we become very attached …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:54 PM
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Wow, that's sad, sorry you had to deal with that but I'm glad you didn't stick around to keep maintaining his facade.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:49 PM
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Isn't it sad the ratios on those videos and how most people are agreeing with them? It really makes me lose faith in men if so many of them support this garbage.. And then any videos that criticize redpill get downvoted to hell.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 03:12 AM
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Go read a fucking history book you dumb piece of shit
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 06:41 PM
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Wtf is wrong with you, you stupid or something?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 06:39 PM
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Throughout history, men have almost always oppressed women and that's part of the entitlement problem too. And maybe they don't expect women to throw themselves at them all the time, but they are all bitter and angry that they aren't getting laid or maybe their wife left or maybe they were treated badly by a woman and lash out an the entire gender as a whole, and the all boils down to entitlement on their part in general.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 06:33 PM
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Expecting women to just throw themselves at them and getting bitter and angry and lashing out at women in general when they don't
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 06:17 PM
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Too much entitlement from men.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 10:46 PM
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Exactly, things women see as high value are things like empathy, compassion, helpfulness, etc. Like he helps out with cooking or cleaning, he is supportive and empathetic when you're sick, he helps you fix a broken sink, etc. Things like drive are also good and a guy can be driven in life and not making 6 figures. Like it's really the little things are what we are really looking for.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 10:42 PM
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None of that is true, but you might if you go down the redpill rabbit hole. Truth is, I know plenty of couples where the wife ends up having to take care of their ill husband later in life. My father gave up on relationships after his divorce over 30 years ago from my mom. I really wish he got remarried because my sister and I ended up having to take care of him when he got lung cancer before he died. It was really stressful and hard because we both had full time jobs and I have a kid to take ca…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 10:37 PM
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Yeah you're probably right
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 07:47 PM
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Oh ok! Wow, what a hypocrite then.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 03:30 PM
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I think redpill guys are fine with prostitution because they don't have to commit to someone emotionally, they just pay a woman for sex. They will try to get it for free but that actually takes effort.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 03:01 PM
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Because they want women to treat them like a husband without any of the commitment. They want a woman to cater to them, be faithful to them, cook for them, give them sex whenever they want and always be ready for them, but they don't want to bring the same to them. I dealt with that for 2 years in my last relationship until I got fed up with that shit and broke things off. Then he was all surprised Pikachu face 🙄🙄🙄
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 02:16 PM
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I haven't seen it, but it's true both ways.. Having a child changes both a man and a woman's life completely.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 11:51 AM
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It's a stupid analogy and hurts both genders at the end of the day because it's saying that only a small amount of men should be able to sleep with all of the women who's only option should be the one guy that's banging 20 other chicks. What are we, chimps? 🙄 I thought we were more evolved than that. And if this situation is happening, then it's all "women are too picky, all they want is alpha chads!" Like, the fuck!? Derp
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 12:09 AM
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Good advice
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 10:51 PM
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Most women do not sleep with a guy after only a few hours of knowing them. Sounds like you just found a really shitty person. I'm 38 years old and in all of my life I've never heard or seen a girl do this. Maybe some do, but they probably had been interacting with the guy online for a while first. And in your case, this is a rare situation. My sister waits at least a month before jumping into bed with a guy, for example. For me the earliest was the second date, but that's because I already know …
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 01:38 PM
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I think my ex was into that. One day he said "all women are like that". I was taken back and kinda shocked because that's black and white thinking that I've heard spouted by red pill guys. I don't remember what the topic was though but I remember being a little upset about it. He would also take forever to respond to my texts. Like sometimes it would be over a day before he got back with me. Things were very one sided and I felt like I was putting all the effort into the relationship. He was als…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 01:57 PM
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If you want to learn about self improvement and gaining self confidence, the red pill is not the place to start with. There are so many other books, videos and articles on the topic that I'm sure would be more helpful anyway.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 01:24 PM
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Bullshit, I'm speaking from experience
/r/ExRedPill06/08/21 10:25 PM
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Oh wow, I had no idea! That makes sense though, thanks for sharing.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 10:09 PM
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Lol, it was like, women want to find men physically attractive, how unfair! 😆 I honestly kind of blame tv for that though. It seems like a lot of sitcoms and cartoons like to pair really hot women to obese, ugly men and that got into guys heads that women shouldn't care about how a guy looks. Or maybe that's more my generation (I'm 38). It's like they expect all women to be Demisexual or overlook their obvious social awkwardness.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 07:09 PM
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Totally agree. I tried to join that sub but I'm banned and I don't know why. I messaged the mods. I've never even been there before and didn't know what fds was.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:14 PM
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Oh ok
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 11:26 AM
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What is fds?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 06:10 AM
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I agree, plus demisexual men don't really care about how a woman looks anyway, it's all about personality. Plus different men have different tastes. Some men really like the muscular look on women, my dad was one of them. I think when they make every woman look the same, that is, huge boobs, stick thin, half naked, etc, they are pushing a sense of how a woman should be seen as attractive on men and disregarding what others may find attractive.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 12:17 AM
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Are you talking about after a breakup? If so, then maybe. You don't have to block them or anything, but leaving them alone and giving them space will help them to really think about things and if it's really what they want. I don't think it's a woman thing, just a human thing. If you are still in a relationship, then no, that's a terrible idea. But if you think you are coming across as too clingy than you can start by letting her do more initiating of communication and touch.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 11:44 AM
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I suggest you see a therapist
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 12:37 PM
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Numbers aren't important, I think you need to stop comparing yourself to your dad and others. You said the surgery can help, so that's a place to start and that's only 4 years away. If you can fix things about your appearance then do so. I never liked my breasts so I got plastic surgery and felt a lot better about myself after, my friend who was totally flat chested did too. It's hard as a woman when you have not boobs or ass and stuff to get a guy too, trust me.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 02:38 AM
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Complaining about how you have to wait until your 22 like your life is going to be over by then, lol. Bruh, I'm 38, stop making me feel old 😆 most people are not even married by that age, so you'll have plenty of time. some people even find the right person in their 40s, 50s, 60s, etc.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 02:33 AM
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Lol, good point
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 02:23 AM
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What about BDSM? Is that a big thing in the redpill community?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 02:08 AM
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This article doesn't say anything about personality. Looks, status, money will only get you so far. If you're a shitty person, have bad social skills, an incompatible personality, etc, none of that shit will mean anything.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:15 PM
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Exactly, no way in hell I'd ever date Jeff Bezos or any of the billionaires or millionaires out there. I'm not a sugar baby and I make a good salary on my own. There's no amount of money in the world that would want me to seek out and stay in a loveless relationship because at the end of the day, I'm not a money grubbing narcissist.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 04:13 PM
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You don't really know if nobody desires you, sometimes people do but don't say anything or approach you. I think that's a product of low self esteem. Also, if you have any friends or family members you can trust to talk to, ask them for their opinion. Do they think you have some social issues to work out, do you need to work on your physical attraction, etc? Be open and receptive to any and all feedback without immediately becoming defensive, it's the only way you're going to grow as a person.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 03:55 PM
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I've been ghosted by guys, it hurts but you get over it and it makes you realize what kind of person they are. Unless there's a legitimate reason to ghost you, like you were abusive or something, they are Narcissists or just really shitty people so you are better off without them anyway.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 03:46 PM
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If you think you are an alpha male, are you going to physically fight other men to get all the females? No? Ok, then humans have no use for "alpha men". We are related to bonobo apes, just as much as we are to chimps and for bonobos with a repressed fertility indicator, LIKE WE HUMAN FEMALES HAVE, there is none of this alpha nonsense going on. These men try to claim "but biology" though but then fail to look at our actual biological counterparts.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/21 01:14 PM
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Dude, just be yourself, stop letting yourself get brainwashed by a cult. If she loved you for who you were to begin with, why did you change your personality? You can resolve issues in a more healthy manner than fundamentally trying to change who you are as a person and believing in sexist bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 08:45 PM
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It was a woman who invented programming too, but we are still not taken seriously when it comes to things like programming, I know, I work in IT and you'd think we'd be over these sexist viewpoints but we are clearly not.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 04:00 AM
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What they don't realize it's that calling themselves a prize is objectification, in reality, nobody is a prize because we are all human beings.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 03:54 AM
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If you just have Narcissistic traits you can get help for that with a therapist or maybe looking up some advice online. You can start with your entitlement issues, being rejected doesn't always have to do with your appearance. Your personality goes along way and most likely women are picking up on your narcissism.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/21 03:52 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that but she sounds like she has serious issues, possibly either a personality disorder or is just extremely immature, trust me, most women would be totally supportive. I lost my father recently too and I know how devastating it can be. I've had boyfriends cry in the past and I certainly didn't want to break up over it. I know that society tries to paint men as totally stoic and non-emotional, but that's not realistic in any way. Also, when I was younger I would be a little wei…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 04:03 PM
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Projection counter = 3
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 02:14 PM
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Again with the projection, lol
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 02:13 PM
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OkCupid. Lol, I thought you were looking for actual, legit studies, man
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 02:07 PM
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Finding recent studies on things like that is going to be pretty hard because it's such a stupid thing to study, honestly. If you believe women are robots who are incapable of love and will drop you the second she finds a richer guy or whatever, that's your fucking problem and honestly, probably projection on your part. There are guys that will drop a woman for a more attractive, younger women and sure there are women that might drop a guy for a richer guy, but not all people do this shit.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 02:06 PM
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Yeah, it's called victim blaming
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 05:21 PM
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The can't flip the scenario because to that would be admitting to their own faults, like the fact that men are more likely to commit murder and rape, and they can't do that due to narcissism and the idea that they think women are subhuman to them.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 12:45 PM
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Couldn't agree more and there shouldn't be any stigma for men seeking professional help from a psychologist or psychiatrist either.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 08:14 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that, what a jerk. *Hugs Don't beat yourself up over it though, you didn't do anything wrong except love the wrong person.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 04:25 PM
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Thanks, the only thing I can say is to not let guys string you along, have a low tolerance for that crap. If they are not telling you they love you after a few months, move along..I waited 2 years for my most recent ex and things were just not going anywhere. The only time he told me he loved me was when he was drunk. I didn't want to continue wasting my time with someone that I couldn't express my feelings for. When I told him I loved him, he would get upset and say things like "why are you doi…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 03:15 PM
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The boring women probably have social anxiety, like me. I'm typically boring in the beginning due to nerves and anxiety. When I'm with a guy that is relaxed and I feel comfortable with, then I'll more than likely open up and start talking about things I'm interested in. I have given up on men myself. I'm 38 and never married. Most of the men I end up with are really flaky about committing, use me for sex, string me along or are just flat out abusive to me.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 09:39 PM
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Good point, that too
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 07:25 PM
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I noticed how alot of men just can't handle being broken up with. I think it's because it hurts their ego more than anything..I don't think it has anything to do with love. They say the most dangerous time for a women is when she breaks up with an abusive boyfriend because they can become violent and even kill them. One of my exes became violent with me when I broke things off. In hindsight I should have left first and broke up over the phone. Male rape happens, yes, but it's more rare, which is…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 05:19 PM
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I don't think so, I never really understood what women find attractive anyway since I'm Demisexual. I can only say what I think is aesthetically attractive.. Here in the US we have black actors that women of all races swoon over. We don't have many Indian actors though, but that's probably because there are few Indians here that are into acting. Examples: The Rock, Chadwick Boseman (currently deceased and played Black Panther), Will Smith, etc. Movie and tv show makers tend to constantly push wh…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 09:04 PM
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Oh ok, thanks, I looked him up and he looks like a white guy to me, lol. People find him attractive? I don't really think he is. But there is a lot of white washing in films, unfortunately. Many producers think that they are just giving people what they want to see, which is unfortunate and not always true. Yes, my ex was mixed.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 08:44 PM
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I have no idea what an Indian with Caucasian features would look like, but at I've said before, I once dated an Indian/Black man. Also, there was a time I met an Indian man working at a gas station that I instantly took a liking to and was seriously considering just randomly showing up again one day, lol. I would say he was a attractive in a physical sense, not sure about Caucasian features though, but I really liked his energy and personality right away. But it wasn't a gas station I usually go…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 08:30 PM
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Most women aren't like that, you were chasing after a very materialistic girl. Don't let it bother you, most people don't have a car right out of high school.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 08:24 PM
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Yes, I do find them physically attractive after the emotional attraction, but the emotional attraction is primary
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:40 PM
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I can't speak for allosexual people, but as a Demisexual, looks don't matter when it comes to sex, the emotional bond is most important. Having sex with someone that I have no emotional bond with would be extremely boring, no matter what they looked like. So yes, sex is good regardless of what they look like. I think most other women could enjoy sex based on looks alone, but personality is still very important to them and so is having a committed relationship. When we have sex, our brains releas…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:35 PM
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Not really, lol, but I'm Demisexual so looks are not that important to me. We had a lot in common and were coworkers.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:24 PM
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Right
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:22 PM
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I would say I'm fairly good looking, not to sound full of myself, lol. The women he married was not so much, but he was more attached to her than me. Since there are more black men here, I do see plenty of black men with white women. Typically Indian men prefer Indian women, (probably because of culture, family, expectations, etc) my ex was an exception as he was born in the US and was more Americanized.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:13 PM
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Nah man, don't feel that way, I know plenty of western women with black and Indian men here. The guy I was dating actually broke up with me to get back with his ex girlfriend who is also a white western woman. They got married (story of my life, lol 🙄)
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:06 PM
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I once dated a guy who was half Indian and half black and I'm white. I don't think that's really true, tbh. Sure, some people have their preference on skin color, but it doesn't mean everyone is like that. I guess it depends on where you live and what kind of girl you're going for. If you live in the deep south like I do in the US, you'll probably find more racist white women or women who prefer lighter colored skin.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:03 PM
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Yep, it's projection. They would do that if they could, that is, sleep with as many women as humanly possible so they assume women would do that too just because it's a little easier for them. But that's not reality at all. The reality is the numbers of sexual partners are pretty much equal for both young men and women. Also, women want love and companionship, one night stands or going from guy to guy is not going to get us what we want and we don't really have an interest in jumping into bed wi…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 10:28 PM
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That's not true, the numbers are pretty equal
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 04:43 PM
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I think people should learn about Narcissism before getting sucked into the redpill. You were with a narcissist. There is an equal number of Narcissists males and females, it's not a woman thing.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 07:02 PM
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Lol wow, these men are delusional. Like how do they not realize it's sex WORK. it's their job, it's not like they really enjoy sleeping with all these men, sheesh 🤦‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 04:25 PM
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Cool thanks, I appreciate it 🙂
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 02:59 PM
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I'd listen to it, but I really struggle with understanding robot voices, so I'll have to pass.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 02:50 PM
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No, I've seen this is MGTOW videos on YouTube
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 12:43 PM
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But the thing is, they don't. They constantly bitch about women and talk about pick-up nonsense, pump and dump, etc.. If they're really going their own way, then they should leave women alone ENTIRELY. Or they can look for women who only want a hookup or hire prostitutes and leave the rest of us alone.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 01:08 AM
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Yep, you hit the nail on the head with this one.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 01:05 AM
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Not important at all, I know plenty of women in relationships with men with no jobs or money lol. I financially supported an ex for 3 years, and we broke up because he was abusive, not because of finances. I think it's more attractive though if a man is at least financially independent, from his mid twenties on, and not still living in his parents basement, mooching off his mom or something. I think having more money may possibly compensate for certain things too, but don't expect it to compensa…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 12:59 AM
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This exactly. I'd rather not live with my parents in my 20s, so it's not like we have a choice.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/21 11:43 PM
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My ex kept complaining about my independence. He was abusive and controlling. When they whine about women being independent, they are whining that they can't oppress women and keep them trapped in a relationship due to not being able to be financially independent.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/21 11:43 PM
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The wall is a stupid concept because men in the same age range are usually going to be attracted to women in the same age range. These guys don't realize that as they age, their taste changes too. Plus, if you don't want kids or anymore kids than what you have, women who are no longer fertile is a great option. You don't have to worry about them getting pregnant. I'm sure men in their late teens to early 20s are going to not find women in their 30s and 40s attractive, and start spewing all that …
/r/ExRedPill30/06/21 05:00 PM
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I have depression and I don't have black and white thinking and I certainly don't accuse all men of being a certain way.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/21 12:19 PM
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Yep, cluster B is what I was looking for
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 06:54 PM
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Yep and black and white thinking is synonymous with Narcissistic thinking.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 05:42 PM
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That was funny, thanks 😆
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 09:07 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that but it's good you recognized that violating her boundaries was not an ok thing to do. I can't say for sure if she'll ever be interested in being more than just friends. If she forgave you and is still talking to you, don't feel bad about what you did, you fucked up, it happens. I don't think you need to apologize to her again unless she brings it up again for some reason. If she's still not ready for a relationship then I say don't push your luck, but if she is in a place …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 12:01 AM
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Men with six packs are pretty rare, I've only ever dated maybe one or two guys who had them. Most guys I dated and I see other women date don't even work out at all.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 06:27 PM
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No, that is not what I said.. 🙄🙄🙄
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:45 PM
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If it doesn't take you an hour or more to get ready on a daily basis, you really don't have an argument to the contrary. Also, you seem to not understand logical fallacies.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:19 PM
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He was always gay or bisexual, this is just an excuse for him to deal with most likely shame for being gay, especially if he grew up in a really religious household. Nobody should feel ashamed for their sexuality, but unfortunately religion and family can make people feel that way. It's just too bad he's lashing out at women for it.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:29 PM
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He said he crossdresses, but that doesn't make him trans, it could just be a kink
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:25 PM
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Yeah I guess they forget about how we wear makeup, do our hair, nails, etc. That takes up a lot of time in our day. We also constantly worry about and obsess over our weight because it's easier for women to gain weight than men. Then there's women who get plastic surgery to look good too. We put a crap ton of effort into our appearance and we do it way more than men.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:17 PM
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Go ahead and text her, you won't come across as needy, she'll see it as thoughtful. I've had guys do that with me too and I always appreciate it.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 07:56 AM
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My boyfriend almost got sucked into redpill nonsense after his divorce. I kept having to correct his thinking and the things he said and basically I'm living proof that not all women are "that way". His ex wife is a narcissist, but most women are not like that and since he was married for 30 years I figure maybe he just didn't have enough experience with women to realize that. He got married while still in high school. So yeah, she'll give him side eye and probably think he's sexist or just dumb…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 02:46 AM
2

Depends exactly what you want to talk about. If your are taking about how stupid it is, then yes that's fine. If you want to talk about how you were duped at some point into believing all this nonsense, that should be fine too. Talking to your girlfriend about your personal growth can actually be pretty appealing to women
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 02:43 AM
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Totally agree, the MGTOW community is basically the red pill community. At first glance it seems fine, like if guys want to swear off women, to each their own. But then I watched a few of their videos and was disgusted. They encourage pump and dump first off, which is fine, but they are not telling these women that they only want sex. You should always be upfront about what you're looking for. If you ask me it's just a group who want to "get back at women" in general for being hurt by a woman, w…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 07:38 PM
5

I'd be like, no thanks, I know it's really small 😆
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 01:12 AM
1

I'm speaking from experience.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 03:19 PM
22

She doesn't care, like you said, but if you feel guilty about it, just let her know and be like, hey I'm really embarrassed about this but I think I should be honest about how many people I've been with before.. or something like that. Just let her know you thought she would judge you for only having a few partners or whatever, and you felt self conscious about it. I'm sure she'll be understanding.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 01:47 PM
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Good points. Also you are right about dating sites, they are full of Narcissists and toxic people because it's just easier to find people online. It's also so much easier to come across as a normal, decent person online than in real life, so they are hoping to get you ensnared and interested before even meeting Also, online sites are heavily looks based and that's appealing and works in favor of Narcissists.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 11:24 PM
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The fact that women are far more likely to stay with their partners when they develop an illness like cancer is very telling. You never hear red pillers talk about this because it indicates the exact opposite of what they claim about women and men and who is capable of love.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 03:42 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you aren't blaming women for this. Sounds like you were willing to put up with toxic relationships due to your low self esteem. I've been there myself too. I think you should learn to love yourself even with your condition. You could also try make-up if all else fails, just something like a foundation. I don't think guys should feel self conscious about doing that either. I hope you can find a treatment option to help too though.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/21 03:35 PM
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If that were the case that women don't have to work hard and men just come to them, I wouldn't still be single and never married as a woman at the age of 38. Getting sex might be easier, but that's not what I want, that's not what any woman wants. We want love and companionship, sex is secondary. In the end, this is what men really want too but their sexual desires cloud their judgment and thinking. They want sex first and then maybe they'll think about love later, for women companionship is alw…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 07:49 PM
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Because they objectify women and see them as a collection of parts that are there to serve merely a sexual purpose for them and aren't full human beings.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 01:03 AM
6

Brainwashed redpill troll is obvious
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 06:35 PM
12

Totally. I've had a couple of exes who showed absolutely no interest and complete indifference in my hobbies or when I talked about them like drawing and writing. I gave one of them a book of poetry I wrote as a gift one time and he didn't even read one poem. I was like, jeeze man, the least you could do is read some of it. Both of those guys turned out to be Narcissists.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 02:20 PM
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Because it's easier to deflect their own issues and problems onto something else. There are many weak minded men in this world with fragile egos who feel like tearing women down is the only way to feel more "like men". They are upset and angry that women don't throw themselves at them, which is entitled thinking and behavior and instead of self reflection on that, they project those issues onto women. They are also upset that they don't have total control and power over women and that affects th…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 02:10 PM
6

Happy birthday! I'm 38, apparently I hit the wall many years ago. Please don't tell my boyfriend that though.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 01:34 AM
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Because you're not going with the pack mentality of toxic masculinity. So they feel they have to tear you down so get you in line and to be just like them. Enjoy your comics, there's nothing wrong with what you enjoy doing in your free time.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 01:19 PM
12

It means they are miserable people and they want to bring you down with them.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 01:18 PM
8

Omg this is just awful.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 11:44 PM
5

Most colleges aren't any different than highschool, to be honest. I hated high school and I hated the colleges I visited because everyone there was still acting like a bunch of immature kids. I settled for a local college that cost way less and had more older students. The students there were more mature and took their classes seriously. I didn't actually date anyone from college though. When it comes to girls asking guys out, I hate the gender expectations on that too. Most guys I've dated in m…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 03:42 AM
1

I'm working on a comic book too. It takes time. See if you can find an artist yourself or maybe practice drawing as much as you can. You should consider publishing it yourself on a comic book platform or your own website if you are going the digital route, which is what I'm doing. I don't expect to have anything published for a couple of years though.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 02:48 AM
7

I'm a girl and my stepfather spanked me for masturbating too.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 02:37 AM
8

I felt guilty and like something was wrong with me because I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. Society, church and everyone else drilled it into my head that girls weren't supposed to be as interested in sex as boys are. Girls are supposed to wait until marriage. Girls are whores if they sleep around, but it's totally cool if boys do it. I was crying in a therapists office when I was a teenager telling her I had a sexual problem and that something was wrong with me because I …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 02:36 AM
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Feminism is just about treating women like human beings, that's it. That means freedom from discrimination when it comes to employment, having the right to vote, getting equal pay for equal work, having a right to our bodies (like for birth control and abortion), not being treated like a sexual object and taking matters like sexual harassment and assault seriously. Many say we don't even need feminism because times have changed a lot for women, while it's true things have gotten much better, the…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 02:58 PM
2

You literally said in your title that you don't think women can't love the same as men and the the red pill is right. Go fuck yourself.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 09:20 PM
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So one relationship didn't pan out, therefore <insert sexist bullshit assumption about all women> If I had that attitude, I would be saying the same thing after one guy I dated flaked out on me, even though that happened to me many times throughout my life. Your situation is not much different than what I've experienced from many men too. And you know what, I moved on because they weren't obviously that into me and I didn't want to waste any more of my time. It would be easy to paint all men bla…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 08:18 PM
4

I noticed that as well and mentioned that could be one of the reasons so many men are getting sucked into this. Accidentally watch a video that talked about redpill or MGTOW, or were just curious, well now the recommendations are packed full of that stuff. Even if you search for certain topics that include things like marriage, you are inundated with redpill crap.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 08:24 PM
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YouTube is pretty horrible with that tbh, lots of brainwashed kids in an echo chamber. Since women aren't challenging their beliefs and perceptions and it's a channel for men, they feel free to spew their sexist bullshit there.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 07:44 PM
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If they are talking about this and accusing women of having this mindset, they clearly don't know what they are talking about nor do they understand what solipsism really is.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 12:06 PM
3

Lol we're not gorillas.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 01:04 AM
3

Yeah that could be the case too
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 06:14 PM
2

Nope
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 05:17 PM
2

I don't
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 05:12 PM
16

For most men, their attraction ages with them. Like when they turn 30, they find other 30 year old women attractive too. I would say that many men in the red pill community are teenagers or really young and at that age, they probably don't find women in their 30s to be attractive and don't understand that that will change in the future. Some men never grow up mentally and only want young girls because they see them as gullible and inexperienced, that is, easy prey to manipulate. A lot of the sex…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 01:12 PM
1

No it's not
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 11:28 AM
3

Yep good point
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 10:40 PM
5

Oh yeah, definitely Jordan Peterson
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 08:05 PM
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Listen for backhanded compliments, negging or putting you down in some way and acting like it was a "joke". Ignoring your texts for more than a day. Blocking you on social media, unfriending, not letting you tag them in pics, etc (they don't want other girls to see that you are dating) When you are talking to them and if you hear any of the following: "I'm a nice guy..." (Huge red flag there) "Well, pretty much all women are like that..." "Women are too emotional.." "Women only go after the hott…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 07:34 PM
2

Lol wow, imagine basing statistics on an ok cupid poll and not only that, inferring something unrelated to it 😆
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 04:47 PM
6

While height is more sexually attractive to women for various reasons, see the article below, it's usually more immature women in my opinion who only want 6' it taller guys. As a women grows and matures a little, she realizes that height is not everything and it's silly to get hung up over something like that. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201306/why-many-women-want-be-tall-men
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 03:49 PM
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I don't know where they are getting the 80% of women sleep with 20% of men thing. There is a small difference in the age of virgins and numbers of sexual partners in their early 20s, only 2% between men and women. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/284412/ https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwj6rJmP4vbwAhWDTTABHQcSBuQQFjAEegQIHxAC&usg=AOvVaw2A1qI1yb43jQeaaMc521G2
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 03:43 PM
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It is true that women are more likely to file for divorce, but there are many reasons for that. One of the reasons is that women can now be independent and not feel obligated to stay in an unhappy marriage, there are other reasons too. As time goes on we'll probably see that number balance out. But many of the women who file for divorce are older women, a lot more than before. https://www.womansdivorce.com/late-life-divorce.html https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 03:36 PM
1

They sprinkle in self help and life coaching with sexism and misogyny. Ignoring someone is simply hurtful and manipulative and you're just going to push the other person away with that shit.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 01:00 PM
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Funny how so many young men just want pussy and get angry when they don't get it but when they do, they realize it wasn't just sex that they wanted. They also wanted love and companionship. That's why red pill will never work for men who don't have some kind of personality disorder and don't see women as objects.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 12:51 PM
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It's only been two weeks, she may have just been busy lately. I think you're overreacting.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 02:40 PM
8

It's only been two weeks, she may have just been busy lately. I think you're overreacting.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 02:40 PM
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Are you calling or texting her when she's working? If so, you should wait till after work, she's probably just busy. I don't expect anyone to respond to my texts or calls during work hours unless it's an emergency. She's probably used to being in relationships where the guy doesn't want that much communication. My boyfriend right now takes forever to respond to my texts. It's like pulling teeth just to get him to text or call. I noticed many guys are like that to be honest. I think you need to t…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 02:06 PM
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Hello fellow weirdo, glad to hear you have embraced yourself and who you are 🙃 I had an ex who was constantly trying to change me and who I was but I just can't be shoved into a box of his expectations of how a woman should be. I am who I am and if someone doesn't like it, they are not the right person for me. 🙂
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:04 PM
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If you're independent and able to take care of yourself. That's pretty much it. In high school, it's mostly about personality and appearances. Not sure why you were made fun of in college but I know there can be a lot of immature people in college, don't let them get to you, just brush it off
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 03:06 AM
2

What do you mean, like how often it happens? I can't say for sure because it's a mixed bag and everybody has their own tastes. I typically date older men but that's just my preference. The oldest I've dated was 20 years but that was just too much. There's an obvious difference physically and generationally at that kind of gap. I broke up with one because he was emotionally abusive and controlling and the other broke up with me to work things out with his ex, but honestly that was for the best as…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:52 AM
2

No worries
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:02 AM
1

What the hell are you talking about? I said women in real life don't act like cartoon/anime characters.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 02:00 AM
1

Lol you seriously think they do 🤣 I got some news for you...
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 01:44 AM
3

No, but my daughter is full grown now and is moving out this summer. I have a boyfriend atm but to be honest I'm not really worried about my options with men anyway.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 07:21 PM
3

Sorry just ignore my comment, I got mixed up
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 06:19 PM
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You said MGTOW and redpill see single mothers as part of the "problem". What does that mean other than they are saying we are terrible people who got ourselves into that situation and men are not to blame at all for that?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 06:00 PM
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You have a better chance at getting struck by lightning.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 05:18 PM
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Nope I was not, that was an example I was using for other people in general, not my own personal situation. I caught him cheating, that was all. And are you some kind of idiot? Seriously at no point did I say anything either about my mom's cheating on my dad reflected badly on my dad. If you are mentally incapable of grasping my simple point then I fear there is no hope for you, this convo is over, bye.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 03:00 PM
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Where in my comment did I say that my ex was a drug addict? Maybe pay attention before you start making accusations like that. What about my dad who was cheated on too? How can you not see your utter hypocrisy? So men cheat and that's ok, but women cheat because AWALT, bitch please.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 02:46 PM
5

I'm sorry I'm having a hard time reading this giant run on sentence 😣
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 01:29 AM
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It's black and white, us vs them, Narcissistic thinking. My dad was a single dad, but apparently that's ok in their eyes, but me as a single mom, well there's just something wrong with me because obviously I'm a whore or something simply because I'm a woman. Most women who are single moms did not want to end up there nor were they expecting that, just like for my dad. Shit happens and sometimes you don't find out until it's too late that your SO is crazy, a Narcissist, abusive, drug addicted, ch…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 09:37 PM
3

I do not hate sex and am a woman
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 12:54 PM
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Don't worry about a woman having more experience and you not being able to please her. Every woman is different, all you need to do is ask her what she likes and how to help get her off and that's pretty much it. All my boyfriend's in the past did this. It will make her feel like you care about her pleasure too and that's a good thing. I agree about the hook up culture, I can't stand it either, especially since I'm Demisexual and it makes no sense to me at all, lol.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 12:51 PM
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I had no idea r/memes was filled with that garbage. I don't follow that sub though but that's really disappointing to hear. Glad to hear you were able to get away from that and that you have good friends and family that support you though. 👐👍
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 12:42 PM
6

What the heck is he saying at work?
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 12:33 AM
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Yeah I support sex workers too, it's their job and if there wasn't a market for it, they'd be doing other things for work. It's all about demand and supply. Men are willing to pay money for this stuff so women are going to supply it and make a living at the same time. There's nothing wrong with that. They only have their own gender to blame for that one.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 09:00 PM
3

Being a bad boy and being muscular are two different things. Being a bad boy is part of the personality. Having muscles doesn't automatically make women think he's a bad boy. Like I said, we don't associate personality with appearance, that's just stupid, no woman does that.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 04:42 PM
2

Women don't associate physical characteristics with Personality either. Plenty of women have told me they don't want to date muscular guys if they are jerks.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 04:16 PM
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Why do female sex symbols have huge boobs and tiny waists? It's just what men find attractive. Women find muscular men attractive because it's instinctual. Strong men produce, strong healthy children with a better chance of survival. Most women don't actually like bad boys in real life, that's just a fantasy. They don't want to end up in an abusive relationship. I've ended up in a couple but only because they came off as nice, decent guys and then over time became abusive.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 03:20 PM
4

What
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 02:26 PM
4

Have you tried making a main character female and trying to understand things from her perspective? I like like to write too and am working on a comic book (I like to draw as well). Maybe don't focus too much on relationships in your story too. Relationships in my comic are few and far between and are just a side note to the overall story.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 02:02 PM
8

This is why I don't like anime, it's too unrealistic, I suggest to stop watching it for a while and watch other things. Women don't act like anime characters at all.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 11:32 AM
5

That's a lot of word salad just to say "I'm a sexist moron"
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 12:29 AM
6

My favorite comedian, carrot top, paints his nails different colors and wears what some would call girly things, but I think he's hot af and adore him. Men should be more comfortable with expressing themselves like this if they want to.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 04:09 PM
4

People fought and died just to be able to look down on black people and keep them as slaves. Too many people want someone to look down on just to feel superior and for this guy and most of the people in red pill, this is what they do to women.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 04:06 PM
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See a psychiatrist and get another diagnosis. If a mental health professional gives you a diagnosis, you should really take it seriously, too many mentally ill people refuse to accept their mental illness. There's nothing wrong with having one, you just need some help and medication is all. I have a mental illness too and am on medication.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 07:35 PM
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Yes for the most part, or Narcissistic behaviors, you can have or display Narcissistic behaviors and not have NPD.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 03:49 PM
1

You don't understand much about Narcissism then
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 02:03 AM
6

Yeah I'm pretty sure of it, girls don't smile at guys like that for no reason
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 02:00 PM
4

I know you have tried everything for the acne, but have you tried giving up dairy or going vegan? The mammalian hormones in meat and dairy, especially in dairy have been known to trigger acne. It may not be a total cure, but I've seen it help others. There's a guy on YouTube he almost completely cured his really bad acne by going vegan. He's also a body Builder. His name his Brian Turner, check him out, he has a lot of helpful information about acne.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 01:36 PM
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Being funny or fun is not a personality, that's just part of your personality. I think you're getting way too hung up on your height. It could still just be a personality mismatch and like you said she sees you as a friend or like a brother.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 12:22 AM
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Women can pick up on your internal insecurities and that itself can make you look less attractive. For the girl you mentioned, you don't know for sure it was his height, it could have just been your personality, interests, politics, etc. Plenty of women date shorter guys, me included. I think what's really setting you up for failure is your reserved nature and insecurity. Also as women get older, they get less and less shallow as far as appearances go, for men it's the same way. I remember in hi…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 12:13 AM
7

I'm sorry to hear that
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 11:41 AM
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Totally, it's like they're trying to turn all of these impressionable (typically young) men into Narcissists, whether they realize that's what they are doing or not.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/21 02:40 AM
3

Probably at times yeah
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 07:51 PM
5

You can be a good guy and good husband material and not be a good match for someone, don't take that personally when a woman says that. Everyone has different personalities, desires and things they are attracted to.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 07:20 PM
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Certainly, I think a majority of them are lying about their "successes" too. It's a mixture of narcissism and low self esteem I think. They don't need to use their real name to get the attention they are looking for, which feeds their ego, even if it's all made up. It's a fantasy they created and they want other men to participate in it with them.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 07:17 PM
2

That's not true for people who really love someone.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 06:08 PM
6

It really depends, honestly, you can have a highly intelligent person and they can be a sociopath. And you have have a low intelligence person and they can be a highly caring and kind person. You can also be highly intelligent and be a total creep or have a shitty personality and nobody is going to want to be with you. Also, people tend to pair up with people on their own intellectual level or close to it, this is because they can share and understand the same topics, interests, etc. It's diffic…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 02:01 PM
3

Mental illness can manifest later in life and doesn't necessarily make one attractive. You can end up in a relationship and never know the person has a mental illness too. There are also many countries in history where women and men didn't really have much of a choice, there was arranged or forced marriages. There was even inbreeding to keep things in the family. These things can also account for mental illness spreading and becoming a problem.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 01:54 PM
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Physical attraction is not the same as romantic love. You can be attracted to someone and never really love them. That can come later after really knowing someone. Physical attraction gets you into the door, but personality is key to opening that heart. I'm Demisexual so I usually don't find people attractive at all until I get to know them and like their Personality or there is an emotional attachment, but I still understand that these two things are different, love and physical attraction.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 08:01 PM
8

I totally agree. Gender roles hurt both genders, we should start doing away with them. I think women should feel like asking guys out is ok, for example, and guys should be comfortable with that too without assuming she's a whore or something which happens to me a lot.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:36 PM
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Everyone has preferences, both men and women. Most women don't care about really tall guys though and just want a decent guy that treats them good and they have some things in common. My sister is dating a guy who is about the same height as her and I've dated guys my height as well (5'4"). At the end of the day, personality matters a lot. A guy can be really tall and a total creep and no woman is going to be interested in him.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 06:00 PM
7

For some people eye contact is very intimate, people with social anxiety, like me, would tend to get uncomfortable with that complement or some stranger looking into our eyes. I tend to avoid eye contact as much as possible with people I don't know. I feel like if someone I don't know was staring at me or trying to make eye contact, I would see it as a sign of aggression.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 02:32 AM
19

Most men's attraction ages along with them. If a guy is 50 and still only chasing women 30 years younger than him, then there is something seriously wrong with him. I see comments online from guys posting that a 40/50 year old woman is hot and the young teenage boys are like, ew gross, she's old. And the older men just say, wait till you get to my age.. The wall is just something they invented to make women panic and jump into abusive relationships with them out of desperation and fear of gettin…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 07:22 PM
18

Women have life insurancen policies too dumbass
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 06:24 AM
7

Yeah I call bullsh*t on this, this is just a sadist's fantasy. First of all, MOST women cannot orgasm by their vagina alone. All of the funtime nerves are in her clit, seriously. The only reason a woman can climax vaginally is if pressure or stimulation through her vagina is reaching her clitoris and like I said, most women don't have that ability. It's extremely rare for me. I think maybe one or two times in my life was it through just the vagina. I'm 38.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 11:36 PM
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I remember hearing about that statistic when it comes to men leaving their wives when they develop an illness like cancer. It's really sad and I agree, it puts the nail in the coffin of Hypergamy. I think in society women are expected to take care of men physically, sexually and emotionally and not the other way around. And that could be part of the problem as to why they leave.. Their wives can't take care of them anymore and they are put into the position of taking care of their wives and they…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 02:05 AM
2

I was just talking to an old neighbor, I don't know how old she is, but she looks like she's in her 40s. She said she just got a job after not working for many years and was surprised on just how many men hit on her. She said it made her feel good to know that men were still interested in her. She lost her husband to a car accident unfortunately not too long ago and was a homemaker for a long time. Probably young guys in their teens or early 20s might think an older women would "hit a wall", but…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 11:48 PM
3

Lol
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:43 PM
5

Just stupid shit like this: `Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church . . .' -Ephesians 5:22-23, from the New International Version of the Bible
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:37 PM
3

That's what the drill into you head in church, I grew up Baptist
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:28 PM
10

I think a lot of it has to do with poor social skills as well. I'm an older millennial, but I remember when I was younger, boys refused to hang out with girls because "ew girls, cooties", then puberty hits them, and they are like, oh I think I actually like girls now, but by that point that had spent no time socializing with girls because they saw them as beneath them and gross. This leads to them seeing girls and women as some other species they don't or will never understand. Growing up girls …
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 05:23 PM
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Good point, my dad was a single father, there are more out there than they realize and there are many more men who just abandon their children and all responsibility that comes with it like my daughter's father did, even though he wanted children and got me pregnant on purpose. They never talk about the dudes who don't use any protection, slip off their condoms, don't pull out, etc and then don't want any of the responsibility of being a parent, leaving the mother to be a single mom when she did…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:07 PM
3

No problem 🙂
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:03 PM
17

You could try r/marriagefree it's for all genders and not just specifically for men.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 05:01 PM
8

14? Sheesh these guys are getting sucked into this before they have even dated a girl, like wtf? If anything, you could write some advice in a blog somewhere for other teens your age.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 02:05 PM
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It doesn't make you more of a man to sleep with as many women as possible, just keep that in mind. If you want intimacy, you need to see women as human beings and just like men but with different gentiles, that's it. You just need to learn to love someone instead of seeing them as just a sexual object there to build up your fragile masculinity and you need to accept emotional vulnerability in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 03:06 PM
1

Thanks, you too 🙂
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 07:04 PM
2

INFJ on both the 16personalities website and Truity.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 07:01 PM
2

Yes, that is true unfortunately, they've had their whole lives to perfect their manipulation techniques of mimicking what you want to see and hear.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 04:14 PM
3

Personality matters more to me than looks or money or anything. I'm also demisexual. I started looking into MBTI as well and discovered my personality preferences. I also had to learn how to spot red flags too because I ended up with a few Narcissists in my life who were just pretending to be something they weren't and ended up becoming abusive towards me. Everyone has flaws and nobody is perfect. It's just a matter of how much of those flaws you are willing to handle or accept as long as they a…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 04:04 PM
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Guys lie all the time about the amount and type of women they sleep with, just to boost their ego or for attention or whatever, so you really need to stop believing that garbage. The truth is, most women do not like jerks and the ones who end up with them were tricked into thinking they were with a decent guy until he slowly morphs into an abusive monster. Some women are just not that good at picking up on the red flags early on and that's usually from them having a history of child abuse.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:35 AM
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Don't believe everything you read on the internet man
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:30 AM
4

Hoard sex, lol 😆 bruh. You know these girls can sleep with other guys too, right
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:25 AM
4

Obvious Russian troll is obvious
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:50 PM
4

This was the 90s and it was Florida. I did have some boyfriends, but they were a little older than me and didn't go to the same school or had already graduated. Some were even overweight. I'm actually demisexual so I don't really care about appearances, I've even dated morbidly obese men before, but yeah, keep reaching buddy 🙄
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:42 PM
2

The overweight guys weren't interested in me either
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:28 PM
2

That's going to take some time to change societies expectations on women's looks. I think a good start that we have already started doing is being more inclusive with women in movies and tv shows. We now have thicker women, compared to the underweight stickly women of the 80s, 90s and early 2000s. I think that's a great step in the right direction. We also have women of more races which is great too. Personally I always thought I looked fine, even when I was obese, lol. I don't mind aging becaus…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 06:30 PM
4

No, I've always been more educated and intelligent than my boyfriend or it has been close to similar. It's nice though to have someone you can have an intelligent conversation with on topics that interest you. That actually is beneficial to a relationship and I think women know that moreso than men. Men seem to want the hottest girl and don't really care about how intelligent she is, whereas women tend to want to be with someone they can have decent conversations with.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 03:17 PM
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I'm not sure what female subreddits you are reading, but I suggest not reading those and ignoring them. Having autism can make social situations harder than most, so don't be too hard on yourself if you are struggling to talk with girls. Remember, women are not some mystical entity, just talk to us like you would another guy friend. It might help to join autism groups online where you can interact with autistic women to start, just to get used to talking to women, which might be easier.. Maybe y…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 01:14 PM
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No, and I don't know of any woman who got alimony after a divorce, personally. The only thing was child support but only if they got full custody or most of the custody. If you talk to a lawyer they say it's just a division of assets whenever you get a divorce. Since both men and women work these days, you're really not losing anything, if say you sell the house and split the money. Different states have different laws, however and if someone is a stay at home parent or homemaker and they were m…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 08:07 PM
9

He has no empathy, good thing you broke things off with him. Don't look back and second guess, you are much better off.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 08:03 PM
2

No I was very specific in my searches, I typed things like "declining marriage in the US" "declining marriage, millennials". The fact that all I got was MGTOW and redpill results was deeply disturbing
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 06:32 PM
3

This wasn't in my YouTube recommendations, I did a YouTube search, these types of videos are not videos I watch.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 06:19 PM
21

I had no idea that existed
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 03:50 PM
3

Neither, this is a subreddit for deprogramming unfortunate men who got caught up in the redpill cult.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/21 02:59 PM
6

Dude you are clueless, cry me a fucking river
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 06:39 PM
12

Women are scared of all men we don't know because there are so many of them out there who would rape and/or murder us. Being a large guy is even more intimidating so don't look at it as a race thing. That's not saying all men are like that, just that there are so many we have to constantly be on guard at all times. Like we can't exercise outside when the sun is not up, we can't walk alone in dark parking lots, we can't just go out and have a drink by ourselves (I did that once only because my fr…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 06:24 PM
4

It's usually a product of genetics and/or environment, but usually one or both parents may be Narcissists or have a personality disorder as well.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 05:53 PM
5

Lol 😂
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:43 PM
13

I think it's a personality disorder. These men typically have mental issues (like Narcissism), have a huge amounts of entitlement (expecting women to sleep with them for no good reason), there us a great deal of blame shifting (it's not my fault women don't want me, it's theirs!), and a lack of self awareness and desire to improve themselves.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:43 PM
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Omg I literally laughed at loud at this 😂 I've read the Bible and grew up Baptist and I'm pretty sure Jesus never said things like "AWALT" or "Hypergamy, bro".
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 04:40 PM
1

Yeah no problem, hope it helps
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 07:44 PM
3

It's best to see a psychiatrist and psychologist, if you are bipolar you need meds. You can only change if you really want to. You may not even be a narcissist and just have narc traits and that can be worked out with therapy. Edit: Lithium Oratate has really helped me and it's over the counter. I have manic episodes was well but I don't have full blown bipolar.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 06:07 PM
5

Wow, women have standards just like men do? I'm so shocked!
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 07:22 PM
5

If that's who you're meeting on these sites, I suggest not using dating aps. All I encounter in those aps as a woman is Narcissists anyway, and I'm sure there are plenty of narc women on there too. I personally don't know any woman who demands that sort of thing either. All of us that I know have our own jobs and make our own money and don't care about what a man makes. I almost always make more money than the guys I've dated in the past too.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:16 PM
13

It's hate porn. It's very addictive, plus it feeds their ego and it's a deflection from their own problems. Why look into the mirror when you can just play victim and blame someone else?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 02:51 AM
3

The women they end up dating, sleeping with, marrying, etc, that's what I mean by "women they end up with".
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 01:12 AM
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I'll check out the video. Also, the black and white thinking towards women is also a symptom of a personality disorder. I guess these men don't realize that.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 02:54 PM
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I'm glad to hear you got away from him. I noticed many men in the redpill community are themselves Narcissists or they encourage this Narcissistic behavior in other men. Men who don't have a personality disorder, especially the younger, more impressionable men get sucked into this ideology and end up becoming abusive and hostile towards the women they end up with or in general and in the end both men (normal ones that aren't Narcissists) and women get hurt by this.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/21 02:36 PM
15

I stopped wearing makeup everyday because it's expensive and I just don't feel like wearing it, plus depression. I used to wear it everyday because I felt more professional at work. Unfortunately I got more unwanted male attention though. Now I just wear it when I go out with my boyfriend. It does make me for more attractive but also more presentable as I mentioned for work. I also know that it's temporary and will wash off so my bf is going to eventually see me without out so yes I know what my…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 02:38 AM
4

I'm sorry to hear that, but it's never too late to turn things around. You can still get that degree and you can still find a good partner.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 08:01 PM
4

You are in a cult sir. Funny you mention herd mentality. I suggest looking in the mirror.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 02:04 PM
5

Oh course, it does sound like you were being really too hard on yourself.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 09:01 PM
7

That's really good to hear, and cult is a very good word for it. I think seeing a therapist to work out the issues you have with either opening up or showing love might be a good start and they can also help with your Depression. I know how it is, I'm on antidepressants myself.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 07:51 PM
3

Exactly, good point
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 02:10 PM
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Seeing women as human beings means your a smart and decent human being too. Women are human too, just like men. I think you should learn to love and accept yourself, that can help with self confidence. If you're not seeing a therapist, I highly recommend one to help you with your social skills because I know that's harder for people with autism, even if it's mild. Nothing wrong with gaming, many women love gaming too, myself included. Enjoy your hobbies, don't let people make you feel like a los…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 02:28 AM
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That's good to hear, glad you were able to figure out the truth too.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/21 10:55 PM
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That's good, unfortunately redpill seems to attract and pull in young, inexperienced men who end up getting the completely wrong impression of women overall.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/21 10:48 PM
5

Probably best not to talk about sex with women, unless you have known them for a while and they feel totally comfortable with you. It's probably easier to make friends or acquaintances with women at work or in some other public setting where you see them often. Just be friendly and warm at first. Find something interesting to talk about, see if you two have shared interests, etc. Just keep in mind that many women see men who approach them as someone who's interested in them sexually so they may …
/r/ExRedPill22/02/21 03:59 AM
1

Could be demisexual then. I'm just trying to say that for most normal people these things don't gross them out. I happen to be Demisexual myself so I'm not into causal sex either, or just animalistic sex as you call it. But I think it's incredibly shallow to judge someone for having a previous sexual partner. Most people have many partners throughout their life.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:52 PM
2

Greysexual people have sexual urges as well, it's just not as often or at the same level as most other people. If you seriously don't think you are greysexual, I think you need to work out your sexual issues with a therapist or something. But I think you are blowing off the concept a bit too prematurely and should really look into it.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:45 PM
1

Check out the sub r/greysexuality
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:32 PM
2

Have you considered that maybe you are greysexual? It really sounds like you are on the ace spectrum. Nothing wrong with that, but I suggest looking into perhaps dating aps geared towards that or being up front about it with dating and all.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:29 PM
2

Yeah I agree I see the same thing
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 01:50 AM
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Yeah, I think it depends on the woman. Most women aren't going to look down on a man for showing normal human emotions and many of us a empathic and understanding. But there are women out there who grew up in a not so good environment where it was forced into their heads that men are not manly if they cry.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 01:45 AM
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Yes, society has a ways to go in order to put an end to the exaggerated gender expectations. I agree that many women look down on men who cry too, and it's not just other men. Keep being yourself and showing other men that it's ok and acceptable to express their emotions, I think that helps a lot.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 01:37 AM
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I'm not a man, but I think it's only helpful for men with a porn addiction. Getting away from porn for a while can also help men be more realistic about how women should look, act and behave. Plus men who watch a lot of porn can end up getting ED with their actual partners in real life. Other than that, I don't really see the point.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 08:37 PM
7

Call his bluff and leave
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:29 PM
5

Remind him that not all women are the same and that level of thinking is overly simplistic and is just victim mentality. I have a feeling this behavior is only going to get worse. Now that he sees he can manipulate and upset you and get away with it, he's going to keep doing it. I think you need to give him an ultimatum, either stop with the abusive, manipulative bullshit, or you're gone.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:21 PM
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Yeah exactly. Even for me I ended up with a lot of Narcissists and Sociopaths so I stayed single for a while to figure out how to spot these red flags in men and how to avoid them. I think a lot of that is from my childhood growing up in an abusive home and being highly empathic which also makes me a target for Narcissists. I never turned around and said all men are bad because I know that's not true.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:13 PM
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Yeah it's perfectly fine to swear of relationships, like my dad for example has been single for over 20 years because he doesn't want a relationship. He doesn't have any issues with women and doesn't join into this MGTOW nonsense. One of my issues with MGTOW is that they encourage pump and dump, where you sleep with a woman and then run off. That's not cool. You should always be up front about your intentions and what you want so people don't end up hurt.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 05:06 PM
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I think the MGTOW and redpill communities are just echo chambers for angry, bitter men to trash talk women. The truth is, only women with Personality disorders like Borderline, Narcissism, Sociopathy, etc are the parasitic, gold digging types and they are in the minority. When I tell men they they should read up on this and know what to look for so they can avoid these types of women in the future, a lot of them just refuse to listen. They don't want to accept that they have poor judgement when …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 04:01 PM
9

I feel like I've seen a lot more red pill men screaming this than women screaming to kill all men.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/21 03:02 AM
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Men and boys being victims of sexual abuse and assault have nothing to do with "men's rights". Rights are things like being able to vote, getting a job or a promotion without being discriminated against, being able to access birth control like vasectomies without having to wait until you have kids or getting a doctor's permission. This is why we women scoff at the idea of "men's rights" because for thousands of years we have lived in oppression while they were the ones with all of the rights. No…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/21 02:53 AM
2

She's not interested, just move on. She's probably just looking at you too see if you are going to bother her or not, don't think anything of it.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 12:48 AM
4

Exactly, totally agree
/r/ExRedPill30/01/21 04:53 PM
5

For some dumb reason, men have been raised to think that being angry is more manly than any other emotion, so this leads to men bottling up their feelings and then exploding later and then not controlling their rage. Anger and rage are emotions too. Anger is more destructive. Better to just cry it out somewhere if you ask me. Both men and women are equally as emotional though
/r/ExRedPill30/01/21 04:52 PM
2

That's known as triangulation and is something Narcissists do. Normal people don't do that.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 09:53 PM
3

I've never in my life wanted any of my exes. Most women do not want their ex, period, end of story. Also, I don't do hookups, but even if I did I wouldn't thirst for a past hookup either.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 08:35 PM
3

I attract and am attracted to Narcissists. I happen to be an empath (highly empathic person) and we are targets for Narcissists. I've been abused, raped, assaulted, etc, but I still don't have the black and white thinking that all men are like that. Black and White thinking is very common amongst Narcissists, so don't be like them. I eventually realized through studying Narcissism what to look out for as red flags and what to avoid. You just need to be more careful early on the relationship and …
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 08:30 PM
4

He's delusional
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 01:35 AM
2

Yes it is quite unfortunate how both men and women have been brainwashed into all of these gender beliefs. My point is that it's all comes from the male patriarchy though over many hundreds of years and has embedded itself in tradition and culture and at the end of the day it has come to harm them as well. The best thing we can do is call people out when see them trying to push this these unhealthy mindsets. Women my age and older (I'm 38) are going to really struggle with overcoming the the ide…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:02 PM
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I don't think you fully understood my comment so let me give you some examples of how girls are brainwashed, these are things I was literally told by family, shows, magazines, etc: "Don't ask a guy out, men are pursuers and they won't see you as a prize if you make it too easy for him. Make him work for it!" This is horrible advice for both men and women because it teaches boys that all they have to do is keep harassing a woman and she'll give in. "Let the man approach you, if you approach him h…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:45 PM
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Men are the reason most women don't pursue. Men have been telling women for thousands of years that they should not have any sexual interests, they they should be submissive and coy and that men are the pursuers. They really did this to themselves. I agree, women should feel comfortable to pursue. I almost always ask guys out that I like, BUT, they are usually guys I already know. I have approached men in the past who I didn't know and it was always a disaster because they think I'm a whore who …
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 03:27 PM
8

I had an ex who did similar things to me in the beginning. He was testing to see how submissive I would be too. He ended up being an abusive Narcissist. These sort of tests are red flags.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 02:11 AM
2

Nikola Tesla is a great role model, he didn't date or marry and may have had little to no sex partners in his life. He was Brilliant scientist who invented AC, the radio, wireless communication, etc. Also Issac Newton died a virgin. I'm really into scientists so these are things I know off the top of my head. I would say they were very high worth men, wouldn't you? You really need to stop associating people and their worth based on sex when there are so many other qualities about people that one…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/21 12:59 AM
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Wow, I'm glad you broke up with him because damn he's a misogynist. You are much better off and I hope you find someone better who actually cares about you and your feelings and isn't a complete waste of oxygen.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 09:28 PM
3

Oh ok thanks, I think if anything, for LTR it shows your girlfriend that you care about her and are serious about the relationship, and she would like that. If it's short term or one night stand, I wouldn't bother with posting pics of you two together or anything as she may not want that either..
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 03:03 PM
1

What do those acronyms mean?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 02:42 PM
2

I was just going to post this, lol, but yep only Narcissists and borderlines do this. Normal women don't want to risk losing someone or upsetting them over stupid tests.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 03:55 AM
9

As a woman who's been in an abusive relationship, it didn't start out that way. He started out nice and sweet and we had long, deep conversations which I loved. I fell in love with him because of that, but over time his behavior became more and more controlling and abusive. This is the "frog in the pot" situation. You stay because you love them and hope that the man you fell in love with comes back or he sees the light and stops being abusive. But that never really happens and you find yourself …
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 03:18 AM
3

I think as a society we should encourage independence and stop assigning so many gender roles on things. One should be able to live on their own before getting married. That way if things don't work out, they know they can leave and it won't be so difficult.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 07:07 PM
2

Taking responsibility for yourself is not hard at all.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 06:29 PM
3

What do you mean by Captain? If you are talking about a husband, they shouldn't be a Captain of the house and your life so I agree. You're in a partnership not a Supervisor-Subordinate situation. I've never been married and am 38. I've had to figure out so much shit on my own. It would be nice to have someone around to help out, but one should never feel like they HAVE to have someone to do certain things that they are themselves capable of doing.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 06:28 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 06:32 PM
7

If there are more women reproducing than men than that means that men had multiple wives.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 06:23 PM
7

Definitely. I've never been married and am 38. I like the feeling of accomplishment I get when I figure things out on my own like fixing my AC system, installing fixtures, replacing and fixing things around the house on my own. It's incredibly dumb that society expects women to act all helpless when it comes to doing these things and even see it as pathetic that we don't have a man around to do it for us. It's pathetic to act like we can't.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:53 PM
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Yes they like to shame women for being alone or single. It's better to be alone than in an abusive or miserable relationship imo.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:46 PM
6

Totally agreed, I've been saying the same thing. Also, many of these guys have no experience with women in the first place, or just have no game so they get angry and fall into the red pill mindset to deflect from their inability to get a girlfriend. It's always easier to blame someone else instead of looking into a mirror. Also, sometimes its deflection and they are in fact the Narcissists and want to play victims.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 01:58 AM
3

Did I say anything about deserve? No.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 06:30 PM
3

You are still not owed it from women
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 01:37 PM
3

What you say is not owed either. If you stab someone, for example, there are consequences. Either that person fights back or you go to jail.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:47 PM
6

So what are you saying, that women should just give their bodies to men? What about what the women want? Your logic is flawed dude
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 10:28 PM
5

Yeah but their desire for a relationship prevents them from jumping into bed with randos because a lot of guys just want sex. They want to make sure the guy is looking for a serious relationship first, which is hard to find a lot of the time.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 05:56 PM
1

Then you're not helping them
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 05:36 PM
8

I'm Demisexual. The idea of just hooking up with random "Chads" makes me shutter. Also most women want love and relationships, not just sex. We both have our gripes and much of the time we don't get what we want, but that's life, man.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 05:33 PM
7

Nobody is owed anything in life, not sex, not love, not money, etc.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 05:32 PM
1

My dad often had to buy groceries on credit, but whatever, believe whatever bullshit you want about single parents dude
/r/ExRedPill25/12/20 09:17 PM
1

We were pretty poor, but honestly it didn't bother me. We still ate, had cloths on my back and a roof over my head. Hanging out with my friends, going to the park, playing games, etc was all I needed and was pretty happy even though I lived in a very small one bedroom house where my sis and I had to sleep in the small living room.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/20 09:11 PM
1

My dad was a single parent of two children, I think he did a great job.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/20 09:05 PM
3

Typically people who apologize too much are in abusive relationships and they got used to having to apologize for everything.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 06:36 PM
7

Or maybe you were married to a narcissist. Not all women are the same.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/20 05:14 PM
1

I'm really sorry to hear that, you should follow your passion. That was really mean and dumb of her because there are so many avenues to take in the field of Art. My dad told me the same thing so I actually work in IT, but drawing and writing is my hobby.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 04:39 AM
2

I wouldn't worry too much about that, usually it's the personality that matters the most anyway. If you are dating someone and they don't take interest at all on your work, ignore it, don't say anything about it when you show them, then maybe that's an indicator they are not the right person for you. I've had that happen to me with guys and it turned out they really didn't care about me at all. I gave one boyfriend a book of my poetry that I published and he just tossed out aside and never even …
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 04:32 AM
1

Idk, maybe put your work on a t-shirt or something and if someone asks you can tell them that it's your original creation. Or put your art on Facebook and when you befriend a girl she can see it. Have your profile pic as you doing your artwork, etc.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 04:22 AM
28

The Red Pill turns young men into abusive Narcissists, if they weren't that way already. The tactics never work in the long run, the women will leave because they get fed up with being treated like shit. We only stay for as long as we do because we fell in love with them and hope that we can get that person back that we fell in love with. If the guy is really a Narcissist, then he doesn't care if you leave because they'll just find a new shiny appliance that they can abuse and control. Also, you…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 04:57 AM
7

I know that there are women out there who just decided that relationships are not for them, they just didn't make a whole movement about it that revolves around generalizing men, scapegoating, blame shifting, projection, sexism, etc.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 06:07 PM
4

Lol exactly, I remember when I was 18 or 19 and all these 40 and 50 year old men would hit on me at my job place and I was like, bleh! Go away, why on Earth would I have any interest in you???
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 06:02 PM
3

Exactly, same here, I've always wanted financial independence as a woman. I went to college and have a good career in IT. The last thing I want is to be stuck in an abusive relationship with nowhere to go and no way to support myself.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 05:59 PM
4

I'm glad he's leaving real women alone, but I wish he wouldn't generalize all women, that's when it becomes wrong.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 05:57 PM
6

Are you completely incapable of googling shit, here you go you lazy fuck: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/women-are-attracted-to-altruistic-men-2016-7%3famp
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 01:25 PM
12

Yes this is totally true, they even did a study on it and found that women find men who displayed more altruism to be more attractive.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 05:22 PM
4

I completely disagree.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 02:46 PM
5

Nothing wrong with that, I'm actually kind of bisexual so I had one at one point before I gave it away.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 10:28 PM
4

Also there are very realistic sex dolls that are actually affordable, just Google it 😉
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 10:20 PM
8

I actually have a Fetish for robots, lol. So I'm cool with that 😅 but I honestly don't seeing it replacing actual relationships because there are just things that even robots, no matter how human they may come across as just can't satisfy.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 10:18 PM
15

Yes exactly, most of us women really do love our men and are not that judgemental at all and are pretty open minded. We actually prefer men who are caring, loving and have compassion. But I suppose the red pill community sees that as "Beta" because many of them have no empathy and are just covert Narcissists trying to rope other unsuspecting men into their belief system.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 10:16 PM
6

Sounds like he was just always a misogynist and the red pill helped him to justify his deeply seated sexist and Narcissistic views.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 09:17 PM
10

Exactly, usually the guys I date are really nice and sweet guys. The last thing I was is an aggressive dominant man because that's triggering for me considering I was abused as a child by a man.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 02:47 AM
3

It's only transactional with Narcissists. Look into narcissism. Seriously, most people are not Narcissists like red pill assumes all women are.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 02:44 AM
1

It only matters if it's just a casual hookup as I've said. If a woman wants a relationship then she isn't going to care. I think you are internalizing your shame about being a virgin way too much.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 12:47 AM
2

Your sexual history is nobody's business, that's why, not because it's shameful but because it's improper to reveal that stuff in the beginning. Just like you don't ask your girlfriend or boyfriend how many partners they've had in the past. Also my point is you are looking in the wrong place to lose your virginity, it should not be through casual hookups as most of those women are going to want to enjoy themselves too, not train a guy on how to have sex and to please them.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 12:38 AM
3

It's not something you should reveal right away or on a first date man. Get to know someone first and then you can let them know. If you were both just going to a hookup then of course she's going to laugh because she wants to have a good time with someone who has some experience with pleasing women .
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 12:30 AM
2

Are you sure it was just the virginity? It could have been for other reasons but they didn't want to upset you and the virginity was just an easy out. And yeah, if they reject you then move on, don't take it personally as they are not right for you anyway.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 12:22 AM
6

Trust me, no woman cares if you're a virgin. I once dated a guy who was in his 30s and was still a virgin. I thought he was really cool and liked him but he blew me off and said he didn't think saw anything between us. It was actually really hurtful but I got over it. I think he was just looking for the perfect woman to lose his virginity to or something. Stop thinking "no woman deserves my dick", that's such a weird and superficial way of seeing things. Instead think of the qualities you would …
/r/ExRedPill12/12/20 12:06 AM
4

Keep on mind that looks aren't everything, sure it might initially get a woman's attention but if you come across as a douchebag, it's a huge turn off and women aren't going to care what you look like at that point. Personality, empathy and social skills are very important in the dating world.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 12:26 AM
14

Redpill is attractive to young men because it deflects their issues onto women, paints them as the enemy and sees themselves in some sort of war with women. I guess this appeals to the Reptilian part of the brain that want to fight something, or the ape part that wants to fight off other male rivals but can't do so. But misdirecting that hostility and whatever resentment you have towards women is unhealthy and will end up hurting you and everyone that comes into your life. Focusing on self impro…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 04:51 PM
3

No, best not to. It's not proper to talk about previous sexual experiences anyway.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/20 12:50 AM
0

A three year agree gap is nothing, if you are that concerned just don't post pictures of her in her school uniform. We don't have that problem here in the US. I think you are concerning yourself too much with what other people think.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 10:16 PM
2

It depends on how big the age gap. A 50 year old man isn't going to have much in common with an 18 year old, so yeah, that's going to raise a few eyebrows. But typically society in general more likely is accepting towards older men dating younger women than it is for older women dating younger men, so again, I don't know what you're talking about. Where I live the age of consent is 18, that's why I brought it up. But if it's 16 for you then why are you so worried about it?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 09:51 PM
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Most women don't care about money, so long as you are able to take care of yourself or are working on it if you are still young. Also, we don't want a huge cock as our vagina is not that deep anyway so it can be painful for us if it's too big. The redpill community uses Narcissists as an example and say that all women are like that when we are not. If you are that worried about ending up with a gold digger that only cares about appearances and money then don't date shallow women. Also, pay atten…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 09:29 PM
6

I don't understand, what do you mean by limiting a man's options? Just because some women have opinions on what an appropriate age gap would be, how is that affecting you or stopping you from dating a younger woman? Also, at that age many girls are willing to jump into bed immediately with a guy because they are afraid the guy will look elsewhere, or they are just really into you, one of two. Women are just as horny as men, we are just typically pickier and can go longer for longer periods of ti…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/20 06:13 PM
3

No that is not true, I'm not abusive to my significant others in any way and I certainly wouldn't call them names. Also, Narcissists are abusive and sadistic because they take pleasure in the power they feel when they get an emotional response out of you.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 05:42 PM
3

Emotional abuse, when they call you names, put you down, do silent treatments, that's sadistic behavior. All Narcissists do this.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 05:33 PM
3

Most Narcissists have sadistic traits
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 05:17 PM
4

I use Facebook mostly for memes, lol. And yes, people like to put others down to make themselves feel better. It's a very Narcissistic mindset, but that's what the redpill community is all about. Women are the evil monsters, the men never did anything wrong, it's the woman's fault. This is scapegoating and blame shifting that Narcissists do often as well. Narcissists are encouraging young, impressionable men to act like Narcissists too and that can really mess their life up when they are not. Na…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 05:09 PM
2

Lobsters, lol 😆
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 09:37 PM
2

Absolutely not. Unless they are acting like spoiled toddlers, then I guess I see them as Beta, lol, but for the the most part I just see them as human beings.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 09:34 PM
1

Very well said! 👌
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 07:46 PM
16

Lol, yeah they are all hypocrites. I think the only thing you need to do as a man is just be financially independent or at least working towards it. Both men and women work and women just don't want to be stuck with a bum who mooches off of them and doesn't work. Plus, being financially independent is a good confidence boost.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 05:13 PM
6

I came here after leaving a relationship advice forum because there were so many young men being sucked into this red pill nonsense. They had absolutely no experience with dating and women and yet believed all this crap. I tried to help but they were so brainwashed and scared just to have a relationship. I'm just here trying to help and sometimes vent my frustrations with it lol.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 04:54 PM
2

They just want sex without any stings attached. Unfortunately many women get attached after sex even if they start out agreeing to something casual. Men can get attached too. If that's what they want, that's fine, but they need to be upfront about it, that way the woman won't be too upset about not wanting anything serious if she catches feelings. But many of them really do want something more and sex without love or attachment may get stale after a while, but unfortunately they have been progra…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/20 03:24 PM
14

Totally agree. I feel sad for humanity when he has so many subscribers, it makes you just want to give up on men too.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/20 02:00 PM
12

There could many reasons. Maybe he's just not really attractive at all, no matter how much he works out. Those aps are very appearance based. Also, maybe he had something very off-putting in his profile that he doesn't realize. I've seen many profiles from men that come across as extremely entitled or even down right hateful. Also, he could just have a terrible personality. We just don't know and I doubt he's going to admit to any of that.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/20 04:47 AM
3

Yes, what they teach you in red pill is how to be an abusive Narcissist and that never works long term. What's funny is that often time men are there because they were with a Narcissistic woman, didn't understand what they were dealing with and red pill was easy and convenient. So they become Narcissistic themselves, which is never the answer. Learn about personality disorders and Narcissism, that will give you the real answers, not red pill. Don't treat others that way you wouldn't want to be t…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/20 04:23 AM
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I see it too and I'm a woman. I happen to watch videos about relationships and stuff so I guess that's why they recommend it. They really need to put a stop to that and stop with recommending them at all.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/20 12:56 AM
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You can try an online therapist for your anxiety. Also, I find it very alarming that so many young guys are being sucked into this as well. When I was in a relationship forum, I kept coming across posts from 18, 19 year old men who were deeply into MGTOW and terrified of having any serious relationships. It's really sad, I try my best to remove their mental blocks they got from MGTOW, but there are so many and it really got to me emotionally and I left that forum. They have little to no experien…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 03:57 PM
2

Men do the same shit though, it's not just women. Men trade their SO for a hotter woman, they cheat, they sleep around. Like seriously, both genders are guilty of this shit. But the thing is, not everybody is like this. Most people don't cheat or would drop their SO in a heartbeat if someone better came along. You want to know why? Because most of us are not heartless monsters. Most of us are not Narcissists. We have empathy, we get attached and don't want to hurt the people we love, nor do we j…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 03:59 AM
2

Most people at your age don't have their own place, don't worry about it. Most women aren't going to expect you to either if they can't themselves. If you haven't though, consider college or a trade school, that can really help you move up in the workforce. I didn't get my own place until I was 28. Also when you have a partner, it's easier to get a place because of combined incoms.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/20 02:06 PM
2

You would be correct.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/20 04:27 AM
12

It wasn't just the oldest wolves, it was actually the parents or grandparents, lol. As far as chimps and gorillas go, there really are alpha males that get all the females of the group, but then there are apes that don't have alphas or there are alpha females like for Bonobos. So at the end of the day, it's all nonsense anyway. Just because some animals have "alphas", it doesn't mean we have to or are even hard wired for that anyway.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/20 04:06 AM
1

What negativity are you talking about? I would hold off on any negativity talk on the first few dates. If you are dating a girl and she is all negative in the beginning, that should be a red flag and you shouldn't continue seeing her. Dating is like playing baseball at first, don't expect to come in and immediately start batting home runs. Some guys are naturally good at it and others just need more practice. Just learn from your experiences and move and and hope for better luck next time
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 12:47 AM
1

I think you are being too hard on yourself. Most women actually like artistic men, even if they are not financially independent. Also, most women are going to be understanding that you can't afford to live by yourself at this point in your life. For me, i wasn't able to move out of my parents until I was 28 and I had a college degree and a full time job even. Like I said, you can try dating around to get some experience with women. Maybe join some online dating platforms. But if you are always h…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 12:25 AM
1

Yeah there's nothing wrong with not being financially independent at your age, but it seems to be affecting your self esteem. If you can acknowledge it's not a big deal then why are you letting it get to you so much?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 12:08 AM
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You should focus on getting some skills or higher education and becoming financially independent, that might help with your self esteem. I think you also need therapy too though, if you feel nobody's advice is helping.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 12:04 AM
1

Like everyone else, women's standards age with them and if anything they become more realistic about their standards as they grow older. Women are also waiting to have children and it's not uncommon these days for women to wait until they are in their early thirties or late 20s to have kids because they want to establish a career first. Don't worry about it or sweat it, it would be good to try and date around and stop fixating on her anyway. Get some life experience, finish your education if you…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 11:58 PM
2

Yeah I wasn't talking about morbid obesity or even obesity in general, I was just referring to being overweight. I've lost weight before so I'm good with that, thanks, like I said the antidepressants caused me to put on a lot of weight and really messed with my hormones.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 11:21 PM
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My boyfriend is bald, women in your age group should have no problem with that. Also, keep in mind that most women are overweight in many countries. It's going to be harder to find a woman at a healthy weight especially in your age group, even if it's just like 10 pounds or so, I think it's something to consider. I'm overweight, technically obese, but I get hit on all the time still. I gained the weight while on antidepressants and am currently trying to get back down to a healthy weight. I trie…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 11:07 PM
2

Ok well it's possible that you have just always been that way for the most part and redpill just made it worse. If you don't want relationships that's fine, just be up front with women about it, don't string them along with the hope of ever having a serious relationship. Also, you are very young and you could still fall in love at some point. It's just a matter of seeing women as human beings instead of as the enemy which men seem to be easily susceptible to and why they fall into this red pill …
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:37 PM
1

Did you have crushes or ever been in love before? If you never had the ability to love or have crushes before then joining red pill may have been partially a coping mechanism. If you have, then don't worry, there's still hope for you to love. People who are naturally aromantic have typically always been that way and never had any interests in relationships.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 01:40 PM
2

Are you sure it was red pill? Many people are aromatic and have just always been that way. Have you ever had any interest in having a serious girlfriend at all, even before getting into the redpill stuff?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:01 AM
7

I think any time they start spewing their rhetoric would be a good indication.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 02:49 AM
1

Believe whatever you want then
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 02:28 AM
1

Thanks
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 01:39 AM
5

This was brutal but I agree, this needed to be said. He is pointing the finger in the wrong direction. The finger should be pointing back at himself. I was pretty confused as to why he thinks his father has anything to do with him falling into red pill because it seems like his father was a really hard worker and probably worked many hours to provide for them. He probably left the teaching things to his wife, which is understandable because he was probably too tired to do so himself. On the cont…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 04:16 PM
2

Good point
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 04:08 PM
1

I'm sorry your father wasn't really there for you. I guess I have a hard time understanding still though. I had a very unloving and distant mother. There was no affection at all growing up, my mother didn't tell us she loved us. She even told my sister she didn't want to teach us how to cook because she didn't want us finding good husbands when we get older. She has serious mental issues. But never once did I find myself looking into polarizing belief systems. I never saw men as anything less th…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 03:25 PM
2

Because they weren't faking WHO they are, they were just never up front about their intentions.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/20 02:15 PM
8

Just be yourself and love yourself, that's all you need. Women can pick up on posers a mile away. Sometimes experience with talking to women can make you appear more confident. Confidence isn't everything though. If we don't find you attractive, interesting or we don't like your personality we are going to turn you down no matter what. Also some guys come across as really thirsty and desperate for sex and that is a total turn off. Then there are guys who give us creep vibes. If you are not a cre…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 02:11 AM
2

Yes this exactly! ^
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 07:46 PM
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Lol 25%
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 07:42 PM
2

I've had several guys cheat on me in the past. If it happens, it happens, just move on, they were obviously no good for you. My daughter's father got me pregnant on purpose and then cheated on me and became abusive after I got pregnant. I've been a single mother of a disabled child for 17 years. Being cheated on is not the worst thing that could happen. Sure it hurts and it sucks, but just dump that toxic person if they do because you deserve better. Not everyone cheats. Just because I've been c…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/20 07:39 PM
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Block them, don't feed the trolls, they love the attention, especially when it's negative. There's no arguing with them either, they always think they are right no matter what because of their insanely inflated and sensitive egos and delusional thinking. I even preemptively block trolls I see trolling other people because I know they'll probably bother me at some point too.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/20 10:00 PM
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Have you ever had a girl as just a friend or have you thought about it? It may help you understand women better. Like don't expect it to lead to anything, just try to get to know them and understand them first. We are not weird aliens, we are just simple humans. If you are suffering with low self esteem I suggest reminding yourself daily about the positive qualities that you have that also make you unique as a person. Stop focusing on the negative qualities so much because most things can be imp…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 08:45 PM
2

Nobody really cares about you past beliefs, all that matters is who you are now.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 03:51 PM
46

Just to be clear treating someone like shit is emotional abuse.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 03:12 PM
22

Absolutely not! If you are abusive in any way, I'll leave. Sometimes we stick around because we love that person, but that's usually because at first they were really caring and good. After a while abusers get worse and worse to the point where we can't deal with it anymore and leave. Women who like to be treated like shit usually have emotional or mental issues or perhaps they come from a broken home. But that is not the majority of women.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 03:11 PM
1

Most girls want a relationship, not just sex. You'll find it harder to just get laid than to have a relationship. If all you're looking for is sex then you'll have to lower your expectations as to what kind of woman you want to sleep with.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 04:01 PM
3

I think you should see a therapist. It sucks how much religion has messed people up sexually and mentally. I felt so guilty and ashamed just to be masturbating. I was crying my eyes out at my therapist when I was a teen because I masturbate and happen to be a girl and girls "don't do that", or at least that is what society and religion brainwashed me into believing. My therapist reassured me that it was perfectly normal which I didn't realize. It would help to talk to a professional to work thro…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 07:03 PM
3

Lol yeah my bad
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 01:13 PM
3

Well I certainly didn't ride any cock carousel in my youth because love and relationships mean more to me than sex ever will.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 02:30 AM
7

It might be easier, but we are still pretty picky, we're not going to just sleep with any guy.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 02:23 AM
8

They wish they could bang as many women as possible in their youth so they claim women do it too, which is not true.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 02:13 AM
10

Don't do drugs folks, that's all 😆
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 02:08 AM
8

As a woman, that's not true. We are just as horny as men, but we are more picky and selective because we have to be because we are the ones that have to carry and raise the babies for the most part. Instinctually we look for healthy, sometimes strong men who have their shit together. We need to make sure that we can provide for our children's needs. Back in the day this meant women looked for providers, but today we can get jobs too, so it's unnecessary, but still important than the man can equa…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 08:45 PM
4

I'm not older than him, he's a few years older than me. But to be fair, he thought I was the same as him. But whatever, there is just no helping you. I got shit to do and don't have time to waste on your delusions and idiocy.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 08:07 PM
6

He's going through a divorce right now, why would we rush into marriage right now? And yes, I still get men who hit on me all the time, from young guys in their early 20s to men 20 years older than me.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 07:55 PM
10

I get attention all the fucking time. It's so bad I have to wear frumpy cloths and large headphones everytime I step outside the front door due to the catcalling and harassing. My boyfriend thinks I'm beautiful and he actually used to date older women (I'm not older than him though). You are implying that every guy thinks and behaves like you, that is not true. Most men's taste age along with them and there are many men, like my boyfriend who even find older women attractive.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 07:31 PM
10

What are you talking about, I'm 38 and have a boyfriend.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 07:17 PM
3

No they do not
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 07:16 PM
11

Also, who says I'm worried about it?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 06:48 PM
16

That's more rare than you think. Plus these men hitting on me obviously were not rich in any way. Even if they were, I'm not a gold digger and I'm not into that.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 06:48 PM
2

Probably because of your sweeping generalizations and lack of examples as to what you consider dark humor. If you are cracking jokes that degrade other people or women in some way, that's not dark humor. Dark humor tries to make light of uncomfortable situations like death for example. Here are good examples that cracked me up: I just read that someone in London gets stabbed every 52 seconds. Poor guy. My wife and I have reached the difficult decision that we do not want children. If anybody doe…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 05:23 PM
3

I am a woman who likes dark humor. Where on Earth did you get the idea that mostly men appreciate dark humor?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 05:13 PM
7

Screw them, I'm going to be fucking fabulous when I hit 50!
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 05:03 PM
21

Lol, yeah, no. There's no way most 20 year olds are going to be dating 70 year old grandpas 😆 I'm sure that's what they wish. I can't begin to tell you how often older men hit on me when I was 18 and working retail. It was annoying and creepy. I'm like, dude, you are like 40, what in the hell would you even think I'd be remotely interested?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 05:00 PM
3

Same, I usually end up blocking them because they don't read or listen and get more and more hostile and aggressive. They are really emotional and immature.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 01:14 AM
5

That is true
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 03:29 PM
5

We are not that difficult to understand. We are not puzzle boxes dude.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 03:29 PM
6

Yes, there are crazy women out there. But most women are not like this, trust me.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 03:28 PM
6

I like men who are open with their emotions, instead of bottling them up and exploding later, which is unhealthy. I do like men who are in touch with their feelings, not afraid to cry and can express themselves without fear. I prefer men who are warm, caring and empathic. I always find myself attracted to sweet, nice and caring men. Unfortunately there are many Narcissists out there that know how play the warm, sweet, kind men and I've ended up in abusive relationships because of that. Typically…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 03:10 PM
2

Hey thanks
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 02:35 PM
7

Wow, a guy who really gets it, I'm impressed. I heard a quote somewhere that goes, "Those that are used to a life of privilege see equality as oppression." When I say privilege I'm not talking about money, I'm talking about in general and in society. This quote reflects this red pill mentality as well as men who whine about "men's rights". Considering how hard women had to fight just for the right to vote and how we had to have a freaking civil war just so black people could have the right to be…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 02:21 PM
3

They never mention by what age. The older you are the more partners you'll have had in your life. Nothing wrong with having that many partners when you're in your 30s, 40s or older
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 02:11 PM
6

I've had 20 partners in my life and am a woman. I've never married but would like to. It seems none of the men in my life are ever as committed to the relationship as I am. I feel like I give my heart and soul to people who just never appreciate it. Most of the guys I've been with were Fuck boys who didn't want any commitment or they were abusive or they were cheaters. I don't see how that would translate into me being a whore and not ever committing. I take the idea of marriage very seriously, …
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 02:04 PM
1

Exactly, in the end it's just all projection
/r/ExRedPill12/10/20 01:02 AM
1

Same
/r/ExRedPill12/10/20 01:01 AM
8

What about the women who are married to their husbands their whole life? Seems like such a dumb thing to say. There are reasons for breakups and it's usually not because the women find someone better. It could be because the guy cheated, he's abusive, they are incompatible, life circumstances like getting a great job somewhere but the other doesn't want to move, etc.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/20 01:00 AM
5

You should do things for yourself. If you want a good career, car, house, etc, you should do that because you want that that. A lot of times relationships and encounters happen by happenstance. When you talk to girls, don't do it with the hope and intention of dating or hooking up. No expectations will never let you be disappointed. Are you in college? If not, that would be a good place to start and you can meet women there too.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/20 12:52 AM
2

You sound like a petulant child crying for his "men's rights" binky. Grow up. You are not the victim you so desperately want to be. Blocking you now as I'm done with your toxic, cultists propaganda bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 03:32 PM
3

And how does any of this affect you personally? It's very insulting to cry and whine about men's rights when women had to fight for their right to vote and have a job. We literally had a civil war over giving black people their right to be free and then they still had to fight to vote. So spare me your cherry pickery bullshit . It's pretty clear you are still heavily brainwashed with this propagandist nonsense. This is still a white Patriarchal society where men have all the fucking rights.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 03:17 PM
3

Men's rights? Are you joking? Stop trying to play the victim man.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 02:06 PM
3

I was joking around, but I was making a point on how bad ideas can spread like wildfire on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 12:22 AM
8

I think it's getting as bad as the antivax and flat earth movement
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 12:19 AM
10

MGTOW guy "I never realized just how calculating women are when it comes to choosing a guy." You mean to say that women have standards!? Color me shocked!! Honestly, I literally overheard a guy one time talking to his friend about how he would refuse to date a woman with slightly chipped toenail polish, so please, spare me!
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 09:55 PM
7

Very interesting, thanks. I agree with her on the comparison to Nazi Germany where Jews were made into monstrous caricatures in order to demonize them. That later made it easier to round them up into concentration camps and murder them. These red pill and incel groups are making gender an "us vs them" thing which is dangerous and is indeed radicalizing men to commit mass murders. I also see a string of anti-feminism videos on YouTube, and the videos that try to criticize red pill or MGTOW get he…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/20 01:47 PM
4

Just give it some time, we all experience rejection in life, I certainly have quite a few times. You just keep moving forward, hoping to find the right person for you.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 06:19 PM
4

That's not really true, trust me, most women don't want sex on the first date, we are the same way, we want to take time to get to know someone and trust them before we have sex. The only time I had sex on the first date was with someone I already knew for years and already had feelings for. That's the only understandable time to do that. Two months may be a bit long though for many women, they may feel like you are not interested in them sexually and see it as rejection so they move on. Making …
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 06:00 PM
3

I think childhood abuse and/or neglect can pay a big part in it too.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 03:50 AM
2

That shit's not cool either. No matter what gender you are, you shouldn't demonize another gender with sweeping generalizations. Call it out when you see it or hear it.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 06:59 PM
2

Cool, good luck, hope things get better for you in the near future
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 01:14 PM
1

Ah, ok, well it still wouldn't hurt to get some help with that type of thinking though.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 01:07 PM
2

That's good that you realize that at least but you should work on your Black and White thinking. You may have some borderline traits and I hear DBT therapy can be very helpful for that, I recommend looking into it.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 01:04 PM
2

Why do you hate and resent women so much? Do you have issues with your mom or are you just angry because you're a virgin or something? Nobody is owed sex in life. Nobody is owed love, nobody is owed relationships. Men typically want sex, women typically want love, both of us grumble about not being able to get what we want, that's just life man.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 10:52 PM
1

Well, looking down on the opposite gender just to feel better about yourself is a sign of Narcissism. It's not normal or the healthy thing to do. If someone has this tendancy, it's possible they could have a personality disorder or some of the traits and should really seek professional help.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 10:47 PM
3

How does believing ridiculous nonsense and lies about women help you get into shape and better yourself? People who need to look down on someone in order to feel better about themselves have serious mental and emotional issues and should see a therapist.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 10:44 PM
9

I wish you well on your mental health journey.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 10:35 PM
1

Neither gender really needs the other gender. Having two genders is simply for genetic diversity and reproduction. You don't both parents but having two parents can be beneficial to the offspring.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 10:29 PM
6

It didn't naturally evolve, that's like saying slavery just naturally evolved
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 11:00 AM
5

I didn't say anything about gender roles...
/r/ExRedPill06/10/20 10:59 AM
7

Lol exactly
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 11:03 PM
1

There's always going to be women who love men in power and yes, that is hard wired considering how many apes have alpha males with a collection of multiple females. Also, when someone sees that a man is desired, it increases other women's desire too because there are traits that another female has picked up on and seen as desirable. I'm not saying all women are like that, but it's common and I'm not surprised. Women do indeed like men who are smart, strong and can take the lead in any situation.…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 09:10 PM
15

Yeah it wouldn't make sense for one gender to be so dependant on another anyway. The female of the species needs to be able to function without a male around or it could have a seriously negative impact on evolution and reproductive. In fact most animals have only one parent and some don't have any, lol.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 06:44 PM
8

Lol
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 06:05 PM
29

Only 10% of divorces include alimony. Back in the 60s, it was higher at 25%, but that was because it was harder for women to get decent paying jobs. Since that has changed, the rate of people paying alimony has dropped significantly. https://www.divorcemag.com/articles/percentage-of-men-awarded-spousal-support-increasing#:~:text=That%20number%20has%20dropped%20to,and%20380%2C000%20women%20receive%20it.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 05:44 PM
34

And we only needed men back in the day because men forced us to be dependent on them by not allowing us to work, own property, etc. Now that we can, these red pill dudes do nothing but bitch and moan about it. Nothing like oppressing someone else to make one feel better about themselves.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 05:34 PM
1

Please get some therapy, sounds like you need it. Not sure what happened in your childhood that makes you feel that way but you need a professional to help walk you through that and reclaim your self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 01:44 PM
6

I was under the impression you were together longer than that, but you said you don't see a future with her, so why are you with her?
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 02:14 AM
1

Yeah I'm for marriage too. We should all be very careful and selective, though, it's not a choice someone should make in a matter of months, because it can take a while for someone's true colors to reveal themselves.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 11:44 PM
12

Yeah it's like they speak out of both sides of their mouth. Nothing will ever be good enough for them. It's all pathological.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 10:42 PM
11

90% of guys don't pay alimony, you're probably thinking child support and that's if the mother gets full custody. Most states you can only get alimony depending on how long you were married and whether one partner didn't work due to raising children. Divorce rate is high because people make bad decisions about life partners. Often times divorce is caused by infidelity, money problems, abuse, etc. Perhaps women initiate it more because men are more likely to be abusive and to cheat. Or men don't …
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 10:37 PM
1

Reported
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 10:27 PM
1

Yeah probably, sorry to hear that :(
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:54 PM
1

Because he doesn't love her. He's wasting both of their time. She deserves to be with someone who loves her and he needs to learn to love himself before starting off in another relationship.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:06 PM
15

First thing is first, break up with your girlfriend, then get some counseling about your low self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 02:56 PM
19

I don't understand people who want casual sex and one night stands, but I don't judge them and neither should you. If you don't love her, then tell her instead of stringing her along. If all you want is casual sex then let her be and go do your own thing. Seems unfair to stay in a relationship with someone you don't love.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 02:54 PM
2

Unfortunately sociopathy is encouraged in our society as being "manly", but there are many empathic men out there still who don't fall for that nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 02:51 PM
4

If you're not ready for a relationship, then take some time for yourself. I was single for 3 years after getting out of an abusive relationship. I dated another narc unfortunately after that, that ended after a few months, but now I'm seeing a really wonderful guy. A lot of time it just comes down to luck and timing. Women's love is not fleeting. It takes a lot for us to fall out of love, typically things like abuse, laziness and immaturity can chip away at our hearts. When they say that, it's p…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 02:48 PM
1

No, I updated my comment, I meant that women who just want to take your money and marry only for money have personality disorders
/r/ExRedPill03/10/20 02:29 PM
1

No, I've been to a therapist and was diagnosed with anxiety and depression, no personality disorders. I don't know how my comment triggered such a hostile and negative reaction from you. Perhaps it was simply projection on your part.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/20 02:26 PM
-1

Since women can be financially independent these days, it doesn't make much sense that they would only marry for money or to steal your resources. I know there are some women like that, but they usually have personality disorders. Edit: updated my comment since people seem to have misunderstood what I was saying
/r/ExRedPill02/10/20 05:27 PM
1

Yeah gender stereotypes suck and don't do us any good as a society. I think we'll make progress eventually but that means undoing generations of programming and brainwashing.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 11:41 PM
2

Also, it's quite natural for both men and women to desire someone well above their league, that's just normal. A mature and self aware person can accept that they are sitting tyo high and start looking for people within their league.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 11:36 PM
1

Both men and women can be equally confident or lack confidence. I've known plenty of women with low self esteem who would settle with men well below their league. Many women also have social anxiety and men can have it too. Women who play coy are either 1. Not really interested in you and are just being polite or 2. Were raised and taught that men are the pursuers and chasers and if they act too interested men will lose interest and not take it as a victory they so desperately want, i.e. you wil…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 11:33 PM
6

That happens to me as a woman too. We do get tired and annoyed from waiting to them to start reciprocating. So we take it as a loss and move on. We don't have all the time in the world to wait around for a man to decide he wants a serious relationship.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:33 PM
4

For #2 - No, absolutely not! Only women with mental disorders would want that.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:29 PM
3

We women often wonder the same thing about men too, lol. Like sometimes we feel all men want is sex, ect. The truth is we don't love any differently. Sounds like the women you were with before had issues and we're probably no good for you anyway.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:28 PM
1

Yeah no problem 🙂
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:09 PM
10

Whatever you do, don't blame yourself! Don't listen to that other group. As a woman, I love it when the guy I'm seeing sleeps over. Seems like she's going though some things right now and is not ready for a relationship most likely. She might be seeing someone else, maybe she's trying to work things out with an ex, etc. It was shitty of her to just ghost you with no explanation. Just keep in mind that she is the one with the problem, not you.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 02:59 PM
3

I agree, I don't know why you think you'd get voted down. If you don't know someone the first impression is how they look of course! If you get to know someone and you like their personality, then they may not care as much. Both men and women have standards. The first reason a woman might turn you down is based on looks too. The second is whether or not you give her a bad vibe (like maybe mental illness or disorder she can pick up on). The third is if you have terrible social skills. Those are t…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 12:36 AM
6

Not all men are like that but there are enough of them that are that we always have to keep our well being in mind. Men fear being rejected, women fear being killed. We are physically weaker and therefore, vulnerable. I suggest you look into the statistics of the percentage of women who have been raped or assualted in their life. It's quite high. Don't take it personally, we are that way because our lives and well being is on the line at all times.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/20 11:59 PM
2

Lol
/r/ExRedPill30/09/20 11:25 PM
5

Sorry, but there are a lot of creeps out there. I've been raped and sexually assualted and many many other women have too which is why we always have our guard up
/r/ExRedPill30/09/20 11:18 PM
1

It annoys tf out of me when women try to say that putting on makeup is an art form. Like, unless you are a makeup artist working for a movie or show, putting on makeup everyday doesn't make you a damn artist, lol
/r/ExRedPill30/09/20 10:59 PM
4

When I like a guy, I usually ask them out. But they are usually guys I already know. When we women approach men to talk or hang out and we don't know them, men immediately jump to the conclusion that we want to have sex with them right away when we are just trying to get to know them first. I speak from experience. This is why I stopped approaching men I don't know. If guys weren't so damn thirsty, more women would approach men. Take your time with women, if you approach them, do it with no expe…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/20 10:55 PM
2

It wouldn't hurt to see a counselor to get their advice on relationships and dating and your struggles. It would be good to get an actual professional opinion, someone who can help you with the deprogramming and if you start dating they can help put things into perspective for you.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/20 10:15 PM
15

As far as splitting the bill, US women are used to saying they'll pay for their half but the men insist on paying for it. I think it's silly, but it's a cultural thing. If you don't insist, they think you are cheap. For the women having multiple partners, it's kinda normal but kinda not. The thing is, the men here in the US do the same thing. Many of them want sex with no relationships, so unless you tell her up front you want a commitment, she's just going to see it as you just want to fuck aro…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/20 12:05 PM
4

Lol, definitely so many damn thirsty ass men out there! These guys just don't realize what we women have to deal with on a day to day basis. I used to wear huge headphones everywhere I went because thirsty guys constantly felt entitled to my attention. It's like dude, I put up with strange men trying to get my attention every fucking day. I have social anxiety and just want to be left alone when I go to the god damn store ffs! And the dating thing, I'd constantly have guys that were obese, 20 ye…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 06:45 PM
7

Yep, can't really blame us for making guys wait and being highly selective and cautious, especially after dealing with that shit for years.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 06:33 PM
4

They were never interested in anything serious to begin with Many of these guys will date you for a while in hopes of just having a sexual relationship or they just wanted a notch on their belt. Some openly lie about wanting a relationship and most I found just don't say anything in hopes that dangling that carrot of a possible relationship will get you in bed.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 06:29 PM
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You should tell a woman in advance before you do that. It should be a mutual agreement. Otherwise you are a complete douchebag. If you don't want a serious relationship, tell the woman before you sleep with her. Can't begin to tell you how often guys wait to get me into bed and then tell me they don't want anything serious. It's incredibly hurtful when that happens because women tend to get more attached after sex. So please be respectful and up front.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 06:21 PM
6

Just be you man
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 05:55 PM
4

Women are judged harshly too for not being married by 25. I'm considered a spinster because I'm almost 38 and never married. My family think something is wrong with me and quite frankly I'm getting sick and tired of being judged. I also recently realized that I'm Demisexual which is explains a lot I don't take relationships and marriages lightly. If I'm going to marry someone, it won't just be anyone, we have to have a deep and loving bond coupled with mutual respect and frankly that seems impos…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 03:41 PM
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If you have empathy you won't do things to hurt and manipulate women. I don't condone what you did to hurt her the first time but at least you realize that it's not going to get you what you really want in the relationship and all it will do is drive her away eventually. Plus nobody who is mentally stable wants to hurt or see their SO cry. It pisses me off that so many young and inexperienced men are being sucked into this cult and believing all this nonsense like dogma. This ideology was create…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 03:15 PM
1

All I have to say in response to all this nonsense is this: Real men don't care about women's virginity
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 03:07 PM
1

That's not true at all though
/r/ExRedPill26/09/20 06:53 PM
3

They need to get over it, so what if the guy she slept with before might be more attractive? Why do men have to make it all about themselves? And that's not true of all women, certainly not for myself.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/20 03:30 PM
0

Take a look at out closet genetic relatives, the bonobos and the chimps. Both are equally as close to us genetically, but there are stark differences in male and female behavior. The bonobo females have hidden fertility, like humans, for example. Bonobos have longer legs than chimps, similar to humans are well. The Bonobos are matriarchal and the Chimps are Patriarchal. Female Bonobos have a very close bond with each other because they have sex with each other, so it's a bi-sexual species. This …
/r/ExRedPill26/09/20 04:02 AM
2

I lost my virginity at 14, many others lose it around this age too, some even younger than that!
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 10:45 PM
10

There's not much skill involved in sex dude, seriously. I've been with about 20 men in my life and there hasn't been much difference between any of them no matter their experience. Stop making this all about you and your insecurities. It's not a big deal if you're a virgin and have no experience, women don't care.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 10:40 PM
3

"It's the women that are to blame" 😂
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 07:33 PM
3

I honestly would rather them bang sex dolls if they are that toxic, lol. At least they are not out hurting actual women.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 02:26 PM
2

Totally agree, I avoid them if I have a female user name because they always become abusive trolls, so why bother. I used to be subscribed to a relationship advice subreddit and was seriously disturbed by all the young virgin men out there who are terrified of even dating because they have subscribed to MGTOW or red pill. These boys have never even dated! They have absolutely no experience with women and are accepting this red pill stuff like religious dogma. I don't get it, why are so many inex…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 02:24 PM
3

I agree that you should seek counseling. I grew up with an unloving mother and abusive stepfather. My mom never showed any affection or even told us she loved us. I think it warped our sexuality in some ways. For example, I'm demisexual, my sister is greysexual and my brother is bisexual. I'm not saying these things are bad or always a result of emotional neglect or abuse, I just happened to notice it in myself and siblings. You can at least see the problem so you are off to a good start. I had …
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 02:01 PM
17

It certainly sells because blame shifting makes people feel better. When someone has a bad experience with a woman, it's easy to think "all women are like that", rather than accept that everyone is different or that they were at fault in any way.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/20 01:53 PM
9

Yes, unfortunately tv shows and movies have given both men and women unrealistic expectations of relationships. They have gotten better over time, but we still have work to do.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 10:14 PM
12

Good point, I'm pretty sure a girl would lose a lot of respect for someone who was pretending to be someone they are not.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 03:58 PM
9

Only someone with an unhealthy mindset, or a toxic person would use things you said to them in confidence against you. I grew up with a sister that did that to me all the time and I learned the hard way to bottle things up. I later realized she has ODD which is a personality disorder that includes some similar traits of narcissism. To me I feel closer to my partner when they open up to me. I've never used what they tell me against them or even brought it up for any reason unless they want to tal…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 03:50 PM
1

Oh that sucks, sorry to hear that
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 12:43 PM
2

Yeah it's incredibly hypocritical for them to accuse women of doing that when men do it all the damn time. The only reason they don't divorce is because it would cost money, take time, separate the family and just inconvenience them all around. Also, those guys like having multiple partners. Women get a divorce and marry a more established man and suddenly it's "hypergamy".. like bitch please 🙄
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 02:17 AM
1

I highly recommend checking this out, it's a vegan bodybuilder who says giving up dairy helped tremendously with his acne: https://metro.co.uk/2020/08/22/bodybuilder-shares-amazing-skin-transformation-ditching-dairy-clear-acne-13162599/
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 02:03 AM
2

Have you tried giving up dairy? The hormones in dairy can cause acne.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 02:01 AM
3

I'm sure the same would be true in the US, lol. We are just happy to find a guy who has a job a lot of the time 😅
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 02:00 AM
3

Men who are fit are better in bed too, just saying, lol
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 01:58 AM
3

There's a huge difference between feminists and feminazis. If you think women should be able to vote, have a job, get equal pay, have access to birth control, etc, then congratulations, you are a feminist.. feminazis are just extremists who hate men. They are very rare and I can assure you that they are the boogie man in the red pill community. They are a made up villain because there are so few of them.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 01:23 AM
5

Respect your girlfriends feelings, don't play games with her or you will indeed lose her.. It may work in the short term but we women slowly lose our love over time in these situations. Everytime you make her feel bad, everytime you play mind games, a piece of her love for you dies.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 01:16 AM
11

Lol, yeah he'll be single for the rest of his life with that attitude 😂 I'd be like, ok, good luck with that, lol
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 01:12 AM
13

Totally, he's going to attract Narcissistic women and that will only add fuel to the fire of believing in red pill. It's ok to have standards, but you have to be self aware and accept that women do really care about looks too, for the most part. If he's a 5 and expects a 10 in the looks department, he's going to be disappointed and bitter. Personality is very important because you don't want to end up with a self absorbed abusive person, nor would you want to end up with someone with a conflicti…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 01:08 AM
8

Yeah it's nonsensical since everyone in it seems to talk about it, make videos about it, post comments about it, etc. They just don't want to debate because they know their viewpoints can't be backed up with logic or reason or even statistics and facts. They often cherry pick things and misinterpret their findings. If there were to have legitimate debates, they would be easily exposed for this and they don't want that.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 09:37 PM
9

A very large amount imo, the rest are just confused and got sucked in for one reason or another.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 12:24 AM
1

Lol yeah good point
/r/ExRedPill20/09/20 01:55 PM
3

I'm talking about the people who want men with a criminal background and stuff. I was abused as a child too and I don't have a personality disorder. Like I said, I'm not saying they are all like that, but why would you even want to date someone who is looking for an abusive criminal anyway. They probably have mental issues.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/20 01:54 PM
3

It's not about making men pay, it's about protecting ourselves because it's so prevalent.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/20 12:36 AM
2

They also need to stop taking rejection so hard and just move on instead of calling us names. That would certainly help us to be more up front. They also need to stop assuming we are easy sluts if we happen to approach them.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/20 12:25 AM
2

I think women should do more approaching too, but here's the downfall of that. When we women tell men we are not interested, they either will not stop bothering us or they get incredibly mad and start calling us bitches and whores. Maybe you don't do this but it happens to us so often we rely instead to just be polite and give cues like not showing much interest, hoping you'll get the hint. Also, while I usually am the one to ask a guy out, one time a gave a guy I just happen to see in a restaur…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/20 12:22 AM
3

I don't like hookup culture either, you don't have to settle for that if you don't want to. A lot of times it's just luck. Don't be afraid to approach girls either and just talk to them, but you should be on the lookout for visual cues of interest. If they try to avoid looking at you, trying to talk to a friend, not really engaging just move on. If she seems warm and friendly you can keep talking to get to get to know her. If she likes your personality it should be obvious. Girls need to feel sa…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 11:59 PM
6

At your age no girl is going to care if you have a house, trust me. Most women at your age are just happy if a guy has a full time job. Also, a club is not a very good place to pick up women, unless you are just looking for one night stands or something.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 11:29 PM
7

How many of those were from other catfish? Catfishers catfishing cstfishers. There are a lot of fake female profiles out trying to fool guys too.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 11:26 PM
24

Definitely, and they usually have emotional or personality disorders too, not the type of women you'd even want to date. Not saying all women who were abused look for that type of guy, but it wouldn't surprise me.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 10:05 PM
10

It's fake, is not real, don't believe everything you see on the internet. Having a criminal background is a huge red flag that will turn most women away. When I was dating online I read all the profiles. I didn't message guys that had mostly different interests than me. And sure, looks matter for women, but they matter for men too! Seems extremely hypocritical to judge women for looking for attractive men. Physical appearance is only part of the equation, it may help you get your foot in the doo…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 10:03 PM
7

Well I live in the US and am a woman and can honestly tell you that our standards are not that high. Men's standards are equally as high or higher if you ask me. I can't begin to tell you how often men way overrate themselves as far as appearances go. In high school, I could not get a boyfriend because all the guys wanted super skinny chearleaders and I was in ROTC and about 10 pounds overweight. Standards have changed a little and now more men are accepting of a few extra pounds. That was simpl…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/20 06:34 PM
1

You know what you're probably right, lol
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 06:01 PM
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Sorry I don't agree with any of this.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 02:27 PM
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When you comes to dating the best thing to do is not have any expectations of finding a partner when you go out or do things. If you take up a hobby and meet up with a group for said hobby, do it for yourself instead of trying to do it to find someone. Finding a partner is not hunting, it's a fluid and natural thing You can also try dating apps, just be aware that there seem to be more Narcissists and sociopaths there than average. For red flags, look for the following: Love Bombing (if they are…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 02:21 PM
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Have you tried Tinder and being upfront about what you're looking for like "I'm just looking for casual hookups". As long as you tell them upfront, there's nothing to worry about. If they decide to still sleep with you that's on them.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 03:43 AM
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Oh ok, that's definitely not true then. I've had my fair share of mentally disordered men in my life (abused as a child from a man, abused again later by a man, etc), but I know not all men are disordered. No psychiatrist will say all women are like that either and I think I'd believe an expert in the field over "bro-science" any day, lol.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 03:18 AM
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There are different kinds of love, maybe they want women to love them unconditionally like a child or a parent, but that's impossible. If someone treats you like shit, why would you stick around with them? If someone doesn't contribute to the relationship, why bother? With kids, it's your job to be there no matter what, you can't have the same expectations with a grown adult.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 02:45 AM
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Only people with personality disorders are incapable of love. Again they are either projecting (because maybe they don't know wtf love is) or lumping all women with personality disordered women.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 02:43 AM
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Anytime!
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 02:38 AM
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Yes that is true, I don't know of many people except my boyfriend who's had to pay alimony. My dad didn't when he got a divorce, just child support. My boyfriend had to pay alimony because his ex wife was a homemaker. Recently she got a job and had finished her education, but they take that into consideration before determining how much he has to pay. I don't know for how long he has to pay it though.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 02:32 AM
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If you're rich but you treat your wife like shit, of course she's not going to be happy. These types of men think they can just throw money at someone and have a perfect relationship. That's not how relationships work. You have to be there for your partner, listen to them, respect them, help them out, be a good attentive partner, etc, it's give and take. As far as the Will Smith thing goes, I think his wife was tired of his controlling behavior from the interviews that I watched. Like, who cares…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 12:18 AM
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You need more interesting titles, something to draw people's attention. Like on each video, what exactly will you be taking about? If it's "Red Pill" then put that in the title. Make each title unique and different. Also, use more enticing thumbnails if you can. I usually just make mine using Word, lol. Don't use generic titles like "Pop Culture Discussion #1, #2, 3, ect".
/r/ExRedPill18/09/20 12:08 AM
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This guy is horny for computers lol
/r/ExRedPill17/09/20 08:14 PM
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Lol 🤣
/r/ExRedPill17/09/20 08:13 PM
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Not at all, they are being overly dramatic. I'm not a believer in alimony though just because a woman is "used to a certain lifestyle", that's just ridiculous imo. I do think that someone who was a homemaker most or all of the marriage should be given alimony for a certain period of time that will allow them to get an education and job experience. I don't agree with lifetime alimony either. If there are states with that, they should do away with it.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/20 08:11 PM
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Yeah, we have to be pickier because there is so much at stake if we're not. If our children are not healthy or have issues, that's a huge burden on the woman and the child. We are supposed to be selective.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/20 01:56 PM
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I certainly think it started from Narcissists who are encouraging their own toxic traits to others. Many who have these traits or disorders will also be attracted to their ideology. And then there are those who are just confused or upset that take what they say as dogma and get sucked into it. In psychology they say that mental illness and personality disorders can be contagious in a way. But fortunately it's not permanent for those who don't actually have a personality disorder or mental illnes…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 11:35 PM
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Yeah there is definitely a lot of entitlement in the red pill community, as well as a lack of self reflection and accountability.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 10:56 PM
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And men wonder why women lie about how many men they've slept with. We are always judged for it. Best just not to ask your partner, who cares who've they've been with before. Sleeping with someone doesn't taint you in anyway. Like the guy's DNA doesn't merge with the woman or some shit lol. Perhaps they are worried that you will sleep around. But that still doesn't suggest that a woman is going to cheat on you if she's been with a lot of guys before. It's just more ridiculous double standard bul…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 12:37 AM
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True that!
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah it's an unfortunate misconception. Sure there are vegan activists who are trying to educate people about the treatment of animals in factory farms and stuff, but most of us just kinda keep to ourselves.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 02:23 PM
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It's just a moral standpoint. I don't eat animal products. It's not a cult to love animals and not want to eat them.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 01:05 PM
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Your ex sounds confused too. It's not a man's job to seduce a woman. You respected her boundaries and her wishes, you did nothing wrong. That's her problem for expecting you to go against your morals. Good thing she is your ex.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 01:03 PM
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You sound pretty confused and I'm sorry you were made to feel like a creep. There's nothing wrong with your sexual urges and acting on them, especially when you are in a relationship. You mentioned your ex and not sleeping with her. Are you still a virgin? In situations like that, that's when you "test the waters" (like touching certain areas, or taking off cloths, etc) with how far you can go. If she feels uncomfortable or says no, that's when you stop. Women are sexual creatures too and we are…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 03:00 AM
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If you are trying to hard, women can pick up on that. Just be yourself and relaxed without any expectations. Women don't like to feel the pressure right off the bat.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 02:44 AM
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I used to be subbed to his channel until he started shit talking vegans, but I think this is helpful as I see red pill as a cult. (Veganism is not a cult, it's a moral Philosophy, something he and I disagree on apparently)
/r/ExRedPill15/09/20 02:37 AM
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Most women don't have a harem of men, lol. If we have slept with a lot of men, it's not because we're having a lot of one night stands. I went many years going from one relationship to the next because the men waited to get me into bed before telling me they didn't want anything serious. So like two-three month relationships over a span of years. I hated it! Worst fucking years of my life. Women are also mostly monogamous. I don't know any women personally that has ever had more than one boyfrie…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 08:41 PM
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Idk, I'm a demisexual woman. What I find attractive probably makes no sense to most people lol. You may see me with hot guys or "ugly" guys, but I tend to fall for personality more than anything.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 08:32 PM
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Yeah I agree, unfortunately it sells better.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 07:49 PM
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Not if it's treated like doctrine and many guys never move away from the idea that "all women are like that". Sure, after a break up or dealing with abuse we all get angry at the opposite gender for a breif while. The issue is is that there's an online group saying all women are bitches and treating that concept like some sort of religious dogma. It's not helpful and it's only hurting men and women more.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 12:33 PM
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My brother is bi and is married to a woman, he seems pretty happy. It's up to you, the red pill is just lies and bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:26 AM
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True
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:23 AM
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It's not very conducive or helpful to have that mentality at all.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:21 AM
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Thanks, I'm doing good these days. I got on medication as well for the depression and PTSD. Luckily I have a good father who got custody of me when I was 11 after he found out about the abuse.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:16 AM
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You can't love someone if you don't understand them. If you don't understand them, then you don't truly know them now do you? Take the time to get to know them, ask them questions about themselves, pay attention to their actions, etc. I used to have issues with women too, until I learned to love myself. I am a woman too but I still felt we women were inferior to men in many ways. Unfortunately that was a product of my religious and societal upbringing. Once I shed that belief, I looked at women …
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:14 AM
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Good point, it's always about that feeling of power over someone. That's why we had such a bloody battle over slaves. People will literally die to keep themselves in power over someone and that's just fucking pathetic if you ask me.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:09 AM
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Lol, there are shitty people everywhere man, doesn't matter if it's a small town or a big city. I've lived in both.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:05 AM
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Idk. I grew up in an abusive, religious home. My stepfather beat the shit out of me for no reason all the time. My submissive mother turned a blind eye to it. I have been terrified of being dependant on a man because of my upbringing. I am a single woman with my own house, yet I still managed to end up in an abusive relationship. But the difference was, I wasn't dependant and I was able to get him out of my house eventually. I lived in fear for several years that he would come and kill me like h…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 02:02 AM
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Where are the equivalent women's group for women who suffered abuse and death from the hands of men? Oh that's right, we don't have one because we know that all men aren't like that.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 01:57 AM
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What's appealing about the red pill is that it diverts blame and accountability away from the man and directs it to women. I honestly think the men who started this whole fad are a bunch of Narcissists and Sociopaths. Of course a woman is going to leave you when you are abusive or treating her like shit, ignoring her, being lazy and not helping out, have no drive in life, cheating on her, ect. It's far too easy to blame someone else instead of owning up to your part in the breakdown of a relatio…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 01:52 AM
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Don't believe pretty much anything you read on the internet, that's the golden rule of the internet. You are right about those "field reports". They are fantasies or delusions or just straight up lies for attention or to make red pill look better, etc. There are many many liars and cons out there. For example, a friend of mine had some story about the woods in our town posted on some ghost hunting web site, said they were haunted and you could hear screaming there at night, etc. He thought it wa…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 01:46 AM
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Definitely neck beard shit right there. Negging does not work with most women either. You're lucky you don't get slapped, honestly, lol.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 01:37 AM
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Sounds like you have some work to do with detoxing from Red pill. You are also misinterpreting or misunderstanding the data. While men have higher success rates with suicide, more women suffer from depression and attempt suicide than men: https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190313-why-more-men-kill-themselves-than-women Also, for custody, women are awarded custody because they are often seen as the more nurturing caretakers. You can still get 50/50 custody if both parties agree. One example is,…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 12:05 AM
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I provide for myself.. Many women do these days. We don't need men to provide for us, thank God, but we still would like to have a man in our lives. Seems like you are projecting many of your insecurities here.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 10:32 PM
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You should reach out to her.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 07:53 PM
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I certainly wouldn't think less of a man who cried. Unfortunately this attitude can extend to both men and women. Both genders are raised to believe that boys are less emotional than women, so women get confused when men express themselves. There really needs to be a paradigm shift when it comes to raising our children. We need to instill the acceptance of expressing our emotions for boys and not tell them to "toughen up" and "stop crying like a little girl", and all those other destructive phra…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 07:50 PM
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If a woman doesn't want to commit, stop sleeping with them and move on. I have been having the same issues with men for years. I don't sleep around either and never on the first date, but still they have the nerve to wait until after we sleep together that they are not interested in a relationship. It sucks and it hurts, but try getting to know women before you sleep with them and tell them what you are looking for up front, so you don't end up wasting time.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 05:38 PM
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Did you try reaching out to her after that day to find out what happened? Did she block you? I think you are being a bit paranoid about her finding your reddit account, not everyone is on reddit. Also, it's wrong for people to ghost, whether from a man or a woman, but believe me when I say that we women get our fair share of ghosting from guys too, so I know how painful it can be. If you never hear back from her, take the L, you dodged a bullet. Nobody who is mentally stable would do that.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 05:29 PM
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Wow, that's some crazy nonsense, most women hate cheating, lol. It's actually a deal breaker for almost all of us. Only women with mental issues or are just there for the money or whatever are willing to put up with that crap.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 04:43 PM
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There are some YouTube videos that are very good and interesting that show just how much it is a cult also. Unfortunately they have been trolled by MGTOW people (They are all over YouTube!) And downvoted into oblivion, but just ignore that. As far as the hypergamy, you are totally right. So many times I see men cheat on their wife or run off with a younger, more attractive woman. Both genders are guilty of doing this, so it's just pure projection!
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 01:28 AM
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I've never been on 4chan in my life so I could care less lol
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 01:23 AM
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Unfortunately most men take our friendliness the wrong way. I can't have any male friends because they always end up trying to sleep with me. Most of them were married too. I lost friends and it was depressing, but I learned it's just not possible. Maybe if I was morbidly obese they would be ok with just being friends. But if you are even slightly attractive and open up even a little bit with guys, they see it as an invitation from you that you are interested in sex for some reason 🙄
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 01:18 AM
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Lol, that certainly doesn't work at all. For some women it might work, but it's only short term and they eventually get fed up and leave.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 01:15 AM
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Hate is a very addictive drug.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 01:12 AM
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Seems like it's just full of dumb memes, lol.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 08:27 PM
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Thanks, I'm going to look into it
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 08:17 PM
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I'm talking about the men in those groups. Like seriously? You are just proving my point lol fuck 😂🙄🤦‍♀️ Edit: just to be clear, I was talking about how MGTOW say "all women are that way" And you went off and cried, "not all men!" .. Do you see my point now?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 08:08 PM
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What is FDS? Sorry i have never heard of that before.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 08:01 PM
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What are you even talking about, I didn't say anything about misogyny. And I wasn't talking about posts where people say "all men are x,y,z" ... Did you even read my comment, ffs
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 07:59 PM
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So women can't be on here to help too? Maybe to help guys see that they've been pulled into a cult that brainwashed them against women and that we are not ALL like they say we are?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 07:52 PM
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I've been in abusive relationships too. My advice is as soon as any abusive behaviors start too show, break up with them immediately. Pay attention to those red flags. I remember I was going to break up with one guy because I started to feel like he was mocking me and being a bit abusive and that our personalities just weren't matching, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt and that was a horrible mistake. The abuse just got worse and then I found out he was cheating on me the whole time.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 07:49 PM
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I think at first it came from guys who were going through a divorce and were angry about having to pay alimony and child support. They may have also been with women with personality disorders or they are the ones with the problems, are completely unable to take any accountability and project all of their issues onto women. I noticed that on other sites, men are the first to cry "not all men!" when women talk about issues they have with men, like being afraid to walk alone at night, ect. Like duh…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 07:46 PM
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I know right, I've had men do some very shitty things to me and I don't turn around and hate all men, lol
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 07:40 PM
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Also, here is a source of you are curious about the gender differences in Borderline. The belief that more women than men suffer from Borderline is an old belief and has been studied and debunked: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3115767/
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 07:19 PM
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Isn't BPD something that only girls have? Umm no dude, where on Earth did you hear that.. Let me guess, the red pill community. Well, that's certainly not true, both men and women can have this. For the sex thing, I think the first date is too soon, unless you already know that person pretty well. A woman is not going to be offended at all if you tell her you want to date a few times first, you actually probably impress her. Whenever you start dating just let the girl know that you want to take …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 07:08 PM
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I had rape fantasies too, but they were always super hot guys that I would initially try to run away from but then went along with it, so could it really be rape? Also those fantasies disappeared after I was actually raped.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:53 PM
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Um, definitely not for me and I happen to be a woman. Only the soft core stuff, thanks, lol
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:52 PM
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My abusive ex seemed like a great guy too. He was an aircraft inspector so he had a really good career. Shortly after we started dating suddenly he was "fired". I felt bad for him and said he could move in with me. He never got another job and mooched off of me for three years. He was also very controlling and emotionally abusive. It just got worse and worse until he was starting to get physically abusive with both my daughter and I so I packed my shit and left my own house with my daughter for …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:43 PM
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It is actually VERY usual.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:39 PM
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Thank you, I'm sorry to hear about all the crazy shit you went through too, what happened with that dead hooker? I hope you are doing good now.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:38 PM
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Thanks, but he was the one who moved back to his home country. He couldn't keep a job and burned every bridge he had left here in the US.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:36 PM
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Oh God, I feel you, same shit here, finding a decent man seems next to impossible sometimes. I was too afraid to file a restraining order on my abusive ex because he threatened to kill me. But he eventually moved to another country thank God.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:34 PM
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Sounds like you have Borderline or Borderline traits, I suggest therapy to work on your fears of abandonment. You also need to be deprogrammed by the red pill cult. I suggest hypnotherapy or self hypnotherapy with positive suggestions about yourself and relationships. As a woman, it's been a struggle getting guys to commit, often time WE are seen as disposable sex objects to be used by men and it's very depressing. Also, are you absolutely sure your girlfriends were having sex with other men or …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:26 PM
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That's weird, but you are right about Buttigieg.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:21 PM
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I just went to go check out that community and damn it's pretty toxic. Pretty obvious it's full of immature idiots with a possible personality disorder.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:20 PM
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Oh sorry, thanks, I guess I need more coffee lol
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:15 PM
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Wow you sound very immature, grow up
/r/askTRP27/08/20 04:12 PM
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Just out of curiosity what did you ask?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:11 PM
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The shit test is not real, most women don't do that. I certainly don't. Only women with personality disorders do that.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:10 PM
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Same, so many times after several dates and we sleep together it's suddenly "oh I'm not interested in anything serious" I can't enjoy sex without an emotional connection, so I stop seeing the guy.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/20 06:39 PM
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It's easier for women to get sex, not relationships. We want relationships but most men don't want to commit.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/20 03:45 PM
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My daughter's father got me pregnant without my consent and then bailed when I was six months pregnant. He later admitted to me that he got me pregnant on purpose. He started cheating on me and treating me like shit. He has been fighting against paying child support all of my daughter's life and she is 17 now. He also never bothered to call her on birthdays or holidays, never sent gifts or Christmas cards, ect. My daughter was born physically disabled and he wanted nothing to do with that either…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 04:46 PM
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My dad's father died right after he was born and he turned out just fine and he's a really great dad raised by a strong woman, my grandmother, may she rest in peace.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 04:35 PM
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Umm.. did SHE say she was interested in threesome's? You do realize that threesome's are also a man's fantasy too right? Your attitude seems very hypocritical here.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 04:28 PM
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If she is stressed, maybe just give her some space for a while.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 04:26 PM
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Sexism, misogyny, racism, bigotry, homophobia and groups that just make up shit about a certain group of people to create more hate against them shouldn't be encouraged. Also, it's not censorship if it's on a private platform. It's only censorship when the government gets involved and starts telling us what we can and can't post. If you don't like how a company runs things, go elsewhere. That's just how it is.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 04:12 PM
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I can't believe how many young virgin boys are watching that shit. You're really fucking up your head with that, please stop watching it. I'm a girl and I didn't have any boyfriends in high school, not even a prom date. I think it was because I was 10 pounds overweight. And yet so many boys are whining about how they can't get laid in high school 🤦‍♀️ Both boys and girls are very picky at that age. All of the boys are constantly chasing after the hottest girls and then wondering why they can't g…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 03:58 PM
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I'm a woman and I'm demisexual, many of us are. I don't drool over Chads, personality and shared interests mean a lot more to me than how a guy looks. We are also sensitive and can pick up on your intentions and any mental health problems. So if you are giving off a bad vibe, you could be the hottest guy on the planet and we would run in the other direction. Here are some tips: women need to feel safe, we don't like being approached by random guys on the street asking for our number. It's best t…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 03:40 PM
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We are nothing like they say in MGTOW or red pill. Just take everything you learned from them and flush it down the proverbial toilet because it's all bullshit. That group was started by disgruntled men who found it easier to just blame all women on the issues they were having in their personal life. It has unfortunately caused a great deal of harm to both men and women. If you haven't already, I suggest you read the pinned topic they have here with links to detoxing from red pill.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 03:24 PM
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These days, women can get jobs and support themselves, that is why divorce is on the rise. Women don't feel obligated to stay with cheating, abusive husbands anymore.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 03:11 PM
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I can't read it
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 02:59 PM
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Yes! This exactly, most of us women have no interest in casual hookups! I literally cannot get in the mood if I can tell the guy is just with me for sex.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 02:32 AM
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After 20 years once a week is actually pretty good. She's with you because she loves you man, it has nothing to do with how you look. Also with the dating, it's not easier for women. Sure, we get a lot more guys but most of them are creeps, way older than us, morbidly obese, have no job, have a mental illness, etc. It doesn't matter if we're a 10 or are way out of their league, you'll be shocked to hear about all the entitled, ugly thirsty losers there are that hit up our inbox. Then when we fin…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 02:19 AM
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