I broke up with a red pill man a few months ago. It was after 3 basic things in a week... he spoke condescendingly to me (my son agrees), he forwarded a video titled "3 reasons why women shouldn't vote", then basically ignored my pain and need to talk about it...I waited until we both had a day off and texted .. he didn't reply until about 8 hours later and then proceeded to tell me he would text after playing a video game (he knew I was hurt).

Okay, I've shared that before. But, today I was thinking (yes, I shouldn't still think about it...I know) and I remember during the breakup conversation he mentioned that I might be too sensitive.

Well, today I thought about the fact that he's sensitive to strangers making assumptions about men (I agree it's bad to make assumptions about either gender). He might not show his sensitivity the same way I do, but if he wasn't sensitive at all...it wouldn't bother him.

So, why in the world would he not realize that sending me that video would upset me? Especially because someone I know personally sent the video. The video basically labels women as greedy, irresponsible, emotionally driven idiots.