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| 3 | I guess looks are almost everything when it comes to datingYou have to think of the god things about yourself and constantly remember what truly makes you valuable. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 18 | I guess looks are almost everything when it comes to datingYou're assuming a lot from what I read. If you think his height is the key, you'll go around with a chip on your shoulder that will affect every interaction you have with women. Men of varying heights date all the time. Short men get dates, relationships, and get married. Also, not hanging around a friend because he is getting attention from women is jealousy and also not good for you moving forward. I used to be painfully shy, and my best friend was the opposite. He looks were comparable to min… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | are house chores/being a stay att home parent/wife/husband really that much harder then working away form home like feminists say it is?And we could charge for listening to bs and bragging. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/24 05:04 PM |
| 3 | What's the true history of marital rape?Do you think that's bad? Do you think it's good or bad that men and women have to consent to sex during marriage and that it's not automatically? | /r/MensRights | 28/10/24 11:35 AM |
| 0 | What's the true history of marital rape?Not sure where you pulled that lie from. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/24 12:52 AM |
| 4 | What's the true history of marital rape?That's the problem, though. Consent to sex is not given automatically, just based on marriage. No one, man or women, should feel obligated to have sex just because they are married. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/24 12:51 AM |
| -9 | What's the true history of marital rape?"Women want to be absolved of all responsibilities" That's a LARGE statement filled with error. Not all women... just like not all men. Neither gender is a monolith. Is sex a responsibility? If it is, is it in the same category as cleaning, paying bills etc.? Also if sex is a woman's responsibility, wouldn't non- sexual touch be a man's responsibility since it seems like so many men are deprived of sex and so many women are deprived of non- sexual touch? How much sex is under the umbrella of tha… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/24 12:48 AM |
| 0 | are house chores/being a stay att home parent/wife/husband really that much harder then working away form home like feminists say it is?I agree that most women are not goddesses, but I disagree that most women do the bare minimum. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/24 09:30 PM |
| -2 | are house chores/being a stay att home parent/wife/husband really that much harder then working away form home like feminists say it is?That the argument that men DO the maintenance is not true in many cases. Yes, it's also true that some women don't have to do the cleaning. But the argument was stated as if in the setting where a woman does those things, the man's contribution is being overlooked. That's not always he case | /r/MensRights | 27/10/24 09:14 PM |
| 4 | are house chores/being a stay att home parent/wife/husband really that much harder then working away form home like feminists say it is?Well, the car thing is not true. I'm not rich but I've had to pay for all my car maintenance. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | are house chores/being a stay att home parent/wife/husband really that much harder then working away form home like feminists say it is?I can't speak for anyone besides myself. I'm a woman and have never been a SAHM, nor did I ever want to be. Why? It's risky and unfulfilling. I'm glad I'm a mom, but I definitely did not want my whole identity to be wrapped up in raising my son. My son is grown now - almost 30. I don't think doing chores is hard unless you have several small children or special needs children or some other factor that adds to the load of responsibilities. I personally think it's just mentally limiting, especiall… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/24 04:13 PM |
| 6 | are house chores/being a stay att home parent/wife/husband really that much harder then working away form home like feminists say it is?There is a good number of men that don't do home maintenance, and if someone (man or woman) can and does pay someone what to do it, that's fine. Sometimes no one factors that in. I've only had 3 relationships and of those only one would attempt maintenance of any kind. Now I have gone on dates and have male friends that do a lot of their own maintenance. (No, I've never used them to fix anything for me). So there's men that do it and men that don't. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it me, or does it seem only men are told they need to work on their personality/character.etc?Again, you are spouting mamosphere bs that is true for SOME women, but is false for just as many or more. You state something about how women who give little effort or care in doing what the man likes won't be satisfied with a man who gives little effort or care to what she likes. LOOK around - it happens all the time. Now, it's not all women that are good to men, but there are plenty that are, and they get little to nothing in return... JUST like there are good men that get nothing in return. M… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/24 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it me, or does it seem only men are told they need to work on their personality/character.etc?You really don't understand the real world, do you? Women can find sex easily. Why, because many MEN are so horny that they will lower their standards. Some will be honest about it just being about sex. Some will not say anything and just hope she doesn't get her hopes up, and some will straight-up lie. Not all men. Just the horny ones who let their hormones dictate their choices. As far as some men truly wanting a relationship with a woman JUST because she's attractive to him and nice. That's t… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it me, or does it seem only men are told they need to work on their personality/character.etc?YOU are spouting a lot of statements as if they are facts. You DON'T know the reasons for all divorces. From what I've read, it's usually infidelity, lack of commitment, and abuse. Yet, men like you will say it's just a woman "monkey branching." But, above anything else I could say... you aren't looking at the world around you. Average people dating and marrying average people. It happens ALL the time. Height - cool, women have preferences. Guess what? Some men prefer very short women. I know be… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/24 03:08 AM |
| -7 | Is it me, or does it seem only men are told they need to work on their personality/character.etc?So, who are their partners, assuming we're speaking about heterosexual people? This is the disconnect that many in the manosphere don't see, even though it's not even hidden in the slightest. I'm only referring to heterosexual people. If a woman gets a partner, a man is getting a partner also. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/24 01:48 AM |
| -1 | A disturbing trend in my social circle:Neither are okay. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 09:13 PM |
| 0 | A disturbing trend in my social circle:Exactly! So, you see my point. I don't agree with man hating posts either. Women aren't all the same. Just like men aren't all the same. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 04:01 PM |
| -50 | A disturbing trend in my social circle:That's not true across the board. It's not anymore true than, "men actually hate women, but are only attracted to the female body" trope that's out there One thing about this sub- plenty of men acting as if they care about men's rights, but actually hate women (not all men and not all men here, but it happens frequently). It's actually kinda predictable. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/24 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupThen you don't value things that don't pay someone directly in cash. How sad. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupIt's not unfair unless one person in the marriage doesn't want that set up OR they can't afford to live on one income. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/24 01:13 AM |
| 0 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupAnd you seem to dismiss my whole comment. You are biased. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 09:08 PM |
| 0 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupIt's very interesting that you use small percentage of women to "prove" women's irrationality. Do you do the same with men? Men commit the VAST majority of violent crimes. It's almost always men who decide to kill their spouse AND their children. Not always, but most of the time. Serial killers- almost always men. People who behave irrationally after their team loses a game? Mostly men | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 2 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupI agree... partly. There are so many married people who are only married on paper. It's sad. I don't see the point in staying married to avoid divorce. Should a man stay married if she NEVER wants sex and has no physical or traumatic reason to not want sex? | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 04:35 PM |
| -1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupListening to some of it...he gives the same biased talking points. Being fatherless is a problem, but the issues that come with that are not SOLELY because of being raised by a single mom. It's very EASY to jump on statistics and say, "See, I'm right. Women are not as good at parenting." But, you have no proof. Since child custody is normally awarded to the mom by default and many men don't fight or don't want to fight, most moms have primary custody. That means a VARIED mix of mothers will be j… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupMaybe you misunderstood my point. There are various reasons for divorce other than cheating or abuse. If a woman divorces a man that is practically never home except to sleep because he's always with his buddies. Or he plays video games for HOURS every day. That should not affect of she gets alimony or not. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupHypergamy- think about it - more men make more money. Statistically, more women are going to be with men who earn more. Hybristophilia- again... more men commit crimes or at least violent ones. The percentage of women wanting to be with violent criminals is small. Now explain why it's vastly more men that commit violent crime and sexual crimes against minors... then come back and try to make men seem altruistic as a gender. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupThat's hilarious. Men probably do stay married TO AVOID the costs of divorce. I'm not agreeing with all the costs of every divorce. I believe it should be a case by case decision. Some men are good men, but the bad ones don't stay married or of loyalty. They stay married to avoid the mess and financial burden of divorce. Should the laws change? Yes, but not completely. It should be reviewed case by case. Oh, and child support on average is not that high AND men can win primary custody IF they tr… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupIf the woman was a SAHM for years and they divorce. Divorce isn't valid just because of cheating or abuse. Do you think a man should stay in a sexless marriage? Do you think a man should stay married if the woman doesn't cook, clean, etc...especially if she is out with friends most evenings... even if she's faithfu Do you think a man should stay married if she doesn't want to sleep in the same bed or have conversations, but instead she wants to play video games? | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupLike I said... too many variables to make a blanket statement. But, if someone is a SAHM, and truly does what a SAHM should do, that is worth something. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupIt makes sense to YOU. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupGood question ... there are way too many variables to answer this easily. Examples- If she had been a SAHM for many years, she should get some alimony. She made an investment in THEIR children that can't be properly measured. She lost potential earnings and growth in a career. If she stayed home for just a few years but has since been in the workplace and is earning a decent amount, no alimony should be given. Child support should be considered based on other factors. But that's just two example… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupCan you explain what you mean by by unfair? | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 03:43 PM |
| 0 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupI don't think it will. Both parents deserve to be parents unless there are legit reasons to bar them from parenting. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupYes, but that doesn't show who ruins the relationship more often. If men are financially strapped in a divorce, they are likely to avoid divorce, right? Doesn't mean that they are ideal, perfect partners though. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupSo... in other words... Men aren't continually happy in marriage either. We can't stay young and fertile nor necessarily beautiful in a man's opinion. Perhaps men don't file for divorce because of the consequences, but that doesn't mean that ALL those "non- filing for divorce" men are staying faithful and kind and attentive. Note- that does not mean I think all men cheat or stop being attentive, etc. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 08:59 AM |
| 1 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupI believe default should be 50/50 custody and then legally decided based on what is best in each situation. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 08:54 AM |
| 0 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupIf all the money goes to the person who directly earned it, you're really not being fair to SAHM. note, I was not a SAHM, so this doesn't affect me | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 08:52 AM |
| 3 | How can we make women happy in marriages? Women break up the home In every groupMarriage IMO is often entered into too lightly. I don't think women end the relationships more often in heterosexual relationships. I think they just FILE more often. Why would men file for divorce and lose so much? I believe men might try to stay legally married more often just to avoid the financial burden of divorcing. That doesn't mean all men are bad and just staying married for that reason. It just means that bad men, cheaters and such, have an incentive to NOT divorce. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 08:48 AM |
| -1 | The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blamingI see your point, but eventually, it will backfire. What I see is that some women swung the pendulum way too far, and they are the loud women. Also, we have to remember that not all women are out here doing horrific things to men even though some women are AND not all men are innocent of wrongdoing towards women and some of those men are getting away with it. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 04:58 PM |
| -6 | The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blamingNot everyone, but that was a witty response. Don't mistake social media for real life. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 03:45 PM |
| -7 | The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blamingThen, that's even worse. You're not helping anyone. You're just poking the bear. Do you realize that most the problems between the genders is retaliation? | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 03:04 PM |
| -7 | The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blamingWow. You are as toxic as a toxic woman. Women have risked their lives just to give birth for eons. Only very recently in history has child birth become somewhat safe. Without taking that risk, humanity would have ceased. way to downplay that FACT Men chose the dynamic of women having the "easier" life, didn't they? Easier doesn't mean freer. Let me ask you, would you give up a large measure of your freedom for "ease?" MEN did not do this alone. Men are very important to society, but so are women… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 03:02 PM |
| -5 | The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blamingYou might be 100% right about why most men feel suicidal, but you are way wrong to downplay why women are suicidal. You are doing the EXACT same thing this post is talking about, just with the genders reversed. This gender "war" over which gender has it worse helps absolutely no one. Every case of suffering is individual. The degree of suffering is not based on gender. Please, take a step back and look at what you wrote objectively. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/24 02:53 PM |
| -7 | Women can't took adviceThat's definitely not a gender specific issue. As much as the men in this group would like to believe, there is no proof of women being less likely to take advice or accountability. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Am I the problem?The person initiating isn't always the one that cheats or abuses, etc. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 10:32 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayThat's not what they said. If a man has sex with a woman who doesn't try to satisfy his desires.... to be touched the way HE likes, to go down on him the way HE likes, the way HE likes kissing and caressing... surely, he will get bored or frustrated with her. He can still get himself, and that can be done with her or without her. But what fun would it be if he orgasmed every time, but she didn't touch or kiss or participate enthusiastically? So... women want a man to do things SHE likes. MOST wo… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayYou're leaving out a HUGE factor. A woman can kill without doing it physically herself. So.... Men tend to be violent more often in general | /r/MensRights | 28/07/24 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayThat's a false statement. Facts over feelings. You have none. Are some women? Yes Are some men? Yes | /r/MensRights | 27/07/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayI don't really think you even have proof of this. YES, some women want money and don't care about love. However, some men want sex and some arm candy and don't care about love. You are not using logic. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayAnd your statement that most relationships have no reported interpersonal violence is probably true, YET no one knows how many of those have violence that's not reported. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/24 06:30 AM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayNo one can KNOW who is underreporting for sure. If a person never calls, no one ever knows. Look at violent crime stats in general, men are by far the majority. All in all, men aren't inherently better and neither are women. Which gender is more or less violent overall is really unknown. No expert knows, and no one else does either. There is one indisputable fact, women are much more likely to be violently killed by their husband or boyfriend. It does happen the other way around, but not near as… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a need for men and that's okaySince you've never experienced the other side of things- let me tell you what it's like. It's not better for women. Women are very often just used for sex under the pretense of something more. Now, to some men that might not seem to be something to complain about, but then those men aren't looking at it from a woman's perspective. It's probably very close to men not wanting to be used for money. Dating for men or women is sorting through the trash to find the gold. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayYou stated that women tend to look at it materialistically. You cannot prove that. Of course, there are women like that, but a whole lot more that don't get a lot of things in the transaction and many that bring close to our more money into the relationship now. That's a biased view... tending to see women more negatively than men. Men aren't inherently better. Women aren't inherently better. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayAnd so are women. The things they provide might be different, but no man is going to love a woman for long if they stop providing any benefit to him.. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayNow, see that's where you show your bias. There are plenty of men that only love if the woman is beautiful or GREAT in bed, or serves him constantly even if she works. There are plenty of materialistic women that only love if they are given things and treated like a princess. However, there are plenty of women and men that love for more important reasons. Yes, it's true unconditional love is impossible. However, some people love their partner for who they are and not stuff and status. The notion… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 08:19 PM |
| -1 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayI'm not sure you have proof of your assertions. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayIt's very convenient to use the lower levels of reporting when it makes your side look better, but even more convenient to throw that away to keep your side looking better. Do you know what percent don't report and exactly why they don't report? It could be just embarrassment about being abused period. It could be hoping that things will get better. It could be fear that things will get worse IF they report. Bottom line- there's too many unknowns. I could EASILY assert that women report less oft… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayDon't forget that many men point out that men report less often, but then don't think of that when they point out these stats. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayThat's simply not true. I've seen women love men and men love women. NOT all women are transactional in the way you describe (selfish, materialistic). There's good and bad in both genders. Men aren't inherently better or worse than women. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a need for men and that's okayI personally think it's fine for men to have high sex drives. It's even fine to classify it as a need. It's not a need as in a life sustaining need such as water, air, and food, etc, but it can be a relationship need and an emotional need and even a health need. I will say the same goes for a woman wanting affection. Just repeat the above with that in mind. However, I believe the problem starts with demands for either. No one is entitled to affection or sex. I do think both partners should recip… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | It’s time to start calling out the radicalsPerhaps, you're assuming I do nothing. I'm not sure if that's what you think. I should not assume. But, I will just say that I do stand up for people that are being maligned. I don't stay quiet when a woman says "all men." | /r/MensRights | 30/03/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I refute this pro-alimony argument?Child support is not disguised alimony. I'm most cases CS is minimal. I am not saying every mom should get a load of cs. I actually think CS should go to the parent that needs it. If the man takes care of the kids more often and therefore can't work a job with a weird schedule or long hours etc., he should get CS. That's just one example I can think of. I also don't think CS is needed in every situation. I also don't think CS should be just a percent of a man or woman's income. It should go be r… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | It’s time to start calling out the radicalsWomen are not inherently emotionally driven any more than men are. There's no hard even that proves men make more rational decisions as a whole. I'm not saying women are inherently better at rational decision making. I'm saying gender has no influence on the OVERALL rationality a person possesses. Women might cry more often, but men rage more often. Any half hearted attempt to research violent crime statistics proves that men are more frequently violent. A huge percentage of violent crime is com… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 10:43 PM |
| 5 | It’s time to start calling out the radicalsAren't you a woman? Are you trying to prove to these men just how awesome and different you are? Come on... you can't say "all women...." and act like a white knight while demonizing your own gender. I'm against negatively stereotyping men, but I'm also against negatively stereotyping women. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 02:38 AM |
| 3 | It’s time to start calling out the radicalsWhat's really revealing and quite interesting is that you are calling out women who demonize men as a whole WHILE demonizing women as a whole. We are as varied as men are. Some women adore men as a whole (pick me women, delusional women), some hate men as a whole (extreme feminists). Either extreme is bad. However, as with many, many other issues discussed on social media, it's presented as a dichotomy. It's talked about as if you can only be on one extreme or the other. Most people are in the m… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 02:34 AM |
| 8 | It’s time to start calling out the radicalsNo, not all women have adopted this idea. The loud ones, especially on social media have, but there's plenty of women that don't demonize men as a whole. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | A classmate said she thought I was gay because I didn't leer at her. It's not the first time a woman has complained for not being stared at.I think it depends on the individual woman's self-esteem. I went through a brief period where the only way I felt good about myself was if a man gave me attention. I never shamed a man for NOT giving me attention, though. I'm not a high-ranking beauty, so I never really expected most men to give me attention. I grew out of that and based my self-esteem on healthier things. I no longer need a man's attention to feel good about myself. While I'm not against being in a relationship, I'm not pursuin… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 08:35 PM |
| 4 | The vast majority of men should NOT be performing oral sexWell, you sound like you don't want the truth | /r/MensRights | 18/01/24 06:17 PM |
| 3 | The vast majority of men should NOT be performing oral sexWhy isn't it the right place to correct wrong thinking. Women are shamed for just having sex. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | This is why women experience nosedive in romantic love while men don't. OP: Blaming men because women fall out of love after marriage. More male hate.That's a good point, but doesn't necessarily negate my point being a factor in an unknown amount of heterosexual marriages. In other words, the fact that divorces are filed by the woman, initiated (do they actually know who initiated the talk about divorce or are they going by who filed?) doesn't mean the total or even most of those divorces were filed for superficial reasons NOR does it show how many men want out but fear the costs (cheaper to keep her is a quote for a reason)... NOR does it fa… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Responses of people from r/sex, to a post about a man cumming too quicklyAs someone stated, you picked the negative comments and made it sound like all women or at least all women on that post were uncaring people. There is a shift in thinking sex wise over the last 50- 60 years, but there's still a ton to learn. Some men don't care about pleasing a woman. Some women don't care about pleasing a man. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid the type of women redpill warns aboutI agree with others- wait until you're further healed before you date. I've dated as an insecure person or while barely getting somewhat secure in myself and it makes it nearly impossible to make wise decisions AND it makes it very easy to believe that having a romantic relationship will solve all your insecurities. You mentioned that you've changed. That's awesome. Did you also become more secure in yourself or just change your physical and job status? Once I realized true self-confidence doesn… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/24 05:51 PM |
| 15 | This is why women experience nosedive in romantic love while men don't. OP: Blaming men because women fall out of love after marriage. More male hate.I think more men would initiate if they didn't have the heavier financial burden. I do think the courts need to be way more fair and unbiased. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | This is why women experience nosedive in romantic love while men don't. OP: Blaming men because women fall out of love after marriage. More male hate.I don't think all men do leave all the chores to women, but I certainly would not stay with a man long term if we both worked and he thought that was so he had to do in order to contribute to the relationship. I am 54. I want to keep working even if I have a long term live together relationship again at some point. I think both partners should be financially able to move on should the relationship go south. So, since I well be working I will want an equitable share of chores etc. If he works a l… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?There simply is no proof women are more emotional overall. Perhaps we experience sad emotions more often, but men experience angry emotions more often. They aren't exclusively male or female emotions, but are definitely heavier in one gender for each. There is ample evidence that men rage more often. Road rage- almost always men that carry to a high rage. Murder- most often committed by men. That doesn't mean women are innocent of doing bad things. I'm just talking about overall percentages. Pre… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?You say you don't feel men are superior and then compare xx to xy as defining factors in logic. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?Okay, but you can't even see your own lack of logic in that paragraph basically saying you won't believe you're wrong unless your fellow men agree that you're wrong. There is no proof women are more emotional. You WANT to believe it, but there is no proof. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 12:12 PM |
| -1 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?It's really ironic that in that paragraph (the first 3/4 of it)you are basically insisting that you ARE right in the disagreements with women, but sometimes just don't need to stoop to her emotional level to explain to her underdeveloped brain why you're right. It's actually hilarious reading that paragraph. So, you say women insist they are right, but here you are insisting that you are right unless other men disagree with you. Thank you for the entertainment. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 04:46 AM |
| 0 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?Comparing us to apes really can't define the human experience. That's one point I think you veer very far from the truth of human behavior. If you really feel that men act more logically, then I probably won't convince you otherwise, but if we look throughout history and in the present, it's apparent that it's not provable. Men are much not likely to be guilty of violent crimes. Very few of those crimes are justifiable. Throughout history, men have oppressed women (not now in some countries, but… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 04:41 AM |
| -2 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?I disagree...🤣. I am a woman, and I really just think men perceive women as overly emotional because we more often express our emotions before they reach a boiling point. I don't think we are the same. I do think there are differences, but I don't the the divide is as wide as people sometimes believe it is. Perhaps the divide has been somewhat pushed to a wider point through gender expectations. The expectation that men remain logical and as close to stoic as possible. The expectation that women… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 01:28 AM |
| 0 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?Just look at people individually. I don't look at all men like they are my extremely negative and abusive father or my abusive ex. Bad character is not determined by gender. It simply isn't. Sadly though the bad ones in each gender do a lot of damage | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Some words of support from a woman :)I don't get that sentiment "emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse." NO ONE... no one abuses physically without also abusing mentally/emotionally. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Some words of support from a woman :)That's just yet another issue that's not gender specific. There are horribly sappy men out in the world waiting to "white knight" a woman only to impress her and then drop the good boy act to be an asshole. Sorry, there are manipulators in both genders | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 01:00 AM |
| 2 | "Men are the abusers and the criminals, not women"I don't think it's a gender specific problem, but I don't think men were less violent years ago when the focus most certainly was on men. Men had many rights that women did not. Women did not always get government help. Spousal abuse was socially acceptable (man on woman). I think it's more of generational abuse and poverty. I believe women can be just as bad in relationship violence probably just as often or just slightly below percentage wise now. I don't think that was always the case though.… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 12:21 AM |
| 4 | My Dating experience has red pilled meDoing drugs isn't a red pill thing. There's plenty of men that do drugs also. It's not a gender specific issue. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't.I think the way I worded it might have led to some misunderstanding. I think I should have left out the word legitimately. I was trying to distinguish between false allegations and real allegations... not saying that men aren't legitimately sexually assaulted. Now, as far as who is more often the victim. I'm still thinking that particular crime is done more often to women if you include pedophiles. Yes, some women are pedophiles, but throughout time it's been disproportionately men... but defini… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...I think there's a good number of good men and good women. Of course, I also think there's a greater number of midrange men and women... not bad, but not really good. Then I think there are some that pretend to be good, but deep down have bad motives for their outward good behavior. Then the kinda bad, the really bad and the evil. I don't think there's a HUGE number of outstanding men like you've described. Or let me clarify...a huge percentage. I don't think there's a huge percentage of shining … | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't.And yes, women should be cautious around men. Women are more likely in the free world to be legitimately sexually assaulted and raped by men. Now, that doesn't mean I believe every woman. I've seen some reporting that seems like the woman was trying to extort money or some other advantage by falsely accusing someone. I find that behavior horrible and should be punished by the same punishment the man would have received if he had truly committed a crime. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Johnathan Majors situation shows you're damned if you do damned if you don't.I don't know this particular story, but I'm all for women not getting special treatment. I'm a woman and don't think I have the right to harass a man nor harass him and then blame him. I am all for everyone being cautious around everyone, but I do strongly disagree with saying all women are not trust worthy. Should we all (men and women) be cautious around the opposite gender? Yes, of course. We should also be cautious around the same gender. I personally don't believe in assuming everyone is ba… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 09:12 PM |
| -3 | You should all consider talking to someoneNO, but some men do label all women as bad which is just as bad as labeling all men as bad. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/23 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Why should I have to marry down and be a provider?No, I had a bf for about 5 years when I was young. He was abusive. I left him. We had one child. I didn't date for over 20 years after that. Then I've had two short relationships in the past 3 years. Now, I'm in the dating world, but not really focusing on it. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/23 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Why should I have to marry down and be a provider?I'm 54. I understand. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/23 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Why should I have to marry down and be a provider?You don't have to date or marry any woman that doesn't fit what you want. I am all for men looking for a partner, not a dependant. I'm a woman and frankly, I don't understand people holding onto our dated thinking. I do want to say that I despise that kind of thinking so much that I do NOT want to date men that want to "take care" of me by default. Sure, if I have an accident or cancer and I can't work, I hope my husband would step up, BUT I plan on stepping up if he has an accident or cancer th… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women?I doubt that is true. 2. She might have lied to you... so you might not be lying, but she might have. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women?You can choose to stay mad about it or start living life more fully. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/23 12:25 AM |
| 11 | How to get over your resentment of promiscuous women?You say you would switch genders, but you really have no idea what it would be like, nor do you know if you'd really find it better. Women very often get USED for sex. While some men do, they still won't understand how many women feel if they are used for sex. PLUS, some men might say, "Who cares, they are being laid... why should they complain?" The point is men can't truly understand what it's like to be a woman, nor can women truly know what it's like to me a man. There's another factor to co… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/23 12:23 AM |
| 7 | Why are men always singled out in porn discussions? Women literally contribute as much to the numbers, and women are more likely on average to watch violent categories of porn, but somehow men are the only ones capable of being degenerates?If you're talking about being hard, yes, men have to keep an erection for porn. However, performing is done by both unless it's pillow princess porn. I've seen porn where the woman does a shit ton more than the man and I've seen the reverse. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/23 02:03 AM |
| 2 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.You're not 100% right. SOME people look at others like that (male and female), but some (many) do not. And it's a spectrum. No one is going to get in a relationship where there's no benefit gained from the other person. For example, I do want a hard working man, but I honestly do not care if he makes more than me or even the exact same. However, I would not date a man that makes minimum wage or that hops from job to job with no real goal or reason. I hold other attributes as more important thoug… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.I'm countering the argument made in the post that women have always been treated well | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 06:05 AM |
| 2 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.I never said more. I am pointing out the fallacy of the assertion that women have always been treated well | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 06:04 AM |
| -3 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.I don't really care what your opinion is. You fail to even attempt to see another viewpoint. You had your mind made up before I every responded to you. Good night | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 05:44 AM |
| 3 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.Funny thing though... I'm a very sex positive woman. I'm very much into dirty jokes and sexual banter. However, I have boundaries. Sex is a natural, awesome thing to share. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 04:35 AM |
| 3 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.Sexually suggestive comments at work from a man I'm not flirting with is sexual harassment. Sexually suggestive comments in a relationship is not (usually) sexual harassment. Do you not know the difference? If a woman says to you- "hey, what do you have down there? Can I see?" And you don't want that kind of talk from her... that would be sexual harassment. It doesn't matter which gender. Women often resist being treated as if their sole worth is sex. It probably feels similar to a man being tre… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 04:33 AM |
| 3 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.I'm going to sleep soon. Maybe another day | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 04:28 AM |
| 0 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.Please explain why you're worried about the type of men I date. I'd love to hear what you assume about me. It's really crazy, but I have a feeling I know what you might assume. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 04:23 AM |
| 3 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.Did I say I thought it was a legitimate proposition? No... but it was a sexually suggestive comment that is WAY out of line, especially at work. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 04:22 AM |
| -1 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.Do you not realize that treating women like children was in advertisements about 50-60 years ago. Ads had things like men spanking a woman. That's not being treated well. Marital rape was legal. Women couldn't get their own bank account or property under most circumstances. Women were seen as "less than" and stupid. Women could be institutionalized just because her husband said she was crazy. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 04:00 AM |
| -5 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.I'm not going back 1000 years ago... try less than 100 years ago. Both genders had their struggles, but BOTH were treated badly. JUST because men had more dangerous lives does not mean women were treated well. Would you trade freedom for safety? No, most likely not because most humans desire freedom and safety, but I tend to think if safety was ONLY offered at the cost of freedom, most people would decline that option. OKAY... let's discuss sexually suggestive comments. Let me see if I can make … | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 03:56 AM |
| -13 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.Women have not always been treated better. In some ways, yes. In other ways, no. Women used to be a traded commodity basically. Would you want your sole purpose in life to be serving kids and a wife with no freedom or very limited choices outside of that? Would you want to live as a woman back in the day when it was absolutely acceptable to be sexually harassed and it was even encouraged openly by other men? I'm 53. It was still pretty acceptable to make very sexually suggestive statements to a … | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Things I learned from a year with a “red pilled dude”Something to remember is to never let anyone define your value. They are welcome to have whatever opinion they want, but their opinions don't lower your value or raise my value. WHO you are can be valuable with ot without their approval. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Things I learned from a year with a “red pilled dude”The funny thing is I dated a red pill man before I knew what it really meant. I was 10 years older than him and about 60 pounds overweight. He thought I was sexy and was REALLY into me. However, he had to always tell me how bad women were in general. He saw red flags where there were none. I broke it off with him. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 03:18 PM |
| 2 | "Stats about women handling pain better mean nothing because of anecdotes from people who totally wouldn't lie for a cause."I doubt those men would do anything that would cause them ongoing pain. I'm a woman and if I know that intense pain won't last, it is MUCH easier to get through. I had some intestinal pain years ago that almost made me pass out and would cause me to stop walking. However, I knew it would stop after so long. Your comparison isn't a good one. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/23 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?In my opinion, everything you said seems to indicate that you won't do much in a relationship either. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/03/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?SOME of us do tell and the men spend 2 minutes doing it and then stop OR they don't try at all. Then there's a small percent that will listen and give a full effort. AND, then you add your second part ADMITTING that men don't care. A good sexual partner gets turned on by turning on their partner. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/03/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?NO, red pill men or women | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/23 02:26 AM |
| 5 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?I could be wrong, but I think he might be talking about red pillers... not women in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?Most women? Maybe but that's just life. Still doesn't prove they don't have a high sex drive. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?OR they're more disciplined. Why do you seem to equate high sex drive with desperation...especially considering that masturbation is a valid form of release? | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/23 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?If you can't find any type of relationship over YEARS and YEARS of dating, that's on you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?Boo hoo! It's life. Make the dates cheap or go Dutch and do them in the week or closer together. If a woman can't take that much time to decide if a man is good enough to keep seeing, she's impatient and unrealistic. Same goes for men. If you are looking for hookups, say that in your profile. If you want a relationship that includes lots of sex, there are ways to do that. I read some profiles that were tastefully done, but got the point across. There are also other ways to get sex for either gen… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?Why not fuck the meth head if she's missing teeth? I suppose you have standards even with a high sex drive. GUESS what? So do high sex drive women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?You brought up masturbating. THAT'S a good point. I do that almost every day most weeks. So, perhaps my sex drive or orgasm drive is high. I just don't want to share that with every man I meet. Would you fuck a girl that looks like she's strung out on meth? She has a clean std test and she's single. Would you fuck a woman with warts all over her body? let's say you didn't know that until you were already turned on (the warts are hidden under clothing). Would you fuck a beautiful woman in a churc… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?One or two dates is not a lifetime. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?I agree... if both just want sex, go for it. I've done that before, but honestly after the sex, it's empty...especially because in those circumstances most men don't try to please the woman. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?Also, if a man can't wait a date or two to discuss sex, he's not being smart and possibly cock blocking himself. PLUS, sometimes the chemistry is there on the first or even second date and no discussion is needed. However, that's not always going to happen. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?You're showing that your don't truly understand how someone can LOVE sex, but not want to be treated like a sex object. Those two things can co-exist. Loving sex doesn't have to go hand in hand with fucking any man that wants to fuck. Loving sex doesn't automatically mean loving dick pics that are unsolicited. Loving sex doesn't automatically mean wanting to know how many ways a man wants to bend my body BEFORE we have even met face to face. I even admitted that men were probably hornier than wo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/23 09:51 PM |
| -8 | Women Are Much More Selective And Find 80% Of Men Unattractive On Dating Apps, Per Recent ResearchThat's dating app "studies " and one of them was 27 people. The other does show that women, by looks ALONE, don't find men attractive as often. It doesn't factor in how many women do find men attractive in a broad range when they know them. I've also heard that on those same dating app "studies" women message men across a broader spectrum of looks and more men primarily message higher rated women. So, perhaps, there's more to it than you think. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 03:33 PM |
| 0 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?How am I spewing hatred. A. Tate calls women names and basically encourages men to use women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?There are recordings of him telling people that he evaded paying taxes | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 03:28 PM |
| -2 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?I said highly suspect, but I never even said what I highly suspect. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 01:12 AM |
| -2 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?Did you really read my original comment without bias? | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 01:11 AM |
| -3 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?Trafficking women is criminal. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is the feelings I'm having are valid or am I in the wrong for having them?I think you're being too emotional now. Come back with a comment when you're feeling less emotional. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:48 AM |
| 2 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?No, you're not happy to respond. You're happy to spew hatred. I will not be commenting further unless you actually want to discuss things civilly. Accusing me personally of things I have never done is not civil. So, good bye for now. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Is the feelings I'm having are valid or am I in the wrong for having them?And i don't think the feminists that do that are right. To blame a whole gender for the bad stuff that some of the gender does is wrong on both sides | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Is the feelings I'm having are valid or am I in the wrong for having them?Where did I say I was having the time of my life. WHEN did I ever falsely accuse a man? I don't virtue signal. If I did that, I would agree with everything you said to placate you. But, I strongly disagree with you. I just choose to be mature. I defend women I agree with and I support men I agree with. But, you're going to believe all kinds of weird stuff about me I'm sure. Go ahead, but I will speak out against men like you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Is the feelings I'm having are valid or am I in the wrong for having them?WHO is them that you're giving a taste of their own medicine to? I never dished out garbage to a man. So I guess you're punishing the innocent along with the guilty. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Is the feelings I'm having are valid or am I in the wrong for having them?And that's where just because you don't see it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Just last Wednesday I verbally disagreed with a woman face to face that it's not all men. I did not back down. I remained calm, but did not let her intimidate me into being silent. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Is the feelings I'm having are valid or am I in the wrong for having them?And that's a damaging line to be balancing on. IF you ONLY see women as awful, you'll likely filter every single thing any woman does through that lens. For example, a woman could stop on the road to help an elderly gentleman that had fallen and you might think "she's doing it for attention" or something equally as biased. But, I'm not sure if you're aware that many women do the same thing but against men. I would venture to guess that's why so many people don't like feminists or at least extrem… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:30 AM |
| 12 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?SO. you really hate all women? I'm curious to know why. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:21 AM |
| 2 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?I'm not a feminist, so can't truly answer your question. However, I find Tate and others like him to be just as bad as extreme feminists just on the opposite side. But, if they are innocent of crimes, then I don't have a problem if they are found innocent. I highly suspect they are guilty of something criminal though. Now, outside of the Tates, I don't want people criminally punished UNLESS they commit a crime. If I find someone morally repugnant, that is not a crime. If they use their free spee… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I can't take it anymore can someone please tell me where the redpill reddit are?I'm strongly advising that you don't because in most ideologies there are grains of truth, but those truths are twisted in masterful ways to people that are hurting. Imo red pill will make hurting men feel better for a short time, but in the end it will hurt them worse. I dated a red pill man that was a good man for her most part, but he filtered almost every single thing through the red pill lens. I was good to him and he knew it, but he had to tell me over and over and over how bad women were … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I can't take it anymore can someone please tell me where the redpill reddit are?If you're looking for purpose or happiness in ANY ideology, you'll always be disappointed at some point. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/23 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else sick of the flagrant bashing of white people on social media by feminists and their leftist ilk, especially white men?OKAY, then you and her agree. That doesn't make my statement invalid. Men and women are both emotional. Men and women allow emotions to cloud their judgement sometimes. It's not a gendered issue. But labeling all women anything negative across the board is anti- woman, not anti-feminist. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any women in your family who have contributed to your impression of western women and their toxic behavior/entitlement?You're lumping all western women together. MOST of your posts aren't anti-feminist, but rather woman bashing and you whining. Now, if your mom is how you say she is, it sounds like you have a, right to be upset at her. HOWEVER, not all women are like her. In fact, many people could tell about a similar upbringing but with a dad that was overbearing, mean, impatient, etc. I'm one of those people. My mom was very patient, loving, and kind. My dad was mean, impatient and just down right unpleasant.… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else sick of the flagrant bashing of white people on social media by feminists and their leftist ilk, especially white men?This is an anti-feminist group, not an anti- woman group. If you're going to say that women are emotional, you also need to say men are emotional. Anger is an emotion. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/23 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Is the Redpill completely wrong?About keeping a woman without game, think about a lot of red pill Podcasters... they don't want to keep a woman OR they want to and often aren't successful. MANY woman can spot "game" and will run. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | There Are Two MarketsWhat science? Because I can distinguish between men I would only date short term versus long term relationship potential on a first date. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 04:37 AM |
| 5 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?This doesn't prove women are less horny. I have many many times taken care of myself with just some written spicy content or with just my thoughts. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 10:21 PM |
| 7 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Go to any sex toy store and compare the number of dildos and other things specific for women compared to toys for men. You'll see the opposite is true. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 10:20 PM |
| 6 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Women can be highly sexual and not want sex with every man. I think you're conflating things. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Umm... you made tons of assumptions based on one factor of which you REALLY don't know the degree of. Are women less horny than men? Probably across the board I would agree that women are less horny on general. However, you took that one truth (most likely true at least) and used tons of conjecture to widely misrepresent a gender I'm assuming you're not part of (I'm assuming you're male). I'm going to address most of your assumptions one by one. You state that our lower sex drive is the reason w… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 10:08 PM |
| 4 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?AND your way of thinking is exactly why women don't want to fuck men like you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?I was responding to one person and their comment. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanAh... you assume so much without proof. Men aren't inherently wired to be more (or less) altruistic than woman. Read that statement carefully. I'm not saying women are more altruistic either. It's not a gender based thing. But, in the case of deadbeat dads, who is being selfish? In the case of dads that come home, plop down to watch TV or play video games instead of doing a single thing (regardless of she works), who is being the selfish one? Yes, there are women that are selfish. Women that don… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanAlso, who could have bank accounts? Who could buy property? | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a woman"How many women state.... or have their husband's retire them" Just how many is that? No one knows the percentage of women that want to be financially taken care of. I know I don't want it. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanAnd you are assuming I didn't get my information from someone reliable... my own dad. My dad told me about his father. SO....I choose to believe one man about another man. Is it wrong to support my dad and what he says? Don't contradict yourself on this one. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanOh, and my dad's mom killed herself at about 30 years old. Her husband was a jack ass and I strongly believe was a contributing factor to that decision. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanTRADITIONAL "worked" back then because women couldn't support themselves. If it works for you, go for it. Again, there's a huge spectrum in between traditional and feminist man hating modern. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanThe same exact kind of data you have for your assertions. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?And do you get mad when women "friend zone" you? | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?And men past a certain age are not interested in young women because of fertility. THOSE men, the ones that go for REALLY young no matter how old the man is, are just in denial about their own aging. And it's not a large percentage of women showing their bodies. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?And yet, I've never seen a woman panicking and I'm 53. So, you must be watching a small subset of women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanOne huge thing to think about is why are most people in society looking at relationships as a dichotomy... either traditional or out has to be the polar opposite? There's a whole of possibilities in between those. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanYES, and you just proved that traditional relationships are limiting to women (and men) | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanI believe it's very typical. It's not limited to just me either. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 03:17 AM |
| 7 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?BUT if you think relationships are only for procreation, you will not appreciate the woman you have kids with... since you see her value only in being your living sex toy and baby incubator | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.Do women cry more often? Yes. Is it always unwarranted? No. Is it sometimes unwarranted? Sure. Now, let's look at how men often overreact emotionally... Road rage- more likely to be men Violent crimes- almost exclusively men Murderers- mostly men So, while that doesn't mean most men, it means men have trouble with emotions also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 03:14 AM |
| 5 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?Some good and some bad. I learned to recognize the good from the bad. Men that think women have nothing to offer besides sex are not good men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a woman"Impose structure and limits" you even admit it. If you're okay with that, what do you feel about women imposing structure and limits on men? | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanAnd you're reading things into my comments that I'm not saying AND you're ignoring my experiences. I've experienced men limiting women. My dad did it to my mom. We had a 2 parent household and my dad treated my mom like shit. I also lived with a man that thought he could talk anyway he wanted to me and I should just be the sweet loving woman he wanted. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.You state women are emotional and cannot take (make?) a good decision. The absolute truth is some men and some women are emotionally driven to a disastrous degree. Some men and some women have mid-range control of their emotions. Then there are some men and some women with strong control of their emotions. Having a penis and testosterone in higher levels doesn't endow a person with emotional control. Men aren't inherently more in control of their emotions than women. There's evidence of portions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?Your limited view of man- woman relationships tells me either you haven't had a successful long term relationship or that the women you've been with have not enjoyed being your girlfriend. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?WELL, you just confirmed that I was right. I'm a woman and I know women can offer much more. What will you do if you get married or have kids with someone and you stop being able to perform sexually or lose your libido? What if she gets ill and/or disabled and can't have sex? | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?Okay, then you inferred that man only cared about sex when it comes to women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 01:57 AM |
| -1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?You honestly can't seem to get over that women you deem less attractive might not be attracted to you. You've mentioned it in several posts. I'm starting to think you're just as bad as feminists. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?You actually just insulted men and inferred that men only care about sex. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanI'm speaking of relationships where the men think a woman's role is solely to cater to her husband and children. In that kind of relationship, women aren't allowed to choose to work or to contribute to anything else. While THAT strict of relationship is rare, it used to be common. It sounds like you're blaming only the women in the demographic you're referring to. There are two genders to blame in single parent homes. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: women get empowered to not need a man so men also need to get empowered to not need a womanI think in some relationships the woman is limited... whether or be outright or subtle. I find the traditional roles, or rather the praising of those roles as THE only way, to be very limiting to women. Now, that doesn't mean I think all men or even most men impose limits overtly. There is a subset of men that want a woman to ONLY fulfill the trad roles and ONLY be submissive, etc. I think that's not nearly as common as it was 60 years ago. That can also be the situation for men but in a differe… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Emotionally drivenI agreed with you. I was just adding my thoughts as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?I totally agree with the base statement you made. YES, men are more likely to be hornier than women. The amount of difference will vary among individuals. There are women that get themselves off several times a week or sometimes every day. I know from my own experience. Yes, compared to other women I have a high sex drive. I imagine if more men could get me "there" I'd be hungrier for a male companion. Seeing how that is a rarity, I'm looking for more than sex from a man of I'm going to be invol… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Emotionally drivenI agree 100%. There's nothing wrong with having emotions, but we need to keep them in check. One other thing I've learned is that almost every human behavior is on a spectrum. For example, more men are mathematically inclined, but HOW inclined they are vary greatly and some men can't stand math. Then there are women like me that actually like math. I am also drawn to other logical concrete subjects... such as languages. So, there's no way JUST by gender to even know for certain how logical a per… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 09:57 PM |
| 7 | What do you think caused this incident?I'm not sure what you're asking. Are you asking what caused this particular woman to be drugged and raped by her husband? Or are you asking why there are loopholes in the marital rape laws? | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/23 09:54 PM |
| 0 | What do you think caused this incident?I disagree. I'm not a feminist, but even some feminists are strongly against violating consent against men and women. Do you have any studies on the first statement you made? Yes, I'm aware there are men and women that make light of men being raped, but the assertion that it "accepted everywhere in the west" seems to be conjecture similar to the feminist stance that rape culture is supported by all men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/23 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Woman blames men for her own insecurities regarding breast sizes. Her response when I call her out on her misandry.Huh? | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Woman blames men for her own insecurities regarding breast sizes. Her response when I call her out on her misandry.I can only speak of my experience. I used to have small boobs...B cup. They weren't extremely small, but definitely not an eye catcher. Weird thing though, I never cared or worried about it. I was thinking, "Well, they won't sag as much later on." Then later, they got a little bigger. I am a C or D, depending on brand. So, kinda big but not ginormous. I'm okay with them. I'm 53... so yeah, they aren't perky anymore, and THAT'S what I was worried about when I started dating after not dating for o… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Your personal stories don't matter. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Should child support be illegal?I'm not pro- choice, but if abortion is legal then I think men should be able to opt out during that time period also. If a man decides he wants to parent his child, then cs should be in the table. It should be reasonable not solely based on either income. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/23 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?Exactly! | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?Well, I know some good men and they respect me and I respect them. If you don't respect people, that's a YOU problem. And... nice touch.. calling me a stupid nickname. That also shows that YOU are the problem. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?"There’s always a chump willing to kiss their asses just to get laid. Those are men who may be 5’s or they are good looking men but have no ambition or standards —you’d be surprised how many men who were rejected in high school still cling to that & settle for whoever." So... what's the answer? That the women should kiss his ass to get laid? That they should value themselves on the same scale that this man uses and just put out because they aren't attractive? | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?Women don't need male romantic partners. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?I'm a woman and not a feminist. Good men respect others, including women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?In his post nothing you're saying is being demonstrated. They don't have to want to "sell" themselves at all. Some men seem to forget that in order to have sex or a relationship both parties need to agree. If she's not interested, she's not trying to sell to him. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?I'm not sure how you reached your conclusion. In his post he's not being a good man. He's expecting to get laid with no effort and showing that he feels that less attractive women SHOULD give a decent looking man sex, even if he looks down on them... which he does. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?AH.. that tells me everything I need to know about you. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Please read the comments I was replying to. Also, where did I say that? | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?I think most issues aren't gender specific. There are some, but most are human issues unrelated to gender. Abuse- both genders. Sexual harassment- both genders, rape- both genders. Being rude to the opposite sex- both genders, using the opposite gender for money or sex- both genders. Plus, in my opinion, the underlying character flaws that cause those issues and more are the same in both genders, but sometimes manifest differently in the genders. So some things are more often don't by bad women … | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?And men should speak out when it's safe to do so. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?How are they abusing you? Yelling? Calling names? Or simply being rude? I ask because I've been treated poorly by some men in the past and some would define it as abusive, but a stranger calling me names or insulting me is not something I would deem as abusive. I have been abused, and I realize men can be abused, but I fail to see how on that interaction how someone could abuse someone. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?So you're still avoiding doing something for a whole group based on a small percentage of that group. That would be like me assuming that all men are sexual abusers based on the actions of the percent of men that do so. Do you realize that almost all women have men sexually harassed by men? Being abusive, being bad is not a gender specific issue. I doubt most men would treat all men based on the actions of some... even if they were abused by men. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Why don't you give me a shout when you stop husbands from killing their wives instead of just getting divorced? Or when you stop honor killings in the middle east? | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?How many abusive men have you stopped? How many times have you told a man talking about a woman, or even to her, like she is just a sexual plaything for him to use? How many eons until you make a measurable difference? If i had seen a woman treating you badly for holding a door open, I would have said something. I did notice a woman treating a male coworker badly and talked to her. It actually did change how she treated him. I have had women say that all men are dogs and I correct them. Yes ther… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?As far as opening doors, I still hold the door open for people of both genders even though I've not always been treated right by men. My broader point is that if we do things out of spite, we further divide ourselves. NOW, as far as endangering your own life... that's a very difficult thing to ask someone to do and so many variables. And men's lives are just as valuable as women's. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?And you're proving my point that SOME men aren't doing nice things for women out of spite because of what some women do. Abuse is not a gender specific issue. I hold the door open for people of both genders and all ages and I've been abused by a man and saw my mom abused by a man. I don't hold all men accountable for what some (although it is a large number) of men do. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Would you hold the door open for an elderly woman? A man (regardless of age), a young woman? | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?While I've never protested in a rally or anything, I've definitely done it on a one on one level. Men are just as valuable as women False SA are destructive to innocent men Quotas area stupid. As a woman, I only want the job that I am qualified for. People need each other.. While romantic relationships aren't needed for survival, a good partner can enhance someone's quality of life. Outside of romance, people need people. The world doesn't run without men or without women. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 04:57 AM |
| -1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?I did say some men. From watching videos and reading comments like the original post, it is apparent that some men seek to lash out or do things out of spite... or avoid doing things out of spite. The same is true about some women and their actions or inaction towards men. We read about women all the time that defy court ordered visitation JUST to punish her ex ... even if he's a decent dad. I've read things about women laughing at good men just because other men did wrong things to them. There'… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Okay, thank you for responding. I see your point | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Okay, that makes sense. Thank you | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 11:31 PM |
| -6 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Which women? it's not all of us. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 11:12 PM |
| -7 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?I agree with the last part of your response. I do think that many men are actively not doing what perhaps they normally would do out of spite instead of solely not wanting to risk their life. I understand that no one should be expected to risk their life for another person, with perhaps one or two exceptions- people that are paid or signed up to risk their lives for others and people who have children and only then for their children. It's awesome and admirable when a person risks their life for… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 11:06 PM |
| -12 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?I have a sincere question, but before I ask I would like to say that I perfectly understand that no one is entitled to receiving help. Okay... Why do some men seek to "punish" all women because of the attitude and behavior of some women? Wouldn't that be the same as how some feminists didn't stop at equal opportunity, but wanted (wants) to punish all men because of the attitude and behavior of some men? Isn't this like a large scale fight on the playground. "He started it" "she started it"... an… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | The Men’s Rights Movement is inherently progressive. Claims that it promotes traditional conservatism are egregiously false.I will admit that I'm not familiar with where the division is between MRM, red pill and mgtow, but it seems there is often an overlap. PLUS, there's people who "belong" to one and not the others and some that believe they are under the same umbrella. There is a subset of men that long for the 1950s from what I see online, but certainly not all men or even all mrm men. I think sometimes people think every single issue is a dichotomy when most issues aren't. I'm not a feminist because I don't alig… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?No value in your opinion doesn't mean she holds no value. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Women trying to tell men what they should find attractive is so bizarre.I'm a woman and prefer about 5-8 years younger and all of my relationships have been younger (4 months, 3.5 years, 3.5 years and 10 years) and the 10 year age gap relationship was a very special, yet short, relationship. What's really ironic about that relationship is that he was a self described red pill/mgtow man, which did contribute to the end of our relationship. I still respect him, but won't date another red pill man. I honestly still have a soft spot in my heart for him. I don't exclusiv… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I’m afraid I’m too short to dateAny insecurity is going to affect how you carry yourself. I know from experience. I am a woman, but was gifted with more body hair than most women have. That used to cause me great, great pain and insecurity. Now.... it's not a problem at all. There's tons of women with dark body hair. Now that I'm more confident....1. I attract more men 2. I'm okay with knowing that some men won't be attracted 3. My self worth isn't in my beauty or lack thereof 4. The people who do love me truly love me for who… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/23 04:02 PM |
| -2 | Have you noticed that feminists constantly assert that men are unfaithful by nature but that women are consistently drawn to and chase taken/married men and base their attraction almost entirely on what other women think?I'm not a feminist, but I think you are showing sexism against women in your second point. NOT all women base their attraction on what other women think. I dated a man that two women pointed out what they thought was a flaw in his skin on his face. I didn't care what they thought. That's just an anecdotal example...I realize that is not evidence. If you really think about it, you're right to an extent. However, I think you're wrong when you state "consistently". The truth is many people of both … | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/01/23 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?Re- read his comment and pretend it's a woman saying it or something similar. example- "work on yourselves women and build your life and the right man will come along, but for now use those other men for resources and validation and then throw them away. " | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?ah... okay... then. You're a misogynist. At least you let people know. That way they can avoid you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/01/23 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?And his description did not mention those things... so, you're either a troll OR a highly biased misogynist. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/01/23 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?No, some people (men and women) want a genuine relationship | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/01/23 02:59 AM |
| 7 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?SO, women should be thankful that a man that looks down on them wants to fuck them? At a certain age, many women smarten up and realize when a man is not really attracted to them and just wants to use them. I would rather live under a bridge with no legs than feel I should be so thankful that a man that put no effort into anything wants to fuck me and then tell everyone how "plain" or "washed up" I am. There are some examples of some women not giving a good man a chance. THIS post is NOT that ki… | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/01/23 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?The right girl will just magically come along when you keep treating women like objects? | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/01/23 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?Thank you | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 10:22 PM |
| 3 | I was in a weird mood when I made this. Truly feminine woman are mothers. Modern Feminism has portrayed motherhood as a negative. How the Hell can a civilization survive? The “Trad” wife is then demonizedNO, that will never be an excuse in YOUR opinion. I'm not talking about abortion so I won't address that. I'm talking about people who choose to be childless. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?I made a long comment also. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?I love your response! I feel he's acting so entitled while calling the women entitled. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 10:15 PM |
| 11 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?He thinks he's God's gift to women and two less attractive women didn't want him... so he's crying. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?So men protect us from men? Hmmm... | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?OH MY! Do you not realize YOU are acting just as entitled as the women you claim are acting entitled? Do you really think that every woman should want to have sex with you? Or is it just the plain or less attractive ones that should fall at your feet and jump at the chance to have sex with someone SO HIGH above them in looks? Wow, just wow!!! Why go after women you don't even like? Why go after women that you find unattractive? Oh... because you want to use her as a living sex toy? Or for valida… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 10:04 PM |
| 6 | I was in a weird mood when I made this. Truly feminine woman are mothers. Modern Feminism has portrayed motherhood as a negative. How the Hell can a civilization survive? The “Trad” wife is then demonizedWELL, do you want people to have kids to keep the population going? That's not a great reason to have kids. Do you hand any idea how many kids are abused or neglected? | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 09:48 PM |
| 10 | I was in a weird mood when I made this. Truly feminine woman are mothers. Modern Feminism has portrayed motherhood as a negative. How the Hell can a civilization survive? The “Trad” wife is then demonizedI have a child, but if I didn't, I'd still be just as feminine. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 07:21 PM |
| 8 | I was in a weird mood when I made this. Truly feminine woman are mothers. Modern Feminism has portrayed motherhood as a negative. How the Hell can a civilization survive? The “Trad” wife is then demonizedThat's not what they are saying. Some people shouldn't have kids. It should be up to the individual. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How did men go from supposedly ruling the world to being public enemy #1?WHO is "they"? There are plenty of women that don't hate men. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/23 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Former red pills can I know what damage is caused by red pill?I understand that. I'm a woman and while I never became red pill, I dated a red pill man and it hurt for months after. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/23 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Is it true that promiscuous males are good because they have to be desirable to get sex?I think this could be the case of correlation doesn't equal causation. Women tend to be attracted to confident men. Confident men tend to have more sexual partners...imo... because they're confident. However, I think many, many women would be attracted to a confident man with a very low number of partners. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/10/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | [FOR WOMEN - Experiment on penis vs height]I'd rather average penis length and height doesn't matter | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, StatusI think that most people (men and women) don't have a magical list of qualities that will guarantee that will like a member of the opposite sex. MOST of us do have minimum standards, but that is different. My best advice- don't do ANY improvement in your like to SOLELY increase your dating pool. I am a woman... so my perspective is different but similar to what I think men should do. I am average looking at best. I'm chubby and I'm 53 years old. My dating pool is smaller than when I was young, B… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 08:59 PM |
| 3 | How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, StatusQuite a few women do NOT want a provider. We (a good percentage of us) want a partner, so he should earn money and not minimum wage. I am VERY often attracted to men that work the same job as I do and thus earn the same or less than I do. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 08:52 PM |
| 5 | What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?"Why do you say there's some truth to it and then debunk it. IT'S a red pill phrase to get the idea in people's heads that women are inherently worse than men. Many red pill ideas are similar. "Women are solopsistic " "Women are hypergamous" Etc, etc. The truth is some women are bad, some women are good, and most women are in between. Some men are bad, some men are good, and most men are in between. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/22 04:07 AM |
| 44 | How would you explain the red pill to someone in one paragraph?A ideology that compares good men to bad women AND acts like bad men and good women don't exist. (Edited to say... there's good and bad in both genders) | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 5 | If you say all men are the problem, then you are part of the problem.YES, the all men trend is damaging and disingenuous. It's insane. What other group of people is called guilty until proven innocent societally? | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What feminists can learn from religionSo, do you think that women that like sex will shame men that don't want it sometimes? Wow, where are you getting that info. I like sex. I had a period of promiscuity and have NEVER even thought of shaming a man that wasn't in the mood. Aggressive? Do you mean in a bad way? No, I've never done that.... but what about initiating in a good aggressive way? Lots of men enjoy that. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | What feminists can learn from religionI haven't read the article, but some of your statements seem to be just your own thoughts. Promiscuity does not lead to more rape. BAD people have raped others throughout history. Women dressed moderately are raped. Women dressed provocatively are raped. Young and old are raped. Sexual purity is encouraged, but what exactly is that and why do you think no sex before marriage is pure? Religion was made by man. It is not universal and should NOT be used to define purity or morals. Plus, lots of re… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW todayWomen are the default caregivers when a man walks out in his family. How is that not taking responsibility. Who is out hear treating women like children? Show me. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW todayTHINK about what you said... Think REALLY hard. If men are so great and women are to blame for all the problems... you just contradicted yourself in a HUGE way. You say men want sex- cool, I don't think most people would argue and there's nothing wrong with that. Here's where you lose your argument. You say men will adjust their behavior to get sex. Why can't men control their lust? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW todayYour negative bias will make a successful relationship with a woman nearly impossible unless you find a very weak minded woman that will believe everything you said. I'm sorry, but that is the 100% truth. An anecdotal "evidence" (I say that so you'll know that what I'm going to say isn't evidence... but it's a great example)...I dated a great man about a year ago. We agreed on a TON of things. We had fun together. We had passion for each other. We had compassion towards each other. We could talk… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 12:26 AM |
| 6 | According to feminists, If you want a house wife then you are very toxic and misogynistic.Some people have a healthy mindset about it. My dad worked 2-3 jobs so my mom could stay home until we were in school. I don't know how they handled finances back then, but I know years later, she handled the money he brought home. He didn't try to control her, etc. I think some men though think just because they earn the money, that the women should have no say in any financial decisions Plus, honestly some men really do look down on their wife if they stay home. Some women look down on stay at… | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/05/22 12:12 AM |
| 0 | According to feminists, If you want a house wife then you are very toxic and misogynistic.I don't have a problem with a man wanting a housewife or stay at home mom. I don't have a problem with women that want to be one of those. I do, however, have a problem with men that think that is THE role for women and that all women should aspire to be that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/05/22 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Female promiscuity over timeSo, is this another way to ignore the fact that most of these women slept with promiscuous men. If a man wants a low count woman, he should be low count himself. If not, he's a hypocrite. Another thing to factor in is that some people do change. I'm one of them. I had a couple years where I thought I could fill a void in my life by having casual sex. No, I did not sleep with every man that flirted with me. No, I did not contract an STD. No, I did not make it impossible for myself to be in a comm… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Ladies of /exredpill what makes you want to help men leave the Red Pill?I dated a man last year (I was 51, he was 41). He was red pill (and mgtow), but saw me as the "unicorn." However, the fact that he knew I was good didn't prevent his RP ideology from ruining our relationship. I would like men to realize that RP is very toxic many times and it can ruin someone's life or at least their love life. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/21 01:03 AM |
| 4 | Why im only dating women who are 5' 6'Okay, you do know some men don't date women over a certain height. Height preference is present in both genders. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | When she says high body count doesn't mean stretched out muffARE there really men out there that think "more partners=loose"? SMH | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/11/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanI rarely use reddit anymore anyway. I know that anyone that hates a whole group of people are most likely taking pain and turning it into anger, which is normal. The difference is some people get angry only at the actual people that hurt them, but others let it turn into hate towards whatever group that person belongs to- race, gender, age... whatever. It actually shows that they lack critical thinking in that area. In my opinion, they want to be mad. I don't really think they want positive chan… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/11/21 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Women Compete On Looks, Men Compete On MoneyI'm a woman... just so you know this is a female's take. Given the options of being unattractive and successful versus attractive and unsuccessful- I would take attractive and unsuccessful because there are things most people can do to increase their success, but not as much to increase beauty. Now, there's a TON of nuance here and some of what I say is likely going to sound like I'm lying. I don't want to be a "10". Well, part of me does, but I realize a lot of HOT looking people are very vain … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | There is recycled trope that men feared being laughed at by women while women fear being killed by them. Increasing as I read law blogs, I am ok with being laughed at.I agree... some people want to forget about the good men. Men that protect. Men that love. Men that work hard. Men that live honorably. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 01:32 AM |
| 4 | There is recycled trope that men feared being laughed at by women while women fear being killed by them. Increasing as I read law blogs, I am ok with being laughed at.I hadn't thought of that correlation or at least not in a while. That's a valid point. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 08:39 PM |
| 8 | There is recycled trope that men feared being laughed at by women while women fear being killed by them. Increasing as I read law blogs, I am ok with being laughed at.I wish they would AND feel comfortable doing so AND not be ridiculed. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 6 | There is recycled trope that men feared being laughed at by women while women fear being killed by them. Increasing as I read law blogs, I am ok with being laughed at.I think both genders have to fear bad members of the opposite sex. I don't think fear of rape negates the fear of losing children or vice versa. I think we should listen to each other. Sadly though some people don't want change, they WANT division and so will dismiss men's fears of having their kids kidnapped. Those women WANT to be the victim and don't want real change. Good women want to understand what men go through. That doesn't mean she doesn't care about women's issues. It means she cares… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/21 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Misogyny, racism, gatekeeping and hypocrisy have no place in the men's movementThere's extremists in any ideology. In front like a lot of feminists also because they do the same thing against men. I would rather people just work together and stop trying to outdo the other. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Misogyny, racism, gatekeeping and hypocrisy have no place in the men's movementI am a woman interested in human rights. It honestly hurts when I read blatant misogynist stuff, especially after dating a pretty dedicated red pill man. SO... the only good in get from that is that I better understand how hurtful misandrist statements can be. No human deserves to be judged on their gender. Since so many things are biased against men, in the legal system especially, I can see why men are upset. I can't feel exactly what they feel, but I can relate. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Why ex redpill is copeYes, that example alone is enough to show how it isn't just looking at facts, but rather it uses emotion. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the "bad boy"(good looking but cruel, selfish etc) argument goes both ways?EXACTLY! I've argued with RP men about the same thing pointing out how many men go after a hot chick no matter how mean she is. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I already know i'm about to be downvoted a ton for this. goodbye 2100 karma!I personally think the vote shouldn't be tied to the draft for either OR it should be for both. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/10/21 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Do women really have that many options ?I think most women can find sex super easy. I'm 52, average looking and I'm hit on quite a bit. Some are my age, but often it's younger... way younger. Now I'm no fool, most the young ones ONLY want sex. In reality, a lot of times women only get hit up for sex. NOT all men and not all the time. So, it's a conundrum if a woman wants a relationship. While it's flattering, maybe it's not. Why? Because it's often said men will fuck just about anyone. Again, not all men... maybe not even most, but wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/21 12:06 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is real.Actually because I think men are treated unfairly in the court system in MANY cases. I think men have legit issues they face and society doesn't support them like it does women. Both genders have struggles, but men are often left to struggle alone. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is real.Right... like I'm posting opinions in a MRA subreddit that are NOT popular ... in order to impress MRAs? Ask yourself how that makes sense. I'm a woman- btw | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is real.It could also have to do with court bias against men. If men don't file for divorce- could it be that SOME of them don't file even if they are miserable because it's too expensive to divorce? that needs to be rectified. A man should not have to stay in a miserable marriage just so he doesn't go bankrupt. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is real.A stat doesn't show why. Not all men treat women well. Some men even abuse women. Some even cheat. Yes, some women do the same. Look, I'm not saying that some of those women didn't file for selfish reasons. I'm saying we can't assume what percentage of women are bad based on that stat alone. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is real.The divorce filing rate doesn't on and of itself show why all the women filed. I can only speak for myself... I'm not impressed by riches or muscles. I won't lie and tell you I'll date a homeless man, but I am usually attracted to and date men of similar social and economic standing.... which is middle class blue collar. There are other women like me. Yes, that anecdotal and I realize some men (not all) won't believe it. I know it to be true. Human behavior- we are more alike than we are differe… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill teaches that women can't love you for you. Suggestions on how to get past that?Just think of reality... many in both sides treat the other gender like shit In a relationship... it's a human problem. I was abused by a man and so have many women...(and men)... how is that love? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseIndividual actors.... well how many does it take. Sexual harassment is awful and was worse. I'll even admit that I know it's from women almost as often or as often (at least it seems to be). So men have consequences now and it's better, but still there. Women need the same level if consequences. Neither one nor the other cancels out the behavior of the other. Humans are tricky. Rarely do people recognize that without known consequences.... many of us would be worse people than we are... myself i… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseYes, I think the book was written by humans and not even inspired by God. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseAgain though I don't believe in the Bible You're right you didn't say all men... I'm sorry. I try not to read things into things that aren't there, but obviously sometimes mess up | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseI'm not ignoring that passage. However while I can't understand why men should be asked to sacrifice all that- I really don't want a man going to that extreme for me...I also don't want to submit to a man... Submission is to be under the authority. I'm not a child and don't need a man to lead me. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseAnd don't get me wrong. I think women need consequences to stop taking advantage. There are good ones that won't take advantage, but people are usually going to take what they can...hence welfare abuse. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseI see a ton of women respecting men in my life .. social media- not so much. I think the bad ones are loud and proud. I think we're both biased. I am not sure what you're basing your beliefs about the past on... what research? Human beings are selfish by nature and without checks and consequences... that nature is not often self controlled. I lived during a time when men were NOT called out for sexual harassment (mild) to any meaningful degree. the modern feminists movement is going WAY overboar… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseI see your point in some ways. The division of labor was the way it worked back then. To a lesser degree it is similar now. Woman CAN try to work hard physical and dangerous jobs, but many won't be able to work the EXTREME ones and more won't be inclined to do so. I don't think it's a flex for men, it's biology, BUT I think it can be highly appreciated and should be. I think it's no more a flex than a woman giving birth. While carrying a baby and giving birth can be very hard and painful, it's b… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | "male influencers earned an average of $476 for each post and women $348. - The GuardianOnly one of my questions was about my personal taste. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | "male influencers earned an average of $476 for each post and women $348. - The GuardianSorry, you're not proving anything and you didn't answer my questions. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseDid I say we had it worse in all ways? I countered your statement that we were treated better. Can you please look through a lens other than a male one for a minute? Women were treated as weak childlike, and less than men. How would you feel if you were told today that you can no longer make certain decisions that are basic human rights. A woman not being autonomous is basically dehumanizing her. While it's not the same... isn't it true that and slave owners were very kind to their slaves? In th… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | "male influencers earned an average of $476 for each post and women $348. - The GuardianHow about you PROVE it's sexist? You can't. The only way to prove it's sexist is to KNOW that the people who hired the actors KNEW that the woman vying for the role was as qualified or more than the man. Oh but wait...we would also have to know how many women try out versus how many men try out. Oh, but wait, we would also have to know how many roles were male characters. Do you think women should win more awards in acting? Do you think female basketball players should be paid the same as male b… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseJust the fact that they were denied basic human rights is something understandable. I can understand to a degree... just like to a degree I can understand why slaves suffered. You don't have to live it to see that it's damaging. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | "male influencers earned an average of $476 for each post and women $348. - The GuardianIf a man is better suited to a role, it's not sexist. If women were better suited for more leading roles, there would be more women in leading roles. Movie companies are in it to make a profit. Same as being a firefighter- If more women were physically suited for the job (and hypothetically more women wanted to be a firefighter), more women would be firefighters. I'm not sure if you're wanting equal representation JUST because that seems fair. Equal representation should never be guaranteed. Equ… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 0 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseREALLY? Hmmm... do you tell Gods what they can do, how they can do it? Do you tell Gods that they have no say in world politics? I'm talking about the past. Not the present. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseIf rights are suppressed by another person/government that's oppression. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 11:07 PM |
| 0 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseSo not being able to own property... Not being able to vote Being told our place is in the kitchen. None of that is oppressive? Not being able to get our tubes tied without a husband's approval? I'm not talking about luxuries. I'm talking about basic human autonomy. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseNo, I did not. I believe my comment was in response to someone saying women were always treated better. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseI'm referring to being told that women have always been treated better. Yes, in some ways we were, but not all. Freedom is a VERY important right. I was asking if you were asked to choose to be protected but lose many freedoms, what would you choose? | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseNone in the present day. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 11:01 PM |
| 0 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseI reported your comment. Just because you don't like what I say, doesn't make the truth a lie. Example- women did not have some basic human rights before ERA. You CAN report it but it doesn't make it false. You might think I'm the enemy. I don't think I am. I may never change your mind. That's the way the world is these days. I acknowledge and understand that men are being stripped of rights because of court bias. Men should have just as many rights to their children as moms do. I don't think wo… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseAs far as being treated better. In some ways yes. But, honestly, I'm asking you to see my viewpoint. I do not want to be treated as helpless weak and stupid. That is how being protected but not having freedom would make me feel. Thankfully we aren't there now. However when I hear men say that they want a traditional wife and that it worked so well for so long, it makes me cringe. Not because I don't think it can be a beautiful thing, but because it can be abused. If traditional meant a woman car… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseYou can say that's sexist and it does sound sexist, but I don't think it is. Can a women TRULY understand the struggles unique to men now or in the past? No, so anything I say is going to be an attempt with a female perspective to speak what I think is the truth of male suffering. In doing so I'm going to make some blunders and make statements that are "typical of a woman to say". What is true is not sexist. Men are going to always view women's viewpoints through a male minded filter. Women are … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseSO, would you want to give up freedoms you have to be treated better OR do you think we should fight for better treatment of men just because it's the right thing to do and not ask them to give up freedoms? | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 03:01 PM |
| 0 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseSo, you're ignoring that until the equal rights amendment that women's rights were oppressed? Where is the false information? How am I hating men? I'm pointing out past things that some men did, not all men. Yes, today women are not oppressed. Yes, today, men are treated as the enemy when most men are decent to good. I'm just pointing out that women were mistreated in the past. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 0 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseWhy? | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 02:56 PM |
| -1 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseAnd are you sure we've always been treated better? Marital rape. Women not being able to do things and make decisions without a man. Women not having a say in how the country is run. The Bible condoning the silence and obedience of women. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 06:20 AM |
| -3 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseThat's typical of a man to think that. I'm not really trying to be rude, but try to put yourself in that role. Imagine if your life's worth was defined primarily and usually SOLELY on raising your kids and cleaning and cooking.. I'd rather be unprotected and free... just like a lot of men of given the choice. (Look at other issues). | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 06:17 AM |
| 0 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseI think it's a case of Men pushed, women pushed back. Women pushed, men pushed back. I'm not in agreement with modern feminism. However, women were oppressed in this society and it wasn't that long ago. I don't think men should be oppressed today because of that. I don't think men should be hated or treated unfairly in court. I also don't think it's as easy as "they did this and now I hate them." Mostly I'm against that type of thinking because it's sexist. I stand against sexism either directio… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | A big reason as to why some men are misogynists is because how men are often treated worseI don't think that's why people cut off their dicks. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Do y’all hate when men use the words “female” instead of women?It doesn't bother me at all. I think "policing" words is ridiculous. Let me explain. I'm sure some men mean it in a derogatory manner, but I'm just as sure that most don't. I've had someone call me by name and it felt like he was belittling me. Why? Not because he said my name. It was because there was an underlying intent behind the reason he said it and how he said it. Later on, the feeling I had was confirmed by other behavior. Intent matters more than the words themselves in my opinion. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 04:50 AM |
| 4 | "male influencers earned an average of $476 for each post and women $348. - The GuardianI've never understood why some women (some men) want to look at stats like that and ASSUME sexism. I was talking to a friend recently and she mentioned sexism in movies. She said that men were more often in leading roles. I simply said, "that's not sexist." Men earning more money doesn't prove sexism. People just want to latch onto something to make themselves feel good. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | HypocrisyI agree mostly. I think some of them might have been more sensitive in general until they were rejected or treated badly and then they focused that hurt into anger. Maybe? (Not all...) | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 2 | HypocrisyIronically enough I am willing to bet that some red pill men are more sensitive than men that aren't red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 04:37 AM |
| 2 | HypocrisyWith all due respect. I opened up a discussion and you're being defensive. And you still haven't told me how I said you were a bad man. Plus, you're free to think whatever you want... going back to you doubting me. Here's the thing, some men are so bitter, they refuse to believe anything a woman says. It's a reflection on their character, not mine. Plus, you're absolutely free to not comment. You're free to not enjoy my comments. And, yes, you're free to comment negatively and live in denial tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | HypocrisyI suppose I should have said that my loyalty did end. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | HypocrisyIt seems like you're being defensive. When did I say you were a bad man? I also didn't say that all women are like me. I tend to think that some men think more women are bad than the actual number of bad women. I tend to think some women do the same towards men. Just because my son's dad treated me badly, doesn't mean I think all men are bad OR all women are innocent. I stayed with him for 5 years because (back then) I thought it was the right thing to do... even if someone treats you badly day … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | HypocrisyI'm sincerely confused. I didn't call you a bad man. My son's dad was a bad man. He was mentally abusive, unfaithful and a drug stich addict. NO, I didn't know that at first. It didn't take long though. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 02:27 AM |
| 2 | HypocrisyYou're not right about all women. I stayed with my son's dad out of loyalty. He was not ugly, but not gorgeous. He was as poor as I was. I'm not saying all women stay out of loyalty, but some do. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | EquAliTyAND what exactly is that? Where do you fall in the spectrum of misogynist or not? Do you want her to obey you? Do you want to make all the financial decisions? Should she cook you home cooked meals every day? Or maybe just 3 times a week? Should she have sex at your beck and call? Is she able to say no to sex once in a while because... she's feeling bad or tired? Is she able to enjoy pursuing other things- a job, a hobby? Is she her own person with a free will that you can discuss things with an… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/21 06:12 PM |
| 5 | 70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy.It's really bad sometimes. Sometimes the "bad"one is the man, sometimes it's the woman. I just hate how EVERYTHING is labeled as being because of women. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | EquAliTyOkay, so tell me.. What's so appealing about foreign women? | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/21 03:57 AM |
| 11 | 70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy.OH... then don't forget...I stayed with him for about 5 years (pre- baby) because I felt obligated. I was trying to do the right thing. Oh... but you'll twist this as though I'm some stupid bitch that can't think. I don't care. I know myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 02:55 AM |
| 14 | 70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy.Are you with the first person you dated? If so, great. If not, why not? Oh... you made a mistake? Ffs... people make mistakes. I didn't date for years after that. I also don't date that type of man now. Glad you are judgemental though. Go ahead and assume whatever you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 02:48 AM |
| 11 | 70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy.Yes, that's true, but I was young. I'm sure you've made mistakes before, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 02:46 AM |
| 25 | 70% of women file for divorce. Hypocrisy.My take... unless we know exactly why every single woman filed, we can't know anything for sure. Here's a personal anecdotal example. I broke it off with me son's dad each time we broke up. Wow! I'm horrible, right? Not so fast. He was mentally abusive and a drug addict. I was the one to initiate the final break up by calling the cops. He threatened to kill me. He made our baby cry. I decided NOT to let my son grow up with that. So, who is the good person? The one that never broke up the relatio… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | EquAliTyAhhh.... so a woman you can control? Maybe you're not like that. Do you REALLY value that type of woman or do you just enjoy the clean home and home cooked meals? There's a huge difference in valuing and enjoying. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | EquAliTyTo answer your question. I love working. I don't expect to be as strong as a man. If an individual man has a job that is harder or more Dangerous, he should earn more money.. I'm fine with that. I'm just bewildered why some men need a woman that never questions anything. Do you really want blind obedience? | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/21 02:09 AM |
| 0 | EquAliTyThere can be an in between. I hope you read all I'm going to say because I'm not traditional, but I'm not a feminist. What appeals to you about traditional? Is it because she is kind and nurturing? Or is it because she's the obedient "little woman" at your beck and call? I'm honestly asking because the latter mindset is JUST as problematic as extreme feminism. IF a man needs to be in control, there is something wrong in his character. I've heard so many men say that women are equal but different… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Feel like I’m going to get banned for this oneWatch some Tik Tok videos... very beautiful women good bodies, bashing men left and right. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/09/21 02:17 PM |
| 15 | Why Do So Many Women Normalize Profiling Of Men?You're absolutely right. Instead we get demonized when we say #notallmen. I have gotten chastised, belittled, etc. Called a "pick me" which is funny because I stand against sexism from both sides. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 23 | Why Do So Many Women Normalize Profiling Of Men?But it's not how all women feel. I'm a woman and I'm very rarely on guard around people and when I am it's not JUST because they are male. There are so many men that WON'T harm women, but the media and such don't want to point that out. It's #notallmen and never will be. The prison analogy is flawed. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/21 03:10 AM |
| 12 | Feel like I’m going to get banned for this oneCouldn't the same be said for looks and incels? Yet maybe we should just deal with the issues and stop shaming. However, if you look at the vocal feminists there's a lot of hot chicks in there too. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythOk, but there are women that need very firm pressure that no amount of foreskin will achieve. I know this to be a fact. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythOr just imagine a world where your DEFINING role was raising your kids as a dad. They no longer needed construction workers or doctors or any other challenging roles that men typically like (and should get paid well for). You no longer get to choose how much time you get to spend learning other things. Oh, and your can't buy property or vote or have a credit card. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythI didn't say none, but religion is oppressive to women. Thank goodness many cultures are getting away from religion. Many religions don't want women educated. Don't want them to show their face or their hair or shoulders, ankles, etc. Don't want women speaking in public. Don't want women going anywhere without a husband, father, uncle etc. Here is the USA it was never THAT bad, but you do know that women were taught that their place... their main goal... was to be a wife and mother. Well, thank … | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythSo, why did it take until the mid 1900s. I blame religion and people's tendencies to not let go of ingrained thinking (men and women). | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythI've read that it does affect women and I've read that it doesn't. However, our most sensitive sex organ is our clitorus and the most sensitive part of that is on the outside | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythWhat power did women have in the 1800... early 1900s? | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythActually there is a HUGE difference. Men can usually get off with intercourse alone. Women can't usually. I think it's 90% of women need clitoral stimulation. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythThey hurried through foreplay, we had intercourse that lasted maybe 5 minutes at best and then they were done. Or a couple of them REALLY enjoyed my blow job, but didn't even go down on me. Etc. I'm not against asking men to do things or telling him what feels good, BUT if it's obvious the effort isn't there, I see no point. The ones that tried and maybe didn't succeed the first time- I didn't count that against them because it takes time to get to know a new lover. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythRight, but masturbation has not been acceptable very long. Religion played a huge part in what happened between men and women. I can't say for sure. You can't say for sure. I do not think men were across the board evil in the 50s and earlier. I do, however, believe that men were the ones in control of most things... I'm not saying sexual... I'm talking about lifestyle. While, women were discouraged from being anything but wives and moms. They were discouraged by both genders. Now, feminists are … | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythI agree with you. It's not a gendered thing. I really don't think women were even aware of the possibility they could have pleasure back YEARS ago. One reason is because women (even today) mostly can't orgasm from intercourse alone. Unless I'm wrong, religion really frowned upon oral sex. Some religious people still do It's not cut and dry. Some women don't try to please men. I totally agree that there are bad people in both genders and good people in both genders. Now, you are probably a man th… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 04:25 PM |
| -1 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythWell, in history women were taught to endure sex. I don't think it was on anyone's radar that women should enjoy it. As far as now, I think sexual pleasure should be the goal for both people... giving and receiving. I don't believe men are monsters. I think the majority of men are decent, some good, some very good. However, when it comes to sex- in my experience about 3/4 of men don't give a hoot if the woman enjoys herself. I'm going by my partners and from what my female friends say. That stil… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 04:12 PM |
| -1 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenNot hypocritical if the woman has been paying all the bills for herself like me... without child support or welfare or alimony. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 02:07 PM |
| 0 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenMost of the time? Where do you get that data? Yes, a lot of dads want to be dad, but a lot of men don't. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 0 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenAhhh... not who takes care of the kids when the dad is a deadbeat? Mostly the mom. So, yeah lack of accountability falls in both genders in different ways. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 12:23 PM |
| 0 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenIt's still hypocritical to want something that you yourself aren't- for those that do that. So, a man can be a hoe....as long as he provides a home? No, you really don't know what women want. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 12:22 PM |
| -4 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenRed pill has some self improvement aspects to it, BUT it has a lot of toxic thoughts that are eerily similar to toxic femininity. Where a man falls on the red pill spectrum is individual, but many of them start believing ALL the ills of relationships can be blamed on women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 04:47 AM |
| 3 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenI agree to a point. Is the man sexually pure or does he have a low count? Then fine, that preference makes sense. If he has a high count, and wants a low count woman, then he's a hypocrite. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 04:45 AM |
| -4 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenWait a minute, do you think all single moms just decided to not have the father be there? Yes, some do that. Other women (like me) were with the father several years, thought they would raise the child together, but the MAN decided to stop being a dad. In my case, I made purposeful decisions to keep my ex in our son's life. Then his dad moved out of state. Please stop assuming all single moms are the same. Oh... and I raised a wonderful young man. He had already served our country four years. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 04:43 AM |
| 0 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenOKAY. Those are all good and valid points. I agree all of those things are completely horrible. I don't think it's written in the law (about abuse), but I sadly think it's culturally acceptable to always side with women. That being said- not all women take advantage of this. I would argue both genders need to be held equally responsible if they are abusive and NOT using self defense. Pregnancy- I'm pro- life and I agree. If one can opt out, both should be able to. I'd rather both HAVE to face th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 04:39 AM |
| -8 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenThe post was about women blaming everything on men, right? The opposite is true in red pill... men that blame everything on women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 12:58 AM |
| 8 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenI think both genders have people that solely blame the other gender. A woman that has a high body count should- one, not be ashamed or need to explain, BUT also should not blame men. However, I've heard several men (not here) blame women for toxic masculinity since a lot of toxic men were raised by single moms. What they are doing is using conjecture. Sure, some issues might be an unfit mother, BUT some men fail to realize how just the absence of someone's father affects a person The truth is so… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythSince I'm a woman, I'm going to have a different experience than you. About 3/4 of the men I've been with didn't put much effort or ANY effort into my pleasure. My number isn't incredibly high, so interpret that how you want. I don't think society as a whole is only concerned with male pleasure, BUT a lot of individual men sure seem to be. I do think throughout history (except the last 50 years or so) it was accepted that men got off and women just endured for the sake of procreation. I definite… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/21 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Is hitting the wall even a thing?Good point and it also points out their hypocrisy. They say women can't love unconditionally and then say the wall makes women less valued. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Body countYes! You're right. It's sad. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | is it possible to have a romantic relationship with a woman where you could be emotional?I think there are plenty of toxic women that don't respond correctly to a man's emotions, but I think there are plenty that probably do respond correctly... maybe fewer though. With men, there are plenty that use women for sex (deceitfully) and such, but thankfully there are plenty that don't. As far as love- no one loves perfectly. However there are good people that seek to love truly and not use emotions to keep them committed. We should have feel good emotions around our partner regularly, BU… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/21 06:19 PM |
| 0 | So what type of behaviour would you describe this as in modern society? Really curious to know people’s perception.YES! exactly! | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/09/21 11:34 AM |
| -1 | So what type of behaviour would you describe this as in modern society? Really curious to know people’s perception.I didn't prove your point. Women are attracted to confidence. You don't have to be bad to have confidence. "Chad" is a player. I don't know many women that really want a Chad. Maybe you're observing the wrong women. A lot of men are attracted to the hot, crazy chick and then wonder why they are getting played. Try looking at the nice quiet women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/09/21 07:42 AM |
| -2 | So what type of behaviour would you describe this as in modern society? Really curious to know people’s perception.Well, there's all sorts of evidence that a good number of men don't care about women. It's not a gendered issue. It's a human issue. Both genders have members that are selfish and I would wager the percents are pretty much the same. Some men (not all) Push for sex early on. Get very upset when a woman doesn't want to date them or sleep with them. (Sometimes even if he's married... they still get upset that the woman doesn't want to have sex with them) Abuse women just because they are having a b… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/09/21 07:34 AM |
| 2 | So what type of behaviour would you describe this as in modern society? Really curious to know people’s perception.That's you're experience, but this is not an anti-women page. Do you realize that many women could say the same about men? They would be wrong though. There's good and bad in both genders. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/09/21 07:09 AM |
| 3 | is it possible to have a romantic relationship with a woman where you could be emotional?I don't agree. If you really think most or all men love just because, you've been sold a lie. It's just as common for women to not be loved by their man as it is for men to not be loved by their woman. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | So what type of behaviour would you describe this as in modern society? Really curious to know people’s perception.Women are not inherently worse or better than men. Men are not inherently worse or better than women. This is an anti-feminist page, not a bash all women page. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/09/21 06:51 AM |
| 3 | So what type of behaviour would you describe this as in modern society? Really curious to know people’s perception.Not all women are the same. Just like not all man are the same. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/09/21 06:49 AM |
| 0 | I have never been told not to cry by a man, only women and children.I find it very sad that this is how MANY men are treated. I can't speak for any woman but myself. I've never seen a man crying and thought he was weak or anything negative. My son's dad (who treated me horribly most of the time) did sometimes open up up me. He trusted me with a painful memory. I listened and let him express it . I promised to never share and won't ever share it. The last man I dated cried once (we only dated 6v weeks). I hugged him. Ironically, it was his lack of concern for som… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/21 02:53 AM |
| 16 | What needs to happen in order for Men’s Issues to be taken seriously in media/society ?I think more women need to speak up... not because it should require more women, but because too many won't even listen when it's a man. ***yes, I'm a woman. I do stand against sexism against men on social media, but that's not really enough. I admit that I could and should do more. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Women of exRed pillSome red pill stuff is true. Some is based on truth, but taken to an extreme. Some is based on lies OR supposedly scientific research. AWALT- not true. Women being more emotional- partly true. We tend u cry more. However, men tend to rage more I think. Etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 2 | The Myth that women who commit murder are killing abusive husbands in self-defense.Thank you | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 14 | The Myth that women who commit murder are killing abusive husbands in self-defense.In general I don't think either gender is inherently better or worse than the other. So, we shouldn't just automatically believe a woman or a man, BUT we also shouldn't automatically assume a man or woman is guilty. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Misandry vs MisogynyThey are opposite sides of sexism. Anyone who takes bad experiences and truly believes the whole gender is bad because of that is sexist. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I get a girlfriend that is NOT feminist, how do I understand if she's a feminazi? What question could I ask that wouldn't get me in any kind of awkward/problematic situation? How could I understand if she Recognizes men's problems?Did you down vote me? If so was it because I offered some thoughts about what might be behind the stats OR because you think I'm claiming to have been through an abusive relationship? It's okay either way. I don't look at most stats and make broad assumptions. As far as my past abusive relationship... well, I know what it was, my family and his family know what it was. The cops that intervened know what it was. HELL, even he knows what it was. Stats can be thrown around to make anyone look bad. … | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Women of exRed pillI dated a red pill man so I delved into research after breaking up. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Why are women so repulsed by dick pics? Guys are ecstatic to see naked women. Further proof that women are simply nowhere near as horny as men.Okay, so what are you trying to prove with this post? Should women swoon when looking at a random dic pic? | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/09/21 07:28 PM |
| 0 | How can I get a girlfriend that is NOT feminist, how do I understand if she's a feminazi? What question could I ask that wouldn't get me in any kind of awkward/problematic situation? How could I understand if she Recognizes men's problems?Possibly and you might believe me or might not. That's your choice. I have nothing to prove. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so repulsed by dick pics? Guys are ecstatic to see naked women. Further proof that women are simply nowhere near as horny as men.Not your facts aren't facts. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so repulsed by dick pics? Guys are ecstatic to see naked women. Further proof that women are simply nowhere near as horny as men.It doesn't prove that we aren't as horny. It might prove that we get horny other ways OR we know some men ONLY want sex and then we feel like an object. I'm not repulsed by them, but if it's unwanted it just turns me off. If it's wanted, it turns me on. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 0 | How can I get a girlfriend that is NOT feminist, how do I understand if she's a feminazi? What question could I ask that wouldn't get me in any kind of awkward/problematic situation? How could I understand if she Recognizes men's problems?Correlation doesn't mean causation. You'd have to know why they had so many partners, when did they have that many partners? What they truly value in a relationship? If that particular woman can or could separate sex from romance (yes, some women can)? If she can also recognize that sex with romance is a deeper connection? The radical feminist ideals are probably what drives divorce, not the number of partners. Some women have numbers at 10 or more, but don't look at men as the enemy or other ev… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | You can't tell me this isn't facts...Some women | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/09/21 03:22 PM |
| 0 | How can I get a girlfriend that is NOT feminist, how do I understand if she's a feminazi? What question could I ask that wouldn't get me in any kind of awkward/problematic situation? How could I understand if she Recognizes men's problems?The number of sexual partners is not always a clear indication of a woman's character. Who are the high number men sleeping with? A large amount of men want sex early on in dating (and some women also)... so are women less worthy because they enjoy sex as much as men? Are they less worthy if they had a time in their life where for some reason they were promiscuous? Many men and women go through a phase. I went through a phase once. I know who I am. I'm at peace with myself. If a man wants a low … | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How can I get a girlfriend that is NOT feminist, how do I understand if she's a feminazi? What question could I ask that wouldn't get me in any kind of awkward/problematic situation? How could I understand if she Recognizes men's problems?I think it might be easier than you think... once you meet her. I am not a feminist. I'm not anti-female, but I choose to live as morally and ethically right as I can. That means I need to understand that neither gender in the enemy as a whole AND that both genders have issues that they have to deal with AND if I'm looking at things honestly- the problems men face are not even given attention in the mainstream. Yes, women have problems, but society rallies around them. I appreciate good men. I a… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Do the majority of women actually hate nice guys & are only interested in bad boys?I think there is a drive in both genders to date someone popular. "Bad boys" and "hot chicks" (aka bad girls) are popular and exciting. Then, there is the other element. A lot of "nice" men are being fake. I can't stand a compliment from a man that is insincere. If a woman turns down a "nice" man, his real personality usually comes into play. Sometimes it can be really bad. I would bet that there are fake women that come off as nice and they aren't. I prefer a REAL, authentic man. One that is po… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/21 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Is this sexist or am I getting too sensitive??It is sexist. No way around it. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | “How do you write women so well?” “I think of a man and then I take away reason and accountability”-GOATed Jack NicholsonOh man. I replied to the wrong person. I'm sorry. I meant to reply to the person you responded to. I'm the same. I don't like sexism either direction. I can take some jokes, but I didn't like this one. I'm sorry for the confusion. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/09/21 09:20 AM |
| -1 | “How do you write women so well?” “I think of a man and then I take away reason and accountability”-GOATed Jack NicholsonAnd are you okay with people saying, "men only think with their penis"? | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/09/21 09:18 AM |
| -1 | “How do you write women so well?” “I think of a man and then I take away reason and accountability”-GOATed Jack NicholsonSo, I'm assuming you're a man. Do you always think with your dick? I mean that stereotype is okay to joke about, right? | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/09/21 06:24 AM |
| 0 | “How do you write women so well?” “I think of a man and then I take away reason and accountability”-GOATed Jack NicholsonI agree with you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/09/21 06:23 AM |
| -1 | “How do you write women so well?” “I think of a man and then I take away reason and accountability”-GOATed Jack NicholsonYes, he is. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/09/21 06:22 AM |
| 11 | Absolutely Disgusting!And as a woman, I've never felt oppressed. Have I ever experienced sexism? Not often and only a few times that bothered me. If it's a joke, I usually find it funny because life can be funny. The only times it's really bothered me is when a serious allegation is made that all women are horrible and selfish and don't know how to love. I've learned not to let it get to me as much. BUT, here's the kicker... I know society at large will not wage sexism against women. It's looked upon as something aki… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | LeadershipEXACTLY! Men act like we need a parent in a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | LeadershipExactly! THANK YOU! | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | LeadershipI think I agree with you. (I'm drinking tonight...lol) | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/21 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Is there any proof that getting to a low body fat percentage, and getting muscular actually makes someone more physically attractive?Here's my personal opinion and it's two sided. I'm attracted to dad bods or skinny more than really fit men. I'm overweight and really doubt a fit man would want me, however, I know some fit men have been attracted to me... so I'll never say I won't date a fit man. I do think the physique looks nice, but it doesn't make me want to jump their bones. If their personality meshed with mine, then yes, I'd be attracted. A certain percentage of fit men are going to be TOO focused on fitness. A certain … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on feminism? (feel free to add further explanation in the comments)Modern feminism is nothing more than women having hissy fits and desperately trying to prove sexism (against women) where it isn't provable... while at the same time promoting sexism against men. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 2 | how many women in this sub?We really aren't that different than men. Okay, that might sound weird, because obviously there are differences. I'm talking about core needs and desires. We both want to be loved and desired. We both want to have a sense of belonging and purpose. We both want to be respected. It is manifested in different ways. I believe most men find a sense of purpose through work or doing things that have tangible results. I'm not saying women don't want to produce tangible results, but maybe they are less f… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | how many women in this sub?There's really no way for me to answer definitively what to do. I don't know anything about you except what you wrote here. I will give some the best general advice I can think of. Confidence is attractive, but not over confidence. That goes for men and women. Also, show interest in what people say when they are talking. Engage with people. Try to be the authentically who you are. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 12:58 PM |
| 3 | how many women in this sub?I'm a woman. I'll answer questions for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Body countIs this type of post against the rules? I'm sincerely asking because I didn't see a rule that I believe makes this wrong. (I'm not debating red pill on reddit... it's in another media.) | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Are these things RP?Intentions matter though. I am sure he didn't intend to upset me. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/21 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Are these things RP?It's really sad because he's a good man, but entrenched in RP. The ideology is why we aren't together. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 12:12 PM |
| 33 | Women who have dated redpill, what are the red flags?He proclaims that raising kids is easy. (He had none...I have one). Every...single... thing... is thrown back at women. The man telling me I'm "so demure." I wish this wasn't a red flag, but it is. A man that wants a submissive women, but doesn't display a positive male role model. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/21 03:58 AM |
| 3 | What the hell? LFA has become... Softer or more rational?I found that video interesting. He said that insecure women date down... which is probably very true. However the example he used- Titanic was a bad one. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that the wall exists?I think it exists when you base a person's value mostly on superficial attributes. What is really interesting to me is how much personality can influence people's perception of someone. I only have anecdotal things to give as examples, but I think it at least means that not everyone emphasizes looks when thinking about how much they are worth. I'm 51, almost 52, I have more friends now that I ever did. I only have a few very close ones, but I am much more social now. I have been going on a lot o… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that the wall exists?***I'm a woman, so i can only soak from that perspective. I think it exists in the minds of red pill men and shallow minded men. I don't think there is an age where a woman suddenly becomes less worthy as a person in general. Sure, to some she does and that's their prerogative to have that preference. I think it's shallow and immature to base that much of a person's worth on their age. I think a woman's value can go up, go down, and go up again and fluctuate with many factors. (Same for men... b… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Talking with a red pill manI agree. However, I do believe he actually listened to my views. I do believe perhaps it have gave him something to think about... just like it gave me more insight. So I think he'll change? No not just from those conversations. But.... but, if he ever doubts anything red pill... maybe, just maybe those conversations will help him. I do think he really listened because he would say,"I agree", but sometimes also he would say, "I disagree. " | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Talking with a red pill manSee my reply above. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/21 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Talking with a red pill manWell, we talked about traditional relationships quite a bit. He brought up the valid point that divorce is easy and sometimes very financially beneficial for the woman. The lure of financial gain might encourage women to divorce instead of working on things. I agreed, but brought up that back when women were just out of luck after divorce that they would sometimes stay in bad or even abusive relationships. I brought up some of my reasoning why I personally will most likely always work even if my… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/21 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Morgan Freeman get accused of sexual harassmentI watched that clip and didn't see anything inappropriate. She's really being ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | The sad reality of MGTOW, What do you think ?But they aren't always right. Sure, they throw out stats, but they don't look behind those stats. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Classic feminist hate towards menI'm not gaslighting. I'm saying that everyone has the right to be attracted to who they are attracted to. I'm sure there are women you aren't attracted to. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/06/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Classic feminist hate towards menI don't know how old you are, but it used to be the same for fat women. I'm 51 and I remember that being heavy as a woman was looked down upon. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Classic feminist hate towards menNO, there are people who won't date someone with a good personality if they don't look good enough. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Classic feminist hate towards menThe reason I'm attracted to some overweight men is because most of my attraction is to personality. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Classic feminist hate towards menThe language I used... that I meant nothing by. I used the word curvy originally because that's how I've been described. I didn't use the word curvy for men because I've never heard that word used to describe a man. I'm sorry if some "woke" people think I meant anything more than that. Honestly I don't give a fuck what y'all think. Why? Because I know I'm a good person AND I probably am much less judgemental than you judgemental pricks. ***get me booted off of here if you want. I will go in livi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/06/21 01:07 AM |
| 0 | Classic feminist hate towards menDo you think I should be attracted to ALL heavy, curvy, men? | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Classic feminist hate towards menWhat the actual fuck do you mean? I was pointing out that my personal attraction has little to do with their size. No, I'm not attracted to all heavy men. That's not a sin. I'm attracted (mostly) to personality and character. If they happen to be curvy men, fine. If they happen to be average weight, fine. If they happen to be extremely thin, fine. What don't you understand? | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/06/21 01:02 AM |
| -1 | Classic feminist hate towards menWHAT? The original post was any heavy women not being attracted to heavy men. I addressed that very topic. It's a preference. It's not my preference, but it's preference for some people. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/06/21 12:59 AM |
| -1 | Classic feminist hate towards menI realize that some people read way too much into wording. Here's my thoughts. I'm a curvy woman and I'll date a curvy man. I didn't use the word curvy for a man because I've never heard it used for a man... that's the only reason.... but some butt hurt liberal woke people want to twist it. I have dated curvy men. I have dated average men. I have dated skinny men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/06/21 12:57 AM |
| -1 | Classic feminist hate towards menYou doubt who I've been attracted to? That's fine. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/06/21 09:12 PM |
| -3 | Classic feminist hate towards menI agree that in some ways society is not in support of larger men. However, I'm not totally off base in my comment. I'm addressing attraction on a personal level. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/06/21 09:11 PM |
| -4 | Classic feminist hate towards menThat's a separate issue | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/06/21 09:10 PM |
| -4 | Classic feminist hate towards menI didn't mean anything by that. Please... stop assuming I had a hidden agenda | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/06/21 09:09 PM |
| -27 | Classic feminist hate towards men***disclaimer- I'm overweight and I'm attracted to some men that happen to be overweight, and some that happen to be thin. I said that so people won't think I'm justifying myself. I have mixed feelings about this. If it's simply about attraction and they don't shame the men, I see no problem with preferences. Sometimes opposites attract and sometimes those opposites prefer to date their opposite. Some VERY fit men prefer fat or even BBW women. Some very clean cut women prefer blue collar workers… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Do older men really like younger women that much?That's exactly how I feel as a woman. I've had fun with some men MUCH younger, but I won't date them and they know it up front. I want to stay within 5 - 10 years of my age. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Met a pretty girl at bad, red pill has convinced me not to compliment...People need to stop policing other people's words. There are a lot of people who won't shun someone for not being politically correct. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Met a pretty girl at bad, red pill has convinced me not to compliment...It's only dehumanizing if you let it be dehumanizing. It's just a word. As a woman, it doesn't bother me at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Funny... not funny thingI think it all depends of why she is withholding sex. Is she tired? Is she a past sexual assault victim? Is she just being mean? Etc | /r/MensRights | 19/05/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Funny... not funny thingBut the issue is the other person does want it. What if one person really loves conversation and the other doesn't? Sure, the non- talkative one can ignore their partner, but it's selfish and damaging. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/21 03:41 AM |
| 9 | Funny... not funny thingI asked, "so if a woman repeatedly asks for money and the man gives in, is that robbery?" | /r/MensRights | 17/05/21 11:58 AM |
| 9 | Redpill need to stop the traditional vs modern women debateYou bring up a very valid point. It's for if some women want to be housewives... it just shouldn't be the default position | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or are the men's section in clothing stores always much smaller than the woman's?*some women | /r/MensRights | 13/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or are the men's section in clothing stores always much smaller than the woman's?I don't know if this is a huge issue though. I tend to think men wear less variety of clothing. Maybe that's why? As far as fit goes certain females have a hard time finding clothing. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 34 | To the “feminists” on this sub.....I don't like feminists. I think their ideology is often so backwards that it truly is horrible. I just want both genders to treat each other well AND the legal system to be balanced. As a female against feminism I've been called a "pick me." Which is funny because I approach issues individually. I'll call out men that generalize women and I'll call out women that generalize men. I'm not "for" either gender. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 4 | How do I start to eliminate most of the preconceived notions I’ve gained?I would say go and meet women (not just for dating, but that could be included) of different ages, occupations, social status, etc. I think this will help because I think red pill tends to focus on a small percentage of women that are similar to each other. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/05/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Women initiate 70-80% of divorces. So - are men just bad? Are we born bad? If so well then dang! Oh well :-( Sucks to be us. Gosh - sorry women! But come on, that seems unlikely. So if we are not all born "bad", yet 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women? What is going on here?Are you saying my story is fake? I'm glad you were watching my life for the past 36 years or so. How did you manage to have a life while watching what I've been up to? But in all reality... it's really sad that some people are so jaded. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/21 12:44 AM |
| 5 | Happy Mother’s Day!That's true. Some men are good fathers and not good husbands. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Happy Mother’s Day!Thank you very much. I'm thankful my son and I have a good relationship. I'm also thankful he had my dad as a male role model since his dad decided not to be a dad. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Women initiate 70-80% of divorces. So - are men just bad? Are we born bad? If so well then dang! Oh well :-( Sucks to be us. Gosh - sorry women! But come on, that seems unlikely. So if we are not all born "bad", yet 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women? What is going on here?PLUS, the women on Tinder might more often be the entitled conceited type of woman. I can only speak for myself as far as how many men I find attractive. I find the majority of men I met...probably 75% at least attractive. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 6 | Women initiate 70-80% of divorces. So - are men just bad? Are we born bad? If so well then dang! Oh well :-( Sucks to be us. Gosh - sorry women! But come on, that seems unlikely. So if we are not all born "bad", yet 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women? What is going on here?Okay, you're generalizing things a little too much. Some men love conditionally also. Otherwise, no women would be emotionally or physically abused. There are good and bad in both genders. What about women who stay faithful while the men stray? It happens, you know. My son's dad cheated on me and I never even thought of cheating on him. Why did we break up? I refused to let my son grow up in an abusive environment. Not only did my ex cheat, he yelled at me and called me names and threatened me, … | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 03:32 AM |
| 22 | Why do red pillers act as if hypergamy is the absolute norm and standard.I think the reason they hold onto that belief and others is to make themselves feel better. I've gone out with men that make the same as I do or a little more to one man that made about $21 dollars more an hour. I never based my relationship on a man being rich. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/21 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Redefining rapeNo, some people are saying it's rape. The people saying it are on social media and probably not going to change the laws, BUT they are trying to twist things. The way people twist words and things is a large part of why men are seen negatively. If they keep things honest, great. Lol at other issues that some people take controversial stands on. White people are all racist. Black people can't be racist. If you don't get vaccinated, you're a shitty human. #killallmen AWALT | /r/MensRights | 08/05/21 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Redefining rapeI understand your point. I am pointing out the bad twisting of truth. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/21 11:39 AM |
| 10 | Redefining rapeYes, good point. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/21 07:00 AM |
| 12 | Redefining rapeExactly! | /r/MensRights | 08/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Anybody a girl on here?Yes, I'm a woman. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commitI have known and even dated men that didn't want a commitment. I've also known some that do. The same for women. I just think a lot of people are scared to commit because of shitty people (both genders). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Arent feminist's who use incel as an insult just making fun of sexless ugly men?I don't think Incel should be used as an insult or that anyone should be assumed to be an incel. No one can know someone's sex life just by looking at them. Yes, I think they use it as an insult and it's a very low thing to do. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Anti-feministThank you. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Ethics and genderI appreciate your reply. I'm just going to say that you're right. I can't prove my point. However, you can't prove yours either. I think we both acknowledge that. I will say though that sometimes people "see" what they want and they gloss over anything that goes against their bias. Example: I have heard people say all young people are lazy or rude. That's simply not true. Sure, there are some that fit that stereotype, but MANY others that don't. Maybe I'm biased in the other direction. I see mor… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Anti-feministWhat's funny in this post I've been accused of being a feminist and a pick me. Lol | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Ethics and genderI disagree. You're looking at things through your bias. It could be the type of women you choose to observe or hang around or date. Years ago, I was attracted to the "bad boy" type. If I had continued down that path, I would have had a lot of bad experiences with men. My viewpoint would be biased then. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Anti-feministI'm 51. Dating that some women have painful periods is bad? No it's just a truth and unfortunate for those women. I'm lucky my cycle doesn't hurt, but I recognize that the pain other women feel is awful. STEM, looking at stats isn't going to help much. I don't know if that's what you're using to base the idea that women are being oppressed on that area. Here is the US young girls are encouraged to get a STEM education. Could part of it be that sometimes women don't want that type of job? Could i… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Seeing another point of viewYou obviously read posts with your own preconceived ideas. My whole post is about the fact that we both have issues. I never said women have it harder. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 9 | Anti-feministCan you tell me what rights men have that you don't? I'm speaking of legal rights. What would make us equal? Can you show me a specific comment where I brought down women as a whole? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Anti-feministNo, not really, but that's okay. If you're going to bring it up, please point out specifics. Maybe you think I'm a feminist and that's your opinion. I think you define feminist differently than me then. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Ethics and genderI've seen some men behave the same way. Some men will blame all problems on women. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all.My post was about living as a single person, not whether or not either gender could exist in the planet if the other gender didn't exist. However, since you brought that up. Try existing as a man without a woman carrying you in her womb. Also, many women live alone and are surviving without a man living with them. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Anti-feministIt's actually kind of funny. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 11:48 AM |
| 7 | Anti-feministDo you have anything meaningful to talk about? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Anti-feministHow? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 11:47 AM |
| 25 | Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all.Thank you. My son is 26 and a foot taller than me. What's wonderful is he's a great young man and we are very close. He's also not afraid to show emotion. He was even talking any that today. He just got done serving his country in the Marine Corp and has been home a month. I agree, like the OP I started going on a negative rabbit hole after breaking up with a red pill man. I wanted to find out more about what he had started telling me and I was kind of shocked at some of the stuff that some red … | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 05:28 AM |
| 21 | Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all.I don't think we should go to the past to feel victimized. I have only once felt looked down upon to any serious degree by one individual man. In society it seems very accepted that women are not just mothers or wives. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 04:18 AM |
| 110 | Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all.I appreciate men. I know I'm not the only woman that does. I guess we are just not loud about it. I definitely think men can live without women and women can live without men. However, just living... or merely surviving...is an awful way to "live." I think both genders crave affection from the other gender (for the sake of argument I'm speaking about heterosexuals). I really hate the attitude that some women have. I really hate the attitude that some men have. It's really quite sad really. I do … | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Seeing another point of viewI agree. We have default thinking (as a society) that definitely needs to change. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/05/21 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Co- workerIt's very sad. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 03:59 AM |
| 10 | Anti-feministIf you are a accusing me of being a "pick me", let's break this down. I act like myself. I express what I think. I sometimes side with men. I sometimes side with women. I look at situations individually, I don't decide which side I'm going to agree with based on how impressed men will be. I sometimes even piss men off. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Anti-feministAre you calling me a "pick me?" Awesome | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Ethics and genderOkay, tell me how you have observed this patten of behavior. How many women have you observed doing this? If you can't acknowledge that some really relatively normal men do the same stuff, I think you're either purposely avoiding seeing it or you really think it's only criminal men that do that. Do you know that abusers (both genders) are often very well functioning in society? We could stereotype all day long. I will even admit that there are some stereotypes that pertain to most women. However… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Ethics and genderOkay, you put the #not all disclaimer. That really didn't help much. Some people of both genders do that. It's a human issue. Not a gender issue. That would be like me saying.. "Men #notall fly off the handle and want to fist fight over stupid stuff. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Ethics and genderI'm a woman so I will definitely have a different view. I do agree with some others that this post is more in line with red pill than MRA. That being said I'm going to try to be very truthful and kind. I know there are all kinds of theories out there on how women behave and think. I dated a man that threatened to kill my cats, me, or himself. This happens to a lot of women AND a lot of men. I don't disagree with your whole post but the fact that you said most women can't differentiate between ri… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Co- workerThank you. I try my best not to judge anyone by what other people have done. I also fight against generalizations that are damaging... whether it's race, gender, age, etc. What's crazy is that one man that I dated and really cared for was such a dedicated father that he really didn't have time for a relationship. I respected the hell out of him even though I was sad about not being able to keep dating him. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Seeing another point of viewI already brought up one...menstrual pain and inconvenience. Some women don't have pain (me), but that's rare. I do obviously have the inconvenience of it. Yes, men have issues they deal with because of their male anatomy. I wouldn't really want to deal with those issues. I mean being horny is great, but I like that for the most part I can control it and no one would know unless I'm actually with them. Women have to deal with pregnancy. Men don't. Men have to worry about losing custody in a divo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/05/21 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Anti-feministI've seen that! | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Anti-feministThat is so true. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Seeing another point of viewI agree and disagree with you. There are issues women face that men never will. There are issues men face that women never will. It doesn't diminish or take away the other person's validity by saying that AND the issues could be faced with sympathy even if the person can't fully grasp the pain. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Co- workerHe is definitely already trying to get that going. Unfortunately she moved a state away so it's making it more difficult. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Another thing that pisses me off...I recently uploaded Tik Tok. I see the vile women and I see other women that support men and are very open about being against feminism. I haven't made any videos yet... partly because I'm not sure how, but mostly because I'm insecure. However, I might in the future. If I do speak about gender issues I will definitely defend men. I will also defend women. I will defend the good ones in both genders. Why? Because not all men are dogs or rapists or stupid or just looking for sex or just wanting a … | /r/MensRights | 30/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Equality 👍I agree. I'm a woman. There seems to be a disconnect in society. Maybe because back in the day women were seen as VERY weak. I don't think women are as physically strong as men, but we aren't helpless. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong to think that MRA (or at least this sub) is "meninism" or just the reverse of feminism?Well, I look at it this way. Both genders have issues that cannot be fully understood by the other gender. I'm a woman and I sympathize with men and the problems they have just because they are male. I don't think women's issues are gone though. Yes, some are. I think you mentioned women being protected in the past and coddled. Well, to me that's a way of belittling women. I'd rather be free than protected IF I had to choose. That being said. I'm not a feminist. I'm not wanting to be like a man.… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Are female people allowed here?Yes, women are welcome. Most of the time we are treated well. There do seem to be a couple men that are more extreme and seem to hate women in general, but if you don't feed them (lol), they don't bug you too long. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Equality 👍I would rather see someone give up their seat for an elderly person or someone that's physically disabled. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong to think that MRA (or at least this sub) is "meninism" or just the reverse of feminism?I don't find too many posts out right bashing women. I don't read all of them though. I find this sub pretty nice to be in and I'm a woman. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | How did take the red pill affect your relationship with your wife or girlfriend?Yes, bitches are bitches, but not all women are bitches. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/21 08:19 PM |
| 8 | How did take the red pill affect your relationship with your wife or girlfriend?Way too much. Wondering if I was being tested. Wondering what he really thought about women. Wondering if he really trusted me because you know "AWALT." | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/21 09:33 PM |
| 6 | How did take the red pill affect your relationship with your wife or girlfriend?That's what I did also. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Please, do not swallow the red pill too fastI'm glad you edited the comment. I didn't see it earlier. I started reading... and I was confused. Then I saw the last statement and was relieved. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/21 12:21 PM |
| 5 | A thought I had regarding assumptionsI hate assumptions. I hate generalizations. I've thought about getting a shirt made... not all men not all white people not all heterosexuals I'm not brave enough though. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/21 11:01 AM |
| 14 | Single Dads vs Single Mom's: A Rant.No, it's actually a good subreddit that's pointing out truths for the most part. I'm sorry you're not able to see past your bias. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Please, do not swallow the red pill too fastI agree either gender wanting a break from getting involved with the opposite sex should be accepted. I agree with some ideas of MGTOW or at least what I've read are the base line beliefs. However, I've seen that it can lead to very negative thoughts about women in general. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Please, do not swallow the red pill too fastI would like to speak about how generalizations can be bad. The red pill man I dated KNEW me well enough to even admit that he didn't lump me together with most women. How ever he would make comments like, "at least you didn't order the surf and turf." I ordered a cheap man when he told me he was paying. (I paid sometimes). His generalizations about women had me wondering what I could do that might be misinterpreted by him. He also said once, "I'm glad you don't delete our texts... that could be… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Why are women held accountable for their own actions when they drive drunk but not when they have drunk sex?It's not rape unless it's forced. A drunk woman (in many/most cases) IMO knows what's going on. I think most often the alcohol makes her less inhibited (like most people) which means she most likely wanted sex before she even drank. **I'm a woman and I have had drunk sex. I would never blame the man for something I freely chose to do. ** I do think if a person is drugged or drunk beyond the point of being functional, that a rape could occur. That's partly why this is a blurred line sometimes. Wo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Why are women held accountable for their own actions when they drive drunk but not when they have drunk sex?That's an excellent question. I have had drunk sex before and I knew what I was doing. Unless you're black out drunk, most likely you still act according to your will. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/04/21 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Single Dads vs Single Mom's: A Rant.I get it. I see some women do that. I don't think it's most. I think they are just loud. I even stopped being friends with a woman because she would say how she spent so much money on her kids and didn't go out often... when in reality she went out a lot and spent a ton of money because she got lots of child support . | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Please, do not swallow the red pill too fastI only learned about MRM after dating a red pill man ironically enough. He's a good man but in the end he made me feel "less than" because of his views. I don't think he intended to and u still respect him. I think it's like any ideology...a mix of good and bad. I'll answer questions if anyone is interested. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 11:35 PM |
| 31 | Single Dads vs Single Mom's: A Rant.I respect your hard work and dedication. I'm a female so I do feel you came off a little harsh, but maybe I'm reading it wrong. I understand that some people like to sound like heroes when they aren't. I understand that some single mothers do that. However, not all single mothers will try to sound like heroes. I was a single mom, but not like most single moms. I've was single because I didn't have a husband to help. My son's dad (we lived together for about 5 years) stopped being a dad voluntari… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Right sub?Yeah, this group seems to be focused on real issues. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Right sub?I have been treated very well 99% of the time here. I'm also on an anti-feminist sub. There are a few red pill/ MGTOW men. I don't care that they follow those ideologies, but I sometimes get attacked because I'm not anti women. I usually respond and tell them if they want to actually discuss something I'll discuss it. However, if all they want to do is throw verbal garbage I won't discuss anything. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t have equal STD testing????Where I live there are two places that give free STD testing to anyone. It's great and efficient. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Theory: Most of the Red Pill Community and the Broader Manosphere are Incels.I happen to think sex is great. I'm a 51 year old woman and I want it to be a big part of any romantic relationship. I am willing to bet there are incels in red pill, but not all are. The last man I dated was red pill. He wasn't celibate. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 5 | She Claimed He Raped Her. He Said He Didn’t. Without Any Additional Evidence, The School Chose To Believe Her.I think for the most part you are right. You can be pretty drunk and still know what you're doing. In fact, drinking usually helps you be more bold in doing what you've already been wanting to do. I think there is a line where someone is so drunk they might not be able to consent, but that's when they can't do much of anything coherently. However, because it's a blurry line I believe two things... It shouldn't be the go to "reason" to claim rape. Men (unfortunately) should be more careful about … | /r/MensRights | 23/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Right sub?Yes, I've been on the sub for a while. I asked "right sub" in reference to my post. I can see why it sounded like I was asking if I was in the right sub. As far as injustices... I'm learning to be more understanding. I am not perfect. I also get defensive sometimes because I dated a red pill man and he hurt me. He didn't mean to, but he did. He had my mind reeling. I must wish both genders would listen and appreciate each other. I still respect that man, but I know we weren't a good match. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 03:41 AM |
| 7 | Right sub?I'm definitely not man hating. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Right sub?I think it's the right place for me. I just hope my post is appropriate. I recently went through a short relationship with a red pill man. That has made me sensitive to gender issues, BUT it hasn't made me feel harsh against men in general. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 03:37 AM |
| 10 | Right sub?That is funny. I just honestly wonder if posting my thoughts will come off in the way intended. I saw issues before someone told me so I KNOW other people can see it plain as day. So, it makes me wonder why do many people don't want to admit that the male gender has legitimate complaints. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 12 | What the hell Google?!Exactly. That what we should do. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Stretching definitionsI don't know if I can find it again. It was on Tik Tok | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Stretching definitionsI commented. I bet they deleted it. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Stretching definitionsI think what they meant was that people are trying to redefine what rape is. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Really now these dumb bitches are comparing catcalling to fucking oppression.I think the last time I was catcalled was at work today. He's a cool guy. Maybe it wasn't the traditional catcsll. He likes my curvy figure and he is respectful of me. I just go with the flow. Now, years ago I remember being catcalled when I was 14 and it did feel uncomfortable. That's a different situation. I do understand not all women like men whistling at them or catcalling, but it's hardly oppression between two adults. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/04/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Feminist issueThe slut usually needs men to help her be a slut. The single mom issue is a problem both genders create. I think culture is turning a blind eye to some issues and/or helping women feel they have no accountability, BUT there are a lot of women who have raised children without the father and taken in that responsibility. So, I don't think culture has won yet. Yes, women are easily excused for some bad behaviors. When they are violent, they are less likely to face punishment or only face a less sev… | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Feminist issueI don't have time to read all the responses, but in general I agree with the past. The only thing I would add is that men tend to get angry more quickly than women. I know there are exceptions, but in general. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/04/21 10:10 PM |
| 16 | Do Women Love Entirely Different from Men? An Analysis of TRP's ClaimYeah, after dating a red pill man (he told me he was...it wasn't a guess) I researched it further. I felt really sad when I realized some men actually feel that women are incapable of feeling love for a man. I will say this also. The three men that I've cared about romantically have all been important in my life. I don't hate any of them. I honestly wish for them to have good things in their lives. To me, that is love. It wouldn't be easy to see the most recent man with another woman, but in tim… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/21 02:06 AM |
| 25 | Do Women Love Entirely Different from Men? An Analysis of TRP's ClaimI'm a woman and have felt a strong love for one man and two others I've loved or cared about deeply (I'm limiting this to romantic relationships). I loved my son's dad. I don't think I ever "fell in love" with him though. He treated me badly very early. I tried for 5 years to make it work. yes, I'm aware I can only tell my side of the story. I can't prove anything to people who don't know us. I fell in love with a man two years ago. The only reason I gave up on that relationship was because he d… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 6 | HypocrisyI suppose it does. It also closes you off to good people who happen to be female. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | CommunicationThank you for your kind well balanced response. I'm over it. I still respect him, but realize we aren't a good match. Yes, it hurt badly for a while. The video is titled, "3 reasons why women shouldn't vote". I don't know how to share a link here. I do think women should be able to vote, but that's not my biggest issue with the video. My issue is that the video describes women as greedy, irresponsible, emotionally driven idiots. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 6 | HypocrisyI'm done. You have your mind set. There's no use in having a conversation with you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Check this outI have no idea and I don't care. I'm not a feminist or a BLM supporter. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 7 | HypocrisyMaybe I'm friends with better women then. None of my female friends would defend a woman that falsely accuses a man. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | INTERESTING THOUGHTNot only are they sabatoging their relationship potential, they are going to make "adult fun" no longer fun. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Check this outThis isn't an anti-feminist problem, but I'll respond. I'm white. I feel no guilt for being white. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 7 | HypocrisyI've never personally witnessed either. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | 36 Questions Women Have For Men (answered by a teenage girl)Yes, there are good men and good women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | 36 Questions Women Have For Men (answered by a teenage girl)I could let a couple/few/ dozens of bad men make me think men are bad, but I don't. There are good men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | 36 Questions Women Have For Men (answered by a teenage girl)If you didn't fight in a war, you can't say "we fought in a war." | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 9 | HypocrisySame reason we don't see men speaking against bad men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:52 PM |
| 10 | HypocrisyI would and have pointed out female hypocrisy to female friends with no men around to even try to impress. P.S. I also point out male hypocrisy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 17 | HypocrisyI'm not hurt. Are you? You didn't answer my question. You don't know me. That means you don't know what I'm like. I don't judge all men by the actions of some men. A lot of men are fine just using women for sex, but I don't believe all men are like that. Some men only want a trophy wife/girlfriend. I don't think all men are like that. Some men think they shouldn't do "women's" work, but I don't think all men are against doing dishes and other stuff. Some men are rapists. I don't think all men ar… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | 36 Questions Women Have For Men (answered by a teenage girl)Did you personally fight in a war? If you did, thank you. If you didn't, then you can't take the credit that men who actually fought deserve. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 15 | HypocrisyOk... whatever. Have you met every woman on the planet? No. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | CommunicationI think the relevant facts are... I was sincerely interested in him. He wasn't a man that some women would have dated- the kind of women you have described. He was short, unfortunately many women will not short men (which is stupid). He was good looking in my opinion, but as far as conventional looks- I would rate him as average (I rate myself average also). He is a good worker- makes decent money (but not rich and not a big spender). I'm not materialistic so I don't "require" a man that is rich… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 10 | "MANimony" Rich women are angry that they have to pay their husbands ALIMONYAlimony is usually not a good thing. However, if women want Alimony then when the tables are turned, they should have to pay Alimony also. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | CommunicationI edited my comment, but I don't think it changes it much. Some men think all/most women are the same. It sounds like you might think that way. I could be wrong. If you think ALL or even MOST women have a list of demands before they will date them, I'm sorry. I know who I am and I know other good women. I rarely talk about submissiveness unless a man brings it up or in a subreddit like this. The man I was dating was a good man. When he mentioned women being submissive to men, it made me feel lik… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 34 | "Kill all men/ all men are r@pist."That's a good meme. I'd love to see someone try to argue that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | How I feel about the “wall” as a girl.There are PLENTY of good men that find women attractive at all stages of life. I'm 51 and I regularly get men that are interested in me. Some of these men are 10-20 years younger. Some are my age. Some are older. Men who put limits on people that are this strict are not the type of man you want to date anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/21 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Do girls or even women know that there are essentially two types of penises: showers and growers?Yeah,there are a whole lot of reasons why things don't work like they should in the bedroom. Yes, communication and respect and mutual desire to please would solve most problems. I really wish all women could orgasm from vaginal sex (I can't). That would make sex easier. However, if both people are willing, it can be a great experience for both. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Do girls or even women know that there are essentially two types of penises: showers and growers?I can only speak for myself. I like to please my partner. I could easily say the same for men. A few try, but others don't even attempt to please the woman. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | CommunicationThank you. You might just get people to check out my profile. It really doesn't matter what you say. I know who I am. If you cause people to dislike me, congratulations. Pat yourself on the back. I'm waiting for you to comment something more intelligent. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 04:10 AM |
| 0 | CommunicationUnless you've met and dated every woman on the planet, you can't know that. Just like not all men are rapists or sexual perverts. not all men not all women | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Do girls or even women know that there are essentially two types of penises: showers and growers?I think the tightness thing is largely debated. As a woman I can't speak to how true it is how varied the feel is. Two things to remember- Sex is more than just orgasms. It's giving your body to another. It's wanting to please the other person hopefully as much as you want to be pleased. A lot of women don't orgasm with just PIV sex. So, size really doesn't matter that much for many women. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/21 04:06 AM |
| 0 | CommunicationWhen a man wants someone to be submissive to him, that's demeaning. If the woman is in agreement, it's not demeaning. *please don't interpret that as, "she doesn't want to be submissive, so that must mean she's a b>_*." Some women truly want a partnership. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | CommunicationI'm not a feminist even if you keep calling me that. Yes, I'll respond and point out immaturity and posts/responses that demonize women in general. I don't harass. I comment on their comments or responses and usually only once or twice per post. I've clarified why I don't engage in a deep conversation. If my responses and posts bother you, you're free to block me. I won't report people for what I consider childish stuff, but I don't have to stand idly by while it happens. I think you like findin… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/04/21 04:00 AM |
| 2 | STUDY finds that women are "significantly" more likely to be verbally and physically abusive to men than vice versaThat's a good point. I agree, but also think she shouldn't assume she's somehow worthy of a non-violent reaction. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/21 03:47 AM |
| 7 | Is it me or...I'm here to learn maybe some of the reasons why the man I dated was red pill. Plus, I'm here because I'm very glad some people aren't stuck in it forever. Plus, I hope that people can realize through the female viewpoint how red pill damages more than just the men. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/21 03:46 AM |
| 0 | CommunicationWell, when a man tells you that raising a child is easy and he's never raised one- that was irritating, but not too painful. (He doesn't have kids) When a man sends a video to you that describes all women as greedy, irresponsible, emotionally driven idiots- that was demeaning...especially because he knew I wasn't like that. He described me as demure. He knew I sometimes paid. He also knew I didn't judge him from his possessions. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | CommunicationIt depends on how deep the man goes into it. Just like any ideology there is a spectrum of beliefs. I dated a red pill man that had many demeaning thoughts towards women. Yes, some red pill ideas are great. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 4 | STUDY finds that women are "significantly" more likely to be verbally and physically abusive to men than vice versaI might be misunderstanding you... Are you a man or woman? Are you supporting men being violent towards women in general after years of abuse? Are you supporting women being violent towards men in general after years of abuse? I can understand snapping after years of abuse towards the individual that wronged you. I can't understand demonizing a gender because an individual abused you. I was mentally broken down by my exes mental abuse. I did snap at him. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 17 | When I saw this subreddit I loved itI joined this group because I started thinking of myself as less than (I'm a woman) while dating a red pill man. I honestly think he was questioning some red pill ideas, but not enough for our relationship to go anywhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | STUDY finds that women are "significantly" more likely to be verbally and physically abusive to men than vice versaI think it was a little under 1,200. I rarely take statistics at face value. Why? Because we would need to know who they studied? Were they all close in age? Were they all from the same region? What about educational level? What about what culture their parents grew up in? There are so many factors that could make some statistics invalid. That being said, I won't say this study is wrong. I will just say that I don't know if it's accurate. I do believe some women are violent. I also believe that … | /r/MensRights | 16/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 18 | STUDY finds that women are "significantly" more likely to be verbally and physically abusive to men than vice versaYes, both genders are sometimes awful to each other. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Do girls or even women know that there are essentially two types of penises: showers and growers?Female here... Too long can be painful, but if they know to hold back, it can work. Extra girth I think adds a little pleasure, but it's not enough to only date men with extra girth. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 23 | STUDY finds that women are "significantly" more likely to be verbally and physically abusive to men than vice versaI just saw another article that had a larger number of people that might back this study up. If so, in willing to bet the number one reason women might be being more violent is the social acceptance of that violence. I'm a woman and have always thought that violence is not the answer. I have also always thought that of a woman hits a man, she should expect to get hit back. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 50 | STUDY finds that women are "significantly" more likely to be verbally and physically abusive to men than vice versaI wouldn't doubt that he numbers are nearly the same for men and women, but the study was a very limited number of people. I think if we are going to doubt the validity of the 97% study of women and sexual assault (which I doubt), we can't put much stock into this study. I pretty much adhere to the belief that a lot of the issues that humans face aren't gender specific issues. I'm not saying all, I'm saying a lot. However, I do see that the violence against men is not looked at in a serious way … | /r/MensRights | 16/04/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanI understand the need for sympathy. Don't forget women suffer at the hands of men sometimes. I was mentally abused by my son's dad. I'm not alone in this. Many, many women have been mentally and/or physically abused by men. I don't hold that anger against all men, because every individual person is an individual person. I constantly tell people "not all men." I will continue to do so AND I will continue to say "not all women." ***yes, I'm aware that men can be abused by women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 12:04 PM |
| 15 | Do girls or even women know that there are essentially two types of penises: showers and growers?I'm sure some women shame men for that. In my mind it is stupid for a couple reasons. 1) if it grows and can please you, why do you care what size it is flaccid? 2) it's ridiculous to shame someone about something beyond their control. I've been with both type of men. I've been with men that I actually wish weren't so large. It's not every woman that wants a huge dick. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/21 03:06 AM |
| 2 | My fav post from fraud feminism.No, not all men are murdering. That would be like lumping females with the child murdering mothers of the world. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanI know quite a bit about feminism, but probably not all because it's not something I agree with from the parts I know. Can you describe in your own words what feminism is? | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanPeople who think all women are bad. People who describe women as all being the same. No, they won't go away. For some reason most men that hate/dislike all women don't even want to discuss things calmly. I believe they are so hurt or angry that the only way to feel good is to demonize a whole gender. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Men should let false accusations happen?Wow, that's insane. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | My fav post from fraud feminism.If there is toxic masculinity, there is toxic femininity. When women use men for money, that's toxic. When women demean men for physical traits, that's toxic. When women label all men the same, that's toxic. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 17 | Mentally ill mother of 3 granted restraining order against loving father who let the LA family court and CPS know he had urgent concerns that she could harm the children. This week all 3 kids were found dead by her hands.In a lot of cases, you're right. My son's dad was unfit for custody. He was a drug addict and mentally abusive. However, I felt it was important to let then have a relationship. I took my son to see his dad, but I stayed during the visits. It wasn't court ordered. He then moved out of state and eventually stopped calling. So there are some women that believe it's important. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 61 | Mentally ill mother of 3 granted restraining order against loving father who let the LA family court and CPS know he had urgent concerns that she could harm the children. This week all 3 kids were found dead by her hands.This is one of the worst issues men face. If a father is a decent man and wants his kids in his life, he should be able to either have full custody or 50/50. The woman should not be allowed to move out of the area. If the mother is unfit, then custody should go to the father, unless he is unfit. He should receive child support. Both parents should feel a moral obligation not to demonize the other. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 02:31 PM |
| -2 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanI'm not going to watch a video suggested by a misogynist. There's no point. The last time I did that it was pointless. If you or any other misogynist can discuss something civilly with your own words, I'll respond. When someone like you or him come at me with a certain attitude, you are showing your immaturity and there's no reason to engage in conversation with someone that stoops to those lows. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanAnd I agree with everything you said. Men need to be treated as worthy human beings. I am at work. I can't say much right now | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanI'm not against men speaking against feminism. I'm against men or women putting down women as a whole. I'm a decent woman. No, you won't believe that. I already know that. I don't have time to watch that video. I'm at work. I have no reason to even want to watch that video. If you can't see that there are good women, then you have an issue. I see bad men but I also see good men. I will not respond to anything else you say. Feel free to say anything you like. There is no point in trying to conver… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanI thought you were replying to me. I was wrong. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanI'm actually trying to provide a viewpoint. . I'm a woman | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 03:17 AM |
| -3 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanNo, what I'm really wanting is good discussion that leads to solutions. You are coming off as a misogynist. Thank you for trying to read my mind. If I never listened to what a man said, I wouldn't be aware of some of the struggles men face. ***maybe you have AWALT thinking. That's your right, but doesn't mean you're right. If I only wanted people to agree with me, I never would have come to see a valid argument that women should sign up for the draft in order to vote if men have to. In my opinio… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about youtuber/incel colttaineI think one thing he says really sticks out to me. I haven't watched his videos in going by what your said.🙂 When people like to say that women don't contribute to society they are thinking about certain things and leaving our a WHOLE lot. Producing things is not the only way to contribute to society. Think of nursing. Yes, there are male nurses, but many more female nurses. I would hate to think how the medical industry would suffer if no women were nurses. People would not get proper care, bec… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 7 | A reminder that women are not the enemy; some of them understand mens' struggles (probably repost, but I love this woman)I'm a female ally.I really haven't done much, but I speak up when people generalize men. I think that's a start. I think both genders have issues that need to be addressed. However, I recognize that men's issues are often downplayed. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Any opinions?I wasn't trying to be defensive. I honestly didn't knew why you asked your question. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Any opinions?I wasn't trying to be defensive. I honestly didn't knew why you asked your question. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 4 | Any opinions?I'm anti-feminist. I'm pro humanity (men and women). I recognize that both genders have issues to overcome AND both genders have things to work on. However, I think some things are being twisted (by extremists on both sides). | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Any opinions?Why do you browse it? | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/21 12:59 AM |
| 7 | Any opinions?I joined this subreddit because I'm not a feminist. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Just a little rant about the entitlement of womenLol | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Just a little rant about the entitlement of womenLol. You don't know me. But... that's cool. Maybe you're a covert feminist... | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Just a little rant about the entitlement of womenI'm not a feminist, but I'm not someone who... A) wishes to argue with people who are dead set against seeing other viewpoints. (The OP) B) wants to engage in conversation with people who don't really seem to have anything meaningful to the conversation. (You) | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Just a little rant about the entitlement of womenYou're interpreting what I said through the lens of your ideology. I'm sorry you are twisting what I'm saying. So, I won't even try to go on with this conversation. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 7 | Just a little rant about the entitlement of womenI'm against feminism too, however, your post sounds like (imo) that you're against women. I envy men's ability to get off from vaginal sex. I really do. I rarely get off from a man... no matter what. However, I want the physical bonding. Yes, some women do little. I do quite a bit. I like pleasing my partner. I've had men get off from oral to only be DONE. We do need to stop making toys taboo. I agree. However, I want more than an orgasm. I want someone to share the intimacy with. Yes, we can fi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/21 02:43 PM |
| 120 | Any opinions?I would laugh. This doesn't bother me. In general it's true and I'm a woman. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/21 11:53 AM |
| 23 | The misandry is thickSome women are bad, some men are bad. It's as simple as that. It's a human problem. Until we recognize all issues, we will be in a pissy fit fight. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | I couldn't believe itNo, why? | /r/MensRights | 12/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 3 | I just had an argument with my mom because she brought up a video, that is fake, that an actor did that is him yelling at his wife and then looking at the camera and saying don't get involved or something like thatNot all women Not all men It's that simple. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a man is completely exhausting because it feels like I have to do almost all of the heavy lifting all of the timeI agree that most women don't want to pay. I will never say all because women like me exist. However, that's one generality that is usually true. I think a good cheap date at first is best. You don't have to spend a lot of money to get to know someone. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 9 | Why do redpillers hate single moms but not hate men who also have children from past relationshipsI will say this. Sometimes women pick bad guys. I used to want to date bad guys. I learned my lesson. Some women don't. Some men only want to date the super hot women which sometimes comes with a bad attitude. We both need to look for quality not sexiness or excitement. That being said, I don't think anyone should be looked down upon if they have learned a lesson and moved forward. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I just had an argument with my mom because she brought up a video, that is fake, that an actor did that is him yelling at his wife and then looking at the camera and saying don't get involved or something like thatYou're very, very wrong. While I can't fully understand how your struggles make you feel emotionally. I can perfectly understand injustice. I can perfectly understand how those injustices can upset men mentally. I'm sorry that you have narrow view about women. What we need to do is listen to each other and speak to each other without these preconceived notions. Some women won't listen because they are stubborn. Some men won't listen because they are stubborn. It's a human issue, not a gender iss… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a man is completely exhausting because it feels like I have to do almost all of the heavy lifting all of the timeI can't understand what it's like being a man and dating, but I'm curious what you mean by heavy lifting? Are you referring to making the moves or paying or both? I see your point. I like to make the moves sometimes and ask the man out. I'm willing to go Dutch or pay for the whole date. Maybe not every time, but I'm willing to do my share. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/21 06:11 PM |
| 14 | Why do redpillers hate single moms but not hate men who also have children from past relationshipsI don't think single moms tend to be anything... they are as varied as the men that leave them. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/21 06:03 PM |
| 29 | Why do redpillers hate single moms but not hate men who also have children from past relationshipsEXACTLY! The red pill man I dated said, "well, maybe we should teach women to pick better men.".. when I pointed out that men more often abandon their kids. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I’m A Feminist But I Still Think Guys Should Pay For DatesI've always been fine with splitting the bill or even paying if I ask the man out. Interestingly enough I just had a conversation with a man that I've been talking to... we haven't gone out. One- he isn't sure he wants to date or get involved with a woman since he got divorced just a year ago. I told him I understood and that we can be friends, but I won't date him because I don't believe in trying to change someone's mind. Two- I told him I would pay my own way if we do meet up as friends. He s… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | I don't want to get stuck in my inferiority complex, but the alternative to TRP doesn't really show equality but to male inferiorityI don't think men are inferior. I'm a woman and I appreciate men. I think (just my thoughts) that there are bad people in both genders and those people are the loudest. So... that's what we hear. I think it's time for the good ones to speak up with kind words and affirmation. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Something hypocritical a lot of people do.I totally agree. Why can't we just face the reality that both genders have real issues to deal with? | /r/MensRights | 08/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 4 | This entire subreddit has turned into a race thingWell, I see very few mentions of race here. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 17 | Why does everyone hate r/MensRights?I think this subreddit is awesome 99%of the time. I think most people that hate this type of subreddit just don't want to face any truth that challenges their pre-conceived ideas. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Reddit admins clarify that they're fine with hate if it's directed towards the right people.I think it probably did get deleted because I'm sure I would have negative comments otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to hate women.Yes, similar but different, but those differences aren't bad. Men are usually physically stronger than women. Women are usually more nurturing. Neither one of those statements cuts down the other gender. Women aren't necessarily weak and helpless even if they are not as strong. Men can be nurturing... it's not like most men are Neanderthals. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/21 12:48 AM |
| 27 | Reddit admins clarify that they're fine with hate if it's directed towards the right people.I put a comment on a women's tik tok yesterday not all white people not all men not all heterosexuals | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 3 | I'm starting to hate women.YES! I love how you summed it up. I'm a woman (I like to be sure I say that so if I don't fully understand... maybe that will explain it). I do think women have issues. I've been lucky enough not to have too many and that may be because I didn't date for over 20 years. It wasn't that I didn't want to date...I had lots of insecurities. My insecurities were my fault... mostly... I'd say 80%. I did date one verbally abusive man before that. I do think women in the past had issues, but those have mo… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 11:00 PM |
| 20 | I'm starting to hate women.(I'm a woman... just so you know that up front) I really hate that this happens to men. Any time I hear someone bash all men. I always say "not all men." I do that when people generalize any group. There are women who don't lump all men together. Unfortunately the ones that bash all men are loud. The ones that don't usually are quiet.. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I can't stand this disgusting mindset that I can't get out of my headWell, what you described doesn't sound like you're seeing women as sexual objects. It sounds the exact opposite. If you don't want to play games, just think about your motivation behind your actions. Are you trying to manipulate things? If you are, think of how to be more authentic. It's wonderful that you're thinking this way. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Dear Feminist let me enlighten you about what is and isn't rape.Oh okay... sorry | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/04/21 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Dear Feminist let me enlighten you about what is and isn't rape.I don't see why you think that from his comment. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/04/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I believe that men and women should be equal.There is NO way to equalize privilege. I really honestly think the liberal agenda being thrown around is trying to paint men or white people... and especially white men as being privileged in order to cause division. I also believe some want the "privileged" ones to be hated | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I believe that men and women should be equal.I edited it. Thank you for pointing that out. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 11:50 AM |
| 1 | I believe that men and women should be equal.Those might not be the best words. I'll admit that. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 11:49 AM |
| 44 | I believe that men and women should be equal.YES! I agree 100%. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 04:56 AM |
| 113 | I believe that men and women should be equal.I'm a woman and I think "being equal" is complicated. If you mean that they hold equal value, I agree. If you mean that they are equal in all characteristics- physical strength, different aptitudes, etc. that's not possible. We are different. I think we should embrace the differences and learn to bridge the gaps. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/21 04:46 AM |
| -2 | The gender swapped version is better.I guess I was thinking of my other responses and going that direction. It seems that some people think that because women do one thing that is dramatic, that men don't cause drama. Sorry, it probably was a weird response to you. I will expand... just because a man doesn't threaten someone with the silent treatment, that doesn't mean men don't use passive aggressive behavior (aka drama). | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | The gender swapped version is better.They are both destructive. They are both forms of drama. They are both ways of wrongly coping with life. They are both going to damage a family. They are both drama. Do you think men fist fighting over some perceived slight isn't drama? I think we'll just have to agree to disagree at least on how we define things. The most important thing (I believe) is to recognize bad behavior no matter what gender. As a woman, I see women that act immature and totally stupid. I choose not to be around them. I… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | The gender swapped version is better.You kind of proved my point. Violent acts are drama. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 11:22 PM |
| -5 | The gender swapped version is better.That's not evidence PLUS there are many ways that some men choose to unhealthfully express their frustration. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | The gender swapped version is better.I think women are more aggressive verbally. Men are more aggressive physically. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | The gender swapped version is better.*** not all men/women- keep that in mind when reading this Well, I've been hit by a man. I know others that have been hit by men and nearly killed by them. I've also seen men cause other types of drama. "Well, my dick is bigger than yours" "stop being a pussy" "man up"... all because they perceive that another man is directing them. Other types of drama- getting very mad at very minor things. Here's where I'm going to say what's actually true- humans can be good or bad. It's not a gender issue..… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | The gender swapped version is better.And some men throw punches. That happens all the time. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 10:33 PM |
| 3 | The gender swapped version is better.Who's right and can they prove it? | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 8 | The gender swapped version is better.And every single human has moments where they act wrong or go overboard. If a person is self aware, they recognize that and work on it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 04:47 PM |
| 4 | The gender swapped version is better.I think what happens is the vile women who scream that they are a victim (when they are just wanting their own way) are the loudest. That means we don't notice the women that are simply living their decent lives day in and day out relatively happy. Think about this- but first let me say I don't think it's all men... There are many men that push for their own selfish motives also. Instead of whining they tend to get violent. Those numerous men don't make up the majority of men, BUT we hear about … | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 14 | The average child attends a school where most Teachers are Women and most Janitors are Men.I'm sure some people think that way. I don't think it's the vast majority. I've attended college and have never seen anything but respect for the male professors. I had good female professors and bad ones. I had his male professors and bad ones. As far as the dirty work goes, I definitely don't think men are only good for dirty work. I do acknowledge they are jobs that women can't do because of physical differences. That's nothing we can really change, but I can respect a man that does the hard … | /r/MensRights | 02/04/21 04:38 PM |
| -20 | The gender swapped version is better.It's not really. Some men and some women are overly emotional. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 32 | The gender swapped version is better.I'd rather see a version. "Some people... Why? Because honestly some people in both genders are emotional. I've seen menand women get out of control angry over some pretty little things. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | The gender swapped version is better.I find it very interesting that some men really think women can't be self aware. There are an incredible amount of examples in history and in daily life of women being self aware. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 6 | The gender swapped version is better.Women are often self aware. Yes, I am a self aware woman. How would I prove it to you? I can try, but I'm really thinking that you won't believe me anyway. Plus, if my motive is to prove you wrong and prove that I'm right, maybe my motive is wrong. Then on the other hand, maybe it's VERY important to spread the message that women can be and often are self aware. Please look at that paragraph. You'll find your "proof." | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Do women really face discrimination or struggles in the workplace?I can only speak for myself. I've only had blue collar jobs and I've noticed very little issues. It might be way different in the corporate world. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | So if you’re a man who prefers shaved, you’re a pedo?? But if you’re a woman who prefers shaved youre just a woman with a preference?? Double standards much?Okay, this is another thing to think about. For years women were made fun on m of even publicly without backlash. I'm old enough to know that. I don't think the answer is that women should bash men. I don't think the answer is that all men are bad OR even that ask of them were bad back then. However, if some men want to lump all women together, it's going to make it more difficult. Why? Because they will push away some women that they choose to lump in with the bad women. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | So if you’re a man who prefers shaved, you’re a pedo?? But if you’re a woman who prefers shaved youre just a woman with a preference?? Double standards much?I disagree. I don't think women shave to appear pre-pubescent. I think they shave because they like it. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Your opinions on personalities that share the traits of feminism and MRA'sI have met quite a few women that would call themselves feminists (I'm a woman but not a feminist). I find they vary... some very slender and attractive... some curvy... some heavy... However, I find a lot of vocal feminists are just so overly absorbed in the anti-male thinking... that even when I point out, "not all men" they jump on me. I lost quite a few "friends" because I don't buy into the rhetoric. As far as MRAs, I can't really say. As far as this subreddit goes I find a that most or nea… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | These people really need to get "Educated"That's incredibly sad! | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/04/21 01:29 AM |
| 15 | Thank you for changingI agree. It's nice to see some people going through it from different perspectives. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | A balanced approach as a femaleIt's all good. I'm not going to be too harsh to you. That would be contradicting my post. Yes, I'm a flawed human. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | A balanced approach as a femaleNo I was 25. You're guessing. I know why I took a while to get over both of those men. However, you'll likely not believe me and that's your choice. I think you're still entrenched in red pill ideology to an extent. Again, that's your prerogative. I'm not the MOST popular woman... I'm not a 10, but for some reason I have had no problem getting dates. I'm happy with my age and most things in my life. I'm happy with the amount of dating I do. Of course, you'll spin this into some other thought tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | A balanced approach as a femaleTo me it seems like you're being a little rude, but so be it. You know... here's the deal. I've had a hard time getting over two different men for WAY different reasons that I only dated a short time. It was the emotional connection to them that made it difficult. Then with my son's dad... we dated 5 years and I got over him instantly. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | A balanced approach as a femaleI said it took a month to get over what he did. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 08:42 PM |
| 4 | A balanced approach as a femaleI do know. I dated a red pill man for just 6 weeks. At the end, my mind was reeling. I questioned my value as a human JUST because I'm a woman. I didn't know what to believe, what not to believe. It took me about a month or so to get over that deep pain over the last week of dating him. The big two things that happened.... he sent me a video that basically stated that women are greedy, irresponsible, emotionally driven idiots. Well, he told me he didn't agree with everything on the video... wasn… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | A balanced approach as a femaleWell, in reddit I can ignore some comments. In real life, I can walk away. If they are willing to talk civilly in person, maybe I'll discuss things. If anyone gets really nasty in reddit, I can block. If they cross WAY over, I might lash out or report them. It all depends on how ugly they get. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere in my opinion is feminism but for men.While there might be a lot of good feminists, the movement has many toxic ideas that MANY of them promote. I do not identify as a feminist and likely never will. I consider myself an egalitarian. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't the problem.Or they just value their pussy. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | What are they actually talking aboutExactly. At least try. I won't "require" that they get me off because it's often my own mind that stops it from happening. I feel that I take too long and then I lose the momentum. That's not a man's fault. I'll be happy with a man that tries and understands it might not happen. Plus, there's more to a relationship than sex. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 11 | You Gotta Be Fucking Kidding MeTrue. I hate selfish thinking. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Thank you so much!Absolutely | /r/MensRights | 31/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Thank you so much!Welcome from a woman who is an ally... and trying to be a good one. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/21 04:58 PM |
| 42 | You Gotta Be Fucking Kidding MeOh wow. The stupidity. As if that really makes sense. No, he just figured things out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Good newsI wouldn't want to force it. Yes, men show emotion in different ways quite often. Most post was about being glad he felt comfortable enough to do that. No, my son doesn't go around crying all the time. We lost two close family members this past summer. I'm glad he felt comfortable enough to show emotion about that. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/21 05:19 AM |
| 6 | These people really need to get "Educated"It might be recorded that way because more women seek help. I do agree, the people who record our report this stuff need to look beyond people who were officially diagnosed with depression. So many people won't seek help or a diagnosis. I'm willing to bet men are less likely to seek help or a diagnosis. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/21 05:17 AM |
| 6 | These people really need to get "Educated"I think a lot of depression is because ... well, too many reasons to boil it down to one thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/21 05:14 AM |
| 0 | These people really need to get "Educated"Well... not necessarily. I'm pretty much the same any time of the month and have been all my life. I've been menstruating for... almost 40 years and it doesn't affect my mood. I had one pregnancy... again, I was emotionally the same throughout. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/21 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Good newsYeah, that makes it hard to want to be real in front of others. I can only say for me that when a man I'm dating opens up, I feel closer to him. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on pregnancy!I don't know. Like I said, there's many variables. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/21 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on pregnancy!It looks like Texas allows 60 days...California-3 days. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on pregnancy!I'm not sure about a limit about giving up for adoption. I do believe there are limits on the safe drop. Give me a few minutes... I'll look it up. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on pregnancy!That's a good point. I would say they should have the same amount of time to decide. I think after that, anyone who has committed should be held accountable. Yes, there are many variables to consider. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on pregnancy!That does bring up some other issues. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 9 | Thoughts on pregnancy!I am not in favor of abortion (I'm a woman). I sympathize with women and some reasons why they have abortions. However, if they can choose not to be a parent, a man should have the same right. However, I think if the man is the biological parent and he chooses to be the parent at birth, I don't think he should be able to change his mind months or years down the road. I think his choice to not parent should be before the birth. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Karma (mgtow)And all the money on the world won't take away the pain. It's so sad that he suffered and will continue suffering because of a false accusation. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What if kill all men happendYou haven't proven anything at all. And yes, you called me a slave. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | What if kill all men happendWell, I'm so glad you think that every belief you have is right. It's too bad you're not 100% right. I learn from people. You don't seem to even try. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What if kill all men happendThat's what you believe. Go on believing that stuff. You're deluded. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What if kill all men happendI won't try to silence you. I believe in free speech. I'll just use my free speech here... If you think women are the slave sex, you have a very misogynist view of women. You sound like a vile man. You sound like a man that thinks women are just to be used. Just imagine if someone told you that men were the slave sex? How would you feel if a woman said, "you're only role in life is to serve me"? | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What if kill all men happendNo women Aren't the slave sex or sex toys. I doubt many other anti-feminists would agree with you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | I want to know more about this subredditI think it's fine for people to enjoy the traditional roles. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"That actually makes sense. Even though it wasn't my intent...I did do what you said. I got sidetracked with my own thoughts. I'm sorry. I agree. The fact that some women will force men or laugh at them is apalling. I think the bigger problem is that many women will laugh at this video or at least not find it offensive. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?I'm attracted to people similar to me, but masculine. I can't speak for other women. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | This video resonated with meI don't have time to watch the whole thing right now, but will try to later. It's good so far. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 05:06 PM |
| 11 | How do women get over the conditioning that looks and youth are everything?It's really hard because it's not just red pill women that place emphasis on looks. However, the best people in life DON'T judge someone by how they look. I think good people outnumber the bad, but the bad are more noticed. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I like this subreddit. But....I deleted because I thought it was inappropriate for this subreddit. I guess it didn't go away completely. I am new to reddit. Anyway, I wasn't trying to shame men. I don't think I really did that. I was pointing out that some men on this subreddit are using tactics that label all women a being the same and didn't like that pointed out. If men want to give up on women, that's their right. I look at it like a vicious cycle. Some women were treated badly, they overstepped and started treating some… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I want to know more about this subredditI'm kind of middle ground with gender roles. Like I don't want to be a housewife, but I like being a nurturing, gentle natured woman. But, I'll check those out. I think there's a whole bunch of middle ground. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I like this subreddit. But....I was trying to distinguish between society as a whole and individuals. It would seem to be the same, but I think many individual men would not care (or do not currently care) about women's issues. Maybe I feel that way because I've been learning about red pill, etc. and men in those groups are tired of women's issues. I think the best approach is to realize we both have issues and care about each other. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I like this subreddit. But....I just said I think society as a whole pushes women's issues in front of men's. That's wrong. You're right that we should not get 95% of the public attention. I Both genders issues should be cared about. As long as you think all should be cared about, I'm in agreement with you. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 3 | What are they actually talking aboutWell, I do think many men are selfish or inexperienced in giving women orgasms. I wouldn't (and haven't) treated a man badly because he stopped after cumming and didn't help me. However, I don't want to date someone that won't even try. I think both partners should try to help the other orgasm. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | I like this subreddit. But....I think the same is true for many men. Many men don't really care about issues women have. In fact in certain groups of men, women's issues are joked about. The truth is we both have things that make our lives difficult. Yes, society pushes the issues of women to the front, but that doesn't mean men themselves care. No, society shouldn't push women's issues in front of men's. I do wholeheartedly agree with you there. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | I like this subreddit. But....Do you think that bad experiences with women means all women are bad? That's what I am trying to understand. I don't see how some men don't see how that's very similar to women thinking all men are bad because of bad experiences with some men. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"I'm not against the sharing of the video. I'm against anyone taking the video of a very small sampling of women and making assumptions about all women. However, I'm done discussing this with you. If you don't want to really discuss things, there's no point. I'm a good person who is female. Yes, we exist. No, not all females are good. However not all males are good either. Here is where I differ from you...I think people who are bad are bad and people that are good are good. I don't think gender … | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"And I'm just saying not all women are the same. I appreciate men. I defend men. However, I don't like it when some men label all women as being the same. That video was a poor representation of women. It was one locale. It was one age group. It was one type of women. I think the whole school making men apologize is appalling. I posted it on my fb page and said as much. (No, I won't give out my fb). I don't think men should be feared because they're men. I don't avoid men. I don't think men are v… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 07:21 AM |
| 0 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"You're choosing to read my statements the way you want. I'm not against men in general. I appreciate men. I'll just stop there. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | I like this subreddit. But....I need to focus on the good in this subreddit because, in fact, mostly what I've seen is good. Every group will have some that vent in negative ways and if they are the minority, I can deal with that. Honestly, I am more sensitive about the " all women" thing than I should be. Why? Because I just recently dated someone that was red pill/MGTOW and I was hurt very badly. (He's a good man) | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 01:08 AM |
| 2 | I like this subreddit. But....That's a good point. I hate that some people would rather hold onto hate than build bridges. I'm sorry that those groups are blinded by their own hate. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | What if kill all men happendI will just give one comment... black and white thinking can be too black and white. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 11:47 PM |
| 2 | I like this subreddit. But....I agree with everything you said. I'm going to focus on learning and I'll focus on the posts and responses that are focused on men's rights and I'll try to pass by the other ones (it might be difficult...lol). | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I like this subreddit. But....Thank you. Wow. That was beautifully written and well thought out. I did have some thoughts go through my head that while I'm an ally, maybe I should step back... not leave, but step back. I agree. I will say in a really interesting way that I may be over sensitive now because I did briefly date a red pill/ MGTOW man. He hurt me in a way that I didn't think possible. I don't even think he meant to... sincerely I don't. I still think he's a good man. However the last week we were together I quest… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 4 | What if kill all men happendIf you hadn't said (and not their own pleasure) it wouldn't sound like all we're good for is sex. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | What if kill all men happendNo, don't backtrack. You said they are designed for pleasure and not their own. That mixed with what you said earlier different post and women being most powerful when naked... that is vile. You are basically saying we are powerful naked and giving pleasure. Well... are you saying we are best when we are giving men sex? Please explain. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | What if kill all men happendI agree to disagree | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"Let me ask you a question and you don't even have to answer me, but think about it... Do you really, really care about solving the issues with men's rights OR do you want to hang onto your preconceived ideas about women for whatever reason? People with all kinds of ideologies will hang onto their anger sometimes instead of really listening to what the other person says for a few different reasons It helps them fuel some other emotion... I've done this. It helps then feel "right" and powerful... … | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I like this subreddit. But....That's one of my biggest beliefs... don't generalize any group. I've spoken up when people generalize young people, minoities, both genders, etc. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | What if kill all men happendPlease if this is satire, take it down. We are not weak and inconsistent. No, we aren't as strong as men in general, but please.... please don't say we're weak. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 6 | What if kill all men happendWomen are not designed for pleasure. That is so vile. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"I watched the video. Those women are wrong and entitled. They don't represent all woman. However, I really get the feeling that it wouldn't matter what I say, you'll well probably always think "all women. " I don't want to be looked at as a vile, entitled, greedy, emotionally driven idiot because I'm a woman. I don't think most men want to be looked at as violent, power hungry, irresponsible dead beats. Yet here we are some people think all women are like that. Some people think all men are like… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 5 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"Feminist- no I'm not, here's why- Many women won't even agree with anything in this subreddit, while I'm here because I agree with a lot of the grievances that men have. I am not against men as a whole. I'm against men that label women as all being the same. I'm against men that can't take any criticism if they use sweeping generalizations. I'm against men who resort to saying, "shut up" or "leave" if I stand against generalizations or if I give examples of other types of women. I'm also against… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | I like this subreddit. But....Thank you | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | I want to know more about this subredditThank you for clarifying. I think the societal definition of beauty is superficial. Yes, real beauty is found inside. I feel the same except about men... I'm only attracted to manly men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"Some women Some men It's not genuine or right to make blanket statements like yours. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I want to know more about this subredditI see the MRA as mixed group I'm post in that subreddit and very seldom get any backlash. I sometimes even disagree with posts... that sometimes does get a negative reaction. I usually only oppose posts that seem to want to paint all women as the same. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"I'm not a feminist. I'm saying this video does not represent women as a whole. If you want to argue with me, please be considerate and intelligent in your argument. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | I want to know more about this subredditSociety as a whole does not value people who don't earn money at much. While some men do value traditional women, many really don't. They might enjoy it, but do they really appreciate it? Do they let their wife help in financial decisions? Does she get to socialize outside the home? Does she get any say in where they live, how they raise the kids? Etc... because believe me, some men think, "if I earn the money, I get to choose how to use it." | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 09:32 PM |
| 3 | I want to know more about this subredditNow while some of what your said is nice... some makes me cringe. I don't want to be most beautiful when naked...ugh. my value isn't in being naked or beautiful. I guess it depends on what you mean by beauty... what about unattractive women? | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | I want to know more about this subredditWell, I think we have to find a way to make changes without becoming extreme. Because then some of us will start out with good intentions and end up with wrong motives or ideas. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 09:27 PM |
| 4 | I want to know more about this subredditI'm all for women that want a traditional role. I think it can be beautiful. Honestly I think my hang up is because I'm afraid I won't be valued as much. So it's definitely not because I think it's wrong. I think feminism also takes away what is beautiful about being a woman. I like being a nurturing person. I like that men tend to me more protective. I think there are so many things we could celebrate about each gender, but instead some choose to bash the other gender. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Are Feminists Racist By Saying #KillAllMenIt's sexism. I won't vote because it's worded wrong. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/03/21 08:14 PM |
| -5 | "ASKING WOMEN: CAN A MAN SAY NO TO SEX ?"I have an issue with this video. It uses a very limited demographic- looks like mostly young "hot" (or think they're hot) women, from the same area. I know all of my friends and they would NEVER say that. They would never joke about raping a man. They would agree that men have the right to say no. I respected men I've dated when they've said no in the past AND I never made fun of them for doing so or even thought for a moment they were gay. However, a few of my female co- workers probably would … | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | My opinion on teach "men not to rape"I never taught my son not to rape. Guess what? He's not a rapist. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 07:44 PM |
| -1 | So if you’re a man who prefers shaved, you’re a pedo?? But if you’re a woman who prefers shaved youre just a woman with a preference?? Double standards much?I agree most aren't doing anything to change. Most people don't really do much to change things. Most of us are satisfied with venting. I'll even say I'm guilty. That doesn't mean most women are bad. The bad ones are the ones you're hearing. The good ones (mostly) just go about their daily lives. Some don't even realize how upsetting this stuff can be for men. Just like men don't realize that some things that some men do can be really upsetting to women. I wonder sometimes when a man tells me it… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 0 | So if you’re a man who prefers shaved, you’re a pedo?? But if you’re a woman who prefers shaved youre just a woman with a preference?? Double standards much?Honestly, you really can't say that with any authority. You haven't met most women. You're basing your opinion on your experience. Maybe you're hanging out with the wrong people. Maybe the men you hang out with (and you if you date) are drawn to the wrong type of women. I would say the same to a woman who bashes men in general. If they pick the wrong men and hang around women that pick the wrong men... they are going to be exposed to more bad men. Our viewpoints tend to be myopic. It's human nat… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 2 | So if you’re a man who prefers shaved, you’re a pedo?? But if you’re a woman who prefers shaved youre just a woman with a preference?? Double standards much?You're exactly right. I see women that are like this. I've met some. However, I see many more that aren't. Sometimes what we focus on is all that we see. I have met lots of bad men. However I see and have met more good ones than bad ones. I could easily ONLY focus on the bad and then I would (consciously or subconsciously) ignore the good ones. The bad in any group get the most attention and are the loudest. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 12 | So if you’re a man who prefers shaved, you’re a pedo?? But if you’re a woman who prefers shaved youre just a woman with a preference?? Double standards much?I agree. A shaved pussy is just a shaved pussy. There's no need to read anymore into it. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 39 | So if you’re a man who prefers shaved, you’re a pedo?? But if you’re a woman who prefers shaved youre just a woman with a preference?? Double standards much?*some women Also, don't forget that some men have double standards. I stand up for men. I get bashed for it. However, I don't like it when I feel that some men honestly think all women are the same. There are good and bad men. There are good and bad women. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 27 | Do you really want to spend your entire life thinking about this stuff?I think you're right. I honestly think if the last man I dated left red pill thinking we could have been a great couple. It's very cultish... take some assumptions mix it with some truths and half truths, then add a dash of suspicion, while ignoring other truths and pushing aside the good things... and BAM- you have a toxic mixture of negative thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/21 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Women are more cruel than menThat was over 25 years ago. I did have the police take him away one time, but I didn't press charges. I probably should have, but it's too late. I did break up with him when my son was 3 months old. Here are my thoughts- I do agree that there are double standards concerning the attitude about violence against men versus violence against women. I don't think women are more prone to violence, but I don't think all of them are innocent necessarily. I think some women use other tactics if they aren'… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Women are more cruel than menWhile I agree some men get treated badly even horribly by some women. Some women get treated badly even horribly by some women. It's a human issue, not a gender issue. I do agree the courts are not as harsh against women who do these things (when it's illegal) and that possibly the public has less sympathy for men. I realize that a victim is a victim. I'm a woman and I can give examples from my life- My son's dad- I lived with him for 5 years. I worked two jobs sometimes. He worked one and often… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/21 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Raising a sonThank you | /r/MensRights | 28/03/21 04:23 AM |
| 6 | So, if a man paid child support that was not his, the woman cheated, lied or whatever reason, and the court ordered that he no longer has to pay anymore. Can he get back the money that he paid for valid reasons like the woman lied, cheated?I think she should have to repay. I don't know if the court would make her. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Why does all social media turn to men for cheap laughs but when the roles are flipped, it is sexist?People get mad when you point out their hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | About the “wall”I should clarify when the 41 year old started flirting with me I was 50. So I was officially a MILF by your information above. However, some places don't put an age limit on MILF. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | AppreciationMaybe, but maybe not. I appreciate men who are very masculine to men who are very feminine. I don't date feminine men, but I appreciate them. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Hey everyone, if you don’t mind take the following survey. For one of my classes.That's awesome and I think it's true. I used to think otherwise. I've learned a lot in the last few months. I actually dated a red pill/mgtow man (he told me he was). I just didn't know much about it. Funny thing is he had a ally in a lot of things he thought, BUT then it got to be too much and he was in too deep (in my opinion). I actually learned about the MRM from him. I had already realized men were being treated wrong in some ways...I just didn't know all the stuff. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Hey everyone, if you don’t mind take the following survey. For one of my classes.I noticed that. I'm more about connection than looks and surprisingly enough I've met some men that feel the same. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Hey everyone, if you don’t mind take the following survey. For one of my classes.One thing I find interesting in male/female interaction is how easy it is to fall into wrong thinking that most/all men want a certain type of woman. I thought for some reason that no man would be attracted to me because I'm not usually the center of attention. I dress simply, and somewhat modest. I do sometimes show a little cleavage. So, I sometimes wished I could change my personality, but I really can't... it's not me. The last man I dated was actually more attracted to me because I WASN'T t… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Hey everyone, if you don’t mind take the following survey. For one of my classes.That would be cool. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Hey everyone, if you don’t mind take the following survey. For one of my classes.I can't take the survey because I'm a woman. I hope you don't mind that I looked at it out of curiosity. I thought it was interesting. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | MRM AND violenceOkay. Thank you | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | MRM AND violenceI probably posted in the wrong group. It's more of a men's rights issue. I'm not saying some women don't get punished. I'm saying it's not socially acceptable then a man doing that to a woman. It doesn't mean everyone accepts it. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 7 | This subreddit is ruined.Can you give an example of FDS feminist.type of post? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 5 | This subreddit is ruined.I want to expand on the past where I was thinking some red pill ideas were right. I was starting to believe in hypergamy. I was starting to believe that maybe all I was good for (in some men's eyes) was sex. I was starting to wonder all kinds of things... how much did I let emotions control me... should I even be allowed to vote (yes... because of various things). So my thinking was getting twisted. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 12 | This subreddit is ruined.I never was deeply into red pill thinking but I was starting to believe some of it. Yes, women can be lured in also. Plus, yes, I'm dealing with the pain of dating a red pill man that made me question my value as a human just because I'm female. I asked when I first joined if it was okay. I was told it was fine. I would hope that ex- red pill men would be encouraged by seeing a woman's perspective. I would hope that by hearing how it can hurt women, the gap between the genders might not be as wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Can you confirm that personality matters?Yes! Very true | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | When a woman puts you in the friend zone try this...I've been friendzoned by men. It sucks, but I don't get mad at them or seek to make them jealous. I still respect them as a friend. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | When a woman puts you in the friend zone try this...I really don't get why this is brought up. I don't think every male friend I'm interested in is obligated to want more than friendship. I don't think men should feel obligated to more than friendship if he's interested in a woman. Is this really a men's right issue? Or is this, "she doesn't want to date me, so she's the bad one? " | /r/MensRights | 26/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Can you confirm that personality matters?I think it's a small percentage, but more than a handful. Who knows exactly? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Can you confirm that personality matters?I definitely don't want a relationship based on looks. It's so shallow. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Can you confirm that personality matters?I think another thing that happens is the bad examples get more attention. The people that quietly live their lives happily married or committed don't get noticed that often. I've also personally known men/women that were below average appearance wise (according to the arbitrary standards) that have dated successfully and been married successfully. I truly don't think I'm a "hot"female. I think I'm average... in most ways. I think that since my confidence has gone up my attractiveness has also. … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Can you confirm that personality matters?We can go against our nature if we face it head on. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Can you confirm that personality matters?Yes, there are good people. I do believe that. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Can you confirm that personality matters?That's why more people need to stop assessing people's value based on any other than character. If that became standard, what a better world we would have. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Can you confirm that personality matters?We need to start showing children better ways to approach things. This has to start in their families and then continue to be modeled in school. However, since so many humans are superficial, how do we even start? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Can you confirm that personality matters?I didn't mean to make things worse. It's true for women also. The less attractive a woman is the less she gets hit on. It's a very painful truth. I hate it also. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Can you confirm that personality matters?Same for women- the better you look the more men will hit on you. It's a painful truth. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 7 | Can you confirm that personality matters?I've heard that and I often wonder if that's all ages or just the younger (35 and under or something). The reason I wonder is because I used to be attracted to the bad boys. As I grew older (I'm 51) I've learned bad boys will not change for the better most the time. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 7 | Can you confirm that personality matters?I can only speak for myself in depth. For me personality is much more important than looks. However, it's not black and white. I do have a couple physical features that will turn me off, but it's not many and usually the ones I don't like are due to neglect and not how someone was born. I have a hard time dating someone with REALLY bad teeth or extremely overweight. Now to the positives- I've been attracted to men that were very skinny to pretty heavy. I've been attracted to tall and short men. … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 6 | TheRedPill: Enslavement through the promise of freedomLol | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | TheRedPill: Enslavement through the promise of freedomI don't remember dating you...lol | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | About the “wall”You can deny reality as much as you like also. I've been hit on (face to face) by at least 5 men 18- 27 years younger than me in the last couple years AND dozens on dating sites. Some of them can and have since had younger women. So, why did they hit on me if they are "good" enough to have younger women? Maybe because they are attracted to women that they are attracted to AND they don't worry about stupid stuff like the imaginary wall. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 13 | TheRedPill: Enslavement through the promise of freedomYour first paragraph...I just have to say that unless you've dated every single woman on the planet and read their minds... you cannot know the nature of every woman. Do you really think all women are alike? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 01:07 PM |
| 7 | An aha momentI still disagree partly. I do think at the end, he gave up caring. However, I knew him. We only dated a short time, but I knew him a few years before that. Also, he was trying to change some of his ways. He acknowledged some faults while we were dating. I will never believe he was totally cold hearted or his wanted someone to manipulate. As far as sex goes, that was not his motivation because he wanted to take things slow and we were taking things slow. It doesn't matter, but I don't think even … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | You know that feminist don't consider low status males as human when ...Thank you. I really love this subreddit. I like hearing things from a man's perspective. I also like that so far I've been treated very well. This is the kind of stuff we need on a larger scale so that we can stop being so divided. However, since some people enjoy doing things wrong to the other gender, it's a hard path to forge. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | You know that feminist don't consider low status males as human when ...No worries. I didn't even think you really meant that women should be assigned that role.i was just wanting to share that it can be an oppressing role to some women. I equate it to this... let's take a mentally strong man. He could easily become a lawyer and make 6 figures, but he hates desk jobs. He would rather work on cars and get his hands dirty. If someone were to tell him, "you have to be a lawyer because we recognize your aptitude for it." That would be oppressing him. The job itself isn'… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | You know that feminist don't consider low status males as human when ...I don't care how many men or women are in particular jobs. Some jobs are not able to be done by the average woman. Some jobs don't appeal to women. Some jobs don't appeal to men. I do think if an individual woman can do a particular job... like being a firefighter... AND she can pass all the physical fitness tests (without lowering the standards), fine. I don't think any company should try to even the percentages artificially. It's absurd. The only point I agree and disagree with is the part abo… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | High-school boys made to stand and apologise for being maleThis is so wrong on so many levels. Only the individual who does something wrong should apologize. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/21 08:41 PM |
| 6 | An aha momentI'm going to share some thoughts being aware I could be wrong. I had watched other videos that were just a tiny bit bothersome with him. We discussed it and mostly agreed or agreed to disagree. We also discussed many red pill topics. I do agree with some of the stuff he brought up... maybe it was more men's rights stuff that I agreed with. So, I really think he didn't mean to hurt me at that moment. I do wonder if he was using red pill tactics when I responded negatively to the video..."don't gi… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/21 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Is rape Culture a myth?Have you ever questioned why if a woman hits a man, one of the first comments is, "well, he must have done something bad to her." So, if you're going to go down the route of what is being normalized and accepted...violence against men is seen as okay by many people. Then look a little further and even a woman raping a man or joking about taking advantage of a man (against his will- which equals rape) is acceptable to laugh about. Yes, some men take advantage of women. Some men rape women, BUT so… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 05:47 AM |
| 10 | Making AssumptionsWow, that's sad. You were doing the right thing and they were blinded by their entitled, snobby character. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Is rape Culture a myth?I didn't address the "what were you wearing" subject. However, I will briefly. I've never met anyone personally that would defend a rapist because the woman dressed a certain way. I think that's more often lawyers that do that. I could be mistaken, but lawyers will do just about anything to throw the other person under the bus. When I was referring to compliments, I was referring to compliments- not cat calls. If a man tells me my eyes are beautiful, I'm not going to assume on that statement alo… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.And a lot of women won't make the first move. Some of them won't because of the idea that men should chase them. Some might not because they are shy. But whatever the reason, the burden is on the man many times. I've learned to ask men out or message first (when I was on dating apps), or whatever. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Is rape Culture a myth?I'm glad. I just got out of a relationship where it seemed he thought most/ all women were the same. He kept telling me I was not like them, but... it got too difficult and painful. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 15 | Is rape Culture a myth?I think the percentage of women that would actually make a man have sex is low. HOWEVER, the amount of women that would laugh at this video and see nothing wrong with it is higher. Thankfully, there are women (like me) that can honestly see the hypocrisy in what is acceptable to laugh at. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 07:31 PM |
| 17 | Is rape Culture a myth?Rape culture is a myth. If we had a rape culture, it would be praised and accepted. Most people don't accept or approve of rape. I think the problem comes from things like this: A woman goesout with a man, he tries to kiss her without asking... and they call that sexual assault. (Yes...if he keeps going... it's wrong) Men appreciating a woman's body... is twisted into saying men objectify women. (Yes some men objectify women) A man compliments a woman... well, surely that must be sexual. (Can't … | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Lol | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Thank you. He tells me I'm a good mom. He | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | MRM AND violenceYes and then just the daily life problems. Men suffer depression. Men suffer anxiety. Some women are supportive when a man opens up. Some women aren't. I am a supportive person when a man opens up. In fact, I feel closer to a man when I am allowed to see that part of him. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.I'm not fully understanding the last question. If you are only wanting sex, then it's best to be blunt and right in the beginning. If not, it will look like you're playing a game. If you want more than sex, you seek. To get to know her as a person before going to bed. The time frame... that's between the two involved. *** I only got mad when a man would say he wanted something more, but everything... EVERY...conversation revolved around sex. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Yes, the "high" can be nice. I had a brief time in my life where I didn't pursue a relationship with men that I slept with. I was very up front about it. I found it to be empty. That's another huge change I made. I feel so much more at peace. If both parties are honest and up front and honest about only having a physical relationship it can work. But... down the line it's empty .. at least for me. So, no more of that. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.What I've learned about myself in the last couple years is... The excitement of attraction is intoxicating, but dangerous. It's better to keep that in mind. It's okay to have that "high" with someone, BUT not good if that's all there is. I'm more determined to be myself. I'm not a loud person. I do like to go out and have fun. If I'm comfortable with the people I'm with, I'll talk a lot. However, I'm not going to get up and dance and be the center of attention. Looks matter less and less as I ge… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Yeah, dating apps suck. I agree women have better odds on dating apps. I left the dating apps because it felt so superficial. I like to see how a man interacts with other people. Honestly, I feel like there are good people in both genders, but to find them is not easy. Then to find one that will actually be compatible is even harder. For example, I met a great man a couple years ago. I did fall in love with him, but he just wasn't ready for a serious relationship. He was honest. It still hurt th… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Right. Now let me ask you this? What are you looking for? If you only want the physical, that seems to be what she's offering. However, if you want something more meaningful, you'll have to figure out why your still even thinking about her. Because from what you've told me, you're not going to get anything what from her. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Don't let physical attractiveness blind you to someone's character. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.If she ghosted you before, she will again. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.I hate game playing. That's part of what broke the last relationship up. Do I know for sure he intentionally played games? No, but it sure looked that way. Yes, women do play games sometimes. I think it's awful. In general I think people don't try to be self aware. Without self awareness, people don't charge. I've made some huge changes in my life just recently because I realized I was not doing what was best. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:39 PM |
| -2 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.It's hard for both genders. It could also be partly what type of woman you're attracted to. I used to be attracted to the bad boy type. Thankfully I only had a long term relationship with one. Now that I recognize that AND know what is really important in a relationship, I don't date bad boys. I'm 51. I had my son (with a bad boy) and then didn't date for over 20 years. I've been dating for the last 3 years. From what I've experienced and what I've heard from men... Some women are just after mon… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.I hope you don't mind that I'm commenting since I'm a woman. There are decent women. The last man I dated with hopes of forming a long term relationship lived in a very small one bedroom apartment. He used mostly restaurant cups for drinks. His furniture was old and simple. I didn't know what he made at his job when we started dating. He dressed simply and drove a nice, but not too expensive of a car. None of that mattered. The man I'm talking to right now I met at my job doing the exact same jo… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Mens Rights and FeminismI've personally never called myself a feminist. I do believe some reform was necessary years ago. I do agree...open and CALM discussions are important. Really listening to the other side is important. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Why aren't more people willing to really listenI always try to learn from experiences even if they hurt. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't more people willing to really listenYes. And I think the differences can and should be celebrated and appreciated. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Why aren't more people willing to really listenThat's true. I don't think he meant to hurt me. It's a long story. But I even told him I didn't think he meant to hurt me. I realize that I might misinterpreted things. Communication is important. Up until that last week we brought up concerns and talked then through. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't more people willing to really listenWe aren't together anymore. I wanted to be there for him, but after he got condescending to me a couple times, I stopped dating him. I still think he's a good guy for the most part. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | About the “wall”It's your opinion that he could only be attracted to me because he couldn't get anybody better. You're really showing YOUR opinion, your biased thinking. Go ahead. I hope you realize at some point people of all ages can be attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Dress code sexismI've never seen women forced to wear heels. I am willing to bet it's choice in 99% of the cases. Well, maybe not in modeling. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | About the “wall”I don't know how that reply is relevant. I am saying that the wall is a made up construct that some men choose to believe. The last man I dated was 41. I'm 51. He was very attracted to me. He pursued me. I broke it off with him. He was still red pill. I guess he didn't but into the "wall" or he made an exception for me. I have no idea. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 3 | As a man you should not have to prove that you are safeI'm sorry people assume that your a threat. I have never felt threatened by a man because he was large or black. However, sadly I know assumptions are often made. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 0 | As a man you should not have to prove that you are safeI can see why you're frustrated. I can't explain why some women are attracted to bad boys. I used to be. I recognized it and faced it head on and I've boiled it down to this, but there's probably more to it... Bad boys are usually popular. Some women think that's a way to up their status. Bad boys seem to (on the surface) be more exciting. Many women are attracted to excitement. Bad boys will usually love bomb at first, so this makes the woman feel extremely special. I realized that I don't need… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Dress code sexismI did say if it were obvious. ***don't get me wrong, I don't want to go around topless or even braless. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Dress code sexismThere's the whole bra issue. I don't think many places would be fine with a woman not wearing a bra if it were obvious. Those aren't very comfortable. There are double standards in dress codes. Ithink the whole suit and tie thing is outdated. However there are double standards that are biased "against" women. Women can't go topless in most outdoor public places. Men usually can. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 3 | About the “wall”Okay two things... I didn't go for it with the 23 year old. I tend to stay within 10 years of my age in dating. I'm fine with that if that is what they both want. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | About the “wall”That's a good point. I'm 51. About a year ago I started getting hit on by quite a few young men...23 and up. This was in person and on-line. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 7 | About the “wall”Are you in this a subreddit to convince people TRP is right? Being with an older woman isn't settling for leftovers. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Hate will rot your soul (and eventually life)I think so. I knew him about 4 years and we only dated a short time. I wanted to understand him and in some ways I did. I agreed that men have issues that are largely ignored. However, he seemed to want to pin all of those issues on women. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 4 | About the “wall”Please don't listen to it. I'm a 51 year old female (average looks... and overweight, but curvy in the right places)and I date and have had quite a few men want attracted to me. Ironically enough the last man I dated was red pill/ mgtow. He was 10 years younger. It wasn't my age that broke us up-it was other issues with his ideologies. I think he was starting to see that red pill/ mgtow wasn't completely right, but still held onto some hurtful ideas. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Hate will rot your soul (and eventually life)Yes, you're right. It affects people around you. I joined this subreddit because I briefly dated a red pill man. In the last week of dating, I found myself questioning my worth as a human being just because I'm female. It took me weeks to get over the pain. I might be over sensitive to criticism. But my mind was sent into a black hole... almost. I was able to function. I only cried a few times. But, I was left wondering what parts are true? Do men really think women are that bad... not able to t… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | I never understood red pill's hatred towards single mothers.I can't speak for women in general, but I'm totally unimpressed with expensive things. If a man has nice things, that's not what got me interested. If he flaunts his nice things, I'm turned off. The last man I dated (with hopes of a relationship) lived in a tiny one bedroom apartment with old furniture and no matching dishes. It didn't bother me at all. He did have a decent job, but I didn't know how much he made until we were dating. I know other women in my circle of friends that love their me… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | MoneyThat's true | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | MoneyOkay, please don't overanalyze the way I worded it. Think of this.... "I'd like to buy a house. It gives me a good financial investment. I won't be throwing away my money on rent every month. I will have my own yard. Most likely it will appreciate in value. Maybe even my sexual marketplace value will increase." Honestly, I don't remember his exact words.. so please just let it go. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | MoneyI didn't say that's why he wanted to buy a house. I'm just saying he saw that as a possible benefit. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Love...I agree I should never try to prove something about myself. I am definitely done with him. We broke up almost 3 months ago | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Love...I get it. I think desire is more sexual. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Love...Well, the desire thing varies with women. At least if I'm thinking the same thing you are. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 4 | A paradoxI knew you were using sarcasm | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Why do some of you assume that all mgtow/ redpill men hate women?I actually read some posts on that sub and found out was created to be one that DIDN'T promote hate against women and more focused on the "going their own way" mantra. I don't think all MGTOWS hate women. I don't think all red pill men hate women. However, I think some of the things that are heavily discussed in those ideological circles are hateful. That in turn makes it easier for some of the men to take hold of those things and pass them forward. That combined with the hurt (that I believe mo… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | There comes a certain freedom with swearing off datingI think the key is to NOT look at dating as the "end all, be all." Live life. Talk to people. Be willing to date, but don't think it's the answer to your problems. Don't think your self worth depends on the opposite sex's approval. Don't change yourself to win someone's attention. Also, don't think that the opposite sex as a whole is bad. There are good in bad in both genders. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Im married to a misogynistic, redpilled, mgtow narcissistI'm glad you're out also. It is very damaging | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Im married to a misogynistic, redpilled, mgtow narcissistWell, I know you're married so you can't just get out. I'm thankful I got out of it. I wouldn't date him again. Plus, any other man that leans that way will make me run. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Im married to a misogynistic, redpilled, mgtow narcissistI totally understand. He also used to tell me I'm demure. Well, I tried to tell him I'm not as demure as he thought. I think he was seeing what he wanted because I am a pretty kind person and soft spoken. However, demure sounds mousy to me and there are two ways I'm not demure. I will speak my mind if I feel it's important. Plus, I will get ugly if someone hurts me. I tend to limit how ugly I get with my words because I truly don't like hurting someone. I can be sexually aggressive in a relation… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Im married to a misogynistic, redpilled, mgtow narcissistAnd because I agreed with some of his beliefs, I think he was shocked at how upset I was. That video and his lack of any true concern for my feelings ended that relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Im married to a misogynistic, redpilled, mgtow narcissistPlus, knowing that he had some negative thoughts about women. He had me watch a video titled "3 reasons why women shouldn't vote. " | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Ex plack/red pilled, what made you change your mind on looks?There is a percent of men that will only date beautiful women. There is a percent women that will only date handsome men. It's not a gender specific issue. It's humanity. The good thing is that there are many other people that will date/marry less attractive people. Personality plays a HUGE part. I've been attracted to men with a wide range of looks. I'm not saying looks don't matter. You will have less women to choose from... just like I have less men to choose from because I'm not a 10... I'm … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Im married to a misogynistic, redpilled, mgtow narcissistI was in a very short relationship with a red pill/ mgtow man. I felt I had to prove myself and even sometimes felt like he was commenting when I passed a "test". For example, he took me out to eat and said, " at least you didn't order surf and turf." I guess that meant I didn't expect him to pay absurd amounts of money. Funny thing is he already knew I wasn't a gold digger He wanted the man to make the moves... so I stopped being the one to initiate kissing most of the time... or sex... He thou… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Cause of resentment against womenI think basically it's hurt turned into anger. Then I think they look to justify their anger, so they label "all/ most women" as horrible to have an outlet for that hurt and anger. It's very common to want to blame someone else when we're hurt. However, some people realize they have been hurt by individuals and not the whole subgroup those individuals belong to. It's really sad. Anyone who blames the other gender (in general) is really closing themselves off from potentially wonderful people of … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Does the 80/20 rule apply to women too?When a red pill man told me about the 80/20 thing, I didn't believe it to be true. I still don't. I also believe men are picking about looks, but not to the extent I used to think. Some of the reasons why I don't believe might be just because I don't judge looks too harshly. In fact, when I was on dating sites, I often swiped left because I thought a man was TOO good looking for me. I've also been seriously attracted to men that if someone were to rate his looks, I'm guessing they would have bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a double standard between men and women showing emotion and insecurityI think there is a double standard, but I believe many women don't subscribe to that double standard. I've always felt more concern/love when a man opened up to me emotionally. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you?I don't want to be with someone of they really don't love me. I would probably leave them if they don't love me. I could still be in a relationship that I recently left, but I decided he didn't care enough about me. It wasn't a long relationship at all, but I was intent on seeing it work... until I realized he lacked in the caring department. I could have stayed with my son's dad. However, he was abusive. That's a valid reason to leave. The problem I have with what you're saying is that it seems… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 3 | What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you?Maybe because some people look at romantic relationships as something serious and NOT something to be thrown away. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | I don't trust her. She's done nothing wrong but I don'tThat's all you've heard from every woman on your life? Then you have some bat shit crazy women in your life. Yes, that thinking is out there, but it's not even most women (that I know) that believe that. I do understand your point about not calling other women out. I will... or I'll just not hang out with them anymore if they are fake or mean spirited. But a lot of women will "back"other women up no matter what. However, some men do the same thing. It's more human nature than gender specific on … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/21 08:49 PM |
| 6 | I don't trust her. She's done nothing wrong but I don'tYou mention not being guilty of what "most men do." However, you sound like you're looking at women with pre-conceived notions. I KNOW I'm not like a lot of women. I also know many other women that are truly good. AND, I believe many men are good also. ***my thoughts- Good and bad exist in any subgroup of humanity. Women aren't predisposed to be evil, nor are men. Women aren't predisposed to be good, nor are men. Humans are flawed. Humans can be selfish. Humans can be good. It is up to the indiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/21 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Honestly I’m a true believer that beauty never fades (outer)Ok. That's fine. Most men I date aren't the MOST attractive to me either. However I'm able to think past the superficial to an extent and some man can also. Society is way too overconcerned with outward appearance anyway. I know not everyone will change their thinking. I know beauty is going to remain a factor until the end of time. However, I choose to focus on loving people (friends and potential boyfriends) based more on who they are and not what they look like. I don't lie and say nothing ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 7 | any other women in a similar situation? help?I understand. I have struggled with self esteem for most of my life. Then somehow I dated a man that was red pilled. I broke up with him because he had me questioning my value as a human being just because I'm a woman. Then I immersed myself into researching it to see if I could understand. Ugh, it hurt! However, I'm doing better now. It doesn't bother me nearly at much because I know I'm worth more than what those type of men think. I have really truly good friends. I'm actively dating, and enj… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Honestly I’m a true believer that beauty never fades (outer)As far as being the most attractive physically.. I'm no fool. I know other women my age and younger are much hotter. But, not all women have good character along with decent looks (I think my looks are decent... average). Plus, I don't even WANT a relationship with a man that is overly concerned about the physical features I have. There's nothing immoral about a man that wants a gorgeous woman, but if that's his focus... let him pursue that and let me pursue a meaningful relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Honestly I’m a true believer that beauty never fades (outer)I agree and disagree. I'm physically attracted to men of all types. If we just talk physical features, my attraction is very limited. However, I've found myself very attracted (emotionally and sexually) to men of varying physiques. Now, I won't pretend to know the mind of men in general. Yes, sometimes a man will say whatever is needed to get laid. However, I've also had younger men that genuinely seemed to be attracted to me. Could I be wrong? Yes. Do I think I'm wrong in those cases? No. I've … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Honestly I’m a true believer that beauty never fades (outer)Well, all I know is that over the last year and a half I've had MANY young men express attraction to me. This is online (dating apps) and in person. I'm surprised and delighted that they are attracted. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Why 'body count' is so important in TRP culture?Yes! I don't want to date a hypocritical man. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?That's a good way to put it. Not a boss, but strong and protective and clear minded, etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What is dread?Yes... like "make her think you're busy... even when you're not. " | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Why 'body count' is so important in TRP culture?I think it depends on why the number is important. I used to be religious. I did have a son out of which though when I was 25. After having him I became more religious and thought I would only have sex if I got married. Back then, I wouldn't have wanted to date a man with a high number of partners. Now, I'm an atheist. I didn't become an atheist so I "could sin." However, I look at sex differently now. I don't think it's wrong to have sex outside of marriage. I would have no problem being in a r… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?To an extent. However, because everything is a spectrum we have to be careful. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?I do agree that women tend to be more submissive and men more dominant. I don't even want to try to turn that upside down. I just think the extremes of either are just appalling. I know I can't be with a man that thinks he had to control everything. It's a spectrum. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The concept about n count is a bunch of absolute garbageHow many sexual partners you've had. I think the "n" is for notch...as in notches on your bedpost. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.I know the last man I dated was very untrusting of women. When my nephew was dying and I canceled a date, he said that could be a red flag. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What is dread?Ok. That makes sense. She had a sense of dread but not because you wanted her to have it. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 06:18 AM |
| 2 | What is dread?Did you do it on purpose to make her feel that? Because I'm thinking there has to be intent. I could be wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Is there a sub where ex-red pillers can discuss things?Some women aren't nice. Some women are. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 7 | Spotting a red pillerI never said he was a woman hater. I said that I suspect he might be a red pill man. Why don't you get off your high horse and stop assuming things that I didn't say? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 9 | Spotting a red pillerI know. I just think it would be interesting to know | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/21 05:03 AM |
| 3 | What age gaps actually are alright ?I prefer 10 years younger to 5-6 years older than me. I'm a woman. I will go farther in the older direction depending on energy level and personality. I think whatever the individuals involved are comfortable with is good as long as it's legal. The last man I dated was 10 years younger. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | on emotional intimacy and vulnerabilityI will only speak about myself. As a woman I am mostly drawn to masculine men (interpret that as you like) that also have a vulnerable side. I like the balance between a strong and protective personality and a tender, open, vulnerable personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/21 04:58 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?I'm not sure if we are meant to be anything. It's social conditioning. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?I'm attracted to masculine men but NOT dominant ones. I don't think a man has to be dominant in a relationship to be seen as masculine. Of course, that might depend on what you think dominant means versus what I think dominant means. I have no problem being seen as the "more gentle" person in the relationship. That's me. That's not all women. And even my gentle nature does sometimes take a backseat to my assertive side. I don't think that's bad. I stand my ground on my beliefs... unless I'm conv… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/21 11:23 PM |
| 6 | What do you think of Alpha Male Strategies?But why is it so important for a man to be seen as an alpha male or at least how some people think alpha males should be. Maybe I'm wrong. I do like masculine men. However, a man that isn't willing to compromise on some things is not attractive. I don't think anyone should compromise on their morals, but from what I've read about red pill stuff... they basically want the man to call the shots and the woman to accept her place as subservient. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Housewife/ stay at home momThe cock carousel, basically a woman that sleeps with many men. According to the red pill it lowers her value. 80/20- 80% of women go after the top 20% of men. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Housewife/ stay at home momHe said something like when a relationship ends all the woman loses is that she gave up pussy. He mentioned hypergamy many times. He mentioned the 80/20 thing about dating. When I asked him, "which gender more often voluntarily abandons their children?" His response, "well, maybe we should teach women to pick better men." "Raising kids is easy" (he doesn't have any) He talked about the c*** carousel. He talked about how women benefitted from the protection of men in the past. He specifically bro… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Emotionally drivenI agree with a lot of what you are saying. I think a healthy balance between stoicism and uncontrolled emotions is best.. I think we need to find the best time and place to talk about feelings without having a pity party all the time. I'm not saying people shouldn't be able to end their own life. However, I think there are ways to help less people feel suicidal. I think either extreme is bad... repressing emotions to an extreme is bad and then letting yourself wallow in emotions is bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Housewife/ stay at home momI think the woman staying home works for many people. I'm glad for them. I just don't like the idea that some men think that is the default position for a woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Housewife/ stay at home momWell, I dosee it both ways. I work and always have. I raised my son (with help from family). So, it's not I don't know what is like to work (and sometimes I've hated my jobs). As far as being a servant, that depends on the man's attitude. Some men will look at it as a partnership. Some won't. I like free time, but only in balance with work and other things. I do mentally better when I work. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 3 | InternalizingI do believe he tested me when I was upset. I'll be fine. I just need to stay away from men like him. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/21 05:49 AM |
| 1 | InternalizingI think I internalized it because I want people to like me and thinking that some men look at women this way really bothered me. I took it personally when I should have just gotten pissed. I was mad, but I was more sad. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 2 | InternalizingHonestly some women prefer bald men. Some women (like me) have no preference...I don't care if a man has short hair or long hair or no hair. I wouldn't want a man to do an awful comb over though. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/21 03:44 AM |
| 10 | Housewife/ stay at home momI don't ever plan to again. If a man I go out with says "red pill" or "MGTOW," I'll assume he's into to some degree. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Housewife/ stay at home momExactly | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 8 | Housewife/ stay at home momI already broke up with him, but it wasn't that alone that drove me away. He was die hard red pill... | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Most damaging red pill ideasYes, and with the man I was dating I felt a couple times that I was being treated like child. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | EncouragementWomen struggle with self worth also and some of them turn bitter towards men. I have self esteem problems, but I'm not bitter towards men. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | EncouragementI understand in a way. I had a common ideology (a certain religion) that I had to get away from. It was very difficult. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | EncouragementIt sounds like you are very aware of yourself and that will help. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Healing from a short relationship with a red piller. It was only 6 weeks, and I pushed some concerns aside at first, but it got to be too much.I think he treated me like a child a couple other times. I felt like he "hushed" me. Ugh! | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Most damaging red pill ideasGood point... they point a grim picture of women and of course AWALT. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | An interesting title.I am choosing me. I wanted to work it out with him, but I felt so "less than" him that I had to back away. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Most damaging red pill ideasDon't worry about stereotypes... be yourself and be the best you can be. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 03:19 AM |
| 4 | Most damaging red pill ideasDo you mean AWALT? I'm just clarifying. Yes, that is a damaging idea. Women are varied just like men. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 03:18 AM |
| 3 | TestsExactly. I tried to tell him early on that I am soft spoken, but I will speak my mind. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | An interesting title.I just want to say. I don't think he's an empty vessel. He's hurt and "brainwashed" to a certain extent. I don't think he meant to hurt me. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Power strugglesExactly | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 5 | An interesting title.Very true. I don't think very many people are completely healed from past events. I guess for me it will be measured like this- if his issues bring me down and cause me pain, it's time to stop seeing him. The last man I dated had me questioning my value as a human just because I'm female. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 21 | An interesting title.It's true for anyone. I learned that I often want to help men that are not healed, but I get hurt in the process. So, I have to learn to find an already healed man. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Healing from a short relationship with a red piller. It was only 6 weeks, and I pushed some concerns aside at first, but it got to be too much.I always question myself. It is hard | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 03:44 AM |
| 17 | Healing from a short relationship with a red piller. It was only 6 weeks, and I pushed some concerns aside at first, but it got to be too much.Yes, I'll admit that I'm not emotionally strong. I wanted to work things out with him. Looking back I realize that video was something that should have made me run away immediately. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 9 | Healing from a short relationship with a red piller. It was only 6 weeks, and I pushed some concerns aside at first, but it got to be too much.I realize that I should have stopped talking to him much earlier than I did. It's hard because I'm empathetic AND I question myself constantly. Even now I question if I should have been upset by the video | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.Exactly! I started feeling like "what test is he looking at now? " | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 02:47 AM |
| 11 | Healing from a short relationship with a red piller. It was only 6 weeks, and I pushed some concerns aside at first, but it got to be too much.I told my friend that I think at that point he started "playing a game". He didn't like that I wasn't this demure woman he thought I was. He mentioned a couple times that I was demure. I tried to tell him that... yes, I'm soft spoken to an extent, but I will speak up for myself. I was so hurt that he didn't seem to want to hear my thoughts. He told me that he didn't want to debate over every text. That was a cop out imo. He loves to talk about his thoughts. I just think he didn't want to face my… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 3 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.I will say that it happens with women too. I think extreme feminists (men hating feminists) are the same, but the opposite gender. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 01:12 AM |
| 4 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.Awesome. I can't believe some people go to the extreme on the red pill/ mgtow stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 01:06 AM |
| 13 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.Taking care of a house is easy. Raising kids is easy (he has none). The world is gynocentric. He would make comments that made me feel that I was being tested. "At least you didn't order the surf and turf" I suppose that meant I passed the test of not being greedy. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 11:02 PM |
| 16 | I don't know how I got notifications for this group.Yes, and I can understand why some men get a sucked in. Anytime someone gets hurt it's natural to find a way to lash out. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Honestly I’m a true believer that beauty never fades (outer)Thank you | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Honestly I’m a true believer that beauty never fades (outer)I honestly believe there are MANY wonderfully handsome/beautiful older men and women. I recognize that there is a societal standard of beauty versus the standards of beauty that individuals have. I truly believe more people (than are willing to admit) don't strictly adhere to the "model" type of beauty, but are maybe afraid to date someone to outside of the "model" standard. They might think they will be teased for dating someone less attractive. ----‐-------------‐------ Here's another thing th… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 08:38 PM |
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