I am new to this red pill stuff so bear with me.

The man I was recently dating was red pilled. I didn't know at the time what that meant. However, I started thinking that I was passing tests I didn't know I was taking.

"You're so demure" "You don't have a mean bone in your body. " "I'm glad you don't delete our texts, because that could be a red flag. " "At least you didn't order the surf and turf." "I am so attracted to your demeanor."

I am now beginning to understand that he saw me a a submissive- even though I told him that I speak my mind and that I can be mean.