I recently thought of a good way to voice how housework being a stay at home mom CAN be oppressing. I think some red pill men think it's not possible to be oppressing because it's easy (in their minds, but that's another discussion).

Let's take a mentally strong man. He could easily become a lawyer and make 6 figures, but he hates desk jobs. He would rather work on cars and get his hands dirty. If someone were to tell him, "you have to be a lawyer because we recognize your aptitude for it." That would be oppressing him. The job itself isn't oppressing. Someone making him do it is oppressing.