A balanced approach as a female

magical_elf · 2021-03-31T20:09:09+00:00

I honestly feel life is too short to spend time with toxic people, or to allow them to vent their toxicity in my general direction.

The older I get, the less willing I am to associate with people I don't respect and like. I used to try to talk to Incels in the way you describe - being kind, listening to them. And honestly it started to affect my mental health. I eventually realised its not my responsibility to help people who won't help themselves.

smellmyfartsplease67 · 2021-04-01T01:25:56+00:00

I dated a guy who was very into Mgtow and redpill stuff even though he denied it.

He was a little younger than me and tried brainwashing me into believing that I was losing value quickly because I was getting old and hitting the wall and that he was the last man on earth that would ever put up with me.

Ultimately I left because he literally told me he fantasized about stabbing me and had hit me multiple times. He always bragged about having a lot of money and being good looking. Well....most level headed women don’t care about that if the guy is also borderline about to kill them lol.

A lot of redpill men act like men can never do any wrong in a relationship and everything is the woman’s fault. Total narc behavior.

GoodFaithSockPuppet · 2021-04-01T17:35:36+00:00

They have no power over you. Do not surrender your power.
The most powerful technique is the "Air-lock" method.
Do not downvote, do not engage, do not rant or rave.
Just move past, visualizing that they are floating away into deep space.
As even downvotes can acts as fuel.
> Be "based and redpilled"
> Get -10 downvotes
> Negative Attention Gained! Bias Proven!

We are all struggling, the secret is to share your strength only where it may make a difference you can keep track of. Give a man a pizza, he eats for a day. Get a man making pizza, and he can get 2 slices a shift as his employee meal.

But unless you have a pizza parlor? What do?
Toss someone an upvote to let you know you witnessed them, maybe a short comment of condolence, and move along. Life is shorter than we give it credit for being. Use it with wisdom and joy.

Title	A balanced approach as a female
Author	cabsmom2020
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	March 31, 2021 8:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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