Does redpill mean ill die alone?

Due_Wasabi_7306 · 2021-08-12T21:10:17+00:00

I saw something that says they only want the top 20% or high value men

Just look at the people around you. In your community and so on. If women just wanted the top 20% logically there'd be waaaay fewer relationships/marriages. Its a very unrealistic view of the world. High value also means different things to different people. The Internet has distorted this to mean man with a 6 figure salary but that isn't always the case.

These redpill coaches get people because there is a fraction of truth in what they say and people want easy answers to complex problems so some don't even realise how overblown the narrative is. Same as women having 100 sexual partners by 30. Its possible but extremely rare because most people don't have the time and most people just want to be in happy committed relationships.

Inareskai · 2021-08-12T21:40:39+00:00

Real love is a hard concept to define. But healthy love - respectful, interested, communicative - is definitely worth it and also fairly easy to observe out in the world if you're looking for it.

You're just exceptionally unlikely to give or get that sort of love through TRP methods.

Comfortable_Intern57 · 2021-08-12T22:37:04+00:00

None of that is true, but you might if you go down the redpill rabbit hole. Truth is, I know plenty of couples where the wife ends up having to take care of their ill husband later in life. My father gave up on relationships after his divorce over 30 years ago from my mom. I really wish he got remarried because my sister and I ended up having to take care of him when he got lung cancer before he died. It was really stressful and hard because we both had full time jobs and I have a kid to take care of too. But even before that we kept trying to get him to at least date or something, but he was just really bad with women and didn't really want to put any effort into it.

xvszero · 2021-08-13T04:46:14+00:00

No, because red pill is nonsense. Stop watching dumb nonsense that is untrue and depressing you.

RonSwanson2-0 · 2021-08-13T01:55:05+00:00

It's not based in real life and the influencers pick and choose data to suit their narrative. It's just fake news. People meet people and create bonds. Sometimes those bonds break but most of the time it's not for the reasons the popular RP "gurus" claim it to be.

zoemondo · 2021-08-12T21:29:32+00:00

I would bet that redpill guys are more likely to die alone. Their horrible attitudes and beliefs scare decent people away. And anybody who does hang around them is probably not a healthy person to be around either.

My parents are semi-redpilled and they have zero friends. Yes they have each other, but my mom is so incredibly manipulated (battered wife syndrome) she's effectively braindead. Think of the military guy's wife in American Beauty, that's basically her. Having a partner like her is worse than dying alone.

Not sure if this answers your question but it needs to be said. Redpill doesn't promote real love.

OhDatBoi1273 · 2021-08-12T21:36:33+00:00

Trp itself means nothing, it's an ideology like any religion or communism or capitalism.

BiWomanHealing · 2021-08-13T17:53:58+00:00

The redpill sphere is mostly low self esteem, abused, neglected and otherwise traumatized or even PERSONALITY DISORDERED men and women fucking up each other’s lives. Other than the basic advice to take care of yourself (maximize your appearance, financial responsibility, and grow your social skills/friend group), which isn’t even a redpill idea it’s just common sense, the rest of it is formulaic and unhealthy. Also, these people really need to go outside and take their blinders off. There are many many very homely, average and everyday people in relationships and marriage but, because they are sane and not mentally ill, they don’t go posting all over the internet about their relatively sane and healthy life. Better option would be to learn more social skills and relationship skills. Learn about narcissism, borderline and anti social personality disorders so that you can stay away from them. And stay away from people who reject their adulthood (chronically unemployed, impulsive/addicted or irresponsible).

BlackVsilver · 2021-08-12T20:53:38+00:00

I don't fully embrace red pill but what I've learned from it is you gotta watch for yourself. And watch the red flags. You're an american with assets? Get a pre nup before marrying someone. I still believe in looks matter, game and plus chemistry in love.

PhuzeBall · 2021-08-16T21:07:42+00:00

No, but I personally don't mind. Thinking about this is obsessive and time consuming since it plays into my general anxiety.

Title	Does redpill mean ill die alone?
Author	Background-Eye-8875
Upvotes	13
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Date	August 12, 2021 8:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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