Omg, I just realized why I cringe and feel slightly embarrassed when I discuss gender and dating, even though I don’t have a crazy ideology.

Being so hung up on these things is like the cats vs dogs debate. It’s so cringy when grown adults talk about these things with conviction and hatred even.

Like, come on. And if you talk to actual academics/intellectuals over 30 they just don’t seem to understand what the point is with the whole boys/girls thing. I also noticed that in social groups with educated adults, they tend to segregate by gender way less, whereas lower ed or poor people will have the men in one room and the women in the other.

I didn’t finish college btw so I’m not bragging, it’s just a trend I noticed.

Edit to add: I mean well-adjusted, educated adults btw, not Reddit weirdos with a “high IQ” and a Rick and Morty tattoo.