I made a post like a week ago mainly describing what I liked about the red pill and some minor issues I had with it. Well now I have even more problems with it that I finally realized and I would like to vent what I hate about TRP now.
"80/20 rule, 80% of women only want the top 20% of men."
This is just so wrong and/or pointless on so many levels. 1) 80% of men WANT the top 20% of women in terms of beauty, so... congratulations on stating the fact that people WANT things, why does this even matter 2) who cares what people WANT? what people WANT is usually irrelevant to reality. 3) the marriage rate for men is 50%. And obviously that's only talking about marriage. Plenty of people get into relationships without getting married. >50% is the majority. The majority is > 20%... What is the point of stating that women WANT to be with a handsome rich guy, was this not already common sense?
"Women are shallow selfish and cruel and whatever else."
Men and women are equally shallow. But TRP acts like women are more shallow then men are. Men literally pursue women solely based on what she looks like. What is the point of stating that women are shallow? PEOPLE are shallow. No gender is more shallow than the other. Men nor women are angels, is this not common sense?
"Women want the best guy she can get / hypergamy"
Another true blank statement that can be said about men as well. Whats your point? Yeah women want the best guy she can get and if something substantially better regarding looks and money comes along there is a good chance she will leave/cheat. Men do the EXACT same thing. Men want the most beautiful women he can get too. If a man is dating a 6/10 woman and a 9/10 woman comes along that wants him, he's gonna want her and leave the other girl. What is the point of stating that women want the best guy she can get? Like no fucking shit. Everyone wants the best they can get.
This stuff is honestly just plain stupid. TRP turns common sense into some crazy next level scientific breakthrough discovery and fools you into thinking you are discovering the truth behind how the world works!
Obviously women want to be with a handsome rich guy, just like how men want to be with a beautiful woman. Obviously women are shallow, men are too. Obviously women wants to be with the best partner that wants her, men are the same fucking way. Obviously selfcare and working yourself and career will attract women, just like how women work on their appearance to attract a mate. This shit isnt rocket science.
I really liked the community at first but then I realized that I didn't really learn anything from it. It is just some common sense coupled with stupid/pointless/demeaning terms such as "alpha,beta,slut,bitches" and the promotion of shitty behaviors that will never lead to happiness for either party. I'm done with it. It literally teaches men (boys) to withhold affection to be seen as more "alpha". Shut the fuck up with your god damn alpha terminology. I cannot stand to hear that word again it just makes you sound like the very thing you are trying not to be - a fucking beta. Real ALPHAS do not give a fuck about TRYING to be "ALPHA". They don't use manipulation tactics on low value, VULNERABLE women to get sex from them and hurt them in the long run. They don't browse these stupid forums asking for advice on how to be manipulate their new "bitch" to get her to want to suck his dick.
There is nothing more annoying to me than hearing the terms alpha and beta. It just makes you sound so stupid and immature and "BETA". A fucking alpha is someone who pursues excellence in all areas of his life, respects himself and others, and doesn't take shit from anyone. Not some asshole on a reddit forum teaching young men to refrain from being affectionate to someone he actually cares about. TRP literally teaches that developing feelings for a girl is "beta"/bad. How is there anything wrong with feeling for a girl? Men are designed to feel for a woman, it's biology. Obviously this can screw guys up pretty bad if they get too obsessed or clingy but like everything else in this world - too much of a good thing can be bad for you, nothing new there.
There IS a problem with putting her on a pedestal and obsessing about her too much, but to feel for her and care about her when you are already together? To feel for a girl makes you a "beta" bitch loser? Fucking as many girls as possible makes a cool "alpha"?
I've heard from a COUNTLESS number of people that one night stand/ hookup/ FWB/ no strings attached sex, is no where NEAR as awesome and satisfying as having sex with someone you actually care about and cares about you. This type of loving relationship still exists you just have to work on yourself and find the right person and not some low self esteem, vulnerable, damaged, promiscuous girl that TRP preys on.
Why would I want to sleep with as many damaged girls as possible that are sexually turned on by me manipulating her? LOL! On what planet does that lead to happiness and satisfaction? On what planet does any of this shit... nevermind this post is long enough lmao.
Here's the bottom line. Quality traditional women are out there. Yeah it's true there are shitty women out there that literally marry guys just for his money and then divorce him for even more money. Men need to be aware of that kind of thing to prevent getting scammed. Men need to be aware that focusing on your career and health should be your top priorities in life, instead of chasing girls. If she wants you, you wont have to chase her. Men need to be aware of some basic truths written in TRP philosophy, but these basic truths are so logically obvious you don't need to be a part of some bitter bullshit community that teaches you to manipulate women to make them want you. The only women that will fall for that shit are the ones no one wants to be with long term.
Build a good life for yourself and women will come - this shit isn't rocket science. Fuck TRP.
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