so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 9-10 months now, i love her and she loves me, i understand that we both have sexual pasts, bur for some reason one in particular still bothers me to this day, my past is much worse than hers as she lost her virginity to me, but for some reason this past occurrence bothers me.

it happened about 2 months before we got together, but i can’t get over it, i don’t know why and i really can’t seem to understand what it is, but it comes back all the time, i don’t want to lose her, which is why i came on here to try find some help.

it bothers me to the point where i can’t do it (what happened with the other lad), which is really bothering me cause i want to for her and for me, i really do need help with this, we both love each other and everything else in our relationship is amazing, it’s just this 1 little thing causing problems