So where do I go from here

OhDatBoi1273 · 2020-11-13T09:18:24+00:00

Try calling them relationships instead of sexual marketplace, it's not prostitution! (Btw, there is nothing wrong with it)

Women are people, too. I am so tempted to say that trp works but simply for the wrong reasons.

Trp will make you hate yourself for failing, other men for succeeding and women because they are not interested. They want you to act like a dick and be rude and think like them. One can't live with all that.

Instead, it works because you act like an individual, someone who has self respect and doesn't drool after a woman for sex.

You can do the exact same things trp says but without thinking of it as a game, without thinking of women as targets or sex machines, without thinking that you are a hunter, without hatred or rudeness or machism. You can choose to respect.

You are a person, she is a person, it is going to be a mutual relationship. You show signs, she does, that's the thing. You want it to be occasional sex, then it is a open relationship, be clear about it and no one will get hurt. Communication is key.

On a side note, friends' connections and friends' friends are your best chance for a relationship.

Inareskai · 2020-11-13T09:01:08+00:00

I'm not going to tell you what your strategy should be, because no one strategy is going to work and any advice I give would be too generic given that I don't know you.

I would say that getting rid of any redpill of how men and women 'work' or there 'nature' will likely help in the long run though.

RedPillDetox · 2020-11-13T09:27:51+00:00

This isn't a dating advice sub, OP. The best we can do is point you towards more healthy dating advice than TRP like Mark Manson, Steve Mayheda, The Mating Grounds, Howie Reith or Doctor Nerdlove.

Title	So where do I go from here
Author	mylifeishell97
Upvotes	7
Comments	3
Date	November 13, 2020 7:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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