Work on my personality

SmytheOrdo · 2019-08-16T02:39:27+00:00

you're taking this entirely too top down. personality usually refers more towards demeanor in a dating context

TrashPanda10101 · 2019-08-15T20:24:09+00:00

I... don't understand. What is the point of this post? :\

Yesm3can · 2019-08-15T21:07:46+00:00

Honestly, there are A LOT of people with less things going on in their lives than you, who paired up. Also physical-wise, less attractive.

OP, sometimes it is just down to pure luck. Most of the time even.

The negative traits can be worked with a trained therapist. You need professional guidance for it. Those are the lists of something that internet randos cannot help you. Also don't worry about changing several therapists until you found the right one.

Also your drawings are simply amazing and beautiful. Love the one with the snail.

Rad1Red · 2019-08-16T11:39:59+00:00

A bunch of internet strangers cannot tell much about your personality from a few words.

You will need to talk to someone face to face, on a regular basis. Could you visit a life coach / therapist in your area? People do go to those just for general life improvement.

They could help with techniques for overcoming shyness, which seems to be your issue here since otherwise you seem nice and an interesting person. Good luck!

rofl1969 · 2019-08-17T11:28:11+00:00

I don't mean this as an insult but maybe you'd do well to work on practising socializing? Do you have any/many friends?

Also how's your empathy like? Do you tend to wish well for others?

Also if this is for dating, what's your physical appearance like? If you need to lose weight, do it, start asap. Try to be the best looking version of yourself that you can be comfortable with the upkeep for.

QQZY · 2019-08-21T06:02:09+00:00

I like your drawings

Sunken_Titanic · 2019-08-27T04:14:35+00:00

Ok , liked the reusmé. But no one sees personality first. So really you should start dressing well and make people want to know you more to find out about your amazing personality. if you need to lose weight, lose weight , if you need to get a better hair cut that suits your face do it !! Sounds shallow but it's true - you have to present yourself in a certain way to get people to find out about your complex personality that I'm sure many people will love :)

boardgaming234 · 2019-08-29T15:36:32+00:00

Let me tell you a dirty little secret.

You can have all the personality in the world, all the looks in the world, do literally everything right, and still come out as a failed normie. Why? It's simple. Because the world isn't fair. I've known objectively inferior men - no I'm not saying this out of spite or some shit I literally mean objectively worse men - being inviting to parties and hooking up with attractive women while I was in college. These men had no future and were douchebags, yet they were living the dream.

Don't play that game. Go meet people that actually care about you. The missing component when you feel that you are doing everything right is that you're not looking at the right places for friendship and companionship. There is a place for everybody, just look at tumblr back when it was alive.

Title	Work on my personality
Author	Ambassadorcel
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	August 15, 2019 7:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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