So I had one short relationship 2 years ago. I assume the reason why I'm here is because I meet very few guys and probably because my standards are high. My social circle is very closed, usually a couple of small groups of girl friends that don't bring anyone new. I meet sometimes guys but rarely anyone is my type because of it's a one friend group, usually all the guys are very similar. They usually find me attractive, I try to lower my standards but just I can't imagine kissing them especially something more. I usually fantasize about guys that I haven't even met or don't like me. Until recently, I would get incredibly shy and uncomfortable around guys I like which ruined any chance of me getting closer to them. Now, I'm more comfortable but I can be often foolish. What do you think I should do? Is Tinder okay? Or a bar? Or maybe I should ask my friends to set me with their friend? I wish to have a serious relationship, so no hook ups.