An Example of How HVM Approach LDRs - Don’t Settle for Less

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-03-03T15:50:20+00:00

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pinkyberries · 2020-03-03T17:10:38+00:00

With my ex (he lived 5-7 minutes away by car) he limited our relationship to meeting up once a week because meeting up more than that gave him "anxiety". Even simple meetups like coming over or going to the park.

He canceled a lot of them for friends and his sidehoes so sometimes i would not see him for 3 weeks to 2 months so when i would surprise visit him he would softly kick me out or tell me he has to go to work/family and it would ALWAYS get canceled when i would get home and see him online on steam playing games with friends.

With my current boyfriend (3 months together, lives in a diff country) he visits me every month for a week. I see him more than i saw my ex.

JOEYMAMI2015 · 2020-03-03T17:52:54+00:00

My parents were LDR for like 3 years because my dad came to the States but he couldn't bring her with him yet until he could get settled, become a legal resident and marry her. Everyone thought he would quickly forget my mom and move on. Their own families would even tease them for wanting to continue their relationship. Well, they continued writing letters to each other and he would travel every year back to the old country, to see her! Finally, they got married in the old country and my mother was allowed to travel to the states and got her residency though my dad. This was back in the 80s. My mom still has all his letters and gifts he would send to her on a daily basis! And yes, they're still together! 43 years of dating and this upcoming Easter, 35 years of marriage!

If a man really wants a special woman in his life, he will go through hell and back for her!

7_0f_9 · 2020-03-03T16:18:05+00:00

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https://youtu.be/9wxI4KK9ZYo

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Title	An Example of How HVM Approach LDRs - Don’t Settle for Less
Author	CuriousCatNYC777
Upvotes	34
Comments	7
Date	March 3, 2020 3:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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