Argument about paying on a date, after repeatedly being down voted for saying that it's a sign he's not that into you, it shows a larger pattern of disrespect if he doesn't pay.. it transpires further down in the comments that they had rescheduled from a previous date when she WAITED AN HOUR for him

classylassy28 · 2020-01-22T22:43:44+00:00

This girl needs FDS. Wow. He invited her, duh he should pay.

Also it's the truth, if he likes you and gets the vibe something's possible ...he will ALWAYS pay. If he's not that into you, and is probably a loser in general...he won't pay.

Fitncurly · 2020-01-23T04:54:28+00:00

Dudes need to stop acting like dinner is a bank-breaker. Who’s going to a 5 star restaurant on a first date anyways? My first date with my guy was going to the mall (we were basically kids) and I don’t remember if he paid for the food (he probably did), but I remember he needed pants (random I know) and when we went to the store he asked me if I wanted anything. So I picked out a $30 board game (once again, reaaaal young 😆), and he bought it for me without blinking. We still have that game and play it for nostalgia from time to time. What I’m getting at is, don’t believe the hype. They will invest in you if they take you seriously. And holy shit, if these dudes think dinner or a $30 game is so crazy an initial “investment” then 🤷🏻‍♀️👋

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-01-22T23:25:44+00:00

I think it's fair that whoever asks should pay. But see, they want my time and attention more than I want theirs so I never ask.

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