Doesn't just include financial support like letting him use your car, paying the rent yourself, paying 50/50, paying the whole check, etc.

It's also your free labor. Cooking, cleaning, your support, your validation, how much you stroke his ego and make him feel worthy. Even your attention, responses to his texts/calls/video chats/and you always pick up and are always there for him. Your emotional support, your precious time, your attentiveness, your approval, your reciprocation, etc.

So be careful how much of all of that you are giving away. They don't just have to use you for physical things like a place to live or materials or even sex. Make sure he's worthy of ANYTHING you give to him. Some of these men honest to God don't even deserve basic human decency. And if you are currently giving this to lvm, or anyone else you don't seem worthy, cut the cord. None of this is freely given away, it's earned.