I don't do it myself but don't let these guys have access to you for free. No matter how attractive you find him. And, of course, the obvious which is don't let him get you drunk, high, go back to his place, etc. And dont let him get an opportunity to have you alone with him unless you're 100% sure you wanna go through with anything sexual.

Because now they're talking on the losersphere how women place men in two categories- one for sex (for free) and the other group is the one paying (for meals and stuff). Nah, bro, y'all both paying and putting in effort. Otherwise there's the door and your hand to accompany you. He has to be benefiting you. Make him do ALL of the work before you even touch him. Make him make you orgasm before he gets his or walk right out. Or better yet- get yours and walk out before he gets his 🤣

If it's not be benefitting YOU, don't do it.