I had been giving my time to a guy I thought was really cool at first, but once this virus hit, he was like "just give me some time." Time for what? He was still active on IG, posting all his usual shit, viewing my stories, but ghosting me. I thought he was worth talking to because he seemed very serious about marriage (we never met, just talked on the phone). After reading more of the handbook today and reviewing posts, it made me realize he was lovebombing and also asking what I wanted to get my cheat sheet (I didn't say I wanted marriage but I guess he figured that would still work on me). This forum really gave me that extra push I needed to finally unfollow and block him. He was adding no value to my life. I was settling for nothing. Just some fantasy in my head.