RULES OF A MARRIAGE

  1. BARE MINIMUM HUSBAND, BARE MINIMUM LIFE (IF YOU HAVE A BARE MINIMUM HUSBAND, CONGRATS /S. NOW EXPECT A BARE MINIMUM LIFE. DOING OTHERWISE BRINGS DISAPPOINTMENT AND RESENTMENT)

  2. LOW EXPECTATIONS DON'T GET DISAPPOINTED (DO NOT LET YOURSELF GROW SAD AND BITTER AND ANGRY BY THE SOCIETAL EXPECTATION THAT WOMEN SHOULD BE MARRIED, THAT IF THEY'RE NOT, THEY'RE UNDESIRABLE, HENCE THEY BATTLE THAT PRE-CONCEIVED NOTION EVERYDAY, WHICH WEARS THEM THIN. DON'T LET IT. PROVIDE YOUR OWN SECURITY.)

  3. DON'T EXPECT RESPECT, APPRECIATION, OR HELP (BECAUSE YOU WON'T GET ANY. IF YOU SOMEHOW DO GET SOME, SAY, GOOD BOY!!! BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T, HE WILL SAY YOU DON'T RESPECT, APPRECIATE, OR HELP HIM. REMEMBER, YOU CAN'T TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS SINCE HE DOESN'T GIVE A DAMN, BUT YOU ARE EXPECTED TO VALIDATE HIS SMALL AMOUNT OF FEELINGS WHENEVER THEY CROP UP SO HE DOESN'T FEEL LIKE LESS OF A "MAN" WHO HAS A WIFE WHO MAKES HIM FEEL INFERIOR)

  4. NEVER TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS BECAUSE 1) HE DOESN'T CARE HOW YOU FEEL (BECAUSE HE DOES NOT RESPECT YOU) AND 2) HE WILL CALL YOU CRAZY (A METHOD TO SHUT YOU UP BECAUSE AS WE LEARNED WITH #1, HE DOESN'T CARE HOW YOU FEEL)

  5. TO FEEL GOOD ON THE INSIDE FOR YOURSELF AND NO ONE ELSE, EXPECT NOTHING FROM HIM. ONLY DO THINGS FOR YOURSELF. HE WILL NEVER DO THEM FOR YOU.

  6. FORGET THIS LIST AND YOU WILL FALL INTO THE TRAP OF BELIEVING YOU WILL GET MORE FROM YOUR HUSBAND. YOU WON'T. YOU WILL ONLY BE LEFT WITH SOUR GRAPES AND DISAPPOINTMENT AND HE WON'T GIVE A DAMN. (THIS IS NOT MAN-HATING. THIS THE DAILY TRUTH OF LIFE FOR MANY (NOT ALL) WOMEN. THOSE WHO DON'T UNDERSTAND THESE THINGS OR DISAGREE WITH THEM EITHER 1) ARE A MAN OR 2) ARE A WOMAN IN COMPLETE DENIAL OR 3) THEIR HUSBAND IS LISTENING AND THEY CAN'T SPEAK THE TRUTH)

  7. MOST MEN ONLY WANT FOOD, SEX, FREEDOM, AND NO CONFRONTATION (IF YOU DO HAVE YOURSELF A MAN WHO SEEMS TO THRIVE ON CONFRONTATION, AND THEREFORE JEALOUSLY, ANGER, HATE, ETC., THEN CONGRATS! /S. YOU HIT THE JACKPOT AND FOUND YOURSELF A BARE MINIMUM HUSBAND WITH A SMALL PENIS BONUS. GET OUT NOW. A MAN LIKE THIS FAILS TO PROVIDE SECURITY, THE PRIMARY REASON FOR MARRIAGE. YOU MIGHT AS WELL BE ALONE AND WORK TO GET YOUR OWN SECURITY, SINCE YOU WILL NEVER GET IT FROM HIM, HE WILL ONLY TAKE IT AWAY, WHICH IN TURN, DIMINISHES YOU UNTIL YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE LESS THAN NOTHING.)

  8. A SELF-RELIANT, UNMARRIED, SECURE WOMAN WITH HIGH EXPECTATIONS IS A WOMAN THE WORLD FEARS. (MEN WILL HATE HER BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THEM. WOMEN WILL HATE HER BECAUSE THEY ARE UPSET THEY CAN'T BE HER (YET.) THIS IS THE IDEAL WOMAN. A WOMAN WHO MAKES HER OWN RULES, IS ACCOUNTABLE TO NO ONE BUT HERSELF, AND IS ABLE TO PROVIDE HERSELF WITH SECURITY WITHOUT RELYING ON A MAN. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY A WOMAN MAY FIND TRUE EQUALITY AND HAPPINESS IN A MARRIAGE. AN INTELLIGENT WOMAN WHO IS ALREADY SECURE GOING INTO A MARRIAGE CAN NOT BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF. SHE CAN HAVE HIGH EXPECTATIONS. THE MAN WILL RESPECT HER. BECAUSE HE KNOWS SHE CAN LEAVE WHENEVER SHE WANTS AND HAS FREE WILL. SHE IS THERE BY CHOICE, NOT BY NECESSITY. MEN CAN SMELL THE DIFFERENCE AND TREAT WOMEN ACCORDINGLY)