Help me get back my assertiveness and respect

whatglasses5 · 2020-06-10T16:50:01+00:00

Check out shera7 on YouTube. MJ Harris on YouTube is good too. Also read “Why Men Love Bitches.”

A good way to have self respect is by walking away from some asshole who “isn’t sure” about you anymore. Standing up for ourselves grows our self respect, while shrinking ourselves down to be loved erodes it.

throw248348 · 2020-06-10T23:29:52+00:00

Oh man I'm so sorry you're going through this :(

I'd highly recommend breaking up with him from the dating app situation. That shows a lack of commitment and respect to you and your relationship.

Guys will always be more interested in you when you pull away. I would read Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl to start off with, and if you go through the handbook there are a lot of great books/youtube videos and advice posts you can have a look through.

I left a shitty relationship when I was already feeling a bit depressed and I will say it lifted my mood so much to leave.

Be selfish right now. Focus so much on yourself and where you want to be and how you're going to get there.

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