I grew up with abuse and as an adult I have made lousy partner choices. I finally realized I was ignoring red flags and being the cool girl. How do I date normally? I’ve never hade a “normal” relationship. I’m so awkward around men and now I have not dated for about 10 years and have no clue. I’m 50. Be honest please.
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In my experience the length of time is meaningless. It's what we do with that time.
Have you dealt with the baggage? Have you sat down and thought about what makes you tick and what your preferences are?
If not, it might be a good time to start, with or without a therapist.
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