How long do you ladies continuing texting with a man on OLD until he asks you to meet in person? I struggle with this. I don’t want to meet too soon, as in before I have an idea of the kind of guy he is but also if it’s been a week of “how was your day?” before he asks to meet, my interest is gone. I find sooo many men seem to want a pen pal they can chat to at the end of the day with maybe no intention of meeting? Friends I’ve mentioned this to have said “why don’t you ask to meet?” 😒😒😒 🙈