She has far more patience than me

staywiththecrown · 2021-11-21T17:07:27+00:00

I'm glad she recorded that and that it was in daylight. The comments were surprisingly supportive. They couldn't "not all men" when the evidence was clear.

Professional-Ad-457 · 2021-11-21T17:22:30+00:00

This really triggered me - I’m seething with anger - just wow. No one has dared say this to me but I’ve been on dates when I know they’re thinking that at the end - when the ‘nice guy’ face mask drops off

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-11-21T17:35:37+00:00

Sweatpants hoodie puffer jacket tennis shoes... Nuff said.

Anyway she didn't actually have to have any of this conversation with this person. My life is too short. Now I just give them a look that communicates what absolute scum they are and then walk away when people fuck with me.

Aocwannabe · 2021-11-21T17:24:47+00:00

I think I would have slowly inched away from him and then stepped on the gas pedal to get out of there.

He is unhinged and you cannot rationalize with someone like this so do whatever you need to do to get away.

FI-REfox · 2021-11-21T18:17:06+00:00

Not gonna lie, I was very stressed out and worried about what that entitled prick might do to her. This type of incident makes me rethink the whole lunch date vs. dinner date debate. I'd far sooner be out in broad daylight if I ever found myself in this situation.

Bonds_Girl · 2021-11-21T17:32:48+00:00

Women are in only one of two categories in the minds of LV/NV men:

You’re either a Madonna or a whore. That’s it.

This guy had decided (in advance, based on her profile) she was a whore; took her out on one date, and is aghast that she isn’t ripping her clothes off for him.

Edit: For those new to the Madonna/whore concept: If you’re the Madonna, you can be loved but you won’t be desired. If you’re the whore, you’ll be desired but never loved. Nearly ALL men see ALL women as one or the other. Remember, we’re not whole complete people (in their minds).

Learning and understanding this concept has helped me unravel and understand men in general.

AmeliaEmiliaEmma · 2021-11-21T19:08:19+00:00

It’s a shame his face wasn’t/couldn’t be included because other women should be aware of this guy. He’s a ticking bomb.

shaezamm · 2021-11-21T17:00:03+00:00

Oh, wow. The bar is well and truly below hell! He genuinely believed it was his RIGHT to have sex with her… just wow

gingerandlime · 2021-11-21T18:52:01+00:00

I wouldn’t call it patience. She’s afraid of what he’ll do if she just leaves, and very rightly so.

SeaNegotiation8 · 2021-11-21T19:16:17+00:00

I hope she got home safe.

t3ddi · 2021-11-21T21:24:56+00:00

That guy is 100% a rapist.

anahatasanah · 2021-11-21T22:17:05+00:00

"Wait, wait, let me speak."

Just walk away.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-11-21T23:29:56+00:00

He wore sweatpants to a date. She should have walked out at right there. She said she wasn't attracted to him. Any further time spent with him was a waste of time.

Title	She has far more patience than me
Author	kolsen92
Upvotes	78
Comments	24
Date	November 21, 2021 4:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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