Hello ladies!

While it’s been coming close to a year over being dumped by a LVM and I’m currently seeing someone who thus far appears to be miles better, I still struggle with bitterness and anger.

While I don’t at all have feelings for him anymore I think because he was my first boyfriend, dumped me over a huge insecurity of mine, and we dated for over a year it’s hard to get over. I can’t help but be frustrated with myself for how much of a pickmeisha I used to be and all the wasted time, tears, and money.

How do I get to a point (besides therapy as I’m currently in between therapists and looking for a new good one) where he doesn’t even register on my mind? Thanks 💕