HVM = BDE? 🤔

v4g1n4ever · 2020-03-21T23:49:35+00:00

Some LVM can fake BDE pretty well, mainly the confidence part with a surface-level kindness sprinkled in. But they show their colors soon enough. I encountered one last summer, and fortunately I was in a better mental place to be able to see past the facade.

Hennyyenni · 2020-03-21T23:55:16+00:00

Basically the opposite of Trump who has little dick energy.

BDE is when a guy is confident but not arrogant or obnoxious,kind towards others especially those in customer service, older people, animals, doesn’t need to make himself the center of attention, doesn’t speak about women in rude or disgusting ways (like saying oh yeah I’d hit that or guess what my ***** did last night in bed). From the guys I’ve seen with BDE, they’re usually quiet but not meek, as in they don’t feel they have to be loud and constantly blabbering. If a woman asks them to do something they don’t get offended at a woman ordering them around. They’re secure with themselves so they’re definitely not racist or homophobic, fat phobic or sexist. But they’re also strong (physically and mentally) and don’t let others push them around.

I think they are similar. But some guys with BDE aren’t HVM . For example some guys with BDE are super confident to the point they don’t feel the need to woo a woman because they have that energy. But a HVM will always want to a woo and impress/make a woman happy. I think the difference is that BDE doesn’t mean HVM when it comes to dating/their ROMANTIC relationships with women. A guy can have BDE and not necessarily be a great boyfriend.

I think HVM have BDE but not all BDE are HVM.

level_up_always · 2020-03-22T00:16:51+00:00

bde is quiet, but has large presence. bde whispers. bde doesn't have anything to prove. bde just *is*. like i say in my posts i don't agree with hvm even existing all men suck on a spectrum but those towards the hvm side def have bde. i don't want to be reassuring some little beta male's confidence. bde also doesn't care about being called a simp which is now apparently the worst insult you can give a man lol

Title	HVM = BDE? 🤔
Author	wegonfuckornah
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	March 21, 2020 11:34 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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