I need some help on dating and finding a HVM

TheQueenOfDeadHearts · 2020-06-03T04:28:50+00:00

Well they don't all hang out in secret HVM clubs, silly ;) You have to go on about your life organically and be HV yourself. They'll show up.

KairosnPistis · 2020-06-03T05:23:50+00:00

In short, go places and do things that you are genuinely passionate about and enjoy. For me, speaking events, meetups for topic I’m interested in, community/ clubs and being very active through an extended faith network in my city creates a lot of opportunities to meet new people. So your starting pool is more likely to have values/ lifestyles passion etc. in common with you.

Then ruthlessly weed out from there. Commonalities are a great start. But they also can be bullshitted, and we should never give any individual any more trust than they have actually proven and earned over time. No matter where you meet them.

liliquotes · 2020-06-03T05:29:17+00:00

I know you don't like online dating, but I'm just giving my experience.

I found my HVM in OKcupid.com, but I had to work hard and spend lot of time to make a good filter. That website has questions and you can categorice those questions from "important" to "I don't care". The algorithm gives you a percentage of "match" I only accepted to talk to men with 90% or plus. Also you can search for no smokers, no kids, college education, religion, race, language, country, height, etc... I found that website usefull, not like the rest.

Good luck.

PD: Forgive my english, it isn't my fist language.

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