I hate men. That's it. And I'm tired. I'm tired of telling people I don't want to marry ever and why women should not put up with men behaving badly.

Today after dinner I asked my sister to do the dishes, they were her chores as I had done my share. She made an excuse. I said you have to do it! In a tone higher than the conversation, she again made an excuse I got irritated got up and started doing them myself. Then my sister came with more dishes from the table and started telling me how she had done her share ( had already heard this she was wrong and that's not the point of the story)

I said X, go out. And dad said Y(me) if you don't want to do the dishes don't, if you have to get irritated, leave it. Now, I would have left it, because I tired as fuck and my dad had done no chores. But I knew that it would be done by my mom and my aunt. So I said something like "you should hold X accountable to her chores" and my LOST IT. he started screaming and saying get our of the kitchen, don't do anything get out, at this point my sister was also there, she ran away because she was scared (she's 12) my dad was screaming. I am still under shock. My mom and came between me and him and said go out I'll talk to her to him. And he was like No, you go out. He was screaming like anything. My aunt came, she's older to him and he said get away from in front of me. I have no idea what would have happened if they had gone.

And that's the point. Men have great egos. And that's why I never want to get married. When people ask me, I tell them it's because I can't adjust with patriarchy and that I'll keep fighting when I see issues, I swear I won't handle bullshit. But the thing is, I am scared. Men lose control of their emotions so easily, and people do get angry in relationships. I don't wanna be in the constant fear of he'll kill me and whatever.

My dad would come under the category of "good men" because he does try to change when he sees he's following patriarchy and stuff. And that's the problem. If good guys are like this, I don't even wanna risk trash men.

I have never met a husband and gone oh this guy is nice, I wish when I get married my husband was like this. Every husband is problematic. And I'm not taking into consideration 2 or 3 men I am talking about all husbands I have met. YOU. ARE. PROBLEMATIC.