Most men will treat us like objects more often than human beings. Actions aren’t created in vacuums. Why do you think they love to choke, slap, strangle, and pull your hair during sex? Because right then you’re his whore. Why does he cuddle you l, and tell you his deepest fears? Because it’s mommy time. You will always be the prettiest, smartest, funniest, honest until you’re not!Three women a day watch their intimate partners snuffing the life out of their eyes. Those eyes that could “ be so warm”. Men will annihilate entire families before skipping off to the side piece, or after failing suicide because he couldn’t tell his wife he had a gambling problem boo hoo . Stay vigilant, stay picky. Stay ruthless. At the very least, you’ll have life experience and emotional and mental trauma. Most of us have been close to a dateline special already.