I mainly use tinder and this week, I uploaded 2 posts regarding meeting a cute guy who turned out to be LvM. He told me he seeks Thai girls bc he can relate to them more so even when he’s back in New York, he’s actively seeking Thai girls on tinder. On the surface he looks fine, cute guy with really good career working as consultant in Big 4. I asked him why he doesn’t date western girls and he saids they’re too demanding and he doesn’t like ambitious girls as they’re too exhausting and high strung. Deep down I knew why he seeks those girl out. They’re easy. They wouldn’t hold him accountable for anything and won’t be clingy. But I feel sad on the other side as he seemed like a decent looking men I met on tinder vs other guys who like me on tinder are usually guys I’d never even consider dating. I’d rather stay single. I feel so sad as literally al the guys I’m interested never likes me. I attract lot of guys who are too ugly.

I went to meetups as suggested and I feel like meetup is solely for the meetup purposes. I went to one of the largest meetups but most of the guys are guys I wouldn’t bother dating. How do you even meet HVM ?