Seeing that post about women having to "earn" an orgasm with a man because he "does all the work" during sex has me so annoyed.

First of all, men don't understand how difficult some positions are to not only maintain but also feel pleasure in for women. How about all the effort a majority of women put in just to look good? Like the amount of ~hoe tips~ posts I see and advice on how to look/feel/act sexy, the grooming that's expected to just be considered prepared, the aftercare, etc that goes into it. Like women are expected to put in all this work BEFORE they even have sex and then they also have to work to earn an orgasm?? Are you fucking kidding me?

You know how awful the majority of men are at sex? They think just shoving their mediocre dick in and out passes as sex. How about the amount of women who have to endure some dude sweating on top of them, painfully thrusting in her and then cum in 2 seconds and fall asleep. Like the fact women even have sex with men to begin with blows my mind.

Sex is an equal effort bonding. If you're a man and don't want to get your partner off or make them feel good as well, you're not mature enough to be having sex and I hope that you grow up before you give a woman a disappointing sex story to tell all her friends about.

Ladies, demand orgasms, tell your male partners that they didn't make you cum, them what does or doesn't feel good, do not let them get away with pushing your satisfaction to the side, be assertive, don't tolerate mediocrity.