At least LVM are not. I was crying a few days ago that he didn’t text me after the first date and when he did, he came off as cold. Now as we have date #2 tomorrow, I realized that he’s a LVM. Doesn’t ask me questions about me, plans cheap dates, older than me but still gets money from parents, puts in minimal effort. Worst part is that he doesn’t express that he wants to see me or misses me, instead asks me “do you want to see me?” Please don’t settle for men like this. Once something feels off, block and delete such men. You are worth much more and being single for a bit longer is much better than settling for a narcissistic man child.