Queens! How have you dealt with the ending of a relationship with a NVM who shared your workplace? I know, not the smartest decision to have made, but here we are. After doing the hard work of rest and recovery (self improvement, self love, leveling up), I feel strong in my boundaries, in knowing my worth, in loving myself as I continue healing. Accounts have been deleted, numbers blocked, etc. so I no longer have the issue with receiving those random messages / stalking. I am, however, struggling with how to enforce boundaries while at work without being unprofessional or always having to avoid someone. For example, this person feels they can jump into conversations and attempt to joke around / talk with me because coworkers are engaged as well and acts as if there's no problem. I have the urge to tell this NVM to take a long walk off a short cliff. I want nothing to do with this person but take full responsibility for getting myself into this situation to begin with. Please advise!
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