One guy I was talking said I was “shaming” him for saying “wow you eat a lot of junk food.” uwu what a sensitive boi uwu

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-10T22:12:49+00:00

This is a good article. I've noticed this Mr self-help more and more in the last few years. Just like that guy who ran away from his wife when she told him she was pregnant, even though it was planned. He just disappeared for 3 days. He used self-help language to say that was okay and he was just taking care of himself. (The only problem is because he was narcissistic personality disorder his entire post only talked about himself so he ended up showing his ass)

Mr. Therapy/Mr. Self-Help isn’t a bad guy, in the ways that other men are. He doesn’t ignore you, he gives you attention. He tells you he likes you. He may even ask you to be his girlfriend, but his real character starts to slowly show. Whenever there is a pressing issue, something that bothers you, something that made you think hmmm this doesn’t make sense he distracts you or turns the language of mental health against you. He’s warped finding out more about his life into prying. You aren’t wanting to bond, you are demanding. You aren’t asking questions, you are being toxic. You aren’t pointing out a dislike, you are being hypercritical. You aren’t asking him to do better, you are being a hypocrite. You are pushing to get close to him while he is evading questions and using mental health language to do so.

Mr. Therapy/Mr. Self-Help is dangerous. He makes you feel comfortable but uses your laxness to control the direction of the relationship. If he doesn’t use it to control the relationship, he uses it to make himself seem more appealing to have access/sex to women. Mr. Therapy or Mr. Self-Help sells himself. He uses therapy key words and watches you perk up. He says things we all want to hear. He may not believe them, but he knows you do. I mean look at how you squealed when he mentioned “doing the work”. Look how easy he gained access to you by saying “I did the work.”

Title	One guy I was talking said I was “shaming” him for saying “wow you eat a lot of junk food.” uwu what a sensitive boi uwu
Author	eveninghope
Upvotes	10
Comments	2
Date	November 9, 2020 4:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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