This one may be an unpopular one, but hear me out.

People fall in love every day, all over the world people are meeting each other and forming bonds, friendships, relationships. Sometimes it's a sheer coincidence when two people happen to meet and like each other.

But there is a FAR more sinister problem going on here. A great number of men aren't just women-hating entitled misogynists, but race can also be another layer in all of this. A great number of men will state that they are no longer dating their own race of women because they are 'Greedy, stuck up, too masculine, cold, don't know how to treat a man, not submissive' etc. Don't ever fall for this gambit, these men just hope that women of other races will put up with their poor behavior more than their own race of women.

I find it interesting how these men are more than willing to put down an entire group to which they belong, just to try and score with other women.

We've all heard variants of 'Black women are too masculine/bossy, I'd rather date white women', 'Jewish women are too greedy, I'd rather date a shiksa', 'White women are too brainwashed by feminism, I'd rather date Asian women'. Different stereotypes, same origins.

There is also the tendency of men to degrade and outright ABUSE women of other races, because they view them as 'beneath' their own group. There are many examples of this, some of them are extremely heartbreaking.

That entitlement and supremacy very quickly turns into 'Shiksas are for practice', 'Asian women let you do whatever you want', 'Allah created white women to be used' and many more horrifying examples.

Ask yourself, would a woman of his own race put up with this? Why have all his ex-girlfriends been a different race than him? There's also the problem of fetishization but, that's another thing entirely.

It's also your job to stick up for and call out men of your own race when they bash women of other races, or when men of another race bash their women to you, don't ever tolerate it, EVER.

Hope y'all found this helpful <3