Relationship Accountability Spectrum by Esther Perel.

level_up_always · 2021-02-07T00:16:19+00:00

why did this get removed? it was a good post. i think people are taking the criticism of ghosting wrong because if you're with a narc yes ghost but that isn't what they're talking about here. i thought it was more about men breaking up with us than vice versa.

2021-02-07T00:05:41+00:00

While the psychology of this is probably accurate this graphic misses the biggest point: The physical price paid.

Icing out, simmering or power parting result in a narcassicist having more chances to control their victim and stop them from leaving. They also result in a higher chance of violence against a woman.

A block/ghosting isn't nice but its not about being nice -its about physical safety

DutyKooky · 2021-02-07T00:11:35+00:00

Yes, but this chart is helpful when guys do this to girls . It helps you put a label on what they are doing, so that you realize what you are going thorugh is not unique and you are not crazy.

Summerisle7 · 2021-02-06T23:59:24+00:00

So I’m supposed to feel guilty for ghosting and blocking? Nope, not gonna happen. I wish I’d done MORE of it when I was dating

Title	Relationship Accountability Spectrum by Esther Perel.
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Upvotes	15
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Date	February 6, 2021 4:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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