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Mama SaidDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:46 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:56 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:08 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨DutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:14 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:30 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨DutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:54 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:56 AM
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LIES MEN TELLDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:14 AM
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SCROTES MADDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:55 PM
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QUEEN SH*TDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:29 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨DutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:15 PM
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DISCUSSIONDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:44 PM
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LVM LOGICDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:37 AM
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DutyKooky/r/askFDS28/01/21 06:23 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:47 AM
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DISCUSSIONDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:16 AM
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DISCUSSIONDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:37 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:43 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:51 AM
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LIES MEN TELLDutyKooky/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:51 AM
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seems like you need to dump him... he's not worth having se with. Not sure how advising someone to dump a guy who does not provide you w/pleasure during sex makes me a Pickmeisha...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:50 AM
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yeh- I don't tend to stay friends w/ pick-me's for very long. As soon as I hear how shittily they allow themselves to be treated, and the crap they put up with, just so that they can say they are in a relationship - my respect for them disappears and I can't really associate with people I don't respect... Same with bosses, - as soon as I lose respect for them I can't continue working for them. Also same with " family" - I lost respect for everyone in my family and don;t really associate with the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:09 AM
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yes- I wish FDS had local chapters and meetups! - there ought to be enough of us in the big cities?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:07 AM
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Honestly, if I heard my friend say these things about the dude, I'd tell her he's a POS and she should dump him, bc she's desreves more and is better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:17 AM
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yep- lived on my own/ with roomates since I got to college. ( got a full tution scholaraship, so I was lucky) and have been financailly independent ever since. Yes it meant going to a shitty big 10 state school, instead of going to my dream school in Boston ( which I got in but could not afford). Got my first job right out of college, never really dated- bc men always seemed shitty to me. Advanced in my career to a point where I could buy my own Apt in the City in early 30s. Have always been pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:53 AM
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yeh- gotta find a way to make your own money, where you have enough not just to survivie but to thrive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:40 AM
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They are also jealous that we are able to make it on our own, and they cannot. They are too afraid to make it themselves. And I think they actually hate themselves a bit for having to put up with the LVM antics, while we do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:47 AM
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Especially if a guy acts angry that you aren't always available to chat, are making him work and he has to make an effort to get to know you and that you won't just " open up" to him over endless texts... Lazy dudes who make no efffort to ask you out or plan a date, get so pissed when you too are making minimal effort to make anything happen, they deserve to be deselected. Never go out with a guy who makes you plan the date. That's his job. And don't make it easy for him by suggesting times and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:03 AM
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yep- if he can make you a drink, he can make you breakfast. If he doesn't make breakfast, - dump him!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:42 PM
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Yeh- the entitlement of losers on Bumble is astounding. I would match their low-effort energy - if they sent a one-liner , I would only reply with a couople of words . If they sent a couple of words, I'd send a single eoji. ( and I would never instant reply,, wait a few days, hours, etc) And the scrotes get so pissed!! They'd say - oh why only an emoji/ why do I get a single word from you/ is english your first language/ why aren;t you showing more interest/ ( mind you I was matching their energ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:41 PM
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however, if you are with a guy and he DOESNT make you breakfast, ot just tells you to help yourself to whatever is in his fridge, - that is a legitimate reason for dumping him. Breakfast is easy to make, and if he doesn;t put the effort for that, he is a lazy, low effort NVM. ( especilly if he is also really enthusiastic about making/getting you drinks)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:30 PM
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yep- if you see who owns all the media and who are the CEOs of the media, the picture becomes very clear what is going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:48 PM
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Men never date down! The whole story-line that men date down is hogwash. Men only "keep" female partners for the long term, if she is better ( higher value) in some way than they are (not necessarily money) which they cannot easily procure themselves - they only date for long term if there are high-value benefits attached to the woman, such as- but not limted to - 1. youth 2. athletic skills/fitness 3. social connections/ social skills 4. good career 5. nice/comfortable home 6. artistic/creative…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:46 PM
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because he has conditioned/ rotted his brain to ejaculate while sitting on the couch, lying on his back while watching a porno and rubbing one out. His brain literally cannot " release the cum" if his body is not fully relaxed. He can't cum while doing the hip thrusting action anymore. So the woman has to do all the work to make him cum. Which is not normal, because in the wild, a man has to do the work and be able to cum under any circumstance, of he would not be able to procreate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:04 PM
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I'm the opposite, all of my formers just wanted to take my top off, - like that's all they wanted to do. But me, no- I wanted to keep my top on for as long as possible and not let those puppies out for as long as possible. Its like men always zero in on the thing you don't want to do, and try to push you to do it....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:01 PM
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yeh- if he takes more that 5 mins to cum during a blow-job, he definitely has issues...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:59 PM
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Its a also a huge sign of porn sickness if a man can only come with a woman on top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:05 PM
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Interesting,-- what did you notice when the focus shifted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:01 PM
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And the shittiest part is that in TV/movies sexually agressive and adventurous women who go after what they want sexually, are glorified. But when young women try this IRL, they are devalued, punished and shamed. These are very harmful mixed signals for young girls, especially when we all know that sex is not discussed in most families. So where will they learn? These mixed signals set them up for pain, suffering and make them vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:32 AM
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this is why I feel so much more secure in a relationship with women. I don;t have to continuously play the exhausting "hard to get" game. I can be myself. And because I can choose reciprocal/empathetic women for the relationship, what i put into the relationship is reciprocated. It never stops amazing me just how rare reciprocity is with men. But with most women it comes standard-issue. I have so much more peace of mind when I am in a relationship with a woman. It feels much more like a real par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:23 AM
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Its all of the above, plus the " ubiquity" and "easy access to women" via internet/social media/ OLD/ texting & cellphones. What is easily accessed is not valued. Now its double the work, since most women also have a job. In addition to that, western society has devalued the family ( in order to push women into jobs and keep them there) on a massive whole-sale level. But when you devalue the family, you devalue women, because by definition, family is not possible without women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:58 PM
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yep, its the men ( not the women) who only date up. As soon as the man thinks the woman has lost her value, and he thinks she is now worth the same or less than him, he dumps her. Which is women should never give in to any attempts of the man to devalue her or decrease her worth " to me more on his level and to keep him" - not only does this wreck the woman's mental health, - but it also a one-way-ticket to be dumped. Because once a man realizes he reduced her value, he will dump her. Only if th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:03 PM
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The dating & courtship epectations were better for women. The man was expected to behave decently, dress formally, romance the woman and not bring up sex at every turn. For women, while yes they had to wear uncomfortable girdles, but at least they were not epected to wear vulgar clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:52 PM
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men always, always go after women who are better than them in some way, in either all aspects or one of these - more attractive, younger, richer, more educated, more intellingent, better social connections, better job. They never " settle" or "pursue" someone at their level. Hence they project " golddiger" onto women who try to obtain benefits for themselves by way of a relationship, shame women for their high standards, attempt to normalize " dating down" for women and accepting bare minimum of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:49 PM
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Yea- straightness its definitely very hard for my brain to understand. Being with woman I feel like I have a much more fluid and limitless/ borderless/free satisfaction, whereas with a man- there is a very narrow box, set of parameters he has to fit in and do, in order for it to be satisfctory and exciting for me. So with men I'm attracted to maybe 0.5% of the time, whereas with women I'm attracted 80% of the time. But when the right man comes along (once in a blue moon) I get really tingly and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:57 PM
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Never taken the pill and never will. Costs for birth control should be on the man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:03 AM
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I went even further- Alcudia & Polleca
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:11 AM
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Ibiza is the party island. Mallorca is much more laid back and relaxed. The last time I was there ( for spring break/easter no less) it was full of retirees and no party to be seen anywhere. Plus they have amazingly beautiful easter traditons and caves, and " mountains" and all sorts of delicacies made from almonds. The mediterranean is beautiful too..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:01 PM
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Yes- in the Church of the Goddess men are not permitted for religious reasons. And bioligical men who identify as women are not recognized and are also banned. Any assault on the Church of the Goddess is a religious persecution, assault against religious freedom and a hate crime, (not just sexual assault).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:37 PM
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where? I'd love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:55 PM
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they have luury women-only hotels in other parts of the world ( like turkey ) and with CCTV cameras. electirifed fence and security, they don't have too many issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:54 PM
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you can find female tradespeople and thus support female businsses. You can also provide scholarships for women to learn the trades in return for their services and by providing experience for their resumes. There are ways..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:50 PM
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the reason why some women-only spaces have survived, is bc they were somehow religiously affilated. If we set up a non-denominatinal Church of the Goddess, you you have an almost iron-clad protection from litigious scrotes for your women-only space - and any assault will be classified as religious prosecution...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:52 PM
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most were purposefully driven into the ground by greedy developers ( men) so that they could buy the properties up cheap and turn them into luxury condos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:31 PM
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yep, I think now the only ones that still exist in US are The Webster and some church-affiliated dormitories ( for extended stay) . They are not as easy to book as hotels...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:30 PM
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yep- well the clit vibrators are nice, b/c they are shaped like a ring -so they surround your clit withoout being directly on it. https://www.amazon.com/Satisfyer-Pro-Penguin-Next-Generation/dp/B071CPR2V7?tag=kb058-20
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:21 PM
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yeh- cuz they see you as their only chance to have tall offspring, since they are not bringing "the goods"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:40 PM
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yeh - being tall definitely keeps a lot more pervs away. i like it. they are intimidated by me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:39 PM
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i'd opt for a clit sucking one, which are either plug-in or rechargeable ( batterries are a no-go for me)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:33 PM
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good for you for having friends entourage... mine seem to have dissolved during the pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:58 PM
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This seems to be even more pronounced in the cities. City women level-up & overall mostly educated, accomplished, have careers and apartments, are involved in social causes. While city men degenereate into pathetic lazy fuckboys. In the country, women have limited options and often fade in isolation faster, and that is why all ambitious women leave for the city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:57 PM
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except in male monasteries they get drunk and have depravity with each other. whereas female monastries they cultivate peace and productivity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:46 PM
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at least most eastern men have to do actual work to survive, so while they too are pieces of shit, at least most of their day is occupied with earning a livelihood, so they have to leave the women alone for most of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:45 PM
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in isolation, they have lost all of their social skills and have not seen women other than in porn. They have not interacted casually/normally in an every-day setting with women for over a year. Pandemic has accelerated their brain rot 100%. Expect more flashers, pathetic come ons, etc after social distancing ends. Bars and streets after dark will not be safe for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:43 PM
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and even when they are desperate, the quality of their attempts at contact/ text is pathetic. They can't even master a decent way to approach women - no wonder they are and should be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:40 PM
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sounds about right, and that number shuld be even higher, as more women wise up. If you are not financially. emotionally and mentally stable, with your life mostly figured out, you should not be having sex. If you live in parents basement, have no sufficient source of in come for yourself and no path in life, you have nothing to offer and need therapy and skills training, not sex. Sex is a privilege that you have to earn, not an entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:13 AM
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i get it, collagen supplements are expensive. But knox unflavored gelatin comes cheap at a few dollars per pound in your neighborhood grocery store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:05 AM
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the relationship is dead if he doesn;t give you a high value date & a romantic present for the holidays. kick the tosser out. No need to give him a present. Your company is his present.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:33 AM
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collagen is different than gelatin though. your body can use gelatin to make collagen, but the two are not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:35 AM
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No expensive engagement ring from him + a wedding date = No GF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:15 AM
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Actually, don't do anything until you see him contribute first. If he has given you 3 massages, maybe give him 1 if you feel like it. If he showers you with kisses, maybe give a couple kisses in return. NEVER volunteer to give a man something first and wait if he pays back (most never do!) so only reciprocate ( and even that at a scaled back version) if he has already provided the goods. The better you treat a man, the worse he gets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:13 AM
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Interested where you heard that... never heard that.... don't they use gelatin films and fish skins to help burn victims heal? If it were a blood thinner, I don't think the gelatin film would help the burn victims... I'd be more inclined to believe that it may cause blood clotting than thinning... https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0144861711010629 https://www.rxlist.com/gelfilm-drug.htm#description Gelatin is a widely available hemostatic agent used by surgeons to minimize b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 09:48 PM
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Also- men never marry unless there is something beneficial in it for them. They are not like women who marry for love. There is always an ulterior motive why men marry. 99% times the reasom men marry is because: Social & family expectations, - they are not going to get the family inheritance & respect if they don't marry and start producing heirs they are among the last of his social group to be unmarried, - and start feeling out of place/ creepy in singles bars and friend events, because everyo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 08:30 PM
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Indeed super creepy!!! I've had guys start talking about babies on date 0 and date 1-2. Never saw them again after that. 100% they don;t see you as your own, independent human being, if they say that. They see you as a ' means to an end' I guess be thankful for early red flag warning that allows you to block & delete them fast. And who is the baby-crazy gender?! Like, dude- you don't even know me, and you already talk about babies? ( Not to mention you have not proven yourself yet as worthy fate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 08:19 PM
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Exactly. If he's tired of living in filth, he can clean up himself or pay for a maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 07:56 PM
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It would help to read " The Rules" books for you. They spell out very clearly what is ok and isnt to give a man & when. Faster to read than to re-invent the wheel youself IMHO. " treating folks (especially men) the way I'd like to be treated." yep, this is one of the bigges traps/pitfalls for women for wasting their time and resources on a man. Men don;t feel love/attachment/ reciprocation the same way as women. The better you treat them, the lazier, more entitled and worse they treat you. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 07:19 PM
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he is an asshole. for your personal health, -not looks- for your knees, excercise and post-pregnancy body help, i would suggest supplementing with unflavored gelatin. It helps body rebuild cartilage and connective tissue-so that you can reclaim your strenght and health. I have been consuming it by the glassful, and can see and feel my joints and skin improving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 05:38 PM
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Anytime men have easier access to women, its erodes boundaries and is disandvantageous to women. ( wether it is dating apps, texting, pandemic lockdowns, marriage etc. ) The closer the quarters, the stronger the boundries need to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 04:27 PM
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exactly! But oftentimes women get sucked into "decorative" liberal arts degress which have low practical payoff in terms of earning potential. Sadly- if most of people in the degree program are women, this means low future earning potential in the US. If you go where the men are studying, the atmospehere will be more toxic to women, but the future earning potential is higher. I'm sure that's how the patriarchy intends it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:17 PM
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Many people, especially men - are incapable of love and afraid of being loved and afraid of showing love. Quite frankly they dont know what " love" is. They are incapable of reciprocating. Showing these men " how to love" by setting an example yourslf is setting yourself up for enormous failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:39 PM
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Studying is good, but unless you know how to effectively apply what you learn in books in the real world, it is worthless. make sure you have a practicum/clinical/internship to apply that and put into action. Practical education is always better IMHO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:35 PM
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imagine it more as a hug - the universe ( or for religious - God) hugging you and cherishing you and treasuring you - with nothing but kindness and warmth.. Close your eyes, hug a pillow, wrap yourself into a soft blanket, get a heating pad and think that you are being loved. Imagine there is a "seed" in the middle of your belly ( navel level) and with this love you are surrounded by, the seed begins to germinate and grow and expand and thrive and bloom and flower. As this flower begins to grow …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:19 PM
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don;t hate on your period. Learn to love it. It is part of you and it is a way your body communicates with you because it cannot speak. In ancient religions, menstruatin was seen as sacred and holy. it is another vehicle of the opression of the patriarchy to make women confused about their bodies and find them " undesirable" and " dirty." in the past women were worshipped for their ability to bleed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:44 PM
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I'm not looking to have a baby either :-). But as soon as I make the " necessary changes" my body starts to feel noticeably better and more balanced, - I start feeling at physical peak performance when i make the changes. In most cases I wasn't feeling bad to begin with when the period stopped - but def not 100% . I also know when I am ovulating - there is a significant increase in my sex drive and the taste and texture of my secretions change from milky white to clear and gelatinous. I know whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:26 PM
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No sudden weight loss or gain, but as soon as I go over 175 pound or below 150 pounds my period stops, until I go back into the " normal" weight range.. If i add the right necessary nutrients, sleep, massage etc- it comes back quick, I don;t have to wait a week. It comes back in 1-2 days. And I'm not imagining it, - I have experimented with it and it is consistent in its response. The doctors have not been helpful ( no surprise there) they measue me for hormone levels and scan for tumors and pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:19 PM
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positive affirmations - every morning and every evening visualize yourself being filled from the insides with love and care and affection. being filled with sunlight and warmth. Maybe even get a pet. confidence comes from feeling " full" on the inside and letting it radiate. When do you excercise? I have had bouts of insecurity/ aniety and emptiness- they were correlated with the time of day ( morning and evenings) so I excercised during those times. I felt like getting the blood pumping and lis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:54 PM
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As soon as I add the missing ingredient, my period comes back. I get more sleep for a couple of days, - my period flood gates are released. Or get that long overdue massage, and overnight my period floods back, or take a vacation and my period comes back. I am a highly ensitive person. All of my senses are much more acute and attuned than in most humans. I can sense, smell, taste, hear, feel things at much stronger levels than most, and this comes with a need for industrial strength boundaries. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:47 PM
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Not medically qualified advice - but make sure to supplement your calorie reduction with fiber like psyllium and unflavored gelatin. Both are very low calorie but expand to make you feel full and satisified. The body goes into startvation mode if it feeld deprieved and prevents you from losing weight. Feeling full is key to balance the satiety hormone. Psyllium also makes you relgular and gelatin helps your skin and joints adjust during the weight loss process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:40 PM
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It think it is normal and natural. if your period stops, that means the body stops ovulating. it is a body's way of defending itself against a pregnancy that would be harmful to it, when it would not be able to handle producing a healthy child, when it doesn't have the neessary resources to have a child. ( i have never been on birth control. I am a highly sensitive person and have a very finely tuned body-mind connection. )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:33 PM
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It is not bad. But it is a body's way of telling you that you are pushing it past its limits & need to take it easier on youreslf. It is a way of the body to tell you that you are not in a position right now to have a child . It is a way of the body to protect itself from a stress it can no longer comfortably handle and accomodate. It is a way of the body to tell you that it needs help. Edit: this is getting downvoted??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:32 PM
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a woman's body knows what the right weight for her is. At least my body does. When I am too thin, - I lose my period. When I am too fat, I lose my period. Only when my weight is in a healthy range, do I have my period. My body also knows when I'm emotionally unhealthy. If I'm depressed, I lose my period. If I'm too stressed, I lose my period. My body is very proficient at getting my attention by holding my period hostage. Not sleeping enough - lose period. Missing a key nutient - lose period. Ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:53 AM
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Ah yes- I would dump a guy with that kind of behavior pronto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:52 AM
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what kind of " punishment" are you referring to? Of course I would leave anyone who even attempts to punish me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:34 AM
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always leave and/or create distance at any point of misbehavior, no matter how minor. keep them on their toes always. Never give benefit of the doubt. Oh you need to cancel a date? Sure no problem ( but you won;t see me now for a couple of weeks now) Oh you forgot to get the things I asked for? Sure no problem ( hope you can take care of yourself while I'm gone for a few weeks, and no I will not be checking in on you while I'm gone) Oh you're thinking of getting too handsey? Sure no problem. Whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:55 PM
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You need to focus on your self-presentation skills. It is not what you do but " How" you do it. This is advice for work in Corporate America, in the Big City Office, - I can;t claim knowledge of anything else, because that is the only world I have worked in and know. Read Leil Lowndes books on cimmuniction tricks and apply her tips in real life. Read Deborah Tannen books on the difference between how men and women communicate in the workplace [ use these tricks to your advantage] Read books abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:59 PM
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Where do you find a mentor? All the people I encounter are so self- obsessed and self-centered. No one helps anyone anymore... ( unless its for good publicity)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:43 PM
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I hope youre joking. Modeling in NYC is a cesspool for young women, The whole business operation of that world is built on eploiting, taking advantage and degading young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:41 PM
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I think it depends on your body biology and the type of supplement you use. I do eat Unflavored Gelatin (active ingredient in jello) diluted to a thick paste in juice every morning. Unflavored Gelatin is cheap & I have seen and felt a lot of benefits as a result. Gelatin was used in WW2 by my grandmothers to nurse solidiers back to health, - there is a lot of history in my family successfuly using gelatin and concentrated bone broth. Amino acids in the gelatin can be successfully broken down by …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:37 PM
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INTJ when depressed ( others like me more when I am this way). ENTJ when happy ( others hate me when I'm this way). FML :-(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:20 PM
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not too many places in corporate america where employees are valued... i have not come across where that actually happens...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:17 AM
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what would you like to know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:16 AM
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can you get away with doing less?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:07 AM
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work on skills and developing a network so it is easier to find a new job. This is why i live in a big city, more opportunities to find a new job. It should be just as easy for you to replace your job, as it is for them to fire you. Its a tall order, but doable. They should be afraid of losing you, not the other way around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:46 AM
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What helps me is EXCERISE. I channel my anger into intense cardio workouts ( elyprical) . I blast music and then I cry during the excercise. Then I feel better, more positive, more relieved, more calm. Then I can be more objective and laser focused on making more money, I can;t channel that anger into my work, unfortuately, because I get super agressive, and I'm already physically intimidating to begin with, when I just sit there and do nothing - so that would not be good professionally for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:40 PM
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In my 20's I was too focused on making money, buying a house and establishing my financial independence and a fat financial cushion. I did not date. I did not hook up. I was basically celibate. But I also had 0 fun, and 0 female friends. That put me on a path of burn-out and unhappiness which i am now trying to fix. ( And no I'm not an ugly fat woman, I am actually quite pretty - but because I have been extremely agressive about everything mine, - career, money, house - I have had difficulty mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:24 PM
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still giving him too much credit, he does not have crafting supplies! More like used plastic straws, chewing gum and old pizza boxes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:33 PM
3

have you ever said " no " to that and watch the reaction on his face? you ain;t ever gonna se him again, so nothing to lose..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:30 PM
15

no wonder 666 is the devil's number! It represents a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:08 PM
6

You don;t need new clothes, but you can put effort into looking great - if you are doing it for yourself. The point is that you build up enough confidence to have a great time on a DINNER date even if the man ends up not being worth it. ( Of couse if he is a complete asshole you shoul leave- but that is what pre-date phone call is for, to screen out to the best ability those sikos). I dress up for a date, but i do it for me, not some scrote. You desreve to look and feel good for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:07 PM
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if he's as smart as you say, he can figure out how to make more than 45k - that's poverty level!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:01 PM
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6 inches ain't big enough!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:00 PM
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yes, and this is true not just for a man!!! While i have not been guilty of attaching my worth to a man, I have been very guilty of attaching my worth to a place of residence, a country, a prestigious company/ club/ university, etc. ) because of you are finding your worth in someone else ( including a job! a company! a frienship! a place of residence or fancy neighborhood! affiliation/membership in certain organizations!) it gives them too much power over you, and they can disappear overnight! t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:56 PM
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you are being too generous with " his actions" picture. His actions picture is in reality a blank piece of paper, because he never follows through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:49 PM
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You are still thinking like a pick-me. Don't trust what your old man says, he is acting like an LVM. Old men are cynical, resentful of women and have tons of baggage and love to manipulate women ( because they have years of experience how to do this). what your dad said just proves my point. You can never trust what a man says, because they have high level of cognitive dissonance. Their words don't match their actions. He may want a woman to pick a place ( because he is lazy, but he justfies his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:45 PM
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you still have to be mindful that restaurants are a mysoginistic business, where taking advantage of women ( waitresses) and hiring models as " customers" to bring in the men is part of the business plan ( especially high end). The man might also be chums with the restaurant owner/ host and the long-term business with a man might win out in their self-inteest than sharing the info with you ( the question might also have a way of finding it back to the man: the host might tell the man that you ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:25 PM
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good job! and the others?- did they forget their wallets? losers...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:17 PM
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No such thing as confidentiality in the restaurant business. ( this is not the doctor, lawyer, school etc.) they are not regulated in that way. Also since you have given them both (a) name under which the reservation is made and (b) the time slot for which it is made - the restaurants assume you are part of the reservation party and not "fishing" for information. Also they are used to women, girlfriends & wives checking up on the men. Also restaurants are in a " scocial" business. Slip the waite…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:02 PM
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yes- except no getting into the guy's car or uber on the first date! Not safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:13 AM
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I guarantee that if he had to plan a meal with a prospective client, all his shit would be on point. You deserve no less than that in his treatment of you. How else is he going to convince you to " buy his services" if he's not bringing his A-game? Don't let yourself be treated with less respect and dignity than he would show to his prospective client. Just don't !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:10 AM
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its alwasy " live and learn" live and learn. That;s why we are here- to learn from our collective experiences and wisdom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:08 AM
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lol - i would snarkily say- have you heard of coffee? Its a great " pick-me up" when you're not feeling "tired". I guarnatee you he doesn;t tell his boss he;s tired, when the boss asks him to do something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:06 AM
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exactly. This is why its a great "pick-me up" when you are feeling lazy. Just imagine how lazy a scrote is. Instnantly feel good about yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:04 AM
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hope they all paid for your food!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:02 AM
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i just call them up & ask " can you please confirm that there is a reservation for 2 under [date's name] for a particular time. " they will either confirm or deny . you say "thank you" and that's that. takes less than 2 minutes - wait time for them to answer. DON"T OVERTHINK IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:01 AM
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if he doesn't plan the date, then there is no date. its as simple as that. you have no obligation to see him if he doesn;t put in effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:53 AM
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that's very weird... in that case he has to get there early to get a table and wait for you by the time you arrive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:27 AM
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only agree to a date if the place accepts reservations. No way I'd go to a place without reservations. Too casual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:09 AM
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even worse, when he uses those ideas to take out and impress another girl !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:25 PM
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just block and delete them. I will never go out with a man who (a) doesn't ask me for a date ahead of time (b) plan the date in my neighborhood (c) confirm that the date is happening. I will not even make a fake purs grab or offer to split the bill. Dude you have invited me out and planned the date to receive the pleasure of my company. You are paying for it. If not, I will never see you again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:27 PM
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yes, I always call the restaruant and verify if there is a reservtion .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:24 PM
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This! This is exactly why I didn't have sex in high school or college and was a virgin until my late twenties. Not because of religion, because the men were just not good enough to get me excited and attracted to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:45 PM
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sorry about that. will be more mindful next time. thank you for letting me know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:29 PM
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men legitimately forget that they were born of a woman. no kidding. Their long term memory is almost entirely non-existent. Experiment by asking them what they were doing 2 years ago, 1 year ago, 5 years ago. Ask them to recall a detailed memory. Most will fail. They are such " instant gratification" & "chase whatever is in front of their nose at the moment" creatures. Most can't recall their past and cannot visualize their future. Just try this out on a scrote, - if you haven;t ever done this, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:43 AM
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especially after working from home for a year, i realize just how ugly and uncomfortable most work and public places really are in the US. All designed by men, no doubt for the cheapest way possible. i really hope workers demand more beautiful and comfortable offices if they are to return to work from an office. in continental western europe, public places are so much more beautiful and comfortable...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:35 AM
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the worst things men attirbute to women are their own projection: she is going to die sad alone = that is what he is afraid of! she's manipulative = men are the worst manipulators around. He is so afraid that a woman will do to him the same as he routinely does to women gold-digger= if he could marry money, he would. he would not even care how the woman looked like. if she had money trap him with a kid = men are the ones who want a kid , they are the ones trapping women with a kid divorce-rape h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:36 AM
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No crazy spending on stadiums and football. That money would go to the arts and culture. Women are the keepers of culture and the traditions that bring people together. Women would be valued for creating spaces for celebration , togetherness and ritual. Notice, that without women, men are incapable of creating holiday or christmas environment. They just spend the holidays on the couch watching TV, alone, and then wonder why they feel so miserable over the holidays. Offices would be more comforta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:18 AM
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i agree with you on almost all points- except for the smaller counters and cabinets. I am a tall woman, and especially in thr US, it drives me absolutely nuts how short the counters and cabinets, sinks, and toilets are. I need them to be slightly hugher, because leaning so low to cut thinkgs and wash hands gives me a back ache!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:30 AM
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Thats very clever. There have always been more opportunities for women, especially single women, in big cities to establish and maintain their independent livelihoods. As soon as you move out of the city the independent oppruties magiacally seem to dry up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:19 AM
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yep- he is totally not worth the amount of emotional misery he;s caused her. I think he actually wanted for her to break up with him , whe he told her he didn;t like the attention her job caused and to move to Chicago. No man would quit a lucrative job for a woman. No man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:11 PM
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excellent moves Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:06 PM
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I really hate when doctors dismiss being overweigtht as a simple food/excercise issue. weight is always an emotional/mental issue. Until you treat the mental issue behind it, you will either keep the weight on, or keep yo-yo dieting. It is often a comlex issue that needs mental and endocrinology ( hormones) support. You also need to re-start your gut and digestive system. Weightloss is a very holistic process, - it is not just the food and excercise. During this pandemic, I have begun to see som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:26 PM
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yes, I do not doubt that for a second. Eastern men are very sexist. I was just bringing up the fact that STEM attainment for women is better in the East.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:03 PM
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I always try to go to female doctors, and i try to find ones who did not go to medical school in US. ( Easier to do in a big city, like NYC)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:01 PM
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the funny thing, in eastern europe and other eastern countries, women and girls pursue mathematical and engineering degrees at the equal rate, if not more so , than men. Scientific and quantitatve degrees are not inherently anti-women because of subject matter. It is all about institutionalized western, post-colonial, patriarchial culture being against women achieving well-paid degrees in finance and tech which are dominated by good old boys club.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:41 AM
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Bob hearts Abishola. She is a single mom, from humble beginnings in Nigeria working as a Nurse in Detroit and makes sure that everyone around her respects her,- she takes no BS from anyone. And Bob treats her like a queen. Abishola is strong. She never plays a " weak damsel in distress" Its very refreshing, because she is beautiful, without even attempting to fit " the conventional beauty standard". Sure there are some bad stereotypes about people from Nigeria, but overall I think Abishola embod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:06 PM
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Spartan women were also expected to be physically active to defend the home, when men were away and had the right to reject a suitor if he was not up to stnadards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:44 PM
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well, if I ever find an HVM I expect him to love me during my bad days and good days, in sickness and in health, in youth and in old age. And I don't want to have children and I don't want to do any hosework, - I hire a maid to do that. So there is that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:04 AM
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Yes that's true. I"m fairly tall for american standards, especially in shoes 5' 10" ( that's actually either the same height or taller than most men here, - i was shocked when I came here from europe to see that...) I am not skinny by any means ( not obese) and have wide shoulders ( wider than my hips) and a big chest, (due to the boobage). I can walk a confident masculine walk when I need to. I put my hair up in a bun when walking down the street. I can easily drop my voice into a low barritone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:50 PM
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100% This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:07 AM
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and its not just physical objects, - its the words, the pressure, the expectations, all the shit conciously and subconsciously told to women too, it adds up. Which is why you need to build up strong boundaries to deflect this shit. Unfortunately women are not taught much about keeping and enforcing physcial, emotinal and psychic boundaries to protect themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:30 AM
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I'd caution against taking responsiblity for mistakes in a male-dominated field or you may become the convenient scape goat. Men always deny, deny, deny, deny -even if everyone knows they made a mistake. If you are the only one accpeting responsiblity among a sea of deniers, guess who's head will be next on the chopping block. Proceed with caution... responsiblity acceptance is a dangerous thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:24 AM
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My experience is w/ Germanic & Scandinavian countries. Due to the healthcare, government money for the children, free daycare, and paid family leave policies, maternity for 1 yr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:01 PM
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thank you. good suggestions, except that I would never use 23&me due to privacy concerns an their affiliation with google and feeding yor DNA to the govt database.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:06 PM
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because they were faking their personality in order to " get the goods" and then they (a) got the goods and got bored and (b) can't keep up with the work and effort required to keep faking their personality so the mask finally comes off and you see the real scrote. Happens all the time. Which is why we vet, vet, vet and expect to see consistent effort and costly investment from men ( in terms of their time and effort).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:58 PM
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Can I ask what kind of tests you got? I'd like to find out as well..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:44 PM
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I raise you a worse one. There is a 70 !!! year old scrote who never was married, but now all of a sudden is looking " for a younger woman" and wants to have "a family and a child" Lol! Which younger woman wants his crusty old ass and have a child with him? EWWW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:42 PM
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I guess I should have clarified 10 mins when not using " extension techniques" There is no reason for a man to last longer than 10 mins when he's getting a blow job, for example. Or when he's not capable of a quickie, ever ...that's a red flag...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:22 AM
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While Pierce Brosnan is still hot at 60 ( and stayed married to the love of his life while he was a sex symbol) most scrotes grow a beer belly, fatty jowls , develop baldness and get sexual dysfuntions by the time they are 33). Regular scrotes in the trades and in corporations age horribly due to not taking care of themselves, drinking, not sleeping normally, not eating good/healthy food , poor excercise regimen - super fast!! They look far worse than the women of the same age. And its not just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:36 AM
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That's why for many men a lesbian is the ultimate turn-on. its quite sick. But a lesbian doesn;t care about men, she ignores them, she treats them like the shits they are. For many men their sick fantasy is the " conquest" of a lesbian. Thats why you see this motif in literture/movies/life of absolute ice queens being married to the richest, most powerful men and the warm and empathetic, open women being portrayed as the village whore... And male depravity doesn't stop there... the conquests of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:40 AM
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100% this is why we don;t accept low value dates, don;t travel to see men and dont split the bill! If he doesnt invest in you consistently over time in a way that is costly for him, he doesn;t care enough for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:47 AM
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that would actually require them to gain an ounce of self-awareness .... there is a reson why there is an apt moniker for most men - " a tool"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:45 AM
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Exactly - men are the irrational gender. If you give a woman what she wants, she will be over-the-moon with joy, will remember that forever and treasure the person who listened to her and gave her what she asked for. When you give a man what he wants, he gets a very short lived ego boost, and then immediately devalues what he got and treats the person who gave him what he wanted like shit. And will now immediately start pursing what he hasn't got. Never give men what they want. The only way to k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:37 AM
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And poor women have to go through hell when on fertility hormones and heartbreak when they can't concieve. But we already know that modern day men's sperm count has fallen by more than 50%, so soon they will get their wish and they will actually be shooting blanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:33 AM
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also the moment you show a man you are dependent on him even a little bit, he starts treating you like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:45 PM
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male teachers are the worst! Theey'll come up to you " sugar sweet" and if you " reject them" by enforcing your boundaries, they will come at you with buckets of the most vile vitriol imagiable. ( where semi-normal men just walk away). When I have rejected male teachers for dates after chatting with them, they always came after me with the most heinious insults, turning on a dime from Dr. Jekyll to Mr Hyde! Beware of the Murses, EMTs, Psychiatrists etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:40 PM
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it takes at lest 3 victims with similar stories to even get any sort of "justice" process on the way. One person comes forward and its just her word against his, and she gets villified and dragged through mud and the patriarchy protects the perpetrator ( unless its just swept under the rug. With thre victims he gets a slap on the wrist and trasferred to another location. with 10 victims there starts to be some consequences for his career ( unless his career is in a heavily male dominated busines…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:37 PM
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I'm all for not playingmind games with a decent human. The problem is that if you stop playing mind games, they start taking you for granted and treating you like shit. The scrotes only " be decent human" if it "pays" and they get things in return, not because being decent is the intrinsically moral thing to do. Scrotes are 100% externally motivated Pavlov's Dogs. If they can get away with it, they will. If their moms didn;t train them well as kids ( and most haven't b/c they were busy doing dou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:15 PM
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And you know the minute these scrotes get even minor sniffles, they'd be all puppy eyed begging for care, someone - preferably you- cooking them chicken soup and hot tea. If he is not willing to do the same for you when you need it, then he needs to be " blocked & deleted" fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:08 PM
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This is why you don;t get in a relationship with a man who has never lived alone and you have had a chance to inspect his household keeping abilities and how he lives. If he's a pig in his own home, he will be an even bigger pig in your home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:16 PM
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this is why testing a man when I'm sick is one of my core vetting strategies. When I have a minor illness ( cold or period cramps etc which I could deal with myself if need be), and i'm dating someone - I will intentionally tell him that i'm feeling ill and could use some help ( especially if it was a planned date night before I got sick). Then I watch and see if he is willing he is to make food for me/ bring me food/ go the the pharmacy to pick up tampons, or medicine, come to me with a blanket…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:12 PM
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That is great to hear!! Good luck in your search
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:58 PM
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Also, 20 pounds is not that big of a deal. Depending on your personal goals and the state of your physical and mental health, you could lose it in just a few months with the right mental work, cardio excercises and diet choices ( not that you need to, only if you want to). Everybody's case is different, of course, but with the right set-up, people can lose 40 pounds in 4 months in a healthy way. Please do not let anyone tell you that 20 pounds overweight during COVID shutdown is " fairly overwei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:41 AM
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All you have to wait for is economic collapse to see this happen to women. In Soviet Union ( please withold your judgement about politics for a minute) women were protected as workers. Sure, they were not equal to men , but they could make decent progress and live self-sufficiently, earn money, become doctors, scientists, academics, factory workers. After WW2 they were not pushed back home ( likely because most male population died) Soviet women had free access to contraception and decent health…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:18 AM
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Are you able to move to a different role/ area in your company? It is much easier to avoid resentment, if you never played thrapist/ provided free advice/ HR work from the get-go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:55 PM
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Yep OkCupid before it was taken over by Match com was a more nuanced place. met my BF there ( we broke up b/c he moved to a different country and I didn't want to go). I balme evil Match com for the shit cesspool that online dating has become ( they control 95 % of the apps)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:16 PM
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Well, I lived in Europe and now in the US, and from my experience, mothers in US are treated worse than what I saw in Europe. Didn't say that mothers in europe are treated well, only that to me it seems that its a bit better in Europe. I would point to better family leave policies and better health care ( with a larger number of female doctors) as one of the examples where Europe does a bit better for mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:11 PM
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of course they are mad at the scrotes, b/c the scrotes are garbage who want to take advantage of them and abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:36 PM
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he's porn sick, because he uses death grip to masturbate, which creates all kinds of erectile dysfunctions. This need for increased "pressure" he talks aboout comes from him being used to the super hard grip of his hand or fleshlight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:32 PM
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manipulation techniques employed by abusers and practical boundary setting should be required reading/courses for women when they become teens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:17 PM
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It used to be that women worked, but were part of an extended family and village support network of small towns, big farming communities and big families - where everybody was in charge of raising the children. This made childrearing a bit easier on the women, as aunts, grnadmothers, neighbors, older children would all chip in and watch the kids. Multigenerational households were the norm. Then after the war the nuclear family was created, people moved from their towns and villages where others …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:59 PM
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only have to look at the efffects of British borading school experiment that started back in 1800 to see the kind of maladjusted, emotionally stunted & undeveloped people it creates. These people are only good at perpetuating the sick mechanisms for the "control of the empire" and "patriarchy" that were drilled into them at school. They become "mind-controlled" tools of the economic system, - not actual functioning humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:28 PM
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especially in US mothers are treated like sh*t by society. In other countries like Latin America & Europe motherhood is a lot more respected overall by society and government. It is pure hell being a mother in US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:22 PM
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mental and physical illness is such a bi*ch, in that they compound and multiply each other , make potential so hard to realize, especailly in such a f-eed up world. If you are smart and sensitive, and a woman -this world is a brutal, hard place to live in ( especailly if you have got no one who truly cares about you and if you've got no one you can depend on who can constructuvely help you. You've got to constantly watch your back, hide your weaknesses, not be able to confide to anyone, because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:13 AM
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I'm a product of a NVM marriage....and I agree. DO NOT PROPAGATE BAD GENES. and while I am on a path to getting better, -- so much pain for everyone would have been avoided if I was never born. I have an ok life now, and I have come far, and I put in a sh*t ton of work to improve myself, and still a lot more work to go, and sometimes I have even started to derive a little bit of joy out of my life - but honestly I did not ask for this life and it would have truly been better if I was not "produc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:19 AM
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have you seen most men after 30? they are fat , balding scrotes with a patch neckbeard. Talk abouout losing all value and hitting the wall. Its the men who become worthless...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:40 AM
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and others will take that ( you being a bit sniping & mean) as a " challenege" and pursue you even harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:23 PM
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if you consider OLD, then read " Scrote tropes decoded part 1,2 & 3" its posted on this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:19 PM
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This is what " The Rules" Books & Men Love Bithches books are all about! Non-engagements and treating men as " non-entities." As Non-human beings. They just explain how to apply this strategy in day-to-day circumstances which is very helpful for any recovering pick-me ( like I once was)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:02 PM
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yep - they need to be ok w/ being pegged first! The shitty part that b/c of the prostate, even anal is better for guys...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:05 AM
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the clue is in the word "his"-tory. His-story has been an age-old tool of the patriarchy to perpetuate itself, as it is written by men and excludes the contribution of women ( much like organized religion). For hundreds, if not thousands of years men have written history to glorify other men and the patriarchal institutions at the expense of women, so its not surprising that "like" attracts "like" -- 'Her"story has only recently started to emerge as we begin to write down the contributions and v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:54 PM
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apart from the emotional harm, this is the easiset way for Rape & STDs to happen . No sex without an STD test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:12 AM
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wait until her heart gets broken by a guy , while she is middle school or high-shool. When she's at a low point and is wondering what is wrong, give her " The Rules" books to read to help her figure it out. This worked on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:35 AM
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so sorry you had to go through that sister! Hope you are in a safer better place now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:57 AM
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because tatoos and piercings inflict pain on the receiver when they are introduced. Scrotes think that means the tatoo and piercing holder likes bing "tortured" ,"demeaned" and abused... :-( I don;t agree with it, but that's how scrotes see it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:56 PM
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I want to come! where do I sign up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:39 PM
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very few good men on OLD...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:55 PM
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where are you located? perhaps this can be made into reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:22 AM
13

same as " Enterpreneur' or fraudster mooching off PPE Loans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:14 AM
96

you'd be surprised how many actually do it, and not realize they are being trolled hard. But then again, if they are sending out dick pics, their IQ is hardly higher than that of an amoeba on Saturn ( no offense to the amoebas)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:34 AM
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I know its against the rules. but when I need a laugh, & to mess with them, I sometimes ask to please re-send with measuring tape next to it for verification purposes, and if they actually do it, - I say that unfortunately they " don;t measure up to my expectations"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:28 AM
99

similar story is true in all rural communities. women move out to go to universities and then go to cities to get jobs, while the underachieving men get left behind. This is true in US, Russia, Nordic Countries, etc... However there is another imbalance in the citities, you get far more women there than men, so women still swarm the few eligible men in the cities as " pick-me's"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:19 AM
20

don't forget Rick & Morty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:07 AM
37

also " I keep deleting this" b/c they keep getting banned due to inappropriate behavior ! before there was The Office, there was Seinfeld. But same logic applies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:05 AM
-16

there is just something strange with young men willingly giving up animal products completely, since they were the orginal hunters. You might have better luck with those who became vegetarians later in life for health reasons, rather than " moral" reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:41 AM
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depends on the city I guess. Its true in NYC. West Europeans or Nordic just say they are from France/ Italy/ Germany/ Norway/ Sweden. Only the East Europeans like to keep it vague...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:38 AM
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porn and male masturbation does indeed cause "blindness" , but not the literal physical blindness that " children are afraid of" -- it causes emptional and psychological blindness where women and men don't see their own beauty anymore, where they become "blind" to the physical and emotional intimacy that should be possible under normal circumstances, but due to porn consumption no longer is. Men become "blind" to the natural charms of an individual woman because they have been "blinded" by an un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:52 PM
20

yep, notice how even men complain when there are too many men around. no one really minds when there are a lot of women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:47 PM
16

this might be a good thing, if it leads to them weeding themselves out of the gene pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:37 PM
18

yep - if men don't want to bear the costs of sex , then there will be no sex. its as simple as that. Pay up, or get lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:56 PM
15

it is, unless you are financially well-off enough to pay for nanny and a housekeeper, while paying a mortgage and contributing fully to a retirement account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:04 PM
31

lol- who wants to live with an old used-up scrote...unless he's bringing in major assets to the equation that will allow for paid housekeepers and financially worry-free life...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:52 PM
31

Yes- but some women do want to have children, even if on their own and are being shamed (as if their eggs are losing fertility) for putting their careers first, so that they can establish themselves financially first. So it is important for them to know, that if they keep healthy, their fertility will be ok if they want to wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:49 PM
71

And yet surprising how they are so afraid of " marriage," since it benefits them. They are the ones who should be clamoring to get married...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:42 PM
53

basically caring for 2 children too. One adult and one real child. And the adult child gets jealous of how much time and attention you devote to the real child...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:41 PM
28

I suspect that too much porn and masturbation has had a significant impact on lowered sperm counts too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:35 PM
16

Yep - Exactly. I have never used hormonal birth control. Never will!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:33 PM
44

Lol- if they want to ejaculate ( only in a committed relationship)- have them get the snip/ vasectomy and show test results from doctor that they have been shooting blanks for 3 months now... If they want to have kids, they should freeze their sperm in their 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:32 PM
17

or LA, or NYC...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:41 AM
62

All men are sex diggers, so there is no shame in being a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:08 AM
38

and the laziest, most entitled, peter-pan men are in the big cities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:00 AM
57

Its the gateway drug..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:43 AM
7

"religion" was the original "big brother" always "watching" as in " God sees all" to try to stop people from doing bad shit. Since we don't have religion and men lack morals, - gee that means we have to introduce the surveillance state..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:40 AM
17

Just have to see the % of sociopaths /psychopaths and prison population of men vs. women tho see that this is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:37 AM
23

Also labeling scientific facts that are not in their favor as " pseudo-science" even when the study is published by a reputable, peer reviewed scientific publication...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:36 AM
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yep, unfortunately manipulation and projection are their tools of the trade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:34 AM
23

yep- they're statistically more likely to have genetic abnormalities due to "fragile" Y chromosome ( fragile Y chromosome is the actual scientific term) and be a less "viable" fetus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:32 AM
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This is exactly why women should give far less care and concern for men - caring for men is a losing proposion for women b/c : (a) men don't understand it and don't value it (b) scrotes are not reciprocal, they are exploitative - they take as much they can get away with without feeling the need to reciprocate - takers have no limits (c) they just take it for granted. A man must pay gratly through actions to earn a woman's care. Women should not be giving that away easily and freely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:40 PM
6

thank you. so basiacally the military logic: in order to fight the terrorists, we must become terrorists... figures. I bet all the computer games on the market originally started as " training" for the military ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:35 PM
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the best "ships" are friendships between fellow sisters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:33 PM
23

classic feminie competencies aren't valued by scrotes anyhow... they think its an insult already - to have " feminine" qualities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:31 PM
14

Yep - even science says that the Y chromosome is fragile and at much greater risk for mutation , desintegtraton and disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:28 PM
10

Wasnt there a " Hero" mentality after WW2 as well? From what I remember, after 9/11 that's when the psychopatic surveillance and PC culture really took off... I will say that the quality of US TV really started taking a shit-turn with all the stupid reality TV shows... Never paid much attention to video games, but the increase in " gamers" is vomit-inducing. Instead of learning & bettering skills, these idiots spend their time on video games. What a waste of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:26 PM
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Hhaha- and then they even get mad when we ignore them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:59 PM
18

Why the War in Afghanistan specifically? Just curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:55 PM
12

an easy way for the trash to take itself out online is by responding to low-effort texts and messages with a single emoji or one word answers. Scrotes get really mad when you match their energy and do the bare minimum, ( funny b/c low effort is all they do, why should you be doing any more that they?). A higher value man, ( not necessarily an HVM) but someone more advanced will instead ask if you'd like to have a phone call instead ( and he has to call, most likely he's not going to catch me on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:33 PM
5

If they do that " block and delete" or get up and leave the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:31 PM
1

https://phys.org/news/2020-07-chromosome-men.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:48 PM
0

But the Y is incomplete..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:59 PM
1

Ah, ok thank you for clarifying. Then yes you should block and delete the guy forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:57 PM
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Your dynamic is healthy. Man needs to love you a lot more than you do him. He needs to shower you with actions and gestures and resources that are costly to him. His words mean zilch. Men lack empathy and deep emotions and they don;t express them the way women do. Your hesitation and suspicions are healthy, a man needs extended time to prove himself worthy. ( However you need to show yourself some self-love and feel worthy of deserving the best). You are absolutely in your right to expect and de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:38 AM
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This is also, them projecting. They know how worthless they really are deep inside..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:31 AM
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He was the one cheating. Men always poject the worst that they know they are capable of, while women always give the benefit of the doubt.. You need to become a bit more "ruthless" in blocking and deleting these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:29 AM
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find ways to create distance. Dont respond for 24 hrs to texts. Don;t respond over the weekend & holidays. Don;t spend too much time together, end dates at 1-2 hours and don;t go away on week-long trips. Don;t spend the entire weekend together. Find ways to reinforce boundaries in a way that value your time to yourself, and your girlfriends as more important than your time with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:25 AM
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Also important - DON'T EQUATE A MAN"S CHITCHAT FOR HIS LOVE FOR YOU. A man will chichat endlessly to anyone who will listen to his drivel. He is just looking for audeince and ego boost. If a man keeps talking to you, it does not mean that he likes you, it does not mean he cares for you, it does not mean that he thinks you are worth his time. It just means he could not find anyone else who would listen to him. Man's words are WORTHLESS! This is even worse in the internet & phne age , when its so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:02 AM
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In my experience, Women are rarely the selfish ones. They are the ones who protect themselves. Men are the really selfish ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:51 AM
11

This might sound like tough love, but 1 year? You need to ditch his ass. After 1 year, I would expect a man to propose to me. If he doesn't, I'm getting the hell out of dodge. Don;t be a " forever girlfriend." Also don;t be so sure that his mom is speaking for him. She may just want him off her hands and married off!!! DO NOT TRUST HER! A MAN'S MOTHER IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. Put him on a " No contact plan" for a month and see how he respnds. If he doesn't send you flowers, gifts, invites you to dinn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:50 AM
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yes - it defintely hurts! Men don't even have a full set of chromosomes. The Y is pretty much damaged. They have 25% less genetic material than women!! Have you considered dating women? Not an ideal choice, but if biological motherhood is what you want, you can find a much more reliable "partner" in a woman. I think this is a trend that is picking up speed among bisexual women, who decide not to date/marry/ have families with men and have success forming families with other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:45 AM
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Put the energy in your own creative pursuit. Your Art, your own business, your own something! You can be a " mother" to more than a "child". Motherhood is not reductive to the biological aspect. There are other avenues to express it, that are no less rewarding. You have choices. You can become a mentor too... So many kids who are in bad situations need mentors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:29 AM
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Never listen to a thing a man says. Their words are completely worthless. WORTHLESS. Judge them by their actions instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:25 AM
12

yeh- but imagine, going to pregnancy and childcare with an LVM... who is not there for you... at best he may provde some financial support.. at best! At worst you now have two "babies" to take care of now, and the adult baby is being abusive and making you emotionally miserable to boot! And then he loses his job and drains your bank account, then divorces you and makes you pay his spousal support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:21 AM
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YOU NEVER HAVE TO ANSWER ANY OF THEIR QUESTIONS! always volley it back to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:19 AM
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I always (a) volley it back to them right away "mine for yours" and make them answer their own question first (b) say something general or don't even reply anything at all, after they've shared themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:17 AM
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yep - they only say " i love you" or " i want to marry you" when they're afraid of losing you. never b/c things are going great between the two of you. That''s the last time he'll say or do something to "keep you' or make you feel special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:15 AM
15

For starting a family a sperm bank is a better option than settling w/ an LVM...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:09 AM
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Also, with the ones, you like - document/ journal every little thing about them/ what they do which you don;t like. Imagine what it would be magnified 10X- b/c that's how it will be if you end up actually living with him.... that should help you think more clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:05 AM
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He was not that interested to begin with. A guy who is interested will not take a cancellation as a rejection. He will try to schedule another date with you instead and call again, even if you ignore them a bit. Rejection is good for them and helps them build character, " if they have any to begin with" Looks like you dodged a bullet from a low-effort time waster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:01 AM
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yep, to the men interpret " being loved" as " that they can do even better"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:57 AM
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yep- need to weed out the insecure guys.. The ones who complain a lot and get angry when you are not available to them, i.e. when you end chats, calls, dates first and after a short, and don;t indulge their " need for an audience" are the ones I'm talking about. Its a red flag if they start acting angry, entitled and wanting to " know if you are even interested" when you are safeguarding your time from them are the ones ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:55 AM
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exactly, which is why you don't spend too much time on chat, on phone and on dates with him. Eat the food, listen a bit, nod , end the date first and get out. He will be in a perpetual cycle of " wanting to know more about you" and thus paying for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:51 AM
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they put in a lot more effort if they are afraid of losing you .... not saying its good, but its just how the neanderthals operate. Which is why having your own money and place and not moving in with the scrote is imperative. When he knows you have options and can bolt at any time he misbehaves, that keeps him on good behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:48 AM
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Yep, - a man is not your pal. Don't chit chat w/ him about your path to self-actualization. Save that for your supportive gal-pals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:46 AM
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Remember that the scrote doesn't even have a full set of DNA! Scrote is not even a full person or a full " human" b/c he is missing 25% of chromosomal capacity. The Y chromosome is fargile ( hence the fragile male ego) and much more suspect to all kinds of disease (both mental & Physical), Hence you have to assume he's a degenrate until he proves otherwise. You are not working with a "full set." Until recently, most men were just about good enough to be cannon fodder, expendable during wars and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:43 AM
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Stay strong! Be extra disciplined, don't make exceptions. Keep your cards close to the vest. Make 'em work. The rewards are great, but this is a case of " delayed" gratification. It sometimes feels like a 2nd job, but it gets easier. Keep a healthy distance. It also protects you, if you need to end the relationship, you've kept a healthy distance and haven;t invested as much, so it is much easier to make a clean break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:28 AM
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Yep- same here... BE SURE TO USE " THE RULES' on the rare ones you like... Always do less than what men want/ expect and they will work 2X hard to get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:44 AM
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men are always projecting and gaslighting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:14 AM
3

would not have emotionally survived the pandemic without a heating body pillow. I need touch, warmth and hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:57 PM
4

Add to that (a) weighted blanket (b) a heating body pillow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:02 PM
17

tiny beanies and beards. disgusting AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:50 PM
21

especilly if they wear no socks with their horse-bit loafers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:43 PM
18

I'm in NYC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:04 PM
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computer nerds, who are all of a sudden " poly"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:21 AM
8

I waited until I was 25 and could do it on my own terms.... and well out of college ( I always thought high-school sex was immature and desperate & college hook-up sex was toxic and icky) , making my own money - i did not want to be sleeping around with my or his roomates knowing my business. I don't think you can really have sex on your own terms if you are depending on parents or college or a man to " provide" for you - Because that always comes with " strings" attached. So I wainted until I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:11 AM
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one thing I do is wear a heavy-duty steel boned and fully laced corset and a complex looking panty with several rows of bra-type hooks underneath for protection. Functions as a modern-day chastitiy belt, - my impenetrable fortress. Not only is it good protection but makes me feel safe, held, protected, sexy and confident ( not to mention improves my posture and well-being as I have a slipping rib.) I can strut my stuff, without feeling too vulnerable. I love watching the instant disappointment i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:41 AM
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yeast infection lie works too. scrotes are scared of that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:19 AM
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Oh - I can never have enough time in the bathroom! Taking a hot shower, leisurly trimming my pubes, shaving my legs, washing hair, taking a bath, tweezing a few stray hairs, popping a few zits, filing my nails, flossing my teeth, scrubbing my feet, exfoliating and massaging myself, really enjoying the showerhead, the list goes on .... I could spend a whole day in the bathroom :-) Especially nice, if its not my bathroom, so I don't have to clean up after :-)))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:16 AM
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justsomething to be mondful of..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:00 AM
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yep- the good old " I need to take a big shit urgently" often makes them go limp and an excuse for you to lock yourself in the bathroom.... Watch out though, some scrotes purposefully remove the bathroom lock ... so where possible try to check befrehand if bathroom is the locking kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:04 AM
19

Screaming at the top of your lungs also often works...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:00 AM
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another strategy is to wear him out, so he falls asleep. ( Again if he's not overtly agressive) Spend as much time clothed on the couch and then in locked in the bathroom, " washing, grooming, cleaning" that by the time you are done it is 4 am and he has fallen asleep. Has worked very well for me in the past...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:43 PM
33

Hands over vagina to prevent him from penetrating also works if he is just being " dumb" but not aggressive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:39 PM
22

Unpopular opinion, but these are the cases where the Death Penalty should exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:58 PM
9

I wonder if the Gspot is where the neck of the clitoris and the 4 legs of it meet..... I'm imagining that the red part is analogous to the prostate and the lila parts are analogous to the pipes in the penis shaft that get engorged with blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:56 PM
5

Match which now owns 90% of dating apps screwed it up after they bough it . Match com is just plain evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:50 AM
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anything negative men say is just a projection of their own insecurity. The reason men deride women's bodies, is because they hate their own. They think that " the only good defense is a good offense" and so they think that by shaming women and women's bodies,, the women will be too distracted to notice how ugly and deformed men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:30 AM
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The shame is that OkCupid ( before it was aquired by Match and degenerated into a swiping cesspool) used to be a good site maybe 5-8 years ago ( last time I've used it) . You could search and match by interests and the algo would actually look at your profile and find other people that matched your preferences and interests. I rememebr how much more intelligent the convos were, and I met some pretty interesting people on there. But now that Match took over, it has turned into a steamng pile of g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:06 AM
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I can't link to it b/c of new stupid reddit " brigading" rules but if you search for the below- you should be able to find it. Redditors who've worked for dating app companies (Match.com/Bumble/etc), what are the most cynical or predatory strategies you've seen from your company?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:33 AM
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There was a reddit post ( not on FDS) about what happens behind closed doors inside the dating site companies, and anonymous employees reported what crap they saw happen .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:22 AM
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that's just common sense - 80 to 90 % or programmers / coders are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:02 AM
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https://observer.com/2019/02/mandy-ginsberg-match-group-ceo-interview/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:45 AM
8

https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/248397
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:38 AM
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The worst thing is that 90% of apps are owned by shady Match Dot Com ( Tinder, Match, Hinge, OkCupid, POF). Lots of dating app executives got caught red handed on preying on women via their admin accss on apps they own, and had lots of cheting and morals clause scandals by which they were removed from their jobs. Male programmers develop the dating algorithms, and we know how depraved the techies really are... and then the rest is anti-women Bumble ( which was started as a Tinder spin-off) who w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:17 PM
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This why you need a " Get the F Out" cash stash. I did not feel comfortable seriously dating before I was making bank, had my career, my own place that I owned free and clear and a serious cash stash that could see me though breakup/ layoff etc. I don't have any family in this country, so I would only have myself to rely on if thnings went south. That way, I could get rid of anyone who did not turn out to be HV pretty quickly. I realize this may not be realistic /feasible for many, but keep a se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:08 PM
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Anyone who tells you this, don't be insulted, be happy that he tipped his hand and self-identified as NV Scrote. Now you know to stay away from him forever. A decent man, even if he does not "like" a particular woman, would never stoop to something so low!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:32 PM
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this is truly appaling, considering that women who kill their intimate partner were probably in all likelyhood trying to defend themselves against a monster, and instead the systemiatically mysoginist "justice" systems gaslights the women as a monster..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:16 AM
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He's already treating you like a vending machine! Putting a " compliment in does not equal " thank you from you. BLOCK & DELETE - NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:00 PM
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Don't reply to his low effort texts like " good morning" or " good day" or " hey beautiful." He sends these to all the women he's trying to score with. THESE TEXTS FROM HIM ARE NOT AN INVITATION TO A CHAT FEST! Men are "strategic" and use these to see if you reply to them /gauge your interest. If you reply to low effort text ( even with as much as an emoji) = you are too eager and he has you "hooked." If you have a date on the books, there is no need for chitchat. If you don't have a date on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:57 PM
16

Men will waste as much of your time as you let them. Don;t let them waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:18 AM
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Acting "too excited/ too eager" for the date sets you apart in scrote's mind, and not in a good way. If you are too responsive to his texts. calls he will think you are " too easy" and reduce his level of effort and focus his energy instead on the girl who is not giving him the time of day/ ignoring him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:49 AM
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You're spending too much time chatting with these guys! Don't initiate texts with the scrotes... I would suggest reading " Not your Mothers Rules" to help you protect yourself against OLD time wasters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:52 AM
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Yep- in these convos, whether online or over the phone, you as a woman should not be talking much at all. He should be seaking about himself, asking you questions and carrying the conversation. This is for you to find more about him, and not the other way around. He should be an open book, while you keep your cards close to the vest. This is not an opportintity for you " to share your feelings, thoughts, etc." This is a recon missin for you to find out if you want to see this guy IRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:49 AM
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You're spending WAY too much time on text/phone with these guys! A GUY IS NOT YOUR PAL! HE IS NOT A CHAT BUDDY! HE IS NOT A PHONE FRIEND! HE IS AN ADVERSARY! if you need someone to talk to, its going to be your girlfriends. Do not use a guy as a substitute for your gilrfriend chat friend. If you don't have girflriends who you can chat with for a long time, get some ASAP! ( i realize this is hard during the pandemic) Do not get into chatfests with OLD guys online or on the phone before the date. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:38 AM
3

Why? You've not heard of the mushroom dick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:30 PM
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He was not watching it for the plotline...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:26 AM
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My LVM step dad loved watching it. I hated the show and thought it was stupid. Too much obsession with cleavage shots in that series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:31 AM
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As a joke, ask them to send the dick pick with measuring tape against it, because you want to "verify the goods" ... this one also makes them mad . lOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:29 AM
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For me its not so much the lenght of the penis, but the difference between the head and the shaft. I like a dick with a big head and a smaller shaft circumference. It feels especially good against my gspot. And I like how the size difference feels during pumping. I guess I like " mushroom" dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:58 AM
5

thats why if you get a dick pic, reply by asking if he can send you one with a measuring tape next to it, so you can objectively see the size
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:55 AM
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And did you notice that its men who object the loudest when you say that you 're not planning on having any children. Its never the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:31 AM
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100% THIS! Ever notice how the BEST paying jobs are especially punishing and institutionally mysognistic towards women?! High Level Tech, Finance, Law, Consulting, Medicine are all environents where Bro Culture/ Old Boys club does their best to keep women out, harass and gaslight when women do make it in, and do everything in their power to make the women there miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:01 AM
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And you know, that dudes would never cancel their boys' night out to hang out with you. And if you are sick and need care/ help/ something happened to you - they will guilt you hard-core for making them " miss out" on boys night. And will resent you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:21 AM
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I have always found it so odd, that people on virtual and anonymous spaces such as reddit will be so helpful and supportive of you - and they never met you nor do they know you. But the people you know and have met in real life, have some semblance of relationship with, people you have helped even, with whom you have a real human connection - will often go from being nice to you, to suddenly ignoring you, abandoning you, and treating you like shit, badmouthing you. This is a real paradox of huma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:19 AM
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Yea- it really sucks when you've invested so much time and then they trun out to to be shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:19 AM
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Can't say that he will in the long term, - but as long as he is chasing, he will be on his best behavior. It is when he thinks he's got you, that he starts getting comfortable and becoming low effort/ minimum effort. Never let him think he's ever completely " got you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:16 AM
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I bet this is where the story of Adam's rib to make woman came from . Men are indeed missing something from their chromosomes, but its not because the women took it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:55 AM
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Yes- this "sleep-over/cuddle date" a great way to screen. Before having sex, inisist you want to cuddle first and say upfront that there will be no sex this time to make you comfortable. If they don;t want to cuddle/ try to turn it to sex after you said that this isnt going to happen this time. -then he doesn't want you for you, doesn't respect you and you should get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:07 AM
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Yeh - lovebombing is a bitch. Which I why I always wait 3-4 months before having sex. Anyone who's not really interested in me, isn;t going to stick around this long! Also, scrotes can't keep their mask on for this long, by 3-4 months it starts to slip and the real person comes out. Not judging. You live and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:02 AM
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True, - the reason why I spend more than 3 hours at the gym is b/c of the showers, steam rooms, and saunas they have. 45 mins to work out, and the rest to relax and enjoy the amenities in the women's locker room. ( this is before the pandemic) I used to go to a really luxurious gym :-) I miss the womens locker room. I can shave , exfoliate , wash hair, and not have to worry about cleaning up the mess in my own bathroom. That is what I miss the most about the gym !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:02 AM
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Maybe this is why scrotes are so much more obsessed with " pumping iron" being in the gym and doing all sorts of extreme workouts than they were in previous generations. Before, only lowlife criminals. convicts, felons, and holywood minorities were so into "pumping iron." Now its seems every college bro LVM is into pumping! It is the only area where they are biologically "stronger" than women. And yet the need for male " muscle" in 95% of modern jobs is nil. We've got powerful machines and robot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:31 AM
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Have you considered bleaching your pubes for the swimsuit? it is quick and painless.. No one can really see your hair sticking out if its blond and transparent. I also highly recommend the " wrestling singlet" as a substitute for a swimsuit. It is super comfy, and I wear it under my clothes to get to the beach ( no thigh chafing!!) and then swim in it. Never going back to a "real" swimsuit. This way even if you frorgot to bleach/ didn;t have time/ couldn;t shave - you don't have to deprieve your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:17 AM
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Yes, but this chart is helpful when guys do this to girls . It helps you put a label on what they are doing, so that you realize what you are going thorugh is not unique and you are not crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:11 AM
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Yep- I'm not comfortable shaving or waxing there. It is painful and expensive to wax. Shaving is uncomfortable and painstaking, and takes a ton of time, since it grows back quickly. I do not want razor burn down there. It is sensitive. I don't want to have ingrown hair. Also when hair grows and gets stubbly, it is uncomfortable!! The hair also makes my farts be silent/muffled. The hair also prevents chafing. I get raw/chafed if i am bare there ( it becomes uncomfortable to excercise) If I fart w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:01 AM
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Part of my vetting with a guy is not shaving for sex. I will not shave my thighs or get a brazillian. I will trim what is needed for my personal hygiene, but no more. If he makes any comment whatsoever about my hair down below, or refuses to suck me when I have hair on my labia, he is a goner. I will kick him out of my bed immediately and tell him to get lost. He;s never coming back. A guy who likes you for you will find your hair interesting and cute. He will love tickling it and pulling gently…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:17 PM
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and when he dumps them, they are back wanting a shoulder to cry on! It is the man who must find time in his schedule for you. Your life does not revolve around him. If he has not made plans in advance, he's out of luck. He'll need to reschedule in advance when you have time. Sisters over Misters! You go ahead with the plans you've made... The funny thing is, guys don't want someone who they didn't have to work hard to get. They will dump that pick-me for the woman who they had to chase, and who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:55 PM
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or 'i'm just teasing" or "I'm just joking" or "You don't have to take everytthing so personally" - shrodinger's douchebag when he gets called out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:40 PM
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Also "i'm just teasing" -- shit - you've called me out on my scummy behavior, now I have to make it seem less bad than it is..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:19 AM
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also " you have to be down with my sarcastic humor" = I'm a compusive negger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:26 PM
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limited number of messages that men can send each day. minimum requirements for for message length ability to make it " their turn" to respond. sheduling for phone callse pot-date reviews for the men Ability to flag/ tier your matches into categories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:24 PM
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I have not spent much time in the UK. So This is just according to my anecdotal travels in Europe, Asia, Africa , but I've always noticed that the closer to Equator and Mountains you, get the taller the people are ( but once you are inside the muntaneous region the people are short i.e Tibet). For example, in Skandinavia, Baltics, Northern Russia, Netherlands, Denmanrk, Northern Italy, Basque Regions, Northern Spain, Northern France the people are quite tall. But you get to the Alpine region ( S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:59 PM
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Thats sad , b/c the scrotes sure "rate" the escorts they have frequented and pass around pics of women they have "rated"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:03 PM
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Well, I'd rather stick it in my mouth first, before doing PIV. BUT THAT IS JUST A PERSONAL PREFERENCE. ( I know a lot of women are grossed out by BJs, but for me its basically just a lollipop, and not much more) BJ is much less personal for me, and I feel like there is a good boudary. I do not get emotionally invlved w/ BJ, there is no oxytocin and I can stay very detached and objective while evaluating his sex behavior. Where I can really test if a man will try to do any kind of gross porn move…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:44 PM
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Try oral on him first. If you do oral and for several times he takes forever to cum, he's porn sick and uses deathgrip. Normal men will cum faster doing oral than PIV. So if he takes more than 5 mins to cum from Oral, he's gonna be a forever-jack hammer bunny. That's how I can tell. I mean it takes me less than 5 mins to cum from oral, and I'm female, so for a man to not come after 5 mins BJ, there is something wrong with him. Now if he cums in 30s from oral, then we have a premature ejaculator.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:57 AM
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Maybe the pandemic will set some of them free :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:47 AM
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Yes, LVMs and NVMs will dump you, becase deep inside the don't have any self respect or self-value. LVMs will dump you b/c they think there is something wrong with you just for being with them. b/c deep inside they cant understand why someone would be with a trash like them. like stated in the beginning, this is will only work to identify an HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:56 PM
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yes, because just imagine how desperate the scrotes will be after the lockdowns are lifted for "new" female company. it will be like " open season" on women. They will do and say anythig. They will stop at nothing. That prospect is truly terrifying...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:22 AM
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Notice how "reward incentives" in Americal corporations for workers are structured based on the same principle. This is evidence that the structures are designed by men, for men, by those "masterminds" who understand how the male brain & male reward -center works. They only give you the minimum to keep you motivated and keep you working really hard towards "treats" & "promotions". US corporations don't give workers what they are worth, ( that would be feminine socialism). Instead US corporations…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 05:48 AM
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I'm hoping that they will shrivel up and die alone, when they get old, like their spent nutsack, but the sad truth is that some deperate pick-me will be "extatic" when the scrote finally proposes, because even he knows he can't live like this forever...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:26 AM
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There is a creepy very rich scrote in NYC who is 75 (!) and never been married, who is trawling the online dating sites hoping to find a "younger" woman to have a child with her. ( the reason I know is b/c he contacted me ) block-and-delete, but some poor pick-me will probably think she hit the jack-pot when she meets him... SAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:19 AM
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Those are not the men you want to be with anyway....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:05 AM
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A self-made, rich man told me he wanted a child so that he can teach it all the hard lessons painful life has taught him, & pass on the privilege and worldly goods he has aquired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:09 PM
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A woman I know said a very interesting solution to this -- *** all you tell him is that " It will be very difficult for me to call you." And that's it. See what he does next. Don;t tell him why its going to be difficult. Don't offer solutions. Don't say - A gentleman calls first - DO NOT TELL HIM WHAT TO DO. If he's worth his salt, this will start the problem-solving part of his brain working. If he's smart, he'll figure out that he needs to ask you for your number. Men already know they're supp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:45 PM
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How do I best respond to a backhanded compliment? I have great red hair, its long and its shiny, I take pride in taking good care of it. Almost the fist thing scrotes say is that I have beautiful hair color, and immediately follow it up by a stupid question " is it real?" - I usually just say thank you to the first part and ignore the second. I will not even answer that question. Am I doing it right? Should I have some sort of clever jab ready to retort? How do I make it clear that such negging …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:25 AM
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