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NVMs Kill: Parents need to teach FDS principles to their Daughters to protect them

DutyKooky

February 17, 2021
258 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

https://nypost.com/2021/02/16/colorado-teen-beaten-to-death-in-parking-lot-ex-boyfriend-arrested/

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Title NVMs Kill: Parents need to teach FDS principles to their Daughters to protect them
Author

DutyKooky

Upvotes 258
Comments 32
Date February 17, 2021 5:30 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lln2eh/nvms_kill_parents_need_to_teach_fds_principles_to/
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[–][deleted] 93 points94 points95 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I have been teaching my ten year old daughter FDS principles since birth and she’s ten years old. She’s also been in self defense classes for a few years. All girls should learn how to protect themselves both emotionally and physically from NVM.

[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple 46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a very smart move, considering NVMs are deranged, honorless predators and their prime target is young woman's or girl's confidence, happiness, future or even life and health. Their pornsickness induced zero-empathy behavior, violence and pedophilia increases and is normalized more and more, so even if it hurts to take away a child's innocence by making them aware, better that we teach this lesson through words and not them through traumatizing experiences.

It's common to see in this sub, many ladies being thankful to family members for lessons of seemingly impossible dangers and the importance of standards. Maybe they seemed harsh and paranoid at the time, but even putting one grain of doubt of whether we should listen to brainwashing man-made media and sEx-pOzZy pickme influencers, can save lives.

[–]ReignOnYou95 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

How do you teach her?

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It all started by reinforcing from the beginning her high self esteem, her natural “badassness,” and not socializing her that she needs to keep sweet or minimize her accomplishments like most young girls are taught to do. From there, over time, every time we see some misogynist bullshit on tv or real life, like someone saying “boys are just more logical than girls,” I point out how that’s not true at all. Using real life examples. I do a lot more but I’m actually at work right now. Maybe I could make a post about this later! I have a girl and 2 boys and several people have asked me how I am raising them to be HVM and a HVW.

Little girls aren’t naturally pickmes. I was just as ferocious as the boys when I was a young girl. It was trained out of me and I had to find that badass inside of me again at a later age.

[–]lucidlotusFDS Newbie 58 points59 points60 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Heartbreaking.

[–]NowTrulyFDS Newbie 113 points114 points115 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

HE BEAT HER WHILE THEY WERE HANGING OUT WITH OTHER FRIENDS.

WTF.

One dude there straight up denied knowing her, or knowing how she got hurt. They arrested him “after receiving evidence to the contrary”.

How many were there and didn’t stop this?

If women were a protected minority, this would be a hate crime. Instead, it’s just another Tuesday.

She had just finished high school, too. 💔

[–]Davina33FDS Disciple 37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is so sad. That poor girl 💔

[–]Geocities_SEO_ExpertFDS STRATEGY COACH 91 points92 points93 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I really do hate to say it, but parents needs to discourage girls from hanging around male "friends" outside of school, because the girl will always be the odd one out, and she will try to fit in while boys triangulate against her.

The murder of Cassie Jo Stoddart is another example.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Cassie_Jo_Stoddart

Even though murder is the worst case scenario, a girl still shouldn't be put in situations where she will be manipulated, scapegoated, and bullied. It shouldn't be this way, but it is.

[–]lluuniFDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

B

[–]midwesternwinds 33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's why it's insane that society acts like girls are evil demon spawn to raise or be around while boys can be bullies, violent, get into gangs, sexually harass people, etc. Who is really the troubled sex?

[–]fdssavedmylifeFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was stuck at a bus stop with 5 boys growing up. One day they threw rocks at me and broke my front tooth in half, exposing the nerve. I’ve had several procedures to repair it. My other option was a bus stop with two sisters who mentally tormented me. Of course school admin doesn’t give a crap about bullies. So I didn’t really have a safe place to go.

I’ve been a part of two male friend groups and they all made constant sexual remarks to me. Each individual guy either had a crush on me or kinda treated me like shit. Then one group all dropped me when they met my more-attractive best friend.

I’m sorry, where are these men who are “less drama” than women? Because I certainly haven’t found them.

[–]pickadaisyFDS Apprentice 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But do we want to police girl’s that way? Shouldn’t we instead be telling parents that BOYS CAN’T hang with girls without a parent around? We already police girls in the U.S. and they still get murdered/raped/abused.

[–]CapableLetterheadFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I dunno you'll only get them rebelling against it. I had lots of male friends as a teen and they were mostly just very sweet, a bit weird though, I think one became a Bronie although another one rehabilitates hedgehogs with his wife as a hobby. I think you're right though, girls need to be taught that any man is a potential threat be they friend or boyfriend.

[–]PequenaSenorita 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Jesus I never heard of this case. That poor girl. It's so senseless. Why did they do it?

God the poor boyfriend and his mother too, that's something that they will live with forever.

[–]iaintgonnacallyouFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bailey Sarian has a video about the case!

[–]Kylie_FanFDS Newbie 56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Depressing. A young, caring, beautiful soul lost because of a violent animal.

[–]EveSerpentFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not an animal. A grown man. We need to name the problem for what it is.

[–]basicbagelsFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Lock that monster up and throw away the key

[–]DutyKookyPickmeisha™️[S] 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Unpopular opinion, but these are the cases where the Death Penalty should exist.

[–]Nat_at_allFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree, It really irritates me when I get backlash from my friends who believe rapists and murders deserve a second chance. What about the life they purposefully and violently snuffed out?

[–]basicbagelsFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes I agree sis!!

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This reminds me of the Jessica Chambers Trial, probably one of the most horrific things I’ve read about. Her ex (who was acquitted and smiled) burned her alive in a car, (allegedly). She was like 16. He was a gang member so there could have been other people involved. Women are raised to be too trusting, especially with violent dangerous men.

[–]MomoKun999 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Already done. My child is grown now, and is full FDS, and my sons are aware and educated too.

[–]wrice0529 points 5 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

Read this sexist, lazy reporting: "Danielle Hopton died of injuries after she was allegedly beaten, according to police... An 18-year-old animal shelter volunteer in Colorado was allegedly beaten to death in a parking lot by her ex-boyfriend, authorities said." She wasn't "allegedly beaten," she was definitely beaten--do they think she ran into a door so many times she died? The "allegedly" should refer to the perpetrator, not the victim and her injuries and death. What tripe, and how disrespectful to Danielle. Did she "allegedly die" too?

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The news outlet could legally get in trouble without using that word, as he has not been convicted in a court of law. You can disagree with this reasoning, and many do, but that’s the rule. Once a person is convicted, and evidence bears out the crime in court, we are allowed to use the terms freely without the “allegedly” designation. Believe me. We talk in our own circles about how someone, yeah, “allegedly” did something. We hate it, too.

Source: am a reporter at a local news station

[–]wrice05 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Thank you, this is helpful. I thought allegedly only referred to the person who did it? Which is what I was attempting to point out. But you're saying that the actual event has to be referred to as alleged also? Like they can't say she was beaten to death until a court says it, regardless of who did it?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They should be able to removed the “allegedly” from the incident, if an autopsy showed that was the cause of death (which IIRC that is in here)

The reporter may be young, and not know he or she doesn’t have to use allegedly, there. Or they could be covering their asses. Or both. Either way, my point is, I understand your frustration; but try to see it from a reporter’s side.

[–]wrice05 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely, thank you for your comment!

[–]pickadaisyFDS Apprentice 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I agree with you. Reporters have to claim the perp is alleged, not the incident.

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No she was beaten, fact. The alleged perpetrator is this ex boyfriend. Fucking reporters

[–]ONOTHEWONTONS 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this is so horrific. May she Rest In Peace 💔

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