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Self Care Goodness

bluebird_wings

September 16, 2020

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Title	Self Care Goodness
Author	bluebird_wings
Upvotes	10
Comments	4
Date	September 16, 2020 5:54 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iu0plx/self_care_goodness/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/self-care-goodness.260858 https://theredarchive.com/post/260858

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[–]SundanceDogFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]bluebird_wingsFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you! I bought them for myself.

I think my last ex, with narcissistic tendencies or possible NPD, bought me flowers like.... 3 times over 12 years?

The first time he sent them to his own home last minute (LDR) so I didn't even get them. I asked him to press and dry a few of them for me and he didn't bother.

The next flowers were from a grocery store, years later.

At some point I let him know that I would appreciate a real bouquet arranged by a florist.

He ordered flowers that came in a box and they weren't arranged, very plain, and without a vase.

If those were mixed in more often during some flowers experiences during the relationship, it would be no big deal. That last one though, after I let him know what I would enjoy and he purposefully did something he could claim was what I wanted, without actually buying an arrangement. * ouch * He liked to hurt me and pretend that he wasn't.

If he wanted, he would have.

So.....I can just do it myself. I did it better anyways. 🙌

[–]SundanceDogFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link